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No idea why people do these things but they do .
Call it and call him a prick . Poor show .
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" I'm sorry to hear Op. I can only imagine how disheartening that might be, especially if you seemed to be clicking well with the person 😕 No one likes feeling as if their time's been wasted. His loss. | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? I’d call it love xx Such an annoyance if people want to not go just drop a message and say. Changed mind etc Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. He must have mental issues I'd fly over for dinner with you duchess Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔"  | |||
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Call it now. If they can't be arsed to message, basic respect, on the day, show yourself the respect they should have shown you and don't stand for it. Unless of course they're Tom Hiddleston, he's worth waiting for. | |||
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It’s beyond me why people can do this to others and be so cruel to others
Don’t let it get to you though, it’s his loss not yours
I’m sure that you will find some amazing guy to have lots of fun with soon though | |||
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If it's any consolation, a lot of us have been there. | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" Maybe he shows as having been online but was on here last thing so as soon as he picked phone up today and went online it showed him being here but he went straight into Google? | |||
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"I've called it... Can have a nap and not set the alarm 😂 " Is the best plan 😂 | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" Sorry lovely one! It's so horrible. I hope that you're ok xx | |||
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"I've called it... Can have a nap and not set the alarm 😂 " can never go wrong with a nap 🤣 | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" We be down ur way soon if interested  | |||
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"So frustrating!! What a looser I would call it now make other plans if you can too ❤️" Side note, you look absolutely gorgeous in your profile! | |||
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"Oh I know he's married... But that's not a factor." But I think it probably is I'm afraid. It all sounded fine and dandy talking to you about meeting until he faced the prospect of explaining his whereabouts to his wife. That's when he bailed. How is that not a factor? | |||
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"Yeah i had a meet set up, he just didn't come back on line  "That sucks defo not on miss/ms/Mrs Sorry to here x So many time wasters here hate the messers we get loads from men single probs married 🙄 | |||
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"Oh I know he's married... But that's not a factor." How can being married not be a factor? Asking out if intrest.... Mr | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" You took longer than I would to deliberate xx what fool leaves you standing (shrug) I’d be there early given the chance | |||
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"Oh I know he's married... But that's not a factor. How can being married not be a factor? Asking out if intrest.... Mr " I think the implication that a married man got cold feet and backed out, fear of getting caught, got a kick out of the sexy build up, felt good because it confirmed to himself he could still 'pull .......etc | |||
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"Oh I know he's married... But that's not a factor. How can being married not be a factor? Asking out if intrest.... Mr I think the implication that a married man got cold feet and backed out, fear of getting caught, got a kick out of the sexy build up, felt good because it confirmed to himself he could still 'pull .......etc" I get the implication of interacting with a married man, and the potential for exactly this kind if thing to happen. What I don't understand is, how it can't be a factor, as surely it's the main factor, well it is in my thinking. That would have to be considered..... | |||
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"Yeah i had a meet set up, he just didn't come back on line "It's just rude isn't it? | |||
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"Probably realised it was only going to be dinner. So didn't bother. " I hadn't said anything either way, who knows, his luck might have been in 😂 | |||
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"I’d call it at the time you’re meant to be starting to prepare yourself. " That would have been this morning when I washed my hair and shaved my legs 😂 | |||
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"I’d call it at the time you’re meant to be starting to prepare yourself. That would have been this morning when I washed my hair and shaved my legs 😂" At least you have smooth legs to enjoy for yourself. Silver linings n all that. | |||
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"Thank you everyone for your kind words, it's not the first time, I doubt it will be the last. You're a good bunch ❤️" After reading your profile Mimi, I reckon you sound like a lovely person to hang out with, oh and your pics are stunning,
