FabSwingers.com forum: getting messages from way under my lower age limit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im getting messages from way under my lower age limit and am having to tell them no and that they shouldnt be able to message me. I looked at contacting site owners but seems to be nowhere for actually sending a message so im doing it here in the hope they will see this. I have checked message filters and are set for single guys but age is 34 - 50, so 19 year olds shouldnt be able to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just tried and I can't message you.

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

think you might find that if they have messaged you before and you replied, they can message you

slap my wrist if I'm wrong!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

if youve been in contact with them before they can

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"think you might find that if they have messaged you before and you replied, they can message you

slap my wrist if I'm wrong!!"

No I know that but thank you no slap from me. Ive never heard from him before tonight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if youve been in contact with them before they can"

no contact from me. dont want young men but thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just tried and I can't message you. "

strange that he did and you cant. it works obviously. bug in system maybe

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"if youve been in contact with them before they can

no contact from me. dont want young men but thank you"
how many have messaged you. maybe they changed there age and changed it back again

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

If you replied to a message from them before they can continue to message you, even with your filters set (something to think about for those people who insist you should reply to all messages....).

If you need to contact Admin best way to do it is directly using the CONTACT link at the bottom of the page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could they not set their age to one within your boundaries and then once the message is sent, swap it back to their original age ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think you might find that if they have messaged you before and you replied, they can message you

slap my wrist if I'm wrong!!

No I know that but thank you no slap from me. Ive never heard from him before tonight"

Zenith is right, if you have exchanged messages with them before the filters came in, they can still contact you and I clicked the report button to find out why as I could not remember one young lad, turns out we exchanged messages a year before but I had forgotten. Thing is if they have changed their profile picture, you might not remember as that is why I didn't. The only way round those is to block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they will be setting their age limits to get around it. Maybe admin could look at having that set so that after registration you can't change it.

obviously if genuine mistakes are made then admin could adjust it once. As you should know when you were born.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just tried and I can't message you. "

Lol, why would you try when your under her age limit?

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