FabSwingers.com forum: Guys do you get bored….

By *issBehavexxx OP Woman
28 weeks ago

essex

If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

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By *edeWoman
28 weeks ago

the abyss

With the right person? Seconds

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By *eordieJeansCouple
28 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I don’t get bored but I probably will cum first, roll over and go to sleep.

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

So long as she's enjoying it.

That's what matters, surely. X

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By *untime 300Man
28 weeks ago

doncaster

Enjoy not just having sex lots playing stops boredom lol

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
28 weeks ago

Reigate

As long as she’s enjoying it, take as long as you want, I wouldn’t get bored.

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By *arrySwindonMan
28 weeks ago

Swindon

What’s the rush

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By *ysteryIncMan
28 weeks ago

Portishead

Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

If you’re bored during sex, something is wrong.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
28 weeks ago

Newmill

Not at all. Orgasms are great, but they're never the be-all-end-all goal of the experience. I enjoy the journey, regardless of what destination it leads to. As long as everyone is having fun, that's what matters. As soon as the fun stops for any participant, so should the sex, IMO, but that's not quite the same thing as you've asked.

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By *urnedoutniceagainMan
28 weeks ago

louth

Only if it becomes totally one sided and it ends up being all about them. Sex is give and take and should be mutual pleasure

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"If you’re bored during sex, something is wrong. "
. I'll bring you a good book.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Depends! By myself can be a quickie 5 mins or an edge session that can go on for hours depending on horny I am

Sex, normally a while as I tend to enjoy it

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By *avexxMan
28 weeks ago

cheshire

nope never get bored..

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"If you’re bored during sex, something is wrong. . I'll bring you a good book.

Don’t bring a boring book!

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
28 weeks ago

Next Door

I've had sex and not been able to cum, doesn't mean I didn't enjoy it or get bored. Other times I've cum quickly and then gone on and cum a few times moreand the guy has cum more than once.

It's the person whom you are having pleasure with and not the length of time.

So no I don't get bored.

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"If you’re bored during sex, something is wrong. . I'll bring you a good book.

Don’t bring a boring book!

I was thinking 'the Karma Sutra'.

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By *hePleasurerMan
28 weeks ago

Cheshire

The longer she takes, the hornier I get. As long as I'm giving her the stimulation she wants, I'm very happy to keep it up as long as she likes.

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By *he KakapoMan
28 weeks ago

A nice rock

Women cum?

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By *iaandjamesCouple
28 weeks ago

Mia doesn't rush with foreplay, she will let herself stay on the edge for a very long time.

We have come across guys who mistake that for her being less interested in the climax for herself, and who have stopped what they are doing and moved onto penetration.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
28 weeks ago

Wherever

Oftentimes I don’t cum at all.

Especially when he keeps asking “are you close?”

Nope.

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By *eroLondonMan
28 weeks ago

Mayfair

Does one have to climax/orgasm to enjoy great sex? Sex is holistic for me and not just the act of intromission.

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By *agic.MMan
28 weeks ago

Orpington

"If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

Not at all...the build up to the orgasm is just as important as the orgasm for me...the more build up, the more intense the orgasm

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By *ib.Man
28 weeks ago

Hampshire

Nah.

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By *olden PoleMan
28 weeks ago

London

No boredom doesn’t factor into sex with me. She can cum as quick as she likes or as long as it takes. I’m there to enjoy her regardless.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
28 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Seriously, do you set a stopwatch? Who honestly times it?

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By *oodmessMan
28 weeks ago

yumsville

Does she not get herself off or is it on on wonderbollock?

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By *amescoupleCouple
28 weeks ago

north walsham

Bored no. Frustrated and worrying somethings wrong maybe.

This morning being a prime example.

C just couldnt get there. Nearly an hour of foreplay and sex and she said to me 'its one of those days, im just not gojng to cum'.

It happens from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

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By *oodmessMan
28 weeks ago

yumsville

^^ or is it all on wonderbollock

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

If they're doing it right not long at all, even though I'll try to fight it from happening the first time.

Keep doing it right, and I'll be coming all night long!

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I usually know in the first 5 mins if it's gonna happen.

If it isn't I just try my dam hardest to get him to finish so I can go to sleep.

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By *ansoffateMan
28 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I pass her the wand and put Netflix on.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

On my own, with my womaniser.. Minutes

With a man.. Unlikely

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By *poolGuyMan
28 weeks ago

Liverpool

Absolutely not. Longer the better, more opportunities for play

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"On my own, with my womaniser.. Minutes

With a man.. Unlikely

Fancy a WFM?

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By *iberius61Man
28 weeks ago

Pontefract

No, but I don't really fixate on orgasm, that's a byproduct of enjoyment, but it's not the only thing that's important is it?

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By *issBehavexxx OP Woman
28 weeks ago

essex

"On my own, with my womaniser.. Minutes

With a man.. Unlikely

I think my womaniser has desensitised me because I use it so much

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By *_Mr.K_xMan
28 weeks ago

North Worcestershire

Definitely not... it's about the journey, not the destination.

But if I'm honest, it's not a problem I've encountered much. Time is never an issue

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
28 weeks ago

Hull

With a woman I've always found the mind to be her biggest erogunous zone, ignite that pre meet/meet and she'll cum really quickly by and large, well in my experience.

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"On my own, with my womaniser.. Minutes

With a man.. Unlikely

I think my womaniser has desensitised me because I use it so much

If I was 10 years younger I'd offer to test your sensitivity.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"On my own, with my womaniser.. Minutes

With a man.. Unlikely

I think my womaniser has desensitised me because I use it so much

Fucking love mine - killed 2, on my 3rd

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By *mmaleiaWoman
28 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"Does one have to climax/orgasm to enjoy great sex? "

Yes

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By *ittlebirdWoman
28 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

He says cum now and I cum

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By *eliz NelsonMan
28 weeks ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

"I pass her the wand and put Netflix on."

