FabSwingers.com forum: Too many verifications

By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
15 weeks ago

Northampton

Ok I just had an exchange of view with a lovely single lady who judged me for having too many verifications. In the past the problem was not having enough verifications. What's your idea with verifications? Does their number put you off for a potential meet?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
15 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Well we've been doing this over ten years now and for a lifestyle that's supposed to be open minded and non judgemental we've found it to be exactly the opposite.

People can be very judgemental and closed minded.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
15 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You could get 30 from one night at a social or a club so it wouldn’t bother me/us.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Damned if you do and damned if you don’t…

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By *eilde HoarWoman
15 weeks ago

In a wax coated bubble

Fuck no, the more the merrier. I'd rather meet a seasoned man who loves a good fuck, than settle for a first/second timer who may or may not, be a mediocre fun time...

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By *hilloutMan
15 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Display the amount you're comfortable with. Impossible to please everyone. Having many veris doesn't necessarily mean you've slept with all. Many could be social.

I display those that convey well the kind of person I am and what one could expect in meeting me. Socially or otherwise

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By *he Silver FuxMan
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Fuck no, the more the merrier. I'd rather meet a seasoned man who loves a good fuck, than settle for a first/second timer who may or may not, be a mediocre fun time..."

God bless you Patricia

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By *ilkey69Man
15 weeks ago

Barnsley

I think veris make a good read of how someone is.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Display the amount you're comfortable with. Impossible to please everyone. Having many veris doesn't necessarily mean you've slept with all. Many could be social.

I display those that convey well the kind of person I am and what one could expect in meeting me. Socially or otherwise

I haven’t slept with many of mine… fucked all of them though

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By *hilloutMan
15 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Display the amount you're comfortable with. Impossible to please everyone. Having many veris doesn't necessarily mean you've slept with all. Many could be social.

I display those that convey well the kind of person I am and what one could expect in meeting me. Socially or otherwise

I haven’t slept with many of mine… fucked all of them though

Details, details

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By *cottish guy 555Man
15 weeks ago

London

Well that's me fucked then.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

There’s no right or wrong.

A lot of ours are socials - a number are play. We’ve been here 4 years and gone to a lot of socials and events.

If people judge us on the amount of veri’s we have then they aren’t going to be the type of people we’d be interested in anyway.

Our veri’s show how good we are as a couple so they are displayed with pride

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By *punk n gushCouple
15 weeks ago

walmer

We find the verification can be a good way of judging how people are we equally have no problem meeting people who don't have any

The ones that do make ne angry are the ones who openly ask for a verification after just a couple of messages

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

Damned if you do and damned if you don’t…

This is true.

Better to not try to please everyone. Those who see positives will find us. I'm extremely proud of my verifications - particularly as many are social, from people I've played with AND some I haven't, but who have become friends. True to say you'll never please everyone.

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
15 weeks ago

Hull

I don't show mine think I've only got 4, enough to show I'm genuine and of late I've been asking people not to veri me, mostly that's complied with but still get odd ones I just don't show them. Vast majority of people I'll swing with are local anyway and they either know me, know of me or have had verbal verification from someone who does/has.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
15 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Well that's me fucked then.

Or not… as the case may be

Display as many as you want OP. If it offends others fuck them…

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By *ottom charlieMan
15 weeks ago

washington

"Ok I just had an exchange of view with a lovely single lady who judged me for having too many verifications. In the past the problem was not having enough verifications. What's your idea with verifications? Does their number put you off for a potential meet?"
well its your profile so your choice to say how it looks,,, maybe hide any veri's from any who have verified you a number of times or just display the veri's from couples from this year you have met,,,

but you cannot please everyone on here

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By *he beard and the bumCouple
15 weeks ago

Lancashire

That’s crazy. This is a swingers site isn’t it? We prefer it when people have multiple veris so you can get the measure of a person or a couple.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

I have a lot of social ones and a lot from good friends that I display. There are very few play ones and people have actually commented to me that they wondered if we ever actually played! You can’t win whatever you do.