If I lived down your way,bud definitely be contacting you, | |||
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"Thank you everyone for your kind words, it's not the first time, I doubt it will be the last. You're a good bunch ❤️" Been there. I get harsher by the day… I’ll be calling it before they even message at this rate 🤣 Foolish boys | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" If the time wasn’t arranged darling OP I would call that an instant red flag for me. I’m busy.. others are busy. Make a date and stick to it. If they can’t then it’s very much their loss. Know your worth. Always. Sending hugs x | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" Because to quote Slipknot ...People=Shit.... doesn't stop it hurting though... hugs xx | |||
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"Thank you everyone for your kind words, it's not the first time, I doubt it will be the last. You're a good bunch ❤️" His loss and thanks  | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" Jog him on | |||
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"Sorry to hear OP. Onwards and upwards. " Yep ain't fair but that's fab can't win them all as we say it's there loss could have been having a great time instead  | |||
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"I’d call it at the time you’re meant to be starting to prepare yourself. That would have been this morning when I washed my hair and shaved my legs 😂 At least you have smooth legs to enjoy for yourself. Silver linings n all that. "Yeah and now rain is forecast so I can't wear a summer dress tomorrow 😑😂 | |||
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"Same here 144 message's over a week and a half about to make the arrangements for Thursday meet booked a day off work then just left FAB" Oh I've had that happen too! It's so annoying. | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" His wife's probably got him doing stuff  | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔 His wife's probably got him doing stuff "His wife is not down here. | |||
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"Maybe raise your age limits slightly...? Seriously, his loss. You're stunning. /Some old guy" Why so you can message? You dont know how old he was, age has nothing to do with it! Could be 20 and turn up or be 80 and get cold feet! | |||
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"Maybe raise your age limits slightly...? Seriously, his loss. You're stunning. /Some old guy Why so you can message? You dont know how old he was, age has nothing to do with it! Could be 20 and turn up or be 80 and get cold feet!" It was a joke. Sorry. I'll try not to be funny again. | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" Thrill of the chase
Hope you're ok x | |||
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"Mimi, this isn't a dig at you, just the hypocrisy and misandry of this site. Here's a woman who says she's not heard from a fella so not sure whether to get ready for a meet and straight away we get the "his loss" comments and "your gorgeous" (how the fuck do you know she's gorgeous, she's got no face pics) and generally the outpouring of sympathy that you definitely would not get if it was a single male who posted. Then, and this is the best bit, she reveals she was meant to be meeting a married man who's working away from home, and is there one post condemning her? No. Why? Because she's female? Because she's a forum regular? 🤷🏾♂️ Again, not having a go at you, Mimi, you do you, just pointing out the misandrists and hypocrites that occupy this site." I think my comment above said enough | |||
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"Oh I know he's married... But that's not a factor. How can being married not be a factor? Asking out if intrest.... Mr I think the implication that a married man got cold feet and backed out, fear of getting caught, got a kick out of the sexy build up, felt good because it confirmed to himself he could still 'pull .......etc" | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔 His wife's probably got him doing stuff
His wife is not down here."His wife was down on him last night though
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"Mimi, this isn't a dig at you, just the hypocrisy and misandry of this site. Here's a woman who says she's not heard from a fella so not sure whether to get ready for a meet and straight away we get the "his loss" comments and "your gorgeous" (how the fuck do you know she's gorgeous, she's got no face pics) and generally the outpouring of sympathy that you definitely would not get if it was a single male who posted. Then, and this is the best bit, she reveals she was meant to be meeting a married man who's working away from home, and is there one post condemning her? No. Why? Because she's female? Because she's a forum regular? 🤷🏾♂️ Again, not having a go at you, Mimi, you do you, just pointing out the misandrists and hypocrites that occupy this site." You're gorgeous. Hope you're OK. It's their loss. Bingo! | |||
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"Maybe raise your age limits slightly...? Seriously, his loss. You're stunning. /Some old guy Why so you can message? You dont know how old he was, age has nothing to do with it! Could be 20 and turn up or be 80 and get cold feet!" I mean he was 35, full grown man. Age is kind of irrelevant really. | |||
