FabSwingers.com forum: Face pic rejection

By *r Mrs Fuckable OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!

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By *oxychicWoman
23 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

Don't bother me ,

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By *vaRose43Woman
23 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"

Doesn’t bother me, can’t appeal to everyone. It’s certainly better than when they send an insult back - although some have been amazing and one is now a nickname my husband calls me

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By *wointo1Couple (MM)
23 weeks ago

Manchester

We don't mind.

It's life. Not everyone you set eyes on you have to fuck!

Attraction needs to be there for everyone

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By *ustamanMan
23 weeks ago

weymouth

Mostly ghosted anyway so it really doesn't make any difference

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By *aitonelMan
23 weeks ago

Travelling

It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.

But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

At first it bothered me but now it doesn’t. Personally I send a message back if someone isn’t for me as manners cost nothing and I feel it’s rude to just ghost or block someone straight away.

It only takes a few seconds to say sorry but not for me.

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By *odgerMooreMan
23 weeks ago

Nowhere

Its almost become the norm - but most will at least say …. Ohhh jesus what happened - was it a fire or chemicals??

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By *r Mrs Fuckable OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

"It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.

But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection. "

Thing is not everyone takes a good picture, we once rejected a couple on here and then met them at a club, and they were much better in real life than on pics, so it's not always true on here.

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By *i-Guy-75Man
23 weeks ago

Na just put on me gimp mask

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I'm the se as you I don't take it to heart you can't be for everyone

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By *oveAndBangCouple
23 weeks ago

where the mood takes us

We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them

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By *r SproutMan
23 weeks ago

the middle

"It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.

But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection.

Thing is not everyone takes a good picture, we once rejected a couple on here and then met them at a club, and they were much better in real life than on pics, so it's not always true on here. "

That’s a good point. So if you did get a face pic that wasn’t great would you give them another chance and ask for a different face pic?

I don’t think I look good on some of mine but others I think I look reasonable

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By *r Mrs Fuckable OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

"We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them

We just say you're a lovely couple but just not quite our types, that way we're not putting one of them down.

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By *empest2KMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

Personally, it doesn't bother me, so I just go ‘meh’ and move on. If you snooze, you lose

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By *r Mrs Fuckable OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

"It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.

But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection.

Thing is not everyone takes a good picture, we once rejected a couple on here and then met them at a club, and they were much better in real life than on pics, so it's not always true on here.

That’s a good point. So if you did get a face pic that wasn’t great would you give them another chance and ask for a different face pic?

I don’t think I look good on some of mine but others I think I look reasonable "

Yeah we've done that before if we can't quite make our minds up.

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By *punk n gushCouple
23 weeks ago

deal

Don't bother us we just move on but if someone is not for us we just Politely say sorry not for us and then block them saves wasting any time

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By *orties CoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincoln

"We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them

We just say you're a lovely couple but just not quite our types, that way we're not putting one of them down. "

If they send something unsolicited, we won't reply.

If after communication we see a face photo and there is no attraction, we are honest with that.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
23 weeks ago

North Angus

Only ever happened once in the entire time I’ve been on here. Such is life

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By *r Mrs Fuckable OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

"We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them

We just say you're a lovely couple but just not quite our types, that way we're not putting one of them down.

If they send something unsolicited, we won't reply.

If after communication we see a face photo and there is no attraction, we are honest with that. "

That's fair

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By *ust want fun 888Man
23 weeks ago

nearby

This is why, it doesn’t bother me that I show my face pic and face in everything else, I know that I’m no oil painting and as said, we’re not for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

To be honest, when I saw the post title, I thought Fab had rejected a face pic for a moment... First reaction was, 'fuck, they accepted mine, how ugly can someone be???' ????

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I guess it just goes to show, even the most beautiful people get knockbacks.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I look like if Shrek and Sloth had a love child so I’m used to it.

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By *amoruUsagiCouple
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

I know my partner was upset and miffed when someone rejected us cos of his face.

Her loss, his pussy eating skills are mind blowing.

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By *aitonelMan
23 weeks ago

Travelling

"I look like if Shrek and Sloth had a love child so I’m used to it."

You don't count! You have a hot wife to fall back on.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"You don't count! You have a hot wife to fall back on. "

Or fall forward on.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
23 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I look like if Shrek and Sloth had a love child so I’m used to it.

