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"What a prick his loss not yours " Thank you x | |||
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"No decent human being does that. They can of course change their mind but should just say so, not leave people waiting like that. Despicable behaviour. " I was glad it was the summer and still light . I had to drive 45 mins as well.we live and learn | |||
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"I'm sorry someone did that. What an absolute c#nt! I hope you're OK? Big hugs to you xx" 1st person is met of here in 4 years and it was a reminder why I hadn't . Just knocks your confidence a bit | |||
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"Sorry yo hear. I think it’s wild for a coffee to have already happened and this to happen. More times than not it’s stood up for the first meeting. " No 1st meeting was amazing. We spoke all the time..up till his last message at 3.30 saying he was looking forward to meeting me. Then stood up and blocked.x | |||
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You do need caution here, with reliability. I insist on them fulfilling a series of confirmations, before an actual meeting, as it's too easy for people not to take responsibility.
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"What a shitty, horrible thing to do "I don't understand some people . No explanation no nothing just blocked | |||
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"This is really shitty behaviour and I've never understood it." it's worse than the whole ghosting thing | |||
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"Agree with the others, that's detestable
You do need caution here, with reliability. I insist on them fulfilling a series of confirmations, before an actual meeting, as it's too easy for people not to take responsibility.
Report the user to Admin, to potentially prevent them from repeating it easily "I guess because we already had 1 meet that went well and had spoke all the time up untill we were supposed to meet, I thought ever thing would be ok | |||
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"How bizarre, I'm so sorry this happened to you xx Put it behind you and move onwards x" Just need to give my head a wobble. It knocked my confidence a bit | |||
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"How bizarre, I'm so sorry this happened to you xx Put it behind you and move onwards x Just need to give my head a wobble. It knocked my confidence a bit " Sadly it’s soo common xx Horrible behaviour xx Hope your ok x | |||
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"Agree with the others, that's detestable
You do need caution here, with reliability. I insist on them fulfilling a series of confirmations, before an actual meeting, as it's too easy for people not to take responsibility.
Report the user to Admin, to potentially prevent them from repeating it easily
I guess because we already had 1 meet that went well and had spoke all the time up untill we were supposed to meet, I thought ever thing would be ok "That's the part that perplexes me. This would be one thing for a first-time meet, but he did this having already spent time with you that by all appearances went really well? | |||
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"I'm sorry someone did that. What an absolute c#nt! I hope you're OK? Big hugs to you xx 1st person is met of here in 4 years and it was a reminder why I hadn't . Just knocks your confidence a bit " Yes, it does. But you have to remember that it's on him. Hes a shit for doing this, but I doubt it had anything to do with you xx | |||
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"So I met someone of here on Wednesday for a coffee, went amazing. We arranged to meet tonight. He booked the table showed me the confirmation and sent me the postcode. I got there 10 mins early as I always like to be punctual. But after sitting in my car for 25 mins I came to realise that I'd been stood up. I called he didn't answer and I went to text and id been blocked. Is this a common thing on here? To actually leave someone stood in a carpark for 25 mins knowing your not coming " What a twat! you are worth far more and certainly not worth your headrace
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"So I met someone of here on Wednesday for a coffee, went amazing. We arranged to meet tonight. He booked the table showed me the confirmation and sent me the postcode. I got there 10 mins early as I always like to be punctual. But after sitting in my car for 25 mins I came to realise that I'd been stood up. I called he didn't answer and I went to text and id been blocked. Is this a common thing on here? To actually leave someone stood in a carpark for 25 mins knowing your not coming What a twat! you are worth far more and certainly not worth your headrace
Lots of guys would be lucky to meet you. His loss "Thank you so much xxx | |||
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"That’s absolutely vile OP I believe you can report him to fab which I would do Cautious or not it’s a terrible thing to do to someone!" I have done xx | |||
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"Booked a table? Like a restaurant? " Yes we were going to have dinner and arrange when we would both be free. It was a 2nd meet | |||
