FabSwingers.com forum: I've been really stupid

By *lujiz94 OP Man
28 weeks ago

Bishop's Stortford

So i have been really stupid. I sent a picture of myself fully naked to someone on telegram, who i then gave my instagram username to. That person then threatened to send thqt picture to everyone in my contacts. So, i blocked them on telegram, set my instagram profile to private and then deleted my instagram account. (Or requested it to be deleted, apparently it will be gone completely in a month). I also deleted the chat on telegram so i now have no way of reaching out to this criminal. I don't know what the hell i should do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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28 weeks ago

East Sussex

Do you have any record of the messages?

Hold your nerve (easy for me to say I know), I suspect that they would have asked for money and you've nipped that in the bud.

If the picture is sent to any of your contacts you'll presumably be able to trace the person and be able to report them to the police.

I don't need to add insult to injury by pointing out the lesson you've clearly learned. We've all done daft things in our time

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
28 weeks ago

manchester

"So i have been really stupid. I sent a picture of myself fully naked to someone on telegram, who i then gave my instagram username to. That person then threatened to send thqt picture to everyone in my contacts. So, i blocked them on telegram, set my instagram profile to private and then deleted my instagram account. (Or requested it to be deleted, apparently it will be gone completely in a month). I also deleted the chat on telegram so i now have no way of reaching out to this criminal. I don't know what the hell i should do."

Take the lesson that you shouldn’t sent genitalia to strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

You're probably OK. It's most likely a scammer in a faraway country.

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By *alandNitaCouple
28 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

To be honest, you can't do anything now. If you had kept the messages you could have reported it to the police.

Ultimately, if you can't be contacted, they can't try to extort any form of money from you.

There IS a risk that they have taken a record of your contacts, but there's no way to profit from sending the pictures.

Cal

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By *lujiz94 OP Man
28 weeks ago

Bishop's Stortford

I don't have any record of the messages anymore since i deleted the chat when i blocked them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
28 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I feel for you O.P. It can give you a bit of a shock but i'm 'pretty' sure that nothing will come of it. They can't contact you now for money they have no interest in you.

I got an e mail some months ago telling me that they had been watching me 'pleasuring' ( their word not mine ) myself and were going to 'out' me to everyone unless I paid up.

I didn't think they'd really seen me cos ...... t - one I don't do anything on cam and 2 they kept calling me Sir .....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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28 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I don't have any record of the messages anymore since i deleted the chat when i blocked them."

I'd say that probably nothing will happen now. They'll move on to their next victim because you're worth nothing in monetary terms.

If any of your contacts do receive pictures notify the police and look your contact squarely in the eye saying you made a daft mistake and are sorry if they've been upset or offended.

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By *hawn ScottMan
28 weeks ago

london Brixton

Is it blackmal?

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By *electableicecreamMan
28 weeks ago

The West

"I don't have any record of the messages anymore since i deleted the chat when i blocked them."

You can report the account to the app with your username. They will still have a record of the messages and threats.

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By *lujiz94 OP Man
28 weeks ago

Bishop's Stortford

It is. Sadly i don't have any of the messages anymore because I deleted them. I didn't think it was any use keeping them since they probably aren't even in the same country.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
28 weeks ago

North West

How would they know who your contacts were if all they have is your Telegram, Instagram account handle and a nekkid pic? I doubt anything further will come of it.

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By *hawn ScottMan
28 weeks ago

london Brixton

I was the victim of revenge porn once and whilst embarrassing it blows over.

Unless you actually know the person the police won't do much.

If it is blackmle then it's about control. By talking the person that you don't care and to go ahead will take away their control. They are unlikely to follow through with the threat as it serves them no purpose

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By *till gameMan
28 weeks ago

Oldham

"It is. Sadly i don't have any of the messages anymore because I deleted them. I didn't think it was any use keeping them since they probably aren't even in the same country."

Only thing I’m thinking is that if they even did send your naked picture to anyone, that’s all it is , a naked picture, not you in a compromising position or anything illegal

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By *onsShlongMan
28 weeks ago

bury

Consequences dude, how well do you know this person? Is this person who they said they were? Why risk sending nude pictures to a stranger

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
28 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Keep sending nudes dude

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By *lujiz94 OP Man
28 weeks ago

Bishop's Stortford

"How would they know who your contacts were if all they have is your Telegram, Instagram account handle and a nekkid pic? I doubt anything further will come of it. "

I'm really stupid. Because my instagram account is public, my friends were visible. It's also part of meta, which is linked to Facebook

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By *eordieJeansCouple
28 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Send a picture of your genitals to all your contacts yourself and then they’ve got nothing to threaten you with.

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By *ffervescentMan
28 weeks ago

winfrith

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By *oxy jWoman
28 weeks ago

somerset

was you sending the pic consented ie they knew as is against the law to send unconsented nude pics maybe clear that bit up first ...all these newish laws to stop just this

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By *onnyGibbMan
28 weeks ago

Peterborough

It’s called Sexploitation. I fell for it, reported it to the Police, and that night told my (then) wife that I was bi. “They” sent the picture to my wife with some nonsense about what I’d been up to (not what I’d actually been up to). I have no idea if they sent it to anyone else but no one has said anything or acted weird.

That day was the worst day of my life. But I’m still here and my subsequent divorce over a year later wasn’t directly related to that incident. I’m happier now.

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By *lujiz94 OP Man
28 weeks ago

Bishop's Stortford

I've just got their telegram username and reddit username that's all I've really got

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Take the lesson that you shouldn’t sent genitalia to strangers "

Wow. I take it sympathy is somewhere between shit and syphilis in the dictionary for you?

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
28 weeks ago

Launceston

Don't beat yourself up OP. I think this was a subject in the news recently, apparently it's a very common thing for unsuspecting men or teenage boys to send naked pics, to then be blackma*led. Mainly by people overseas.

Fingers crossed for you that nothing comes of it.

It's a warning to all of us on a site like this to be careful.

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By *lujiz94 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Bishop's Stortford

"Don't beat yourself up OP. I think this was a subject in the news recently, apparently it's a very common thing for unsuspecting men or teenage boys to send naked pics, to then be blackma*led. Mainly by people overseas.

Fingers crossed for you that nothing comes of it.

It's a warning to all of us on a site like this to be careful. "
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Thanks. It's been over 24 hours now and nothing has happened, So i think it's all good.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
27 weeks ago

Stoke

Exactly why nothing of us goes out naked, not even on here.

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By *og-ManMan
27 weeks ago

somewhere

Generally they move on to the easiest targets so don't worry about it

Genuinely whats the worst thing that coukd happen

They told me they'd send my picture to my parents as they are FB friends

They moved on when I told them to feck off

Last year I sent a dick pic to my mother by mistake anyway ffs

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