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Can it put you off?

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By *iker Jack OP   Man
17 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Some lovely person on the forums or on the site in general catches your eye

You look at their profile.

So far so good

You look at their displayed verifications and you see one from someone you have taken a dislike to on the forums or from a club night

Does that or would that put you off messaging or meeting them?

Can you be put off someone by a word or a phrase that they use?

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Depends how you approach this site. I think some look for a reason to be put off, whilst others look for reasons to meet. I’m in the latter.

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By *ealitybitesMan
17 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never once been encouraged to contact someone based on their verifications.

I have by consistent forum comments though which give me a much broader idea of them as a person.

The same is true in regard to being put off.

Consistent stupidity, whining or having a generally distasteful attitude on the forums would put me off regardless of how attractive their pics are or how long the queue of brown-noses is.

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By *issmorganWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Simple answer yes

But it doesn't take much to put me off people sometimes tbh.

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By *issmorganWoman
17 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Actually, it's more like if I see them make unsavoury comments more than once in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Not really.. The beauty of human beings is that we are different things to different people... Live and let live

I'd rather see all veris, then some be hidden

It's still your choice to meet.. Or not meet

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By *zeroMan
17 weeks ago

Glasgow

No because I'm interested in meeting them regardless of who they may have met or interacted with in the past.

I would be put off if they have expressed views that I didn't share in forums or they had a particularly grim status update.

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