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"I don't enjoy it if a man has stubble. It's like bing rubbed with sandpaper. " ,,, and this is why im always clean shaven  | |||
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"I just find it very meh, sometimes irritating, sometimes annoying as fuck. The only person I ever liked it with is my ex, which is a tad annoying considering how much I hate the guy. " What was the difference, do you think? | |||
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"I just find it very meh, sometimes irritating, sometimes annoying as fuck. The only person I ever liked it with is my ex, which is a tad annoying considering how much I hate the guy. What was the difference, do you think? " He was good at it. | |||
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"I was chatting to a vanilla guy recently and he mentioned that he didn’t find a woman’s genitals attractive, ugly were in fact the words he used. Apparently it looks like an axe wound and looked much more interesting in lingerie. I was dumbfounded to be honest… We no longer chat. I am an advocate of cunnilingus both giving and receiving, for me it’s a beautiful experience." He’s not wrong really. No genitalia is pretty u tik the horn takes over. | |||
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"I love giving to women can do for hours" Is she watching the Lord of the Rings trilogy when you’re down there? | |||
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"I don't enjoy it if a man has stubble. It's like bing rubbed with sandpaper. " This is the reasons I condition my beard nice a soft. | |||
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"I was chatting to a vanilla guy recently and he mentioned that he didn’t find a woman’s genitals attractive, ugly were in fact the words he used. Apparently it looks like an axe wound and looked much more interesting in lingerie. I was dumbfounded to be honest… We no longer chat. I am an advocate of cunnilingus both giving and receiving, for me it’s a beautiful experience." It bleeds like an axe wound at times as well... Mr | |||
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"I love giving to women can do for hours" 5 mins is all I need, going down for hours fuck off Mr | |||
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"It depends. There are those who go down with the soul focus of making me cum from oral. That approach never works. Then there are those who go down just because they want to. That’s ok. Just maybe appreciate the fact that I’d actually prefer to feel their cock inside me more than their tongue. I’m all about their cock. Be it soft and floppy or hard and raring to go. I find my pleasure there." So, when you say 'That's ok' do you mean you enjoy it but only as a build up to the main course, or are you indulging them but waiting somewhat impatiently for them to finish so you can move on? | |||
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"I love giving to women can do for hours" 
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"It's rare I enjoy oral, I'm far happier being the giver. Why is that? There's a myriad of reasons really. One - I feel like it can quite oft be seen as a sort of requirement? Like oh I'll give you a few lacklustre licks and then I can put my penis inside you. Honestly, I'd rather skip straight to it in those times. And then it's how it's done. I like passion, for a slow build up interspersed with gentle kisses. When they lap at me with a sort of ferocity it's hot for the first few seconds and then my already rather sensitive clit becomes overly sensitive. I want it to be something they really want because they really want to taste me, to have me come on their lips. I also find it takes me a lot to fully relax around someone. It's far easier for me to get in to that fuckdr*nk state, not thinking about it when I'm giving someone else oral. When it's happening to me, unless I'm really relaxed I'm aware of how slick I can get, I notice little things and can't quite get in to it. Sometimes though? Sometimes I can crave it with another. Normally it's because of how they kiss me. Hold me. Because it feels like a natural expression of their desire for me." That's a typically detailed and beautifully expressed response Meli, thank-you. | |||
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"It depends. There are those who go down with the soul focus of making me cum from oral. That approach never works. Then there are those who go down just because they want to. That’s ok. Just maybe appreciate the fact that I’d actually prefer to feel their cock inside me more than their tongue. I’m all about their cock. Be it soft and floppy or hard and raring to go. I find my pleasure there. So, when you say 'That's ok' do you mean you enjoy it but only as a build up to the main course, or are you indulging them but waiting somewhat impatiently for them to finish so you can move on?" Enjoy it (briefly) but just as part of build up. For me there’s a time limit where it goes from being enjoyable to just being plain annoying. | |||
