FabSwingers.com forum: Low maintenance??

By (user no longer on site) OP
18 weeks ago

Are you low maintenance or high maintenance??

Do you think other people would agree with your assessment?

What do those phrases mean to you??

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I’m definitely low maintenance

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By *evonnsfwCouple
18 weeks ago

Exeter

We are very much low maintenance, don’t expect much nor demanding and are appreciative.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Most definitely high maintenance...

I'm a fucking goddess don't ya know!!!

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By *im_1878Man
18 weeks ago

Formby

What’s one down from low maintenance, doesn’t give a shit? Think that’s me.

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By *urry BlokeMan
18 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I am high maintenance

In fact, no I'm not

I just like my own way

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By *r John WickMan
18 weeks ago

The Continental

I’m so low maintenance, that it’s almost maintenance free. Just stick a bit of food in me and I’m happy bunny.

What they mean to me…….i have no idea. It’s not really something I consider as a concept.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
18 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I'm low maintenance

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By *iddlesticksMan
18 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’d say I’m easy to maintain.

Keep me lubricated and turn me over once a day.

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By *hilloutMan
18 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Low maintenance, though I scrub up rather well

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By *iz78Woman
18 weeks ago

wirral

Just keep your stomach full and your balls empty

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By *till gameMan
18 weeks ago

two doors down

I’m very independent, so don’t expect anyone to do anything for me, I’m happy helping others out , so guess I’m low maintenance

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
18 weeks ago

Essex

Low maintenance in general. I’m quite a simple living gal.

In the bedroom high maintenance. I don’t have an off switch.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
18 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

"Are you low maintenance or high maintenance??

Do you think other people would agree with your assessment?

What do those phrases mean to you?? "

I’m low maintenance, I am a competent and capable human being, leading from the front, with high emotional maturity & resilience dealing with some of the worlds toughest challenges, and all in my stride. I’m low effort: low maintenance.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
18 weeks ago

Reading

Very very low but I do make the effort sometimes.

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By *d mirerMan
18 weeks ago

lost

I’d not really considered it but oddly a friend told me she hates being in love with me because I’m ‘a high maintenance fucking nightmare ‘ .

I don’t know whether she’s right !

And I don’t know whether to be ecstatic or devastated!

Ps ….. she is most definitely high maintenance!

Pps….. not a fab friend

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I'm actually very low maintenance.

Give me the good sex occasionally and stay out of my hair the rest of the time

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
18 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

One of my cars is low maintenance. I can rely on it to get me from A to B, whatever the weather. I drive it daily. I respect that car.

One of my cars is extremely high maintenance. It’s a beautiful pain in the arse, and every journey is a high-risk, high-thrill gamble. I love that car fiercely but drive it very rarely.

I’m not sure where I’m going with that metaphor, because it’s the opposite of what low/high maintenance means to me with Fab friends.

A high-maintenance friendship needs nurturing with a lot of attention. Whether that’s forum chat, messages, or even just fabbing their latest photos. Someone who questions themselves (or me) if they don’t hear from me in a couple of days.

A low maintenance friendship, erm, doesn’t. And it’s no less intense or lust-filled because of being more chilled.

I haven’t answered the questions. D’oh.

I think I’m low maintenance, on here. In person though, when we’re together, I need your full attention. Would people who know me agree? Dunno. I hope so.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
18 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't need maintaining like a household appliance or a car. I want someone to be with me in a way that we mutually enjoy. I don't demand attention, if I have to ask for it i know they don't really want to give it.

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By *obilebottomMan
18 weeks ago

All over

Not easy to answer as sometimes people confuse maintenance with standards. Some of mine can be considered high and don't mean justvpeople but things. Like for example I much prefer a nice meal out to a quick grab at Greggs if that counts.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
18 weeks ago

East Sussex

High maintenance means to me someone who requires constant confirmation that they're loved, appreciated or found attractive.

Low maintenance is someone who doesn't

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By *a LunaWoman
18 weeks ago

South Wales

In relationships? High maintenance. I like to be and feel adored. It makes me feel cherished. Although I think find the right partner for you and all that it is automatic. But sometimes you occasionally have a relationship with someone and it feels like if there was a house fire they’d prioritise their wallpaper over you.

Otherwise? Pretty low maintenance. I’m generally chilled out and happy. My anxiety is under control so I run on an even keel these days.

To me high maintenance means someone who demands the best and won’t settle for less.

Low maintenance - happy to ride the “see what happens and where it goes” train.

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By *agatoXXXMan
18 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Low maintenance. Give me a block of goos cheese, and I'm amenable to anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Were complete opposites but im guessing thats why we work together so well as im probably not even paying attention half the time

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By *agatoXXXMan
18 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

*good

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"*good"
wondered what goos chese was

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By *agatoXXXMan
18 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"*goodwondered what goos chese was

You've never milked a goos?

