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By *ay W. Beau OP   Woman
20 weeks ago

Wolvo

The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false?

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false? "

Like a blackhole warping light.

The larger the hole, the more warped the light.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill


"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false? "

I'd be inclined to agree that this is true.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Herts

On here I think the warped perceptions create the ego. And there are some very big egos on here.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
20 weeks ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

One for 'Johari's Window?'

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"On here I think the warped perceptions create the ego. And there are some very big egos on here. "

Actually yeh, can agree with this too.

So many females and couples on here have a hot air balloons worth of inflation from the attention they get from the hive.

I don't think it serves their self image well. Have interacted with some right horrible couples/females.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I would say that an ego regardless of size will have an effect on the perceptions of the world around it

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false? "

Surely that's not unique to Fabland though?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false? "

Neither and both.

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By *illy IdolMan
20 weeks ago

Midlands

Take it all with a pinch of salt. It's an online chatroom.

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By *eliciouslyFilthyGentMan
20 weeks ago

Newcastle

Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!"

What is a professional swinger ?

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?"

They have business cards

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By *he love catsCouple
20 weeks ago

South Wales


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?"

We carry our condom's in an attaché case.

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By *eliciouslyFilthyGentMan
20 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?"

My own term.A clique of people I knew through other swingers that thought extremely highly of themselves, and expected a level of respect, and almost deference due the amount of years active/partied attended etc.

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By *illy IdolMan
20 weeks ago

Midlands


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

They have business cards "

This is genius...

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By *eliciouslyFilthyGentMan
20 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

They have business cards "

These people actually did!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

They have business cards

This is genius..."

In 1940 maybe .......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

They have business cards "

I have calling cards. Does that count ?

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

They have business cards

I have calling cards. Does that count ?"

Do you leave one at the scene of every swing?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

We carry our condom's in an attaché case. "

Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's

Can anyone think of a fourth C ??

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

They have business cards

I have calling cards. Does that count ?

Do you leave one at the scene of every swing?"

Oh yes ..... but they are Snap Cards n disappear by the time people find them

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By *he love catsCouple
20 weeks ago

South Wales


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

We carry our condom's in an attaché case.

Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's

Can anyone think of a fourth C ??"

Crumpet

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By *he love catsCouple
20 weeks ago

South Wales


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

We carry our condom's in an attaché case.

Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's

Can anyone think of a fourth C ??

Crumpet "

It's all about the crumpet right

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By *ickshawedCouple
20 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"The larger the hole, the more warped the light."

My hole definitely warps light

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

We carry our condom's in an attaché case.

Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's

Can anyone think of a fourth C ??"

I'm almost insulted on your behalf that "crustaceans" wasn't your immediate contribution. :P

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Covent Garden

This is one of those arcane threads that makes sense to most people...but not to me.

I (still) don't understand the question or, more to the point, the context.

Indeed, what's "Fabitivity" ?

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill


"This is one of those arcane threads that makes sense to most people...but not to me.

I (still) don't understand the question or, more to the point, the context.

Indeed, what's "Fabitivity" ?"

It's a play on "Theory of Relativity" with the Rel replaced by Fab, because that's the site we're on. At least that's how I parsed it.

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By *ansoffateMan
20 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"One for 'Johari's Window?' "

Ooh I'm impressed.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false? "

It's all relative!

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By *ustful_LionessWoman
20 weeks ago

Heaven-sent


"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false? "

Certainly true for most it does warp their perception, however I do know some very grounded amazing chaps on here who come across quite loud in their approach but are completely different when you’re alone with them.. but there are so many huge egos on here and the peacocking I see is quite funny at times, however men on here are quite outnumbered so they have to stand out from the crowd of all those unwanted photos that land in inboxes. When you have been acting with such a persona for so long, it starts to become part of you.

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By *ansoffateMan
20 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"This is one of those arcane threads that makes sense to most people...but not to me.

I (still) don't understand the question or, more to the point, the context.

Indeed, what's "Fabitivity" ?"

It's referencing General Relativity I think.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

We carry our condom's in an attaché case.

Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's

Can anyone think of a fourth C ??

I'm almost insulted on your behalf that "crustaceans" wasn't your immediate contribution. :P"

Nobody wants crabs!

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

We carry our condom's in an attaché case.

Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's

Can anyone think of a fourth C ??

