FabSwingers.com forum: Men with hairy backs and what do you ladies think ?

By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

When I turned around 24 I started to get hair on my back, now my shoulders and half way down my back is hairy,

I've always been conscious of it and I'm embarrassed to show a woman my hairy back because of fear they would find it disgusting! So I've never sunbathed without waxing my back. And when it comes to meeting ladies, I've never let them see me with a hairy back.

So a question to you ladies, what's your thoughts on this

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By *ora the explorerWoman
31 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

You’re a man. Plenty men have hairy backs and bum cheeks. Wouldn’t bother me at all

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"You’re a man. Plenty men have hairy backs and bum cheeks. Wouldn’t bother me at all "

Thank you Nora x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
31 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

My thoughts are this O.P.

There is so much more to a man than body hair.

One may have body hair that is unattractive and another may have body hair thats totally alluring..

If someone is in to you they won't be concerned about it

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By *arkSovereignMan
31 weeks ago

Lancashire

I’m a hairy guy. I trim pretty much everything because that’s what I want to do. I’m not really bothered by how a woman would react to it, or anyone else if I didn’t trim. Its my body at the end of the day. Don’t worry too much OP

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By *wiggy2112Woman
31 weeks ago

some where in Yorkshire

Mmmm I do love a hairy man but trimmed pubes ...I love running my fingers through the hair x

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"My thoughts are this O.P.

There is so much more to a man than body hair.

One may have body hair that is unattractive and another may have body hair thats totally alluring..

If someone is in to you they won't be concerned about it

Thank you Crumpet

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By *onicZMan
31 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

I'm having laser hair removal treatment on my back, shoulders and buttocks.

I had it all waxed as a one off, which turned into a few times and both me and the better half preferred it with no hair. Trouble with waxing was it made me a cactus in bed when it started to grow back so I've gone down the laser route instead.

Bloody expensive but worth it if that's what you want to do.

It's also a funny talking point when I dress down in clubs as hair goes up just past my elbow then stops lol

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"I’m a hairy guy. I trim pretty much everything because that’s what I want to do. I’m not really bothered by how a woman would react to it, or anyone else if I didn’t trim. Its my body at the end of the day. Don’t worry too much OP

Thank you,

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"Mmmm I do love a hairy man but trimmed pubes ...I love running my fingers through the hair x "

Thank you x

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
31 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Run for the hills

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By *affron40Woman
31 weeks ago

manchester

I’m a take someone as I find them kinda chick. But I love hair on a man in general. Wherever it is

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I'll be honest

Normal hair/trimmed hair isn't a problem.

But if it's extremely thick and carpet like covering.

I just can't go there

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By *P994Man
31 weeks ago

Travelling

As a fellow hairy back guy I’m contemplating going the laser removal route for a permanent solution. It’s a pain in the arse, literally at times getting waxed and then shaving regularly. I can’t say I’ve honestly ever come across women who’ve been actively seeking a hairy backed man but I’m happy to be proven wrong

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"I’m a take someone as I find them kinda chick. But I love hair on a man in general. Wherever it is

Thank you saff x

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"I'll be honest

Normal hair/trimmed hair isn't a problem.

But if it's extremely thick and carpet like covering.

I just can't go there "

Thank you Boo, luckily mines not think Like a carpet lol

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By *vaRose43Woman
31 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Doesn’t bother me in the slightest, and has never put me off someone.

I’m married to a bit of a hairy gorilla and I like it. Conversely I don’t mind a man who’s fully smooth too.

My only request re hair for any man is to trim/shave the pubes.

Smooth or hairy… do whatever feels right for you xx

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By *eordieJeansCouple
31 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Back shaving day is an event in my house. Nearly as bad as her hair wash day.

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"Back shaving day is an event in my house. Nearly as bad as her hair wash day."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

"Back shaving day is an event in my house. Nearly as bad as her hair wash day."

You shave her back too

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

I remember the days when my ex used to stand me in the bath and shave my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

OP, just don't go out when there's a full moon

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By *rettCoolMan
31 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"As a fellow hairy back guy I’m contemplating going the laser removal route for a permanent solution. It’s a pain in the arse, literally at times getting waxed and then shaving regularly. I can’t say I’ve honestly ever come across women who’ve been actively seeking a hairy backed man but I’m happy to be proven wrong

Am going through the lazer treatment just now for my back .. not a over night fix but it working well ..

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By *ffervescentMan
31 weeks ago

winfrith

"You’re a man. Plenty men have hairy backs and bum cheeks. Wouldn’t bother me at all "
what about hairy balls ?

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By *eordieJeansCouple
31 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Back shaving day is an event in my house. Nearly as bad as her hair wash day.

You shave her back too

And her front. She’s like sasquatch with a big arse.

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"You’re a man. Plenty men have hairy backs and bum cheeks. Wouldn’t bother me at all what about hairy balls ?"

