FabSwingers.com forum: Attending clubs

By *erto94 OP Man
26 weeks ago

Leicester

Im a guy whose trying find the courage to go to my first club event has anyone got any advice

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
26 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Im a guy whose trying find the courage to go to my first club event has anyone got any advice "

Yup.

Suck it up

But actually. Look on the forums here to see what's on near you. You can ask to be put on the guestlist so there's no issues getting in, or if there would be for whatever reason then at least you're informed before turning up and being turned away disappointed and not wanting to try again.

Let them know it's your first time when you get there. Most clubs have buddies or hosts to give tours and explain the etiquette for newbies who might not know. All clubs are different so it's always worth mentioning when somewhere new. Some places have very different rules and etiquette for different events, so make sure you pick a night that feels right for you.

Take ID. Some clubs require membership which usually means a photo ID and recent bill.

No means no. Don't be a dick. And go with the expectation of just a less clothed social event where you might get to see some live porn. Anything more than that is a bonus, not an expectation

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
26 weeks ago

Tamworth

If there are threads or group chats for events , they are useful ways to make connections and people to look out for on the night.

On the night, my suggestion is to turn up with no expectations other than to be social and get to know people. Play is a bonus. Be respectful - don’t get in close or touch without being invited.

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By *erto94 OP Man
26 weeks ago

Leicester

Thank you yeah im just trying to see where best and go from there but thank you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Have a good read of tbe club website.

Make sure the night is the right night for you (not much point going to a bi night if you're not bi)

Bring condoms, some provide them for free, others charge and some don't do either. Best to be prepared.

Make sure you are dressed appropriately (Some clubs have dress codes) and are well groomed- you'd be surprised at how many soap/deodorant dodgers there are.

Check and see if the club has a dress down policy.

Try to get involved with conversations and be yourself.

Have a great night.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
26 weeks ago

Leeds

I went alone to my 1st club night, I was nervous as hell but did it anyway.

Just go, have no expectations, treat it as a night out & anything else is a bonus.

Good luck

Mrs

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By *eordieJeansCouple
26 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Put your big boy pants on and go.

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Have a good shit before you go. Just get in and mingle. Don't sit there on your own and don't follow people about, or wank into your towel.

You'll be fine

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
26 weeks ago

Stoke

Just go. Everyone is there for similar reasons!

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By *ackdaw52Man
26 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Make an effort to mix and socialise.

Sex isn't guaranteed.

Wear your best/cleanest pants.

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By *ffervescentMan
26 weeks ago

winfrith

"Im a guy whose trying find the courage to go to my first club event has anyone got any advice "
nobody will talk to you unless you talk to them so be talkative .

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By *erto94 OP Man
26 weeks ago

Leicester

Just want to say thank you to everyone whose goven me advice so far

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

Be friendly and just chat to people.

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