You don't count! You have a hot wife to fall back on. "

The only time the face pic worked.

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By *rPunxMan
23 weeks ago

Hull

Seems to be the other way round for me the face pic has been described as ruggedly handsome, its when they see the body I get ghosted

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By *eliWoman
23 weeks ago

Genuinely can't say I've ever experienced that. And the majority of face photos I've sent out are makeupless.

What a win for me.

(I know, I know, I've read the room beautifully)

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

It quickly made me realise how things work online.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Can’t stand photos of myself, so it’s always a pleasant surprise when people say nice things about a face pic.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
23 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

You'll never appeal to everyone so pointless worrying about it.

Likewise not everyone will take your fancy.

If it's got to the point of exchanging face pics then there must have been some interest pre swapping mug shots. That's half the problem when it comes to saying 'no thanks', hence so many will just ghost and/or block.

It's life. Don't sweat it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
23 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't send messages or face pics so I've never experienced this scenario.

The last time I sent a face pic in an opening message was on my very first face pic Friday thread.

I sent it to the couple who had started the thread and they didn't send one back in the spirit of their own thread but they did reply.

They said I might be hot if I was I wasn't fucking Irish.

That was worse than ghosting and told me a lot about the forums and those using them.

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By *aitonelMan
23 weeks ago

Travelling

"Can’t stand photos of myself, so it’s always a pleasant surprise when people say nice things about a face pic."

This is it really.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We always tell them if there’s no attraction and we hope people would tell us - we are all adults and you can’t help who you are attracted to. It’s also going to be a regular occurrence if you are interacting with a number of people.

We have tended to give up on messaging couples now as a 4 way attraction seems that much harder than a 3 way attraction or 2 way if it’s a gent and both guys get on.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
23 weeks ago

Norwich

"It's a downer. It's always going to be a downer.

But you get used to it, you expect it. You get the face rejection, it hurts briefly, move on to the next rejection.

Thing is not everyone takes a good picture, we once rejected a couple on here and then met them at a club, and they were much better in real life than on pics, so it's not always true on here. "

I (Steve) once met a lady who offered to scout locations for an organised munch in the West End (London). Her public pics were really frumpy but when she turned up she was stunning in person. So much so that that I was virtually speechless for the first hour or so

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
23 weeks ago

manchester

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"

Doesn’t sound like it doesn’t bother you.

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By *ove2watchMan
23 weeks ago

weymouth

Not everyone's everyone cup of tea... It's life just get on

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I usually send a face pic to someone if I am chatting - if I am not their type that is fine, but usually we are just chatting and it is nice to know who you are chatting with.

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By *-man24Man
23 weeks ago

northwest

How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!

I’m a big boy and take it on the chin

I even say if I’m not for you thanks for your time take care with face pic

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By *he love catsCouple
23 weeks ago

South Wales

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"

Maybe someone recognised you from your photos and thought it would be better to block you after sending a fake one of themselves.

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By *r Mrs Fuckable OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!

Doesn’t sound like it doesn’t bother you. "

Why is that?

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By *et and WillingCouple
23 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Been on and off here too long to be bothered one bit. Been rejected and ghosted more than one

It happens move on

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By *ascaIMan
23 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

I don’t think anyone (off the forums anyway) has ghosted me when exchanging face pics. Have had the odd few off it but it’s not something that bothers me. It’s all been pretty pleasant including some questionable lookalike comparisons

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By *weetiepie99Woman
23 weeks ago

cardiff

It's not happened to me.....yet!

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By *arkSovereignMan
23 weeks ago

Lancashire

"I don’t think anyone (off the forums anyway) has ghosted me when exchanging face pics. Have had the odd few off it but it’s not something that bothers me. It’s all been pretty pleasant including some questionable lookalike comparisons

He’s a sexy sexy boy ^

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"

At first you do think like Oh damn! I’m ugly. But it’s fine, you can’t be everyone’s type everyone has different attractions. But I’d prefer to get a reply saying “not for me/not our type” it would be nicer than getting ghosted

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By *JcuriousCouple
23 weeks ago

Derby

We always swap pictures before chatting too much so this doesn't happen and it's not a waste of everyones time.

Not bothered about being rejected as you can't be to everyone's fancy.