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 weeks ago

Swingers site or not, some people just don't want to be the latest on a long list

There's times when we all need to accept that we simply can't attract everyone

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By *asterMeliodasMan
15 weeks ago

Newmill

"Swingers site or not, some people just don't want to be the latest on a long list

There's times when we all need to accept that we simply can't attract everyone"

...or are there?!

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

The whole verification system is slightly mad. It should just be someone independent saying that you’re who you say you are and you turned up on time.

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 weeks ago

"Swingers site or not, some people just don't want to be the latest on a long list

There's times when we all need to accept that we simply can't attract everyone

...or are there?!"

You've lost me I'm afraid

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By *ulu6969Woman
15 weeks ago

London

I've definitely decided to speak to our not speak to someone based on how good their veris are, but never for having too many

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By *asterMeliodasMan
15 weeks ago

Newmill

"Swingers site or not, some people just don't want to be the latest on a long list

There's times when we all need to accept that we simply can't attract everyone

...or are there?!

You've lost me I'm afraid"

I was jokingly saying I *can* attract everyone, and that there aren't times when we all need to accept that we can't. :P

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By *aughtynottsCouple
15 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

We've had this before but having been here 17 years you can accumulate a lot of verifications.

We don't worry about it anymore it shows we are actively involved in the lifestyle so we just let people think that they want.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I've definitely decided to speak to our not speak to someone based on how good their veris are, but never for having too many"

Perfect!

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By *eliWoman
15 weeks ago

The content is more likely to than the number. And that's fine, I'm not compatible with them, nor them with me.

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By *ellhungvweMan
15 weeks ago

Cheltenham

As has been observed above - they add up over time and, at the end of the day, it’s what they say that really matters.

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By *weet6Woman
15 weeks ago

East Riding

I'd say, looking at yours OP, that you've put yourself out there, going to clubs and parties, so you're bound to have way more than someone waiting for meets to 'drop in their lap' as it were.

And a bunch of those are the organisers just thanking you for your patronage.

So rather than look at the number, I'd be more interested in what the general theme is, and as yours are all very complimentary, then I'd say, that shows you're a very good bet for a good time!

My guess is, that maybe the lady had another reason, and was just looking for a 'get out clause' that would leave neither of you with egg on your faces

So don't over think it, and just keep having fun

Sxx

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By *indergirlWoman
15 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

Number no, some content yes

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By *irthLoveWoman
15 weeks ago

London

I’d say to display whatever you are comfortable with. If someone judges you negatively then they are closed-minded and you’ve dodged a bullet. Far better to interact with open-minded people

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By *old MemberMan
15 weeks ago

Worcester

I would love just one so I can post and send videos, but no matter how many times I wank for the lovely people on camera, I never get any ??

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By *he Silver FuxMan
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Well that's me fucked then.

Fucking worn it out mate

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

Never too many.

Except if they are for the night where they stood someone up, to meet them instead.

People can be here for years and you'd expect them to potentially accumulate lots.

What people do away from me is none of my business. Lots of veris gives great opportunities for people to assess reliability

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
15 weeks ago

London or Bedford

Theirs nothing wrong with having STANDARDS for your choice of sexual partner.

Not wanting to engage with someone with a high body count is one’s personal choice.

We’re not all on here looking for the same thing.

It’s not being “closed minded” or “judgemental”, it’s just not for them.

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By *xydadbodMan
15 weeks ago

Milton keynes

To be fair, I've have my fair share of judgement about the amount of veris I have.. the ironic part is.. the ones that judge have the same amount as veris as I have too so explain that logic to me

But nah, I say the amount of veris shouldn't be an issue really, but I do enjoy reading them though as it gives me an insight to what the person is like

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I’ve been judged for too many verifications and who they are from too. That’s a them problem, not mine.

^just my opinion.

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
15 weeks ago

Manchester

Not all verifications are sexual encounters. 3 out of my 12 are. The majority of mine are from speaking to someone in a club or from a social.

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By *JcuriousCouple
15 weeks ago

Derby

No, that's that person's business not mine, if it does bother us we just don't go there.

