FabSwingers.com forum: Do first messages even matter?

By *ruceyy OP Man
11 weeks ago

London

Thoughts? Or can someone just sent a picture you find attractive with a little xx

Would a witty or unique one really affect your decision?

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By *educing_EmCouple
11 weeks ago

Tipperary

A witty one will get more consideration than a hey hows you

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By *illy IdolMan
11 weeks ago

Midlands

I think it depends what sex you are.

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By *ularliWoman
11 weeks ago

worcester

I’m nice and will mostly reply to all messages. I don’t expect a guy to send me an essay like a CV.

I like getting to know them.

A face picture is ideal so not to waste each others time if wanting to meet.

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By *radleywigginsMan
11 weeks ago

northwest

For single guys?

First message doesn’t get a win but it can certainly get you a loss.

Women never read messages or profiles anyway. They are comparatively simple and visual creatures who respond better to pictures.

Much better off sending pictures

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
11 weeks ago

Tamworth

Yes.

Too short (‘hey’) - delete.

Cringey/crass (looking for a slut to empty my balls into) - delete.

Evidence of inability to read/respond to preferences (hi, I’m married but…) - delete.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
11 weeks ago

Tamworth

Women never read messages or profiles anyway. They are comparatively simple and visual creatures who respond better to pictures.

Much better off sending pictures"

I mean, no.

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By *eroLondonMan
11 weeks ago

Mayfair

They do matter if I'm going to reply to her. I'm not sold to the notion of having sex with a good-looking dullard.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

You can have the most whitty amusing first message ever,but if the picture ain't great it doesn't really matter.

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By *onkeynutWoman
11 weeks ago

somewhere

A good one will draw my attention, but if they send a face pic and are hot then it doesn’t matter what they say

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By *hapLeedsMan
11 weeks ago

Leeds

It’s nice to chat but yes… if there’s no attraction then why? A photo first saves endless bollocks talking!

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By *WB85Man
11 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They do if you would like a 2nd message.

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By *ingerTwistWoman
11 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I really enjoy responding to imaginative opening emails. I love to see personality coming through, and showing mine. But crass, obviously copied pasted, or just hi with nothing to respond to, gets deleted.

A polite message from someone I'm not into gets an equally polite thank you but no.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
11 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Just a picture?

If it was that attractive I'd probably wander off to reverse image search it. Then shrug it off as obvious fake or possibly true and go read messages with actual text to respond to.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

No. I just go straight in with the second message.

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By *old MemberMan
11 weeks ago

Worcester

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By *asterMeliodasMan
11 weeks ago

Near Keith

"No. I just go straight in with the second message. "

Modern problems require modern solutions.

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By *old MemberMan
11 weeks ago

Worcester

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By *hilloutMan
11 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

They do.

If the message is well crafted, you tick their requirements and they fancy your face pic, yes.

May the odds be ever in your favor

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
11 weeks ago

Leeds

They don't bother me to be honest as long as it's not a cock pic.

If I like the profile I'll reply if I don't I won't.

The 2nd and 3rd messages guage wheather we are going to get along or not, some are like pulling teeth.

Mrs

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By *r John WickMan
11 weeks ago

The Continental

Not really, no.

Fancy a fuck? works for me every time.

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By *lfa RomeoMan
11 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

I find a polite introduction with a face picture attached works

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By *eyond PurityCouple
11 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

First impressions count - whilst we don’t expect Shakespeare we would hope that someone reading our profile would think that they have a lot to mention.

A first message can help get you further but equally it can end it dead based on the content.

If someone sends dick pics then it’s an instant delete regardless.

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