Miss S x

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By *r imp miss minxCouple
23 weeks ago

Colchester

Doesn’t worry us to be honest.

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By *veryday_Couple_NextdoorCouple
23 weeks ago

Bristol

"We have a more of a problem with opposite side. Never know how to tell someone that they not our cup of tea without hurting them

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That’s literally the response we use, if they aren’t what gives us goosebumps

“We’re really sorry, you’re not our cup of tea”

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By *hilloutMan
23 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Doesn't affect me.

I always reciprocate when on the receiving end of one first.

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By *lueeyedchapMan
23 weeks ago

Nottingham

A case of “to each their own”, move on and tell yourself it’s their loss anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
23 weeks ago

East Sussex

We're not hugely bothered although it does sting a little BUT it doesn't happen very often to us.

If it was a regular occurrence I imagine it would make us wonder why.

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By *ather WickmasMan
23 weeks ago

The Continental

Not arsed.

I simply assume they’re not attracted to me. They’re wrong of course, how could anyone not fancy me? But still, I forget about it and go about my day.

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By *asty tatsyMan
23 weeks ago

london

Doesn’t really bother me, you can’t be everyone cuppa tea and I am confident in the way I look

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By *ou only live onceMan
23 weeks ago

London

"We're not hugely bothered although it does sting a little BUT it doesn't happen very often to us.

If it was a regular occurrence I imagine it would make us wonder why. "

Pretty much this. I know you can never be everyone's cup of tea, but not a complete rhino hide either. I quite like my face though so can get over any "oh, ok!" pretty quickly. Plenty of fish and all that.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
23 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I just promise to wear a Maccies bag on any meets if my mug isn't to their liking.

Costs me a fortune in burgers mind....

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By *aughty_ex_newbiesCouple
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

Totally agree that the face is the most important thing of all and it's hard to describe sometimes what you're looking for and define why someone isn't for you. But I'll never understand why you would ghost someone and make them feel awful like that, how hard is it to say sorry you're a bit young, not my type or whatever?

I think if you've had that you've dodged a bullet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

From people not on the forums, it's happened a few times. From people on the forums, I can't remember it happening. Which makes me question the people on the forums....

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

It happens & it doesn't bother me at all, everyone is attracted to everyone else and that's absolutely fine.

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

Isn't**

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By *oxy jWoman
23 weeks ago

taunton somerset

part of the process and its perfectly fine no one likes every one thats life ... respect it and move on

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"From people not on the forums, it's happened a few times. From people on the forums, I can't remember it happening. Which makes me question the people on the forums....

Pffft. I like your face.

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By *poolGuyMan
23 weeks ago

Liverpool

I find it funny when saying to someone that I have a beard then send a face pic and get back "Oh not into beards".

Of course, could be a kind way of saying "GAGH NO!"

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By *HUSH-Man
23 weeks ago

London

Attraction can be a very odd thing. You can find someone attractive, you know why other people find them attractive but you just don’t think of them that way.

Ariana Grande does this to me. I know she’s beautiful and she has an outrageous face card but sexually she just doesn’t do it for me.

As for me personally on here. I know I’m not everyone’s type and rejection is just part of being on Fab. Best way of looking at it.

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By *aitonelMan
23 weeks ago

Travelling

"From people not on the forums, it's happened a few times. From people on the forums, I can't remember it happening. Which makes me question the people on the forums....

Pffft. I like your face."

Stop proving her point!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I've not experienced it at all yet and now I feel left out

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By *ib.Man
23 weeks ago

Hampshire

It is what it is. Can't realistically be everyone's type. I can't remember ever being offended.

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By *ustincider888Man
23 weeks ago

Preston Ish

Used to it.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

Happens all the time

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By *asilyled1Man
23 weeks ago

ogmore valley

Been told I’m not for them. No offence taken,I know I’m not a handsome bugger so can’t please everyone. Don’t take it to heart

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By *cotsman269Man
23 weeks ago

Falkirk

You get used to it after a while

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By *hilloutMan
23 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I've not experienced it at all yet and now I feel left out

You're clearly doing something right

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
23 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Unfortunately I suffer from Ed Zachery disease, my face looks ed zachery like my ass, but since I have a sexy face I'm all good!

