FabSwingers.com forum: Friends and family

By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

What's your take on your friends and family discovering your profile or the fact you swing and what precautions could be took?

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By *riel13Woman
31 weeks ago

Northampton

My friends and family already know I am on here... They have from the beginning

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

Ah then easy living for you! I'm not so sure how I'm feeling about that aspect at the min so at a crossroads

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
31 weeks ago

The Continental

If I spotted them here…..block

I won’t tell them anything about my swinging activities, my sex life is nothing to do with any of my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

My public photos are non identifiable on purpose. Although, I’ve had someone share friends photos with someone else which created a bit of a problem. Not a friend or family but someone I somewhat knew professionally. When that happened, I deleted all my friends. I don’t have friends anymore to prevent this again.

I’m not worried about friends and family. I feel my public profile doesn’t reveal enough about me for anyone to find me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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31 weeks ago

East Sussex

"What's your take on your friends and family discovering your profile or the fact you swing and what precautions could be took?

No public face picture would be my first precaution

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

I may just do that now!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
31 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Welcome to the forums

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Ha! Thanks found the button! I promise I know how to use the internet

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By *offiaCoolWoman
31 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

"Welcome to the forums

And click on 'reply and quote' so people know who you are responding to.

Ha! Thanks found the button! I promise I know how to use the internet

We were all new to the forums at one time

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
31 weeks ago

North West

"Welcome to the forums

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Ha! Thanks found the button! I promise I know how to use the internet

There will be a short exam soon

Welcome!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Welcome to the forums

And click on 'reply and quote' so people know who you are responding to.

Ha! Thanks found the button! I promise I know how to use the internet

We were all new to the forums at one time

Got to start somewhere right?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

"Welcome to the forums

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Ha! Thanks found the button! I promise I know how to use the internet

There will be a short exam soon

Welcome!"

That's me out of luck! And thank you!

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By *naswingdressWoman
31 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Most of my family are on the other side of the world.

Most of my friends would never imagine I'd do such a thing

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By *ust want fun 888Man
31 weeks ago

nearby

I joined this website during Covid, left it and came back again.

Never imagined I would be on a site like this and uploading content, but if any family was on here, it would also mean they were on here so I don’t care if they see me.

There is a few in my small town that are on here so they obviously know me because I show my face but again I don’t care

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By *ortyguy69Man
31 weeks ago

stockton

"My friends and family already know I am on here... They have from the beginning "
cool

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By *laytime_13Woman
31 weeks ago

Lincs

I wouldn’t be bothered particularly by someone recognising me on this site, after all means they’re here too.

I would be bothered if that then got used in conversation with me in real life or shared with others not on this site.

So for that reason my public photos are pretty anonymous and even any face pics in my friends folder are vanilla. I don’t do sharing explicit and easily identifiable combined.

And since being tracked down by someone based off my first name, a very vague location and a sport, I’m also rather wary of what I disclose to who in conversation as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

We are not really bothered.

Although a family member did once pop up very close at a family BBQ ??

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By *igdave79Man
31 weeks ago

Twechar

I would be a bit upset that they were snooping on me. But on the other hand, they would have been on here too so they can't hold it against me.

We'd probably be weird about it for a bit then it would become a joke and we would end up laughing about it

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
31 weeks ago

somewhere

Most of our families know we are swingers, most don't understand it but that's ok!

We don't have many friends and the ones we do have and see regularly know how we met.

As for precautions on here? We don't take any "just incase we are seen" for people we know, because if anyone we know sees us on here, it also means they are on here sooooo, kinda pointless lol.

Besides, after Rubik accidentally sent pictures of me on all fours being spanked with a paddle that said slut into the old family WhatsApp group, instead of me a few years back, it doesn't really matter!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
30 weeks ago

"We are not really bothered.

Although a family member did once pop up very close at a family BBQ ??"

Jeez bet that was awkward!

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By *orthern_nudieMan
29 weeks ago

leeds

I wouldn’t care if they knew. We’d be on for the same thing. As long as they didn’t use it against me, they can look away

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