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"*goodwondered what goos chese was

You've never milked a goos?

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cant say i have, sounds like some exotic cross breed goat variant

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By *affron40Woman
18 weeks ago

manchester

I’d say low maintenance. I don’t want or need much from people. Which some may actually find difficult to deal with. All I expect is the truth.

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By *viatrixWoman
18 weeks ago

Redhill

I can be low maintenance as in I don’t care about places to go/eat/drink etc- I am just as happy lying on the grass chatting or eating a meal deal- but it has to be the right person.

My skincare routine is reduced to pharmacy/supermarket moisturiser and makeup. I keep my liquids in a Ziploc bag, much to horror of my colleagues.

I have all sorts of accesories, going from a little £7.99 H&M bag I carry around the world to a Birkin that will never leave my house, haha. I love leggings and trainers.

I am high maintenance as in I know my worth and I want time and effort spent on me. Because I always give my best in time and effort.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
18 weeks ago

Wirral.

I'm low maintenance in that the things that ensure I'm enagaged are very easy to do.

In terms of FAB that means keeping in touch - don't disappear for weeks/months, then reappear, expecting things things to remain as they were.

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By *luebell888Woman
18 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Very low maintenance and everyone I know would agree. I just like the simple things in life and if I want to buy myself something new then I will go to a charity shop

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By *agatoXXXMan
18 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

"*goodwondered what goos chese was

You've never milked a goos?

cant say i have, sounds like some exotic cross breed goat variant "

A cross between a goat and a goose. Vicious temper!

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By *ell GwynnWoman
18 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Low maintenance. I'm direct about what I want and need, enjoy my own company, feel secure enough in myself to take criticism on board.

The only time I tend to feel needy is if someone starts playing games and I haven't cottoned on.

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By *imply DeeWoman
18 weeks ago

Wherever

Very low.

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By *uff and FruitCouple
18 weeks ago

ely

I'm pretty low maintenance if we're talking attitude and demands. Before meeting Buff I had very little and managed on little. I still have little but now do get my hair and nails done. I make no demands on him and our first argument was when he wanted to buy me a pair of jeans. I just wanted his love, not his bank balance.

Not much has changed really.

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By *8on33Man
18 weeks ago

winfrith

"Are you low maintenance or high maintenance??

Do you think other people would agree with your assessment?

What do those phrases mean to you?? "
Definitely low maintenance here I don't require anything of anyone except politeness and a happy gorgeous smile .

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
18 weeks ago

Hell

As soon as the vibes feel off, I’m gone. I don’t know if that makes me low maintenance or high

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By *ell GwynnWoman
18 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"As soon as the vibes feel off, I’m gone. I don’t know if that makes me low maintenance or high

That just sounds sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I am perceived as high maintenance by others. Especially in terms of aesthetics and expectations.

I consider myself low maintenance. I know my worth. I make no exceptions for those that don’t see my worth. I am fiercely independent. I am happy in my own company. I don’t depend on others to enjoy experiences, materials possessions, or otherwise live the life I live. I am logical and level headed.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
18 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Is there a school of thought that low/high maintenance is to do with how expensive someone’s tastes are?

I see it more as a time/attention thing than a financial thing, personally.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
18 weeks ago

Southampton

Definitely low maintenance xx

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By *ah HumbugMan
18 weeks ago

here and there

Considering how broken my body feels I'd say I'm lack of maintenance

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By *iss DevilWoman
18 weeks ago

Bedford

Low maintenance apart from my sex life

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
18 weeks ago

Hell

"I'm low maintenance in that the things that ensure I'm enagaged are very easy to do.

In terms of FAB that means keeping in touch - don't disappear for weeks/months, then reappear, expecting things things to remain as they were. "

I leave a reasonable amount of time for a response and then block to prevent this. Although it doesn’t stop them coming back on new profiles

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By *ea monkeyMan
18 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm actually very low maintenance.

Give me the good sex occasionally and stay out of my hair the rest of the time

Where do I sign up?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
18 weeks ago

Next Door

I think I'm low to medium.

I use skin/hair products from high street stores.

I enjoy good food and wine, but that can be a hone cooked meal/picnic/ local restaurant. I'm not into fancy restaurants or wines.

Clothes from high street stores including charity shops ( I do like a bargain).

So above I would say low.

Below is my medium.

Nails are done monthly.

Hair is cut regularly.

Do treat myself to beauty treatments.

So I think I'm mix, but I do scrub up very well

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"Is there a school of thought that low/high maintenance is to do with how expensive someone’s tastes are?

I see it more as a time/attention thing than a financial thing, personally."