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By * D 777Man
23 weeks ago

bathgate

had it a few times so i know what to expect

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I think people have so many different likes and dislikes some people like bald others not bald, beard no beard.. etc it takes all sorts so I've learnt not to care I've had loads of compliments and been ghosted as much was even once told ew no ta.. lol hey no drama... lol.. soler fox or old and grey.... who knows

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By *affron40Woman
23 weeks ago

manchester

It is what it is. I rarely feel attraction so I expected the same where my face is concerned.

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By *mwirralMan
23 weeks ago

wirral

I have face pic on profile so don't really need to send one

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It doesn’t bother me at all.

Mainly as it’s gotta be Henriette that puts them off.

Couldn’t possibly be me.

I mean…

As if!

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By *ertsalaughMan
23 weeks ago

RENFREW

All the time, but I totally get it, at least 70% base their attraction to the profile on what pictures are there to look at and judge how attracted they find themselves to the person , this doesn't leave alot of profiles open to find out if they could be more attracted to the person after they meet in person and get the full package to judge on.

I think a room should be made up like (The voice ) set up , and after meeting how many actually didn't mind the set up

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
23 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"I have face pic on profile so don't really need to send one"

Nobody likes a show off!

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
23 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole."

That's why doggy was invented!

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By *ex HolesMan
23 weeks ago

Up North

Nobody likes a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle

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By *HUSH-Man
23 weeks ago

London

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole."

Who are you talking to on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Feels shit at first, but then you remember the site you’re on and realise who gives a shit

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By *ellroseWoman
23 weeks ago

Brum

If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site

Preach it

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By *ellroseWoman
23 weeks ago

Brum

"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site

Preach it "

Amen

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By *ertsalaughMan
23 weeks ago

RENFREW

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole."

Well lemon that's probably close to being the correct answer if the picture was just of anyone, but if you're talking about a picture of you that was sent , I think it would not be the guys desperation that made him respond, but the fact that you are a very attractive woman I bet x

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By *ex HolesMan
23 weeks ago

Up North

"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site

FAF?

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By *ellroseWoman
23 weeks ago

Brum

"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site

FAF? "

You charmer you

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By *ex HolesMan
23 weeks ago

Up North

"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site

FAF?

You charmer you

That’s not a rejection

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By *olgateSmile81Man
23 weeks ago

Edinburgh & London

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"

When I was younger I'd feel aggrieved but I'm at the stage in life where I've mislaid the remaining fucks I had to give, and can't say I care too much about trying to find them.

If I message and someone immediately deletes, fine, I'll block them so I don't pester them. If they block me, even better, couldn't be clearer.

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here? "

Your mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum. "

Ouch

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By *ellroseWoman
23 weeks ago

Brum

"If you can’t take rejection then you’re defo on the wrong site

FAF?

You charmer you

That’s not a rejection

Never

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
23 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon?

lol

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By *HUSH-Man
23 weeks ago

London

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum. "

She said I can do better, sorry

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon?

Everyone calls me Lemon.

And yes it works I'm on my way to his house right now to give him a night he will regret.

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum.

She said I can do better, sorry"

She said that to me too.

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By *HUSH-Man
23 weeks ago

London

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum.

She said I can do better, sorry

She said that to me too. "

She was letting you down gently.

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum.

She said I can do better, sorry

She said that to me too.

She was letting you down gently. "

That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam.

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By *illy IdolMan
23 weeks ago

Midlands

I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz."

Mate you’re overthinking it way too much, it’s really not that deep, try to teach yourself to be okay to take criticism, especially here - that’s bro to bro

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By *ellroseWoman
23 weeks ago

Brum

"I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz.

Mate you’re overthinking it way too much, it’s really not that deep, try to teach yourself to be okay to take criticism, especially here - that’s bro to bro

Me thinks he’s being sarcastic

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By *HUSH-Man
23 weeks ago

London

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum.

She said I can do better, sorry

She said that to me too.

She was letting you down gently.

That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam."

I’m more of a marmalade guy, as for attention best I can do is a half arsed response before I turn in for the night.

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By *HUSH-Man
23 weeks ago

London

"I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz."

LMAO

How dare you!

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By *hrobbinHood87Man
23 weeks ago

norwich

Im alright with it. Cant be everyone’s cuppa tea can you ??