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"The sceptic in me says - probs married/attached and couldn't make it at last minute. Shit though! " Same!! | |||
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"How bizarre, I'm so sorry this happened to you xx Put it behind you and move onwards x Just need to give my head a wobble. It knocked my confidence a bit " Not Nice hope u blocked him  | |||
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"...you are worth far more and certainly not worth your headrace Lots of guys would be lucky to meet you.... "· That's a lovely thing to say. xx | |||
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 me & the Mrs arranged a meet and on the drive to meet him chatted on WhatsApp, it was all flirting talk, we was on the road about half an hour - he had given us a postcode and we arrived, the fella asked us to send our location via WhatsApp, I think he replied "nice" and yeah that was the last contact we had with him ffs. So yeah these are about. | |||
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" me & the Mrs arranged a meet and on the drive to meet him chatted on WhatsApp, it was all flirting talk, we was on the road about half an hour - he had given us a postcode and we arrived, the fella asked us to send our location via WhatsApp, I think he replied "nice" and yeah that was the last contact we had with him ffs. So yeah these are about."Wow . Literally no words | |||
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"This is really shitty behaviour and I've never understood it. it's worse than the whole ghosting thing " I hope you did something nice for yourself after! Don't let it get you down  | |||
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"So I met someone of here on Wednesday for a coffee, went amazing. We arranged to meet tonight. He booked the table showed me the confirmation and sent me the postcode. I got there 10 mins early as I always like to be punctual. But after sitting in my car for 25 mins I came to realise that I'd been stood up. I called he didn't answer and I went to text and id been blocked. Is this a common thing on here? To actually leave someone stood in a carpark for 25 mins knowing your not coming " I can assure you not all men are like that, if I was lucky enough to meet you there’s no way in hell I’d stand you up | |||
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"...you are worth far more and certainly not worth your headrace Lots of guys would be lucky to meet you....
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That's a lovely thing to say. xx"
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"It’s the height of rudeness. There’s no excuse for that. It’s his loss and he’s a coward." Thank you x | |||
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"So I met someone of here on Wednesday for a coffee, went amazing. We arranged to meet tonight. He booked the table showed me the confirmation and sent me the postcode. I got there 10 mins early as I always like to be punctual. But after sitting in my car for 25 mins I came to realise that I'd been stood up. I called he didn't answer and I went to text and id been blocked. Is this a common thing on here? To actually leave someone stood in a carpark for 25 mins knowing your not coming " Unfortunately the same as happened to me a couple of times it's more annoying when you travel a fairway so now stick to locals. | |||
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" Report the user to Admin, to potentially prevent them from repeating it easily " Is there any point reporting the user to admin? What can they do about it? I had one this week. Arranged to meet on Thursday, she said could we have sushi, so I got that in (don't really like sushi, prefer Thai). She had the address, agreed the time, but then went silent and never turned up. She's been online since, but no communication, apology, etc. First time it's happened, but think I dodged a bullet. | |||
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" Report the user to Admin, to potentially prevent them from repeating it easily Is there any point reporting the user to admin? What can they do about it? I had one this week. Arranged to meet on Thursday, she said could we have sushi, so I got that in (don't really like sushi, prefer Thai). She had the address, agreed the time, but then went silent and never turned up. She's been online since, but no communication, apology, etc. First time it's happened, but think I dodged a bullet." I don't know if they can but I did anyway. Sorry you've been through this too | |||
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"That's so rude!! All that effort for nothing. I'd be so annoyed "I brought a new dress as well .. and had my hair done. I was annoyed then it upset me as you start to get inside your own head | |||
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"That's so rude!! All that effort for nothing. I'd be so annoyed
I brought a new dress as well .. and had my hair done. I was annoyed then it upset me as you start to get inside your own head "Sending hugs OP. | |||
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"Very