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"But how to ask that without causing offence or ruining the friendship if the answer might be no!" If it was me I'd probably open a bottle of wine and state my case. If she/he feels the same way everyone's happy. If she/he feels a little disrespected and hurt that you don't want an actual relationship, just sex as a sort of add on to your friendship then it's going to get tricky. | |||
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"I don't have any experience of it but I reckon transitioning from friends to lovers would mean you'd need to ask the question "would you be interested in having sex with me on the following terms?" " Romance truly isn't dead | |||
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"I don't have any experience of it but I reckon transitioning from friends to lovers would mean you'd need to ask the question "would you be interested in having sex with me on the following terms?" Romance truly isn't dead " Lol. Seriously though. That's essentially what he wants. Sex without committing to a full relationship where romance might be involved. She might want that too and if so its a match made in heaven but there's no romance. | |||
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"Usually the other way round with me " Exactly what I was going to say! Me too! | |||
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" Seriously though. That's essentially what he wants. Sex without committing to a full relationship where romance might be involved. She might want that too and if so its a match made in heaven but there's no romance. " Isn't that what most in the swinging community are looking for? | |||
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"Usually the other way round with me Exactly what I was going to say! Me too!" | |||
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" Seriously though. That's essentially what he wants. Sex without committing to a full relationship where romance might be involved. She might want that too and if so its a match made in heaven but there's no romance. Isn't that what most in the swinging community are looking for? " I don't believe they are, no. | |||
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"But how to ask that without causing offence or ruining the friendship if the answer might be no!" That's the risk you take though unfortunately. I will say I've lost a few male friends due to them wanting more. Just be honest and see what happens. Mrs | |||
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"What are your experiences of being able to go from the friend zone to FWB? Looking for some advice pretty please " Move on to other things would be my advice. Broaching it probably ends the friendship | |||
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"What are your experiences of being able to go from the friend zone to FWB? Looking for some advice pretty please " The answer is simple. You don't and you dont get put in the freind zone to begin with. As far as the lady in question is concerned, you're a freind, nothing more. If she was sexually attracted to you, she'd have made it clear already and you would have been having sex already. It's just how women are im afraid. Some here may poo poo that idea but I assure you, since getting out of my teens and being a a bit of a hound, I've learnt a few things. One of those big lessons is women rarely freind zone guys they are into. If she wanted it, you'd have had it already. As such I'm happy to say I've never been freindzoned yet. This is of course purely in the context of non swingers. So youre in that zone and now youre now wanting to change that dynamic. Whilst it's not impossible to get out of it, there's a chance that's it amd the friendship will.be over now. Personally....I find women like assertive confident (but polite) and honest men so you can just go for it and live with the possibility that your friendship.is over. Alternatively you can stay quiet, keep the friendship as is and lie about your desire to sleep with her. But to me that's weird. If you wanna bang someone, your not really being a freind and it can get weird. Go for it. Own it. Accept the outcome. She deserves to know your true intentions. | |||
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