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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield

What is everyone’s favourite destination for a meet and why?

I’ll start mine is definitely a hotel there is something very sexy about meeting at a hotel opening the door and seeing the person/persons for the first time

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By *urry BlokeMan
10 weeks ago

I have met in hotels but, in general, my house or theirs seems the most common meeting point for me

I prefer my house over theirs after I had a tricky meet with a guy locking me in

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By *andT2023Couple
10 weeks ago

in the middle

Hotel xx

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By *eordieJeansCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A club.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
10 weeks ago

In a town full of colours

Always a hotel

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By *imply DeeWoman
10 weeks ago

Wherever

Hotel or club.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotel xx"
I love hotel to something about it is very exciting xx

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotel or club."
yes love a club and hotel is 100% my favourite x

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Always a hotel "
it’s very hot isn’t it x

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"A club."
ye is a good mutual meeting point helps brake the nerves when everyone is naked haha

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"I have met in hotels but, in general, my house or theirs seems the most common meeting point for me

I prefer my house over theirs after I had a tricky meet with a guy locking me in "

what really? That is crazy

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
10 weeks ago

Hyde

We have been a club only couple, but we are thinking we have an itch to scratch with a hotel an outdoor meet

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"We have been a club only couple, but we are thinking we have an itch to scratch with a hotel an outdoor meet "
love a good hotel and outdoor meet

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By *urry BlokeMan
10 weeks ago


"I have met in hotels but, in general, my house or theirs seems the most common meeting point for me

I prefer my house over theirs after I had a tricky meet with a guy locking me in what really? That is crazy "

In 18 years of meeting people from the web, it is the the only time I have felt in any danger

It wasn't pleasant, but I only have myself to blame for cutting corners

It taught me on thing though... sometimes you're just better off having a wank and getting in bed

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By *idzguyMan
10 weeks ago

coventry

Home it’s more private and more relaxed

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"I have met in hotels but, in general, my house or theirs seems the most common meeting point for me

I prefer my house over theirs after I had a tricky meet with a guy locking me in what really? That is crazy

In 18 years of meeting people from the web, it is the the only time I have felt in any danger

It wasn't pleasant, but I only have myself to blame for cutting corners

It taught me on thing though... sometimes you're just better off having a wank and getting in bed "

absolutely haha gotta be careful and ye sometimes a wink is better

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Home it’s more private and more relaxed "
ye is definitely more relaxed I think hotel has a naught feel to it tho

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By *oxy RedWoman
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *oxy RedWoman
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hotel or Club

Only a chosen few get Hotel, club, home and outdoors

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle

I prefer private meets so hotel or their house as we don’t accommodate. I love clubs to meet people but for playing I prefer somewhere private and without a plastic mattress

Kx

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotel or Club

Only a chosen few get Hotel, club, home and outdoors "

wow Roxy I love a hotel meet,I’d feel honoured to have the chance to meet you in just one let alone all 3x

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"I prefer private meets so hotel or their house as we don’t accommodate. I love clubs to meet people but for playing I prefer somewhere private and without a plastic mattress

Kx "

the dreaded plastic mattress haha and yes love both

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

I’m a fan of hotels for getting naked with friends from Fab. But I like to meet in a bar first. Get some chatting and flirting done before we jump straight into bed.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"I’m a fan of hotels for getting naked with friends from Fab. But I like to meet in a bar first. Get some chatting and flirting done before we jump straight into bed."
yes having a drink in the hotel bar first to build the tension

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
10 weeks ago

Newcastle


"I prefer private meets so hotel or their house as we don’t accommodate. I love clubs to meet people but for playing I prefer somewhere private and without a plastic mattress

Kx the dreaded plastic mattress haha and yes love both "

Although on the plus side, they are easy clean.

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By *punk n gushCouple
10 weeks ago

walmer

Hotels are fune but much prefer if the person we meet can accommodate makes it more personal and can be louder

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"I prefer private meets so hotel or their house as we don’t accommodate. I love clubs to meet people but for playing I prefer somewhere private and without a plastic mattress

Kx the dreaded plastic mattress haha and yes love both

Although on the plus side, they are easy clean. "

ye exactly haha

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotels are fune but much prefer if the person we meet can accommodate makes it more personal and can be louder "
yes you definitely have more freedom at a home

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
10 weeks ago

Sutton

For us there needs to be some form of social interaction first , either and a club or a bar,, so clubs first , then homes then hotels ( for ground gathering )

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"For us there needs to be some form of social interaction first , either and a club or a bar,, so clubs first , then homes then hotels ( for ground gathering ) "
yes good to build the sexual tension in a bar or a club first

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By *ojoabcMan
10 weeks ago

Livingston

Love hotel meets

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By *inxy777Woman
10 weeks ago

essex

Hotel x

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Love hotel meets "
ye they are great

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotel x"
oh yes I love them too x

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By *oo..Woman
10 weeks ago

Boo's World

A pub first, they could be a total nutcase and want to murder Boo!