I think a lot of veris can also be social meets too, which some can't be bothered to look through to see but it's usually the case too.

Miss S x

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By *issmorganWoman
15 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

No generally the numbers don't,

Sometimes the content or the person who has left the veri does though if I'm honest.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
15 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I've never been bothered by numbers.

If anyone really thinks verifications are a complete and accurate record of someone's sex life then I have a bridge to sell them.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Yeah it does if I’m honest, as does content, who they’ve met etc. loads of things put me off wanting to meet people but I’m not a swinger. We all do fab our own way and it works for most

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By *weetiepie99Woman
15 weeks ago

cardiff

Yes puts me off. But I hate the whole concept of verifications here anyway.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
15 weeks ago

Somewhere near here

It can put me off, but I do read them. If someone has been here a long time or attends parties and socials then all is fine. However if it’s a multitude of meets from every Tom dick and Harry then no thank you. I go into a pit of fab and look through who they’ve met and who they’ve met and so on. Any bareback photos of any of those then I’m long gone!

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
15 weeks ago

North Wales

Funny given the site we are on that someone should be put off by number of verifications. I like reading veris as it me an idea of the type of individual they are

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By *loveyou2Man
15 weeks ago

docklands

I’ve been on here for years and was told I had too many verifications so I deleted the profile and started again kind of wish I had not but hey done now

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By *ark n kimCouple
15 weeks ago

Durham

It doesn't bother us,we have a few.but as people have quite rightly said,a lot come from socials.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
15 weeks ago

somewhere

Social verifications, bring them on but sex meets? If they have hundreds over a short space of time, I'd probably steer clear but that's just my preference, hundreds over 10 years, then that's different.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
15 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Funny given the site we are on that someone should be put off by number of verifications. I like reading veris as it me an idea of the type of individual they are "

It does, the veris give a better depth to their profile, gives more of an idea of who they like to meet, what they like to do and I also dig further and take a look at the people’s profiles that verify them in turn for the complete picture

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By *inochioMan
15 weeks ago

Derbyshire

I always take the veris for what they were intended to show that this is a real person. If you have a lot you are successful and popular. Taking anything negatively from it says more about the reader really.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
9 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

The majority of ours are socialising, yet we were told recently that we had too many! Clearly they just looked at the number rather than the contents. We love chatting to people in clubs and that's usually how we obtain our veris. We've been in this for a number of years and really didn't think our count was high!

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By *he Silver FuxMan
9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"The majority of ours are socialising, yet we were told recently that we had too many! Clearly they just looked at the number rather than the contents. We love chatting to people in clubs and that's usually how we obtain our veris. We've been in this for a number of years and really didn't think our count was high!"

Too many?!? 😳

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

90-95% of mine are from group socials or 1-1 socials.

Crikey - if they were all sexy meets then I'd be walking funny.

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By *electableicecreamMan
9 weeks ago

The West

I assume some are put off by the number of veris I have but sure that's fine. I choose to display the summary so people can make that choice.

Numbers, low or high wouldn't put me off someone in and of themselves. I can only think of one profile where the frequency of the meets told me that I would just be a number and wouldn't find the kind of connection I was looking for.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
9 weeks ago

the moon

Yes .. it does for me ….

It’s puts me off tbh ….

Different strokes for different blokes …

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By *en_Dover79Man
9 weeks ago

Oswaldtwistle

as long as they are good veris and show you in a good honest light then more the merrier.. I probably have way too many in the other persons case too

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I think it would be good if the type if meet could be categorised.

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By *olfandtazCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol

We have a selection of verifications from cams to socials to meet, we don't let them impact on our decision to meet someone

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By *ongAndThick123Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I suppose the whole point of having verifications is to help others make a decision or judgement. Be that positive or negative.

You just have to accept her decision and find someone who is more or a match.

In terms of veri’s being off putting - yes sometimes the number of verifications does put me off people. It’s mostly to do with sexual health. I wouldn’t want to meet someone who has dozens of veri’s in a short amount of time.

