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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Back in hospital again. What I want to know is who keeps bringing her the food?

How much is she a drain on the NHS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some of my mags I read men feed woman to be like this ......... feeders they are called .. its what turn them on ... bigger the better .. they think and they really are killing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In some of my mags I read men feed woman to be like this ......... feeders they are called .. its what turn them on ... bigger the better .. they think and they really are killing them.

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send her your lentil and chorizo soup recipe jo , that'll help her out

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've had a guy wanting me to be my feeder as I'm not big enough. Wants me as a SSBBW

Needless to say I declined politely, I'm trying to shift weight, not gain it.

He even offered to pay me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a guy wanting me to be my feeder as I'm not big enough. Wants me as a SSBBW

Needless to say I declined politely, I'm trying to shift weight, not gain it.

He even offered to pay me! "
yes its all about control ....... them having it over you and so you end up not even moving out of the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married to a feeder. It's not fun. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I remember a documentary on Feeders a few years back and was amazed. There was a woman who was so big that they hoisted her in the air and hosed her down to clean her. Made me feel sad for both the Feeder and the Feedee... deep seated psychological issues on both sides methinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married to a feeder. It's not fun. Xxx"
its a lot to do with control ...... but thay see it as love.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I think it's as good as killing someone on purpose!! Maybe it should be a crime ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's as good as killing someone on purpose!! Maybe it should be a crime ? "
yes maybe .. as some cant even stand up .. and go to the loo thay get so BIG .. if it was my dog I would have RSPCA after me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back in hospital again. What I want to know is who keeps bringing her the food?

How much is she a drain on the NHS! "

They are a law onto themselves and sadly don't want to lose weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't imagine being 7 times heavier/bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back in hospital again. What I want to know is who keeps bringing her the food?

How much is she a drain on the NHS! "

We have to order/ hire bariatric equipment to be able to care for them, cost an absolute fortune.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was a bit of a feeder she used to pile the food on my plate I went from 10 stone to 13 very quickly had to really watch what I was eating. I'm losing weight and feel so much better for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back in hospital again. What I want to know is who keeps bringing her the food?

How much is she a drain on the NHS!

We have to order/ hire bariatric equipment to be able to care for them, cost an absolute fortune. "
They should nt be fed to the degree they put on weight in hospital they should see a dietician whilst there and loose it.risk assessment could be used as a way to rationalise that.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex was a bit of a feeder she used to pile the food on my plate I went from 10 stone to 13 very quickly had to really watch what I was eating. I'm losing weight and feel so much better for it "
well that's her looking after you now if you said you was 10 stone up to 30/40 that's a feeder , xxxx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't get what pleasure feeders get from killing another human being..However abuse can take all on all forms and it is abuse..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was ten stone they shot up to over 20 stone I lost alot of it last year thank god

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Noone is forcing the food down their throats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married to a feeder. It's not fun. Xxx its a lot to do with control ...... but thay see it as love."

it is. To start with I didn't see it. But when I did I refused the food. Lost weight. And he left me for a bigger girl. Happy days xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are slso gainers - guys and girls who WANT to be bigger.

My best mate started to see someone who was already a big lad but wanted to be bigger.

He had set himself a goal of being a minimum of 30 stone.

He worked for the NHS in Pshychiatric care funnily enough !

I know it scared my mate a lot and that was why he ended it, because he couldn't sit back and watch someone willingly get bigger and bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very easy to get into bad habits. What I don't get is at some point you have to go and by new clothes. When people say they didn't realise how big they were, were they ignoring the sizes they were buying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*buy* new clothes sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married to a feeder. It's not fun. Xxx its a lot to do with control ...... but thay see it as love.

it is. To start with I didn't see it. But when I did I refused the food. Lost weight. And he left me for a bigger girl. Happy days xxx"
I have read that too . Them taking weight off and there feeder moves on to a bigger woman .. Again control and its there addiction really. I am glad your out of it. They get so big its like being disabled as cant move and do things for themselves just to live a normal life. xx

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"There are slso gainers - guys and girls who WANT to be bigger.

My best mate started to see someone who was already a big lad but wanted to be bigger.

He had set himself a goal of being a minimum of 30 stone.

He worked for the NHS in Pshychiatric care funnily enough !

I know it scared my mate a lot and that was why he ended it, because he couldn't sit back and watch someone willingly get bigger and bigger."

that, to me, is the opposite end of the scale to anorexia/bulimia. All eating disorders and how you see/are happy within yourself.