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"I was chatting to a vanilla guy recently and he mentioned that he didn’t find a woman’s genitals attractive, ugly were in fact the words he used. Apparently it looks like an axe wound and looked much more interesting in lingerie. I was dumbfounded to be honest… We no longer chat. I am an advocate of cunnilingus both giving and receiving, for me it’s a beautiful experience." Talk about snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. | |||
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"So seems like the guys LOVE giving females oral and the females tolerate it, but don't seem to enjoy it "Do you think the title of the conversation might have rather skewed the sample? | |||
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"I love receiving oral. Caveat being, it has to be from someone who loves giving oral. Someone who just does it to get on with something else will not give oral that’s to my liking. What do I like about oral? If done right, I love the anticipation. From the kissing (of my lips on my face) and how they use their tongue and lips to arouse me and make my mind wonder oh wow, they are really good with their mouth. The teasing where they don’t rush to put their mouth on my cunt but spend time teasing between my legs whilst completely ignoring my cunt for ages. Little kisses, bites, licks between my legs and all around my cunt but never directly on my cunt. They watch my reactions. They see my increased wetness but don’t gloat. They show me eagerness to devour me but equally have self control to not devour me in that moment but make me wait. They slow down every sensation until I’m at the point of gagging for them to taste me. When they finally do make contact with my cunt their mouth continues the slow, soft sensations. They take the time to engage all our senses over and over again. Awakening their tastebuds, taking in my horny scent, stroking me all over, etc. They use their tongue to trace every bit of my anatomy. They lap up my wetness and at the same time encourage the production of more. They feast on the physical changes they can see happening to me from my nipples becoming more stiff to me biting my lip or my one eye closing. They may stop along the way to kiss me again, or whisper in my ear. They don’t have a set plan or goal. They simply want to intensify all the sensations of pleasure I’m feeling for as long as possible. They go back and begin the process again licking, kissing, biting, sucking. Gently unveiling my throbbing clit. Being gentle and not aggressively sucking or licking. Or finger blasting. They include digital stimulation along with their mouth. They are focused and aware of my reactions, and willing to listen to my body as well as communicate with words. They are happy to listen to feedback or suggestions. They don’t focus on making me orgasm. They focus on the immediate, in the moment, pleasure they see me enjoying. They are willing to change things when it appears I’m not enjoying it or if I say it’s not the best feeling. They are enamoured with my body and how I’m enjoying the sensations they are helping me experience. They are present in that moment and don’t utter words such as “come for me” or other similar phrases. They see me in my vulnerability and find beauty in that. This combination of all of that is what I most love about a good oral giver. They aren’t focused solely on a cunt that they know they can make orgasm. They don’t proclaim they can make me orgasm. They see everything else that’s beautiful about me in all my nakedness, the pleasure of sharing in my pleasure, they enjoy being a part of the journey, and aren’t focused on the destination. They are observant and detail oriented. Afterwards they hold me and bask in my euphoria without quickly rushing to the next thing. They squeeze me tightly. They kiss me gently. They stroke my hair. They let me ride out my orgasms. It can lead to more but it can also be enough on its own. " This is exactly how it should be! I do it for my own pleasure as well as the receivers! I’d say it’s probably one of my best skills…least my verifications will testify to that | |||
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"I love receiving oral. Caveat being, it has to be from someone who loves giving oral. Someone who just does it to get on with something else will not give oral that’s to my liking. What do I like about oral? If done right, I love the anticipation. From the kissing (of my lips on my face) and how they use their tongue and lips to arouse me and make my mind wonder oh wow, they are really good with their mouth. The teasing where they don’t rush to put their mouth on my cunt but spend time teasing between my legs whilst completely ignoring my cunt for ages. Little kisses, bites, licks between my legs and all around my cunt but never directly on my cunt. They watch my reactions. They see my increased wetness but don’t gloat. They show me eagerness to devour me but equally have self control to not devour me in that moment but make me wait. They slow down every sensation until I’m at the point of gagging for them to taste me. When they finally do make contact with my cunt their mouth continues the slow, soft sensations. They take the time to engage all our senses