Also I very commonly block people who have verifications from unhealthy looking people, and I also don’t meet people who have verifications from people I’ve blocked.

Am I fussy and a little uptight? Yeah probably

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
9 weeks ago

hexham

No!

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By *imply DeeWoman
9 weeks ago

Wherever

I dislike verifications with passion. I understand they supposed to be helpful but I prefer to make my own judgement on the person. It’s not the number that puts me off, I have many social verifications myself, but from who.

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By *tunna.gurlTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Manchester

You just need to do what makes you comfortable because people are entitled to having an opinion when you do and don’t need it but it doesn’t mean that are all correct. If your sexually active or not do what makes you happy and get verified you only get one life so live it and don’t let their opinions make u question yourself or even think of changing your character 💋

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Yes, it would put me off.

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
9 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

It's probably because she found someone better/more attractive and used your "too many verifications" as an excuse to let you down. Better than ghosting I suppose. If it wasn't too many verifications, it would have been "not verified..."

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By *ongAndThick123Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds

That’s a very cynical outlook. I think OP is best taking what she said at face value instead of making an imaginary story to villainise her and victimise himself.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

That was a rollercoaster of a read

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By *midnight-Woman
9 weeks ago

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They could be sleeping with the entire site and just have one social veri.

I think you'd be very naive to assume that people are not regularly meeting others on a swinging site.. Just because there is no evidence

Throw in dating sites, which apparently have a higher success rate.. You don't even see those veris!

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

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I think you'd be very naive to assume that people are not regularly meeting others on a swinging site.. Just because there is no evidence

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This should be in the faq’s …😏

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
9 weeks ago

Essex

If they had 20 in a week (non club) I may be put off.

But really it’s the content that matters. Are they who they say they are.

Certain “styles” on every verification may indicate that we’re not compatible.

A whole host of women in profile pics & no verification would make me very suspicious of consent.

It’s all a jigsaw really to build up an image….

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By *exyduo175540Couple
9 weeks ago

Woking

Like to read veris before a meet judge by others the person beforehand helps a lot

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By *bi HaiveMan
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9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"….

I think you'd be very naive to assume that people are not regularly meeting others on a swinging site.. Just because there is no evidence

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This should be in the faq’s …😏"

Yep. Some people assume every sexual encounter someone has is documented in writing in a verification. 🤦‍♂️😂😂

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By *hunky GentMan
9 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I rarely meet other than socially, and even then you may not get a verification.

Some people don't like given them because they can cause a backlash n

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By *endalshaggersCouple
9 weeks ago

Kendal

To a degree we're really not overly fussed about if someone has lots or very few veris - it's the person/people you click with not a review.

Veris are really only like a fab version of a trip advisor review to a degree, helpful but you and you alone can make up your own mind.

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By *orthern BeardMan
9 weeks ago

Banbury

I’m well verified and I have had a couple of people be put off by it. Their loss as far as I’m concerned.

I have been here for like 7 years so I don’t think it’s that many.

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

There are many things that can put me off someone on here, how many veris they have isn't one of them, I'm not bothered about the amount of veris.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

No the amount doesnt bother me unless it's zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Well that's me fucked then.

Or not… as the case may be

Display as many as you want OP. If it offends others fuck them… "

I think if it offends others LB, he may not get the chance to fuck them!

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By *elix SightedMan
9 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"….

I think you'd be very naive to assume that people are not regularly meeting others on a swinging site.. Just because there is no evidence

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This should be in the faq’s …😏

Yep. Some people assume every sexual encounter someone has is documented in writing in a verification. 🤦‍♂️😂😂"

I gave myself a veri last because I turned up for the wank I planned and it was definitely me. Accurate record keeping is everything.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
9 weeks ago

Leeds

"….

I think you'd be very naive to assume that people are not regularly meeting others on a swinging site.. Just because there is no evidence

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This should be in the faq’s …😏

Yep. Some people assume every sexual encounter someone has is documented in writing in a verification. 🤦‍♂️😂😂"

Yeah but the same logic still applies. If not everything us documented, and you still have 50 published then there’s clearly going to be loads more that aren’t on there.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
9 weeks ago

London

"No the amount doesnt bother me unless it's zero."