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By *oxy RedWoman
10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Hotel or Club

Only a chosen few get Hotel, club, home and outdoors wow Roxy I love a hotel meet,I’d feel honoured to have the chance to meet you in just one let alone all 3x"

If you are ever North of the Border....

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"A pub first, they could be a total nutcase and want to murder Boo! "
can’t let that happen need to protect boo at all cost

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By *oxy RedWoman
10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I’m a fan of hotels for getting naked with friends from Fab. But I like to meet in a bar first. Get some chatting and flirting done before we jump straight into bed."

What happens next time if I have done Stages Bar, Chatting, Flirting? Do we skip these?

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotel or Club

Only a chosen few get Hotel, club, home and outdoors wow Roxy I love a hotel meet,I’d feel honoured to have the chance to meet you in just one let alone all 3x

If you are ever North of the Border...."

I’ll be sure to let get in touch with you when I do Roxyx

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By *orl1971Couple
10 weeks ago

Glasgow

We’ve only been in one club but with plastic covered mattresses it had all the sexiness of a dental surgery.

We prefer nice hotels. Yes Premier Inn is cheap and we sometimes stay there when travelling but it’s not as sexy as a boutique hotel. The sexiness of the location matters to us and we’ve been called snobs because we didn’t want to play in a Travelodge.

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By *herry delightWoman
10 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Never a hotel I value my safety too much. Far too dangerous for a single woman.

I might act like a slut but I am not going to advertise it by going to a hotel.

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By *Silver-Man
10 weeks ago

Mold

A nice classy hotel is my preference

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By *he love catsCouple
10 weeks ago

South Wales

A hotel has everything needed for a great meet.

Our regular has self check in, a steam room, sauna, great food, drinks and plenty of free parking. It's also near to other great bars and restaurants if you want to make a night or weekend of it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"What happens next time if I have done Stages Bar, Chatting, Flirting? Do we skip these? "

Cheeky. I haven’t forgotten your second date suggestion. Sex first, chat later.

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Mayfair

Hotel. Always. It's neutral territory, convenient and secure.

I take delight in the chivalrous notion of meeting someone at a hotel bar, imbibing and taking our sexual frisson to the next level, before being sequestered into a modernisticly stylish room and embarking on a dalliance that lingers for days after.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

Home as no travelling, have our own bar, able to smoke indoors, doesnt matter if people are no shows. Which is an ever increasing number LOL

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
10 weeks ago

North Wales

Hotel but yet to sample a Club

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By *ittle_blondie_xWoman
10 weeks ago

Manchester

Club meet, feel safer unless I get to know them

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By *stwo60Couple
10 weeks ago

Hampshire

Normally hotels for us, also clubs

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By *uriousscouserWoman
10 weeks ago

Wirral

For a first meet I like a hotel. There's a level of anonymity I find liberating.

With someone I know well I prefer my home, surrounded by creature comforts and plentiful cups of tea or drinks.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Home as no travelling, have our own bar, able to smoke indoors, doesnt matter if people are no shows. Which is an ever increasing number LOL"
ye you make a good point haha

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By *ltrMan
10 weeks ago

sheffield

Hotel or clubs for me leave the wet sheets and laundry for someone else

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotel but yet to sample a Club "
it is a very good experience pm we can go to one sometime

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
10 weeks ago

Tamworth

Hotel or club then mine once some trust is built. I always have a safety who knows where I’m going or who’s coming round though.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Club meet, feel safer unless I get to know them "
ye if your a bit nervous it’s a good place to meet

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotel or club then mine once some trust is built. I always have a safety who knows where I’m going or who’s coming round though. "
that’s a great idea you never know gotta be safe

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By *heelerMan
10 weeks ago

Northants

Anywhere a meet be nice.

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By *rrolloutMan
10 weeks ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I love the sordid nature of meeting in a hotel, plus if it's somewhere like a Premier Inn (especially the modernized ones) it feels quite plush especially with the moody lighting.

My former FWB and I used to love going for it on the futon!

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By *midnight-Woman
10 weeks ago

...

Hotel

Always!!