Yes, in some societies. Really beautiful girls are deemed high maintenance as in they will require loads of money to upkeep their hair, nails, makeup, luxurious designer clothing and accessories, meals out, etc. The idea is seen, in such societies, as a woman who a man can only access her pussy by maintaining her level of financial needs to meet her appearance demands. This isn’t a sugar baby/daddy arrangement but an expectation of having the prize of being seen with this beautiful lady on your arm but everyone knowing she’s high maintenance — a high cost to maintain in her beautiful state.

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By *amie HantsWoman
18 weeks ago

Atlantis

I’m fairly high maintenance so I can be low maintenance. I get my nails done every 3 weeks, and brows, lip and chin threaded 4 weekly to save me having to do them weekly. If I’ve got quite a few things on in a row I’ll get my lashes tinted and lifted to save on having to use mascara.

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By *rHotNottsMan
18 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m low, very low. I’m kinda torn in that I prefer high maintenance women (in a relationship) to nonchalant types, brings out the best in me, but they can be hard work too.

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By *B69Woman
18 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I’m high maintenance, if you want to be my priority then you need to work at it, I have expensive tastes but I’m not expecting anything like that off you. Your undivided attention would be enough

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By *naswingdressWoman
18 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Can be bothered/can't be bothered. Not low/high

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By *he Silver FuxMan
18 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I’m always fixing things - my job, vehicles, house, relationships…

I’d consider this High Maintenance

But me, I don’t need a lot, bring no drama, make no unreasonable demands, happy being me, pretty low maintenance

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By *uxom redCouple
18 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I'm definitely low

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
18 weeks ago

Southampton

"*goodwondered what goos chese was

You've never milked a goos?

cant say i have, sounds like some exotic cross breed goat variant

A cross between a goat and a goose. Vicious temper!

And now I know what amimal I am ! Thanks

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
18 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

In terms of relationships, low. I like to be the focus of attention when we're physically together. I want you to be off doing your own thing and occasionally checking in when we're not.

In terms of aesthetics, I probably look otherwise, but also low. I don't do hairdressers, but I fix my roots at home every couple of months. My nails are always done, but I do them myself. My makeup is a simple lipstain. My wardrobe is all easily slipped on or off. I take less time to get ready (including showering) than most men I know.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
18 weeks ago

Tamworth

I think low? Others might say different but I do try not to ask too much of people.

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By *HUSH-Man
18 weeks ago

London

I’m low maintenance but I am set in my ways.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
18 weeks ago

your head

In what context? On here in general? In a relationship? Just as a person? In how long it takes me to get ready and my beauty regime?

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By *anceAloneWoman
18 weeks ago

Adjacent to him

High...I'm definitely high

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By *ib.Man
18 weeks ago

Hampshire

The lowest.

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By *edbiker6Man
18 weeks ago

Scarborough

It’s a good question as can be interpreted in different ways, in every day life I’d say I’m low maintenance, in my business I would say that I’m high ish maintenance and as I have a high sex drive would say that part of me would be classed as high maintenance

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By *ira2024Woman
18 weeks ago

I am high maintenance. I know my worth and I want that effort from my partner. I will always give my best and I expect the same.

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By *ornucopiaMan
18 weeks ago

Bexley

Never had to pay anyone maintenance yet.

That's one advantage of vasectomy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
18 weeks ago

"In what context? On here in general? In a relationship? Just as a person? In how long it takes me to get ready and my beauty regime? "

However you like to interpret it x

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
18 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I have no idea.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
18 weeks ago

London

"Low maintenance in general. I’m quite a simple living gal.

In the bedroom high maintenance. I don’t have an off switch.

But it would be fun looking for it.

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By *poolGuyMan
18 weeks ago

Liverpool

Low maintenance. Feed, water, cuddle and give the beard a stroke and I'm happy.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
18 weeks ago

Essex

"Low maintenance in general. I’m quite a simple living gal.

In the bedroom high maintenance. I don’t have an off switch.

But it would be fun looking for it.

As long as I don’t hide it in an anagram

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I really couldn't say. I think I like to give off the vibe of being low maintenance but think I have tendancies of being high maintenance, maybe in that I like to feel seen and needed and for people to show they actually care about me. Probably youngest child syndrome

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I’m no maintenance… I’m self sustaining.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Central

Low maintenance. I like a simple life, so we're good unless you're hard work

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By *cottish guy 555Man
18 weeks ago

London

"Low maintenance in general. I’m quite a simple living gal.

In the bedroom high maintenance. I don’t have an off switch.

But it would be fun looking for it.

As long as I don’t hide it in an anagram

I am wounded by that statement.

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
18 weeks ago

District 13

If I got any more lower I’d be no maintenance

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