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"Mimi, this isn't a dig at you, just the hypocrisy and misandry of this site. Here's a woman who says she's not heard from a fella so not sure whether to get ready for a meet and straight away we get the "his loss" comments and "your gorgeous" (how the fuck do you know she's gorgeous, she's got no face pics) and generally the outpouring of sympathy that you definitely would not get if it was a single male who posted. Then, and this is the best bit, she reveals she was meant to be meeting a married man who's working away from home, and is there one post condemning her? No. Why? Because she's female? Because she's a forum regular? 🤷🏾♂️ Again, not having a go at you, Mimi, you do you, just pointing out the misandrists and hypocrites that occupy this site." You're not wrong. I fully expected some not so nice comments tbh. And I wouldn't blame people. But I didn't go into details and the bigger picture. And it was only dinner 🤷🏻♀️ Luckily I have a great weekend lined up with another young man, who never lets be down | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" That’s a wanky thing to do to anyone . Gutted for you | |||
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Call it now. If they can't be arsed to message, basic respect, on the day, show yourself the respect they should have shown you and don't stand for it. Unless of course they're Tom Hiddleston, he's worth waiting for." | |||
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"He might of just changed his mind ,if that was a woman blowing a guy out , there would be a million reasons thrown out ,double standards in this place are hilarious " I’d love to be blown out by a woman 
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"Mimi, this isn't a dig at you, just the hypocrisy and misandry of this site. Here's a woman who says she's not heard from a fella so not sure whether to get ready for a meet and straight away we get the "his loss" comments and "your gorgeous" (how the fuck do you know she's gorgeous, she's got no face pics) and generally the outpouring of sympathy that you definitely would not get if it was a single male who posted. Then, and this is the best bit, she reveals she was meant to be meeting a married man who's working away from home, and is there one post condemning her? No. Why? Because she's female? Because she's a forum regular? 🤷🏾♂️ Again, not having a go at you, Mimi, you do you, just pointing out the misandrists and hypocrites that occupy this site." I don't think there's any point, when the OP posted that the person was married, saying anything. I thought well that's probably the reason why. Therefore didn't acknowledge it. It's not my thing to do but why knock someone while they are down. It is definitely a good reason not to see someone else's husband/wife unless the wife/husband is present or has given his/her blessing. | |||
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"Does this ever happen to men, or are women so desperate that they will always turn up for a date?" Polite, respectful and not full of shit isn’t desperate. (Look those big words up in the dictionary if they confuse you) | |||
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"Does this ever happen to men, or are women so desperate that they will always turn up for a date? Polite, respectful and not full of shit isn’t desperate. (Look those big words up in the dictionary if they confuse you)" Humour obviously not appreciated. Never mind! | |||
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"Does this ever happen to men, or are women so desperate that they will always turn up for a date? Polite, respectful and not full of shit isn’t desperate. (Look those big words up in the dictionary if they confuse you) Humour obviously not appreciated. Never mind!" humour is generally funny…. | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔" Call it Mimi you're worth so much better | |||
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"Supposed to be going out for dinner, day and place arranged, no time. It's nearly 3pm and no contact since last night, after daily messages, all day, over the last week or so... I checked in this morning, he's been online, didn't even reply. Why do people do this? Frustrated from Portsmouth 😔 Call it Mimi you're worth so much better" Why didn't you pay attention to when the OP posted before your sycophantic response? | |||
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"Does this ever happen to men, or are women so desperate that they will always turn up for a date? Polite, respectful and not full of shit isn’t desperate. (Look those big words up in the dictionary if they confuse you) Humour obviously not appreciated. Never mind! humour is generally funny…. " Dying!!! | |||
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"Does this ever happen to men, or are women so desperate that they will always turn up for a date? Polite, respectful and not full of shit isn’t desperate. (Look those big words up in the dictionary if they confuse you) Humour obviously not appreciated. Never mind!" Yes, I'm incredibly desperate... I thought it was funny 😉😂 | |||
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