Since Christmas I have gone from a size 10/12 down to a 4/6... Am I happy with that?? NO!!

Have family/friends constantly telling me I look crap and need to put weight on.

Guess what I am saying is find out the background before associating labels. Not all is at appears to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are slso gainers - guys and girls who WANT to be bigger.

My best mate started to see someone who was already a big lad but wanted to be bigger.

He had set himself a goal of being a minimum of 30 stone.

He worked for the NHS in Pshychiatric care funnily enough !

I know it scared my mate a lot and that was why he ended it, because he couldn't sit back and watch someone willingly get bigger and bigger.

that, to me, is the opposite end of the scale to anorexia/bulimia. All eating disorders and how you see/are happy within yourself.

Since Christmas I have gone from a size 10/12 down to a 4/6... Am I happy with that?? NO!!

Have family/friends constantly telling me I look crap and need to put weight on.

Guess what I am saying is find out the background before associating labels. Not all is at appears to be. "

I didn't associate any labels, I simply said my friend couldn't handle watching someone do that to themselves.

And yes, I agree with your initial comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I teeter on the edge of being a feeder I think

I love holding dinner parties and always have loads of food & wine in, for when people pop over for coffee etc... Although I blame it on my Spanish roots/relatives and growing up with lunch merging into dinner and lasting until the early hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teeter on the edge of being a feeder I think

I love holding dinner parties and always have loads of food & wine in, for when people pop over for coffee etc... Although I blame it on my Spanish roots/relatives and growing up with lunch merging into dinner and lasting until the early hours "
I am one of them but its not everyday just when family around for a treat ... Feeder do it 24/7 and high fat foods and drinks .. junk food most the time .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back in hospital again. What I want to know is who keeps bringing her the food?

How much is she a drain on the NHS! "

How much strain on the NHS...Hmmm

Probably about the same as those with AIDS. drug addicts, smokers, drinkers, sportsmen, kids falling off bikes, pregnant women, anorexics. attempted suicides, at fault car accidents casualties ..not forgetting those who havent paid into the kitty like immigrants foreigners and so on

.....blah blah blah in fact anyone who has a choice not to do something or get themselves in a particular position but does- in fact shes obviously got some mental problems leading to her weight so needs help as much as anyone and probably more worthy than a lot of users of the NHS

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Once you start singling people out as not worthy of treatment you may as well build them a camp to keep them in while we work out a way to get rid of them..........Oh thats already been tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back in hospital again. What I want to know is who keeps bringing her the food?

How much is she a drain on the NHS!

How much strain on the NHS...Hmmm

Probably about the same as those with AIDS. drug addicts, smokers, drinkers, sportsmen, kids falling off bikes, pregnant women, anorexics. attempted suicides, at fault car accidents casualties ..not forgetting those who havent paid into the kitty like immigrants foreigners and so on

.....blah blah blah in fact anyone who has a choice not to do something or get themselves in a particular position but does- in fact shes obviously got some mental problems leading to her weight so needs help as much as anyone and probably more worthy than a lot of users of the NHS

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Once you start singling people out as not worthy of treatment you may as well build them a camp to keep them in while we work out a way to get rid of them..........Oh thats already been tried"
True you cant single people out ... who need help ... its just not easy when some don't wish to help themselves to live a better life ... and yes its there life I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Back in hospital again. What I want to know is who keeps bringing her the food?

How much is she a drain on the NHS! "

A bullet between the eyes would be cheaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was ten stone they shot up to over 20 stone I lost alot of it last year thank god "

And looking quite nice too

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Feeders will be few and far between, people who over eat and continue to do so to the extreme, will be more prevalent. sadly their self esteem may diminish as their weight increases.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Many feeders suffer from attached psychological problems regarding their eating habits, so to assume that they all don't want help is wrong.

A strain on the NHS?....no more than any others who have various legal addictions.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I read a few days ago that there is powerful, emerging evidence of early childhood attachment issues leading to a greater likelihood of people developing addictions later in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are slso gainers - guys and girls who WANT to be bigger.

My best mate started to see someone who was already a big lad but wanted to be bigger.

He had set himself a goal of being a minimum of 30 stone.

He worked for the NHS in Pshychiatric care funnily enough !

I know it scared my mate a lot and that was why he ended it, because he couldn't sit back and watch someone willingly get bigger and bigger.

that, to me, is the opposite end of the scale to anorexia/bulimia. All eating disorders and how you see/are happy within yourself.

Since Christmas I have gone from a size 10/12 down to a 4/6... Am I happy with that?? NO!!