Win, win situation

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By *omptationMan
28 weeks ago

liverpool

Doesn’t bother me, I like to go down on a woman and make her cum at least once before we fuck anyway, and as I love licking she can take all the time she wants to enjoy it

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By *ell GwynnWoman
28 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I take ages. It's not what I'm having sex for, so I'm not too bothered. Occasionally it doesn't happen at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I can never get bored of naked fun, penetration or not.

Pre-during-after care is a must for me, I don’t need to ejaculate to have fun and enjoy the intimacy and contact.

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By *ad NannaWoman
28 weeks ago

East London

Are we talking about during penetration only?

I can be turned on from kissing and have an orgasm pretty quickly when he penetrates me, or strokes my clit.

If someone goes in without much foreplay it can take a lot longer.

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By *apkingMan
28 weeks ago

Stockport

"If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

The longer it takes for both of you to cum the naughtier the sex gets, so definitely do not get bored

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By *ansoffateMan
28 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

He says cum now and I cum

Don't you fucking dare cum works on me

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

Nope

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By *enegadeMMan
28 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

The sleep kicks in before the boredom once I’ve cum

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

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By *rBobbMan
28 weeks ago

Birmingham

"If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

He says cum now and I cum

This is very true

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By *4bimMan
28 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

She's faking it

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By *idsAndyMan
28 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable."

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X"

Cumming is such a small fraction of the pleasure in sharing intimacy with others.

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X

Cumming is such a small fraction of the pleasure in sharing intimacy with others. "

Get ya coat luv, you've pulled

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X"

Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.

Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X

Cumming is such a small fraction of the pleasure in sharing intimacy with others. "

Yes someone gets it, obviously a woman

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By *ot to giggleWoman
28 weeks ago

Coventry

the intimacy, touching, enjoying each other - then it just happens

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By *4bimMan
28 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

"the intimacy, touching, enjoying each other - then it just happens

What does?

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By *urry BlokeMan
28 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I'd go and put the kettle on, ask her to let me know when she's done

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By *ansoffateMan
28 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"I pass her the wand and put Netflix on.

Win, win situation

Everyone goes home in a limo

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
28 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X

Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.

Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? "

Absolutely this!!

I rarely cum from sex, but I enjoy every moment of it.

If the aim of the guy I'm with is for both of us to cum, and not to just have a really good time and good fun regardless, then I'd rather not bother. I'm not a challenge, thanks very much

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By *hortishblondeWoman
28 weeks ago

Essex

All guys get bored

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"All guys get bored "

Pfffft. Never.

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By *xbabyxxxWoman
28 weeks ago

Bradford

I take ages to cum even with someone I'm really comfortable with

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By *hortishblondeWoman
28 weeks ago

Essex

"All guys get bored

Pfffft. Never.

99% Lol

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By *riel13Woman
28 weeks ago

Northampton

Luckily, penetrative sex can make me cum very quickly, if the connection is good

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"All guys get bored

Pfffft. Never.

99% Lol "

So I'm in the 1% club.

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By *issBehavexxx OP Woman
28 weeks ago

essex

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X

Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.

Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? "

Exactly this. There does seem to sometimes be a pressure. Why didn’t you come oh I must be shit never mind I’ve had a fantastic time regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I'm here for a good time not a quick time, I like it when we both take our time and have a good orgasm.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X

Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.

Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? "

Very true, love the sensual touching, the warm soft feel of a woman and just being with them intimately is a very enjoyable feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

No time at all but once I'm Cumming it's hard to stop

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By *4bimMan
28 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

yes i do get bored. mainly of other people.

they take up too much time if you let them and getting nowhere.

time is in short supply. mine could end tomorrow why let people dominate it who frankly couldnt give a toss about you!

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By *r AnalyticMan
28 weeks ago

Nuneaton

"If it takes a woman ages to cum?

And girls in general how long does it take you to cum?

Just curious really

Never get bored

In fact it makes me think of ways to get her there, ask what she was or is enjoying then focus on that.

However I've never had an issue as i read the body when Im doing things.

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By *idsAndyMan
28 weeks ago

Worcestershire

"Sometimes especially new meets I won't cum at all, if they get bored then tough

In all seriousness it's not all about cumming and the ones that make it so are usually the least enjoyable.

Soooo if not cumming what do you get from it? X

Just because I don't cum doesn't at all mean the sex is rubbish, the feeling of sex itself is very enjoyable I don't need to cum to have fun, some blokes don't get this, hence why so many fake it.

Do you not enjoy the sex before you cum? "

Yes absolutely and I do get that cumming isn't the be all and end all.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Don’t remember ever being bored, mind you it was a very long time ago.

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By *ffervescentMan
28 weeks ago

winfrith

well you know what causes boredom don't you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Don't get bored but if I cum first I stay hard for ages after so I keep going so she cums and sometimes i cum twice winner winner

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
28 weeks ago

Leeds

Quite the opposite! I find the challenge a turn on and I enjoy giving as much as receiving so it’s not a negative for me

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By *eliWoman
28 weeks ago

It doesn't take me long at all to come. Nor does it take much. And I can come multiple times.

Buuut... there are varying degrees of intensity. It's rare that I'll have multiple explosive, all over orgasms with someone. I can also be quite easily... out of that mindset and find my mind wandering. Or find the other person exhausted whilst my body is aching for more release.

I think sometimes people think multi-orgasms are wonderful things. They can be but quite often I'm left not fully sated. Trying to not wank whilst the other is sleeping. I worry that the other person gets bored of giving me pleasure.

I also don't think orgasms are the most important part of sex. Which sounds a bit odd coming from me but they're not.

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