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By *ayjay218 OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Has anyone sent what you think is a nice polite message and not only do you not get a reply but you are deleted and blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Happens all time.....

Ignore and move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to me only by the stuck up ignorant arse holes

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By *ayjay218 OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Happens all time.....

Ignore and move on..."

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

We do it all the time ! But only to the ignorant arseholes that either can't read a profile or think fuck it they will try anyway. they deserve it. if they cant show us respect they aint getting any in return.

Although we usually message them first and tell them they are not for us as it said in profile then block before we get the begging messages etc. its our profile and account and if we want to block whoever we will. So many message and say i fit your profile when they clearly are very far from it. Their problem not ours. people really need to except it and move on.

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By *udemattMan
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa

I got added as a friend (their request) and as soon as I accepted a minute later blocked no explanation nothing so confused!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got added as a friend (their request) and as soon as I accepted a minute later blocked no explanation nothing so confused!"

i beg to differ - the explanation was right there !

nothing to be confused about at all - you weren't for them, so they blocked you

saves them contacting you again when it isn't gonna go anywhere

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I got added as a friend (their request) and as soon as I accepted a minute later blocked no explanation nothing so confused!"

maybe they saw pics and they knew you ! It happens ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is wholly subjective. A guy may think that his copy and paste pleasant message detailing how nice my pictures are and how clean and respectful he is will do the job. In reality I know that they haven't read my profile and if they cannot be bothered putting in any effort to get my into bed, goodness knows what they would be like when they were laying there (laying being the key word).

I simply delete and block to ensure I don't get the same message four days later when they are looking for a meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do it if they decide that you are not for them, that way you cannot contact them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone sent what you think is a nice polite message and not only do you not get a reply but you are deleted and blocked?"

Yes happened to me recently, I was blocked for no apparent reason mid conversation, I was peeved for a whole 10 seconds then carried on chatting to other people on here and having fun. Life is too short to worry about things x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happens all the time, like said before move on.

What is more annoying however is when your talking to a person for a while and getting on, even talking about a meet and all of a sudden you get blocked, happened to me a few times, but heyho, treat it like any other block and move on.

Ive even had ladies block me only to unblock me a week or so later and deny ever blocking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe thay love the power of the finger here.. some blook all that move its there thing thay get off on. lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do it all the time ! But only to the ignorant arseholes that either can't read a profile or think fuck it they will try anyway. they deserve it. if they cant show us respect they aint getting any in return.

Although we usually message them first and tell them they are not for us as it said in profile then block before we get the begging messages etc. its our profile and account and if we want to block whoever we will. So many message and say i fit your profile when they clearly are very far from it. Their problem not ours. people really need to except it and move on."

Can understand the annoyance of that,is it the escalation of them that brings about the instant block, or soon as you see one detail of their profile that means they are not suitable and blocked instantly?

I have in the past been too short and too old yet met and had some fun filled meets, with no deception involved, was up front about my age and height,like to think it was largely due to making that first message appeal to them.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"We do it all the time ! But only to the ignorant arseholes that either can't read a profile or think fuck it they will try anyway. they deserve it. if they cant show us respect they aint getting any in return.

Although we usually message them first and tell them they are not for us as it said in profile then block before we get the begging messages etc. its our profile and account and if we want to block whoever we will. So many message and say i fit your profile when they clearly are very far from it. Their problem not ours. people really need to except it and move on.

Can understand the annoyance of that,is it the escalation of them that brings about the instant block, or soon as you see one detail of their profile that means they are not suitable and blocked instantly?

I have in the past been too short and too old yet met and had some fun filled meets, with no deception involved, was up front about my age and height,like to think it was largely due to making that first message appeal to them."

It can be anything that we dont want in a potential playmate. it could be attitude in a profile or message one liners. Looks not suitable.

At the end of the day pur profile is there for nothing more than to find us potential playmates. its not there for people to view time and time again who we would never play with. any pics we have are not therefor wanking material for guys. if we wanted that we would put pics on other sites just for pics. but people dont seem to understand that. sadly there are too many on here like it. do t get me wrong we get some really polite guys but not suitable and they are blocked just so that we or them dont waste each others time. so not all blocked just for being idiots mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's happened to me only by the stuck up ignorant arse holes"

Presumably they weren't befitting of that description when you messaged them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone sent what you think is a nice polite message and not only do you not get a reply but you are deleted and blocked?"
move on a don't give a SH--T LIFES TO SHORT WHY WORRIE XX

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By *o1mrtlcMan
over a year ago

cannock


"Has anyone sent what you think is a nice polite message and not only do you not get a reply but you are deleted and blocked?move on a don't give a SH--T LIFES TO SHORT WHY WORRIE XX"

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"It's happened to me only by the stuck up ignorant arse holes

Presumably they weren't befitting of that description when you messaged them? "

Pmsl spot on

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By *udemattMan
over a year ago

Woodhall Spa


"I got added as a friend (their request) and as soon as I accepted a minute later blocked no explanation nothing so confused!

i beg to differ - the explanation was right there !

nothing to be confused about at all - you weren't for them, so they blocked you

saves them contacting you again when it isn't gonna go anywhere"

Yes I understand that I might not be for them but it would have been nice for them to say I'm not for them and that's the reason they are blocking me not just block without explanation I just find it a bit rude after speaking to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got added as a friend (their request) and as soon as I accepted a minute later blocked no explanation nothing so confused!

i beg to differ - the explanation was right there !

nothing to be confused about at all - you weren't for them, so they blocked you

saves them contacting you again when it isn't gonna go anywhere

Yes I understand that I might not be for them but it would have been nice for them to say I'm not for them and that's the reason they are blocking me not just block without explanation I just find it a bit rude after speaking to someone."

See that's where your going wrong, don't expect everyone to be polite if they block you so be it, dust yourself off and find someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete and block now. Usually on the first Message and not after we've been speaking for a while. I've only done that to fuckwits who presume that if I agree to a social its going to be a instant shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The block button is an easy way to stop petty messages and unwanted interaction. some take it personally but its just a way of people not getting unwanted messages thats all.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Has anyone sent what you think is a nice polite message and not only do you not get a reply but you are deleted and blocked?"
I can't say i have but i have heard it happens every now n then.

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