Have family/friends constantly telling me I look crap and need to put weight on.

Guess what I am saying is find out the background before associating labels. Not all is at appears to be. "

I totally agree with you on this. It annoys the hell out of me how people who over eat and become obese are only ever seen as fat and lazy as opposed to people who under eat become anorexic and have an eating disorder

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


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I totally agree with you on this. It annoys the hell out of me how people who over eat and become obese are only ever seen as fat and lazy as opposed to people who under eat become anorexic and have an eating disorder "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's an Australian horror film called feeder which is related to this subject. It delves into this world in a very dark way... And I would suggest people watch it (if not easily offended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called, Feed, not feeder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called, Feed, not feeder. "

Ahh ok my mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she on here???? What's her profile? Let me at her!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just in case anyone was searching for a copy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"It's called, Feed, not feeder. "

Ohh just read up on it sounds a good film.. Ok not good as ohh what a lovely story line.. It sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's an Australian horror film called feeder which is related to this subject. It delves into this world in a very dark way... And I would suggest people watch it (if not easily offended) "

I think I'll give it a miss, will put me off my Sunday roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just in case anyone was searching for a copy "

I watched it when it first came out... Memory isn't as good as it used to be!!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"There's an Australian horror film called feeder which is related to this subject. It delves into this world in a very dark way... And I would suggest people watch it (if not easily offended)

I think I'll give it a miss, will put me off my Sunday roast "
Its not something you should watch having your dinner.. After reading the story line...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called, Feed, not feeder.

Ohh just read up on it sounds a good film.. Ok not good as ohh what a lovely story line.. It sounds interesting"

Its a really good film in a strange way.... Quite bad acting ect but the story behind it and twists in it open your eyes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an Australian horror film called feeder which is related to this subject. It delves into this world in a very dark way... And I would suggest people watch it (if not easily offended)

I think I'll give it a miss, will put me off my Sunday roast "

Put you off food for quite a while!!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"There's an Australian horror film called feeder which is related to this subject. It delves into this world in a very dark way... And I would suggest people watch it (if not easily offended)

I think I'll give it a miss, will put me off my Sunday roast

Put you off food for quite a while!!"
thats me fecked then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called, Feed, not feeder. "

Oh it's sounds so romantic. I do hope there's a few good musical numbers in it like Hello Dolly or Moulin Rouge. Can't beat a good chick flick with some good tunes & a bucket of popcorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if this offends anyone but she could say no to the amount she eats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's an Australian horror film called feeder which is related to this subject. It delves into this world in a very dark way... And I would suggest people watch it (if not easily offended)

I think I'll give it a miss, will put me off my Sunday roast

Put you off food for quite a while!! thats me fecked then "

I'm so sorry but that really made me laugh out loud!! (no offence intended hun!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not know whether to fuck or circumnavigate her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would not know whether to fuck or circumnavigate her "

If you do circumnavigate her don't leave a trail of breadcrumbs to remember they way. You know why lol so don't ask.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Just read that her condition is critical. I feel so sorry for her.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

My heart goes out to the poor girl.

There are many reasons for overeating - it can be a comfort thing, to deal with many other traumas.

I was an over-eater, and at my heaviest was 27 stone. That was just over 3 years ago, through diet and exercise I'm now down to about 10stone-ish, and would still like to lose a little more, and tone up more.

I overate because I was desperately unhappy. I left my husband, and made some changes.

When I was bigger I was definitely treated differently - as a lazy slob, and less of a person.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"My heart goes out to the poor girl.

There are many reasons for overeating - it can be a comfort thing, to deal with many other traumas.

I was an over-eater, and at my heaviest was 27 stone. That was just over 3 years ago, through diet and exercise I'm now down to about 10stone-ish, and would still like to lose a little more, and tone up more.

I overate because I was desperately unhappy. I left my husband, and made some changes.

When I was bigger I was definitely treated differently - as a lazy slob, and less of a person."

Actually they have done very extensive studies about what makes people obese. It's not just an eating disorder. Sometimes it is to do with brain chemistry. For example, an experiment was done with morbidly obese people where they put them in a CAT scanner and offered them their favourite foods. Each time they did this the addiction centres of the brain lit up. They had only seen this before in drug addicts. So they concluded that food can become an addiction. Then there is the centre of the brain which tells the body that it is full - if this does not work then that person feels ravenously hungry all the time. They never feel full no matter how much they eat. People with Prader-Willi (sp) syndrome suffer from this.

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