over and over again. Awakening their tastebuds, taking in my horny scent, stroking me all over, etc. They use their tongue to trace every bit of my anatomy. They lap up my wetness and at the same time encourage the production of more. They feast on the physical changes they can see happening to me from my nipples becoming more stiff to me biting my lip or my one eye closing. They may stop along the way to kiss me again, or whisper in my ear. They don’t have a set plan or goal. They simply want to intensify all the sensations of pleasure I’m feeling for as long as possible. They go back and begin the process again licking, kissing, biting, sucking. Gently unveiling my throbbing clit. Being gentle and not aggressively sucking or licking. Or finger blasting. They include digital stimulation along with their mouth. They are focused and aware of my reactions, and willing to listen to my body as well as communicate with words. They are happy to listen to feedback or suggestions. They don’t focus on making me orgasm. They focus on the immediate, in the moment, pleasure they see me enjoying. They are willing to change things when it appears I’m not enjoying it or if I say it’s not the best feeling. They are enamoured with my body and how I’m enjoying the sensations they are helping me experience. They are present in that moment and don’t utter words such as “come for me” or other similar phrases. They see me in my vulnerability and find beauty in that. This combination of all of that is what I most love about a good oral giver. They aren’t focused solely on a cunt that they know they can make orgasm. They don’t proclaim they can make me orgasm. They see everything else that’s beautiful about me in all my nakedness, the pleasure of sharing in my pleasure, they enjoy being a part of the journey, and aren’t focused on the destination. They are observant and detail oriented. Afterwards they hold me and bask in my euphoria without quickly rushing to the next thing. They squeeze me tightly. They kiss me gently. They stroke my hair. They let me ride out my orgasms. It can lead to more but it can also be enough on its own. " You have such a way with words, and you've painted a very evocative and erotic picture. My wife's reactions to me teasing the surrounding area first are one of the greatest things on this planet. I love leaving a little trail of kisses up her inner thigh, building the anticipation, then going back up for a passionate kiss. She often enjoys the foreplay just as much if not moreso than the act itself. | |||
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" This is exactly how it should be! I do it for my own pleasure as well as the receivers! I’d say it’s probably one of my best skills…least my verifications will testify to that " I’m doing a scientific study to determine if English men are the best at oral…  | |||
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"I love giving to women can do for hours Is she watching the Lord of the Rings trilogy when you’re down there?" 
I always laugh when I read these comments and think they must have their tongue on PEDs!! | |||
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"I love receiving oral. Caveat being, it has to be from someone who loves giving oral. Someone who just does it to get on with something else will not give oral that’s to my liking. What do I like about oral? If done right, I love the anticipation. From the kissing (of my lips on my face) and how they use their tongue and lips to arouse me and make my mind wonder oh wow, they are really good with their mouth. The teasing where they don’t rush to put their mouth on my cunt but spend time teasing between my legs whilst completely ignoring my cunt for ages. Little kisses, bites, licks between my legs and all around my cunt but never directly on my cunt. They watch my reactions. They see my increased wetness but don’t gloat. They show me eagerness to devour me but equally have self control to not devour me in that moment but make me wait. They slow down every sensation until I’m at the point of gagging for them to taste me. When they finally do make contact with my cunt their mouth continues the slow, soft sensations. They take the time to engage all our senses over and over again. Awakening their tastebuds, taking in my horny scent, stroking me all over, etc. They use their tongue to trace every bit of my anatomy. They lap up my wetness and at the same time encourage the production of more. They feast on the physical changes they can see happening to me from my nipples becoming more stiff to me biting my lip or my one eye closing. They may stop along the way to kiss me again, or whisper in my ear. They don’t have a set plan or goal. They simply want to intensify all the sensations of pleasure I’m feeling for as long as possible. They go back and begin the process again licking, kissing, biting, sucking. Gently unveiling my throbbing clit. Being gentle and not aggressively sucking or licking. Or finger blasting. They include digital stimulation along with their mouth. They are focused and aware of my reactions, and willing to listen to my body as well as communicate with words. They are happy to listen to