That's handy.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
9 weeks ago

Sheffield

No such thing I don’t think. Wouldn’t put me off no.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

"….

I think you'd be very naive to assume that people are not regularly meeting others on a swinging site.. Just because there is no evidence

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This should be in the faq’s …😏

Yep. Some people assume every sexual encounter someone has is documented in writing in a verification. 🤦‍♂️😂😂

Yeah but the same logic still applies. If not everything us documented, and you still have 50 published then there’s clearly going to be loads more that aren’t on there. "

I think you’re missing the point.

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By *inja 636Man
8 weeks ago

Grays

Does fab come under check a trade

morning humour don't mind me

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

There are a lot of small-minded and judgmental people on Fab. You do you and use their attitudes as a means of selecting out negative people. They're not worth time between your ears. Block and move on.

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
8 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

The more the merrier as far as we are concerned.. More concerned about profiles that have been on fab for years but don't have any or minimal verifications

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By *eyeYCouple
7 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

Never judge the number in this way, we have over 80 but would estimate we've only played with a quarter of that number.

Amen on being wary it's zero or they're years old though..

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

Like in any social situation, there is no pleasing everyone. Furthermore, there is a lot of blind judgment going on in this community, and no matter what you do, you'll be exposed to at least some of it, willing or not.

Thus, just do what you feel suits you, and ignore the naysayers.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
7 weeks ago

Leeds

The number doesn't bother me we can get 20+ from a social event, what's in the verifications however can put me off.

Mrs.

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By *erfHerder74Man
7 weeks ago

Greenock

I think maybe the length of time in between meets and verifications. Granted some read as though met at a social but others read like you jump into bed with as mayas possible. How can you get sti or hiv tested in that time?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Sounds like a piss poor excuse not to talk to you, if you ask me.

The mr

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
7 weeks ago

Manchester

I'm not really bothered. What would bother me more is if he never people more than once. Not for me as I think sex gets better as you know someone.

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By *carlettxWoman
7 weeks ago

Essex

Having lots of veris doesn’t really put me off of anyone

I have over a 100 from when I hosted club nights but have been in the scene over 10 years

I dont show all of them cos who could be bothered to read them

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By *carlettxWoman
7 weeks ago

Essex

Actually reword the above , I just checked and it’s over 200 haha

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By *8on33Man
7 weeks ago

winfrith

" Having lots of veris doesn’t really put me off of anyone

I have over a 100 from when I hosted club nights but have been in the scene over 10 years

I dont show all of them cos who could be bothered to read them

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Well you look lovely so I guess 200 people saying they've met you isn't hard to believe but what do veris mean ultimately not a lot I guess one mans goddess is anothers disappointment.

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By *carlettxWoman
7 weeks ago

Essex

" Having lots of veris doesn’t really put me off of anyone

I have over a 100 from when I hosted club nights but have been in the scene over 10 years

I dont show all of them cos who could be bothered to read them

Well you look lovely so I guess 200 people saying they've met you isn't hard to believe but what do veris mean ultimately not a lot I guess one mans goddess is anothers disappointment. "

Yeah kind of depends what you are looking for

I mean , I’ve never been keen on overly graphic veris reading them or what others would write about me

I see veris purely as a ‘ met them , real person , had a laugh and maybe more’

Never understood the need for every detail but that’s just me

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By *8on33Man
7 weeks ago

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" Having lots of veris doesn’t really put me off of anyone

I have over a 100 from when I hosted club nights but have been in the scene over 10 years

I dont show all of them cos who could be bothered to read them

Well you look lovely so I guess 200 people saying they've met you isn't hard to believe but what do veris mean ultimately not a lot I guess one mans goddess is anothers disappointment.

Yeah kind of depends what you are looking for

I mean , I’ve never been keen on overly graphic veris reading them or what others would write about me

I see veris purely as a ‘ met them , real person , had a laugh and maybe more’

Never understood the need for every detail but that’s just me

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