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By *illy IdolMan
23 weeks ago

Midlands

"I would massively take it to heart and think how dare they. I would look for any imperfection I could find in them and point out how rich it was of them to reject me for reasons xyz.

LMAO

How dare you!"

Fight fire with fire

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
23 weeks ago

bristol/london

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"

I literally look like a thumb with a face drawn on it, so I take little offence, but I do seriously question women when they say I'm sexy... 1,2,3,4 I declare a thumb war, bitch!

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By *ertsalaughMan
23 weeks ago

RENFREW

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon?

Not sure telling someone that they are attractive is kissing ass , I'm happy to compliment anyone I think deserves it .

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By *ertsalaughMan
23 weeks ago

RENFREW

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Does kissing ass actually lead to the real thing on here? (And who the fuck calls someone lemon?

)

Everyone calls me Lemon.

And yes it works I'm on my way to his house right now to give him a night he will regret. "

Mind bring ur jammies

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By *aul11111500Man
23 weeks ago

Hey how are you doing? X

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By *aul11111500Man
23 weeks ago

Hey there ????

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By *oom_88Man
23 weeks ago

Grays

Now im intrigued why would they reject you both! Canyou please send me a face pic!

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By * Marvellous MessMan
23 weeks ago

From Derby

Face pics are like Marmite, a lot don't like coz they're up their own a****, those that do like are proper genuine people looking for genuine fun

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By *r Mrs Fuckable OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

"Now im intrigued why would they reject you both! Canyou please send me a face pic!

Because we won't be for everyone, that's why.

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By *lueeyedchapMan
23 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Now im intrigued why would they reject you both! Canyou please send me a face pic!

Because we won't be for everyone, that's why. "

To be fair, with an ass like that people might forgive the face.

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By *T89Man
23 weeks ago

Llandudno

Happens all the time lol

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By *agicman22Man
23 weeks ago

Manchester

Probably be better if they don’t respond to either just delete the message or just say not for them so everyone knows the wavelength more than anything

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Ryde

I always refuse face pics, partly because it's rude to judge on appearances alone, but also because I live on an island where privacy is paramount.

I don't go ASKING for face-pics either, as it all comes down to personality - and a good size cock doesn't hinder matters.

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I feel pretty awesome.

It's quite understandable for people to be intimidated by my beauty.

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By *lueeyes3082Man
23 weeks ago

nr kettering

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"

Who in the right mind would ghost you jesus christ

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
23 weeks ago

Wirral.

"Face pics are like Marmite, a lot don't like coz they're up their own a****, those that do like are proper genuine people looking for genuine fun

What a strange viewpoint! If I don't find someone's face attractive, is it really because I'm arrogant?

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By *lfa RomeoMan
23 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

I'm gorgeous, so every time I send a face pic I know they are going to fall in love with me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

No trouble, as I'm not interested in people without attraction.

The best thingd here are when it's simple.

No reply - which some may want to view as ghosting - = no thanks.

It's unrealistic expectations to have, if you think you will match anything but a very tiny minority of people. Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. Accept this and you'll be in the real world and free of unnecessary self-imposed stress

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By *ouno2muchMan
23 weeks ago

Dublin

If it happened I wouldn’t take it personal. Sometimes there isn’t attraction and it’s fine. A polite reply would be the way to go about it.

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By *ythenMan
23 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!"

A simple reply (sorry not for me / us ( from person/ ppl you describe above would be be simply manners .. not being funny but it’s not only single females / couples who receive a lot of messages on here .. Thankfully I get a few .. always welcome … and yes I absolutely respond to all even when I’ve absolutely zero interest… personally I just think it good manners ..

Ok rant over .. happy fabbing all

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By *ythenMan
23 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

"If it happened I wouldn’t take it personal. Sometimes there isn’t attraction and it’s fine. A polite reply would be the way to go about it."

Well said

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By *igrating ladMan
23 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

This happens to me all the time. Chat goes well then as soon as they ask for a face pic….bam I’m blocked. Many times it’s knocked my confidence and made me feel ugly but so use to it now I just makes me think of leaving the site x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

From the site FAQ

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested

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By *-jonMan
23 weeks ago

London

"This happens to me all the time. Chat goes well then as soon as they ask for a face pic….bam I’m blocked. Many times it’s knocked my confidence and made me feel ugly but so use to it now I just makes me think of leaving the site x"

Honestly mate, this site is about enjoying yourself and making connections with people that fit a certain preference. Don’t go beating yourself up. Get amongst it organically and show your charm. If the sites making you beat yourself up. Take a break, it’s not the be all fella.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
23 weeks ago

Sunderland

Not bothered. It'd be a fierce boring world if we all liked everyone's looks

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

With a face like mine, if they don’t reject me, I suspect it’s a fake profile.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
23 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

It's not always a rejection based on your face...... sometimes they weren't interested in meeting in the first place.