Christ I'd be exhausted from tidying up if it was at home

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By *awpleasureMan
10 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

I'm not fussy as long as not at mine. I feel its easier to make an excuse to get away if the meet is not going well

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By *umalotagainMan
10 weeks ago

a town called malice

Hotel

Not tried a club, maybe soon

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By *vaRose43Woman
10 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Always hotels, usually after a drink or two to build the anticipation

Although there is something very special about a secluded clearing in the forest in dappled sunlight

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Although there is something very special about a secluded clearing in the forest in dappled sunlight "

You auld romantic, you.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"I love the sordid nature of meeting in a hotel, plus if it's somewhere like a Premier Inn (especially the modernized ones) it feels quite plush especially with the moody lighting.

My former FWB and I used to love going for it on the futon!"

ye it’s great isn’t it

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotel

Not tried a club, maybe soon "

it’s good pal

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Always hotels, usually after a drink or two to build the anticipation

Although there is something very special about a secluded clearing in the forest in dappled sunlight "

yes both are great arnt they both have positives and negatives

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
10 weeks ago

hexham

Club, bar or outside.

I do not meet people at my own house.

I have actually been directed to false addresses when I have agreed to go to “their”address!

A hotel means staying a whole night ( or having an alternative place to go back to, in which case is a lot of money ) generally after the guy has had his fill, I am left wondering if it would be rude of me to be phoning a second guy up to come around and keep the party going!

In a club, bar or outside… we can have what ever fun we both want, say out goodbyes and move on with our day and second and third and fourth meets etc !

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By *arathonfire82Man
10 weeks ago

eversley


"I prefer private meets so hotel or their house as we don’t accommodate. I love clubs to meet people but for playing I prefer somewhere private and without a plastic mattress

Kx "

Or from many others watching and wanking over the session lol

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
10 weeks ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

The atmosphere of a club, the naughty feel of an hotel, the risky nature of the great outdoors, or the warmth & cosy of the home environment. All have their own moments it’s the friendly nature of those in the meet that counts

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Club, bar or outside.

I do not meet people at my own house.

I have actually been directed to false addresses when I have agreed to go to “their”address!

A hotel means staying a whole night ( or having an alternative place to go back to, in which case is a lot of money ) generally after the guy has had his fill, I am left wondering if it would be rude of me to be phoning a second guy up to come around and keep the party going!

In a club, bar or outside… we can have what ever fun we both want, say out goodbyes and move on with our day and second and third and fourth meets etc ! "

ye you have to be careful

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By *eanJ24Man
10 weeks ago

Brighton

Hotel meets! But has to be the whole experience, drinks in the bar and then to the room.

Next question, shower or bath?

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By *vaRose43Woman
10 weeks ago

Forest of Dean


"Although there is something very special about a secluded clearing in the forest in dappled sunlight

You auld romantic, you. "

I was trying to be polite. I could have said I like being railed bent over a fallen tree

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10 weeks ago

Home. I feel comfy and I hope I make them feel comfortable.

Outdoor… not so much, it’s probably cold and I’ll get bitten. But it can be very very hot

Hotel… I don’t need to tidy up afterwards.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Although there is something very special about a secluded clearing in the forest in dappled sunlight

You auld romantic, you.

I was trying to be polite. I could have said I like being railed bent over a fallen tree "

haha very naughty

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Home. I feel comfy and I hope I make them feel comfortable.

Outdoor… not so much, it’s probably cold and I’ll get bitten. But it can be very very hot

Hotel… I don’t need to tidy up afterwards. "

ye all good points

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I was trying to be polite. I could have said I like being railed bent over a fallen tree "

That’s kind of romantic too, in its own special way …

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
10 weeks ago

Wirral.

At home. I feel way more comfortable.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"At home. I feel way more comfortable."
ye I think a lot of people feel this way

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By *affron40Woman
10 weeks ago

manchester

Home. I like my comforts

Plus I’m too poor to pay for hotels.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Home. I like my comforts

Plus I’m too poor to pay for hotels. "

don’t worry I’ll payhaha

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By *B69Woman
10 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Hotels are my preference, both on neutral ground close that door to the outside world and enjoy a day of mutual pleasure, no cleaning or changing beds required

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
10 weeks ago

Sheffield

None of the above. Prefer a club setting. Can make a night of it, see friends, feel comfortable and safe, no time is wasted.

Wouldn’t meet a stranger in a hotel or at their place. Nor would I ever have anyone at my home.

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"Hotels are my preference, both on neutral ground close that door to the outside world and enjoy a day of mutual pleasure, no cleaning or changing beds required"
ye it’s great isn’t it I love hotel meets

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By *heff123Cool OP   Man
10 weeks ago

sheffield


"None of the above. Prefer a club setting. Can make a night of it, see friends, feel comfortable and safe, no time is wasted.

Wouldn’t meet a stranger in a hotel or at their place. Nor would I ever have anyone at my home."

that’s fair enough clubs are great

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