I'm almost insulted on your behalf that "crustaceans" wasn't your immediate contribution. :P

Nobody wants crabs! "

That's exactly why it would have been so funny. :P

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By *agatoXXXMan
20 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

My own term.A clique of people I knew through other swingers that thought extremely highly of themselves, and expected a level of respect, and almost deference due the amount of years active/partied attended etc.

"

You used the "C" word!

Batten down the hatches!

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By *ellhungvweMan
20 weeks ago

Cheltenham


"Take it all with a pinch of salt. It's an online chatroom."

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By *eliciouslyFilthyGentMan
20 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

My own term.A clique of people I knew through other swingers that thought extremely highly of themselves, and expected a level of respect, and almost deference due the amount of years active/partied attended etc.

You used the "C" word!

Batten down the hatches!"

Oops

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By *ansoffateMan
20 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Quantum entanglement will restore balance to the force.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
20 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Quantum entanglement will restore balance to the force."

We'll see, that remains to be proven!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

We carry our condom's in an attaché case.

Cards, Condoms AND Cases... the 3 c's

Can anyone think of a fourth C ??

Crumpet

It's all about the crumpet right "

Phew ....... I thought you might say Cu..........stard.

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By *rispyDuckMan
20 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you


"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false? "

True

Living in a delusion lol

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By *ansoffateMan
20 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Quantum entanglement will restore balance to the force.

We'll see, that remains to be proven!"

Today's truths are tomorrow's myths

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By *hapLeedsMan
20 weeks ago

Leeds

Somewhat of an enigma?

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"The more massive an ego, the more it warps the perceptions, persons, around it.

True or false? "

I’m not sure how to consider this; albeit It’s a great question.

My opinion on this is dependent on the ‘Type’.

1) So those hardcore swinger types, who keep the turnstiles going on new persons, body count and number of experiences increasing, there is no Ego. There is only their joy. However it maybe less of a Halo experience, but overall no ego and lots of fun

And connection to those they share with.

2) Those Halo Fabbers, I don’t think in all cases it’s ego, I think ego is being confused in most cases with confidence.

These Halo players, have a sense of gravitas and confidence that once you get captured with a certain a certain radius of them, it’s hard to escape.

It's born from confidence that with their experience they know and understand the needs and how in order have fun experiences.

3) I cannot sit here pass opinion without going vulnerable, I’m not as experienced as many here in terms of the lifestyle, and I struggle to meet the right persons who strive connection; I’m no player: but I have v-good experience in charisma and gravitas and that’s what I see here. There maybe moments when grounding, aligning ones Northstar is useful.

But I get it, I see what some of you see, but from a different lens. They’re using the tools and experiences to increase their opportunities. Does not make them bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

The power of the mind is absolutely incredible and so total believe and manifestation are scarily powerful as a result

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

We carry our condom's in an attaché case. "

You say that I've seen guys at a club in Belgium that had a special little arm strap or leg strap bag with condoms in them.

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By *HUSH-Man
20 weeks ago

London


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

They have business cards "

Look at that subtle off-white colouring. The tasteful thickness of it. Oh, my god.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

20 weeks ago

East Sussex

Any size of ego warps perceptions.

People are people, they perceive life according to their experiences

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By *ealitybitesMan
20 weeks ago

Belfast

We all have an ego which manifests itself in different ways dependant on the individual.

I even say on my profile that I like having mine massaged now and again but as soon as it drifts into blowing smoke up my arse I'm not interested.

I've turned down offers from people I've chatted to for weeks or months and the majority of those have been fine with my decision.

I have also turned down people I've never chatted to but who felt it acceptable to send opening messages with instructions or demands.

Those poor creatures told me it was my loss, I should be grateful for any attention and I was an idiot.

They also asked did I not know who they were and that they could end my fab journey with a few messages?

As they all had 80-100 verifications there was no doubt others were happy to fuck them just to be associated or remain relevant and their reaction told me they weren't used to the word no.

I have made and lost fab friends because I wouldn't give them continual validation or get involved in drama aimed at those who were getting more attention than they were.

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By *ife NinjaMan
20 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?

They have business cards

I have calling cards. Does that count ?"

I have been to a club where a lady had printed up some calling cards with her fab details on

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By *emptmeonceWoman
20 weeks ago

the Northern Hemisphere

I think we all have an ego to some extent, but some take it to a whole new level which is very unappealing.

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By *nnCeeWoman
20 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Back when I used to go to clubs and parties regularly, there were plenty of “professional swingers”.This hasn’t changed, and their egos haven’t diminished any!

What is a professional swinger ?"

Someone who gets paid for it???

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