feedback or suggestions. They don’t focus on making me orgasm. They focus on the immediate, in the moment, pleasure they see me enjoying. They are willing to change things when it appears I’m not enjoying it or if I say it’s not the best feeling. They are enamoured with my body and how I’m enjoying the sensations they are helping me experience. They are present in that moment and don’t utter words such as “come for me” or other similar phrases. They see me in my vulnerability and find beauty in that. This combination of all of that is what I most love about a good oral giver. They aren’t focused solely on a cunt that they know they can make orgasm. They don’t proclaim they can make me orgasm. They see everything else that’s beautiful about me in all my nakedness, the pleasure of sharing in my pleasure, they enjoy being a part of the journey, and aren’t focused on the destination. They are observant and detail oriented. Afterwards they hold me and bask in my euphoria without quickly rushing to the next thing. They squeeze me tightly. They kiss me gently. They stroke my hair. They let me ride out my orgasms. It can lead to more but it can also be enough on its own. " Is it just me or has it just gotten extremely hot in here? I think I'm going to have to go and lay down. More seriously that was a very beautiful piece of writing and one that I absolutely identified with (from the 'giver' side). | |||
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" This is exactly how it should be! I do it for my own pleasure as well as the receivers! I’d say it’s probably one of my best skills…least my verifications will testify to that I’m doing a scientific study to determine if English men are the best at oral… "I can imagine that the methodology used in such a study could be...interesting. | |||
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"*Someone makes a post about cunnilingus* Me: wait for it, wait... Men: I LOVE DOING IT CAN GO FOR HOURS!!!1 I BREATH THRU MY EARS LOVE THE TASTE!!!1 CANT GET ENOUGH PLS " A certainty by which you could set your watch. | |||
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"*Someone makes a post about cunnilingus* Me: wait for it, wait... Men: I LOVE DOING IT CAN GO FOR HOURS!!!1 I BREATH THRU MY EARS LOVE THE TASTE!!!1 CANT GET ENOUGH PLS A certainty by which you could set your watch." And others that answer the question asked. No different to every couples only thread that is swamped by singles both M and F within 5 posts
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"I love it - when done well. By well I mean being responsive to the woman you’re with rather than going in with a set piece that’s not going to change because ‘it works and I’m good at it.’ For me, I don’t like too much pressure or for someone carry on with no change after I’ve orgasmed. Also not keen on jabbing fingers. I’ll try to pull away slightly as an initial hint then ask for less pressure if that doesn’t work. For me, someone who’s good at oral picks up on those cues and adapts. The worst is when they pin you down if you try to adjust. I’ve had to use all my strength before now to push someone away because they’re not listening and it’s too much to the point of painful. And that, folks, isn’t a good thing. " Yeah, this. I'm sure each bloke had a slightly different way they enjoy receiving oral, and I'm always clear on what I like or don't like. The mysterious enigma of a riddle that is the female body is something I always ask for guidance with! Pinned down - ick, nasty. | |||
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" The worst is when they pin you down if you try to adjust. I’ve had to use all my strength before now to push someone away because they’re not listening and it’s too much to the point of painful. And that, folks, isn’t a good thing. Yeah, this. I'm sure each bloke had a slightly different way they enjoy receiving oral, and I'm always clear on what I like or don't like. The mysterious enigma of a riddle that is the female body is something I always ask for guidance with! Pinned down - ick, nasty." The funniest is when they say you keep moving. Yes! Away from you! And you’re still not getting it! | |||
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" The worst is when they pin you down if you try to adjust. I’ve had to use all my strength before now to push someone away because they’re not listening and it’s too much to the point of painful. And that, folks, isn’t a good thing. Yeah, this. I'm sure each bloke had a slightly different way they enjoy receiving oral, and I'm always clear on what I like or don't like. The mysterious enigma of a riddle that is the female body is something I always ask for guidance with! Pinned down - ick, nasty. The funniest is when they say you keep moving. Yes! Away from you! And you’re still not getting it! " | |||
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"Will say, it’s significantly better from women! " I asked a bi mate of mine whether men or women were better at BJs. His thought was that some blokes were great, some crap. But generally men better than women, so I guess it works both ways | |||
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