FabSwingers.com forum: Have you thought about an age limit

By *he love cats OP Couple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?

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By *iddlesticksMan
10 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m thinking of one to start living this lifestyle.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

No.

Swinging has a habit of giving you up if you don't adjust your expectations accordingly.

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By *uckurcumMan
10 weeks ago

Nowhereland

Sometimes between now and death lol

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By *imply DeeWoman
10 weeks ago

Wherever

"I’m thinking of one to start living this lifestyle.

Same. Hang in there, Fiddles.

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By *ackdaw52Man
10 weeks ago

Chesterfield

"No.

Swinging has a habit of giving you up if you don't adjust your expectations accordingly. "

A very perceptive comment. Can you elaborate?

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By *r John WickMan
10 weeks ago

The Continental

"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?

When I’m pushing up daisies.

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By *rHotNottsMan
10 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

The way I do it & how it evolves; probably never, well maybe when I’m physically or mentally uncapped of meeting people.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
10 weeks ago

Somewhere near here

I’m sure I’ll just know at the time when the time to stop is right. Like always, there’s times where I’m more immersed in it than other times, quite fluid

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
10 weeks ago

somewhere

I've kinda given up the sex side already (yes I know some reading this would be like "but that's the only side of it!). I love the social aspect of it too much to hang my whip up just yet.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle

I think about this a lot as currently I don’t have the freedom to do as much as I would like and I’m worried that when I/we do there won’t be much time left before I’m either undesired or not up to it

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
10 weeks ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

"I’m sure I’ll just know at the time when the time to stop is right. Like always, there’s times where I’m more immersed in it than other times, quite fluid"

Yes I find my interest wains after being messed about with fake profiles, then a nice social or intellectual meeting draws me back in again

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Yes. 49

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"No.

Swinging has a habit of giving you up if you don't adjust your expectations accordingly.

A very perceptive comment. Can you elaborate?"

I think that if you don't realise that things change in terms of who's attracted to you, what you can achieve and what you can realistically do you're not going to enjoy swinging too much as you get older.

If you adjust your expectations, remain involved and interested in various possibly different ways I don't see why you can't continue in the swinging world in some capacity until you're ready to give up.

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By *punk n gushCouple
10 weeks ago

walmer

I think we'd give up when we can no longer get meets or when we're to old and don't enjoy it anymore

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
10 weeks ago

chichester

Nope

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By *acksparrow99Man
10 weeks ago

Canary Wharf, London

No.

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By *iddlesticksMan
10 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I’m thinking of one to start living this lifestyle.

Same. Hang in there, Fiddles."

Shall we start a beginners group.

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By *kinmistressWoman
10 weeks ago

somewhere about

When i stop getting offers i guess... but i will still come back for the forums

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"When i stop getting offers i guess... but i will still come back for the forums"

I think there's a way for everyone to be involved in swinging to some degree

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By *he love cats OP Couple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

"I’m thinking of one to start living this lifestyle.

Same. Hang in there, Fiddles.

Shall we start a beginners group.

There's a thread right there mate

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
10 weeks ago

bristol/london

"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?

Yes. The day I need help getting out of bed and washing myself. Lol

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By *aizyWoman
10 weeks ago

west midlands

"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?

When I’m pushing up daisies. "

That can be arranged!

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By *injaprincessWoman
10 weeks ago

herehere

"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?

Yes. The day I need help getting out of bed and washing myself. Lol"

oh dear! ?? I stand no chance then

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
10 weeks ago

bristol/london

"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?

Yes. The day I need help getting out of bed and washing myself. Lol

oh dear! ?? I stand no chance then

We all know you're here for the forums only, ninja

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By *orl1971Couple
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Think we are pretty close to that age limit. Primarily we would like to meet couples but we find we’re getting very little interest from them. We do meet guys too and that’s easier but not easy.

Feels like we’re definitely running out of steam.

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By *hipdaleCouple
10 weeks ago

Greenhithe

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By *injaprincessWoman
10 weeks ago

herehere

"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?

Yes. The day I need help getting out of bed and washing myself. Lol

oh dear! ?? I stand no chance then

We all know you're here for the forums only, ninja

but I like being helped in the shower

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By *punk n gushCouple
10 weeks ago

walmer

"When i stop getting offers i guess... but i will still come back for the forums

I think there's a way for everyone to be involved in swinging to some degree "

Love ur pics nicecouple wish we was closer

The Mr xx

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By *dqsyMan
10 weeks ago

Mappawell

was on fab 16+ years ago and was much more active meeting folks etc.

But then life came first and left it till fairly recently.

This time its much harder to get something sorted. Attitudes and folks wants have changed.

Not having a partner who is into the same things doesn't help but its life and that's it.

When I leave fab for me this last time etc

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
10 weeks ago

King's Crustacean

Lifestyle NO - Fab -yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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10 weeks ago

East Sussex

"When i stop getting offers i guess... but i will still come back for the forums

I think there's a way for everyone to be involved in swinging to some degree

Love ur pics nicecouple wish we was closer

The Mr xx"

Thanks.

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast

It's never been a lifestyle for me. It's only a hobby and like all hobbies I'll keep doing it until I don't want to anymore.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
10 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Swinging isn’t part of my lifestyle at all. But sex is. And I’ll give the sex up when I’m dead. Probably

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
10 weeks ago

North West

"of when you are going to give up this lifestyle?

Yes. The day I need help getting out of bed and washing myself. Lol"

I sometimes need help doing these things

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By * F 2018Couple
10 weeks ago

shropshire

"I think we'd give up when we can no longer get meets or when we're to old and don't enjoy it anymore "

Yeah like this answer

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By *oeBeansMan
10 weeks ago

Derby

Honestly? I thought it would've happened by now.

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