They are curious and once they've seen your face they move on to the next person.

I've never been rejected

but that's cos I don't send face pics

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By *bi HaiveMan
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23 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum.

She said I can do better, sorry

She said that to me too.

She was letting you down gently.

That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam.

I’m more of a marmalade guy, as for attention best I can do is a half arsed response before I turn in for the night.

What's the difference between jam and marmalade?

You can't accidentally marmalade your dick in the hoover tube.

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By *scaMan
23 weeks ago

Herts / London / Beyond

I’d be lying if I said it didn’t feel bad, momentarily.

But I appreciate the dynamics at play here, the skewed number of women to single men, the understandably bad reputation that we have, rightly or wrongly. I try not to wear it too heavily.

Completely appreciate the reasoning, but it can feel a bit relentless sometimes, especially when you can’t see the face of the person who is rejecting you.

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By *HUSH-Man
23 weeks ago

London

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum.

She said I can do better, sorry

She said that to me too.

She was letting you down gently.

That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam.

I’m more of a marmalade guy, as for attention best I can do is a half arsed response before I turn in for the night.

What's the difference between jam and marmalade?

You can't accidentally marmalade your dick in the hoover tube.

Marmalade has to be made from a citrus fruit otherwise it’s a jam……sometimes I don’t think the forum is ready for reading my absolute smut.

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By *eddesMan
23 weeks ago

Bridge of Weir

Never happens to Me as nobody ever replies to any message I send anyway so never get to the stage of sending a face photo lol

It wouldn’t bother me though each to their own but common manner would suggest a polite thanks but no thanks would be received

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By *ou only live onceMan
23 weeks ago

London

"Well, it never happens. Men are too desperate and will shag anything if it has a hole.

Who are you talking to on here?

Your mum.

She said I can do better, sorry

She said that to me too.

She was letting you down gently.

That's what she said to me but it completely went over my head when my finger was in her pie because I am desperate for anyone who will give me attention and homemade jam.

I’m more of a marmalade guy, as for attention best I can do is a half arsed response before I turn in for the night.

What's the difference between jam and marmalade?

You can't accidentally marmalade your dick in the hoover tube.

Marmalade has to be made from a citrus fruit otherwise it’s a jam……sometimes I don’t think the forum is ready for reading my absolute smut.

Rubbish, this is the kind of educational content I'm here for. Pointless facts are my thing!

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By *onsShlongMan
23 weeks ago

bury

If rejection bothers someone, fab isn't the right place for them

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By *UN4US2!Couple
23 weeks ago

shropshire, West midlands, England

We all have own tastes and attractions, we understand we are not for everyone one so it does not bother us but some do take it as a pure insult and do get funny with us. I will add, we don't ghost people, we just say "not for us sorry"

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
23 weeks ago

Wherever

I’m not in a societal norms of “pretty” so always expect rejection so it’s a nice surprise when someone actually does like my face.

It doesn’t happen often though and it doesn’t bother me much.

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By *urry BlokeMan
23 weeks ago

Stalybridge

My face is normally on show

I rarely, if ever, make the first move, so I assume that if I get a message they have already seen my mush

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By *etstry_03Man
23 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Has happened to me once. At first bothered me as they contacted me first but then I’ve got over it. It’s a shame but these things happen.

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By *ellowthread2Couple
23 weeks ago

manchester

it sometime doesn’t bother us , but at times we worry that it will expose us to catfish.

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By *ellowthread2Couple
23 weeks ago

manchester

it sometime doesn’t bother us , but at times we worry that it will expose us to catfish.

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By *r Mrs Fuckable OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Stoke

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!

Who in the right mind would ghost you jesus christ "

We're just your average couple? We were ghosted a few days ago after face pics exchanged, it's all good though as we're not everyone's cup of tea.