My balls are always smooth hahaha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
31 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"You’re a man. Plenty men have hairy backs and bum cheeks. Wouldn’t bother me at all what about hairy balls ?"

Oh no. I do like a smooth ball

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"You’re a man. Plenty men have hairy backs and bum cheeks. Wouldn’t bother me at all what about hairy balls ?

Oh no. I do like a smooth ball

Hahahaha . Well you're in luck Nora

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Thank you everyone, for all of your lovely comment's.

I'm definitely feeling the love from you all

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By *onicZMan
31 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

There's a pic on my profile with scratches on my back showing how hairy it used to be. There's another that shows when I had it waxed.

It's a lot better now, the hair is a lot finer and doesn't grow like crazy since I started the laser treatment.

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By *illy IdolMan
31 weeks ago

Midlands

I'm a hairy chap and have a hairy back. But if I was meeting someone I'd always get the beard trimmer on it beforehand. It's never a great look.

The chest hair they'll have to deal with.

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
31 weeks ago

Carlisle

"When I turned around 24 I started to get hair on my back, now my shoulders and half way down my back is hairy,

So a question to you ladies, what's your thoughts on this"

Please stop worrying.

To be fair, it's more a problem if it's uncomfortable for you ie in hot weather, doing sports and getting a bit sweaty etc. Otherwise accept yourself for how you are. If someone can't see past a bit of hair on your back, especially after they have got to know you, are they really worth your time and would you honestly want to spend time with them

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By *urry BlokeMan
31 weeks ago

Stalybridge

"When I turned around 24 I started to get hair on my back, now my shoulders and half way down my back is hairy,

So a question to you ladies, what's your thoughts on this"

I detest it

My ex's loved it

I have mine shaved every month or so, because I don't like it and I am very conscious of it

I think we often project those feelings onto others who couldn't give a hoot

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By *eavenscentitCouple
31 weeks ago

barnstaple

I love man hair

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By *yrdsisWoman
31 weeks ago

Gleam Street

I adore it.... I very much prefer that to a smooth gent.. nothing wrong there either..but my choice would be hairy

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
31 weeks ago

In the clouds

I like a hairy man personally

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By *luesindminorMan
31 weeks ago

Birmingham

I have had my back waxed twice in my life, each time I ended up looking as if I had smallpox on my back for a week and it grew back twice a thick …

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

No, hard pass, not for me, thanks.

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By *inUpProWoman
31 weeks ago

Liverpool

Hair on a man doesn't bother me at all

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
31 weeks ago

tamworth

My exs all had hairy backs, when I got with my Husband, it was strange that he didn't however I got uses to it and now, it's probably my personal preference for male partners to have a smooth, soft back.

It wouldn't be a deal breaker though.

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By *onicZMan
31 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"My exs all had hairy backs, when I got with my Husband, it was strange that he didn't however I got uses to it and now, it's probably my personal preference for male partners to have a smooth, soft back.

It wouldn't be a deal breaker though. "

A smooth back makes the marks easier to see, right?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
31 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I quite like a hairy chest.

I don't mind a hairy back (though not so keen if it's really gorilla thick).

K used to completely buff up until we met. He now leaves his chest hair (which looks/feels amazing) though he still feels more comfortable getting rid of the back hair.

Everyone will be different, so in short, do whatever you feel comfortable with.

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Thank you all for the wonderful comments. Love to you all

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By *ingerTwistWoman
31 weeks ago

Edinburgh

My ex used to let me wax his back. Nothing brought me more joy. He was a good egg letting me do that because I know it was not the most comfortable experience but I loved ripping those strips off.

I think I find no body hair more odd than lots of body hair. But not enough to make it a line in the sand.

And, hairy guys are lovely and cozy to cuddle in winter. And I like going searching for the grey hairs.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
31 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Personally, I take great delight in a hairy man, even a hairy back. But for every woman who adores a fuzzy lover, there'll be one who detests it.

If you're going to feel embarrassed and self-conscious about your unwaxed back then you'll never relax enough to enjoy being naked with someone. Do what makes you feel most comfortable. I've had lovers whose preference is for a clean shaven foof, and I really don't like that on myself. I choose to do what makes me feel most at ease and don't give any thought to whether or not someone whould prefer me to be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I tend to go for smooth twink types but I've seen this guy on social media who is covered in long body hair that looks so strokably soft. Wouldn't mind a few minutes with him

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By *urls and DressesWoman
31 weeks ago

Somewhere near here

I rather like a hairy man, very much do!

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By *lfa Romeo OP Man
31 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

"I tend to go for smooth twink types but I've seen this guy on social media who is covered in long body hair that looks so strokably soft. Wouldn't mind a few minutes with him "

Mines definitely strokable

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By *eliWoman
31 weeks ago

Some won't like it, some will.

Personally, I quite like hairy. Don't mind body hair at all. Sometimes my foof is rather hairy and other times it's smooth. I tend to do what I want with my body hair and that's what you should do OP. What makes you feel comfortable and confident?

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