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By *-man24Man
23 weeks ago

northwest

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

Personally, it honestly doesn't bother us as it's happened a few times and we know we won't be for everyone, but some seem to take it to heart!

Who in the right mind would ghost you jesus christ

We're just your average couple? We were ghosted a few days ago after face pics exchanged, it's all good though as we're not everyone's cup of tea. "

I was thinking the same he must of needed to go to specsavers .You look stunning , at the end of the day it’s manners and common courtesy to say not for me you dodged one there look as it’s a positive I’m sure you’ll both find the one who deserves to be in your company

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By *urvelover87Man
23 weeks ago

stevenage

"How does it make you feel when you send a face picture and then they just ghost you?

After years of fab, being "ghosted" after sending a face pic is one of the few polites way people have rejected me so far. As a general rule, I don't let it affect me and move on...my sense of self worth is not tied to my popularity on a sex site.

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By *ustincamebridgeCouple
23 weeks ago

manchester

This happened to us yesterday. We may not be everyones cup of tea. Others may not be our flavour.

Why be sad about yesterday when you can look forward to tomorrow

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
23 weeks ago

somewhere

We've sent face pics as a couple a few times, we've never had a flat out "no" but we've had people not message us back and that's ok, being part of a couple is tricky!

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By *erbys_coupleCouple
21 weeks ago

Derby

We are fine with it. We are honest if a couple don’t tick our boxes so if happy for others to do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

It's happened a couple of times to me. It honestly doesn't bother me

You can't get offended when someone doesn't find you attractive

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By *oppet22TV/TS
21 weeks ago

huddersfield

It happens dont worry me at all

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By *ife NinjaMan
21 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Have no expectations.

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By *4bimMan
21 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

cannot miss what you never had

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By *hole Nuts n ChillCouple
21 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Happens to best of us.

But there’s plenty of fish/fishes in the sea - you just move on and look forward to next conversation.

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By *ucka39Man
21 weeks ago

Newcastle

Doesn't bother me as it doesn't make up for those who appreciate it, can't always be compatible with everyone

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By *parkle1974Woman
21 weeks ago

Leeds

Plenty more to move onto do I don't give it much thought x

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By *ucka39Man
21 weeks ago

Newcastle

"Plenty more to move onto do I don't give it much thought x"

There's always masks available so don't see what the fuss is all about

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By *gent CoulsonMan
21 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

When you have a face like mine, I don't really let it bother me

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By *ayleigh1111Woman
21 weeks ago

Liverpool

Not had it happen yet but when it does I'm sure I'll get over it 🤣 part of it all I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I live with rejection based on my looks.

I have learned these lessons since I have been here;

You have control over;

Your beliefs

Your attitude

Your thoughts

Your perspective

How honest you are

Who your friends are

What books you read

How often you exercise

How many risks you take

How kind you are to others

How you interpret situations

How kind you are to yourself

How often you say "I love you"

How often you say "thank you"

How you express your feelings

Whether or not you ask for help

How often you practice gratitude

How many times you smile today

The amount of effort you put forth

How much time you spend worrying

Whether or not you judge other people

Whether or not you try again after a setback

How much you appreciate the things you have

Ignore those who ignore you, also finally learn to unlove.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
21 weeks ago

Doncaster

One door closes and another opens, so it's all good,😁

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By *parkle1974Woman
21 weeks ago

Leeds

"Plenty more to move onto do I don't give it much thought x

There's always masks available so don't see what the fuss is all about

Or paper bags

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By *outhern77Man
21 weeks ago

Quinton

Used to bother me a bit when I first came here but then realised I'm not everyone's cuppa so I don't let it affect me now

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By *oom_88Man
21 weeks ago

Grays

Personally I havent experience this myself so I wouldnt know how to take this but then again I havent really interacted with many people in this site

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By *laytonAMan
21 weeks ago

newport

Doesn't bother me most of the time. Sometimes it does though if other things have stressed me. It is what it is I guess.

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By *1SwordMan
21 weeks ago

Hackney

Happens to the best of us lol nothing to take personal

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By *r SproutMan
21 weeks ago

the middle

Most of my chats end once i have sent a face pic

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By *C44Man
21 weeks ago

Newbourne

I have always been aware I'm not the best looking guy on earth so I just have the face pics out there for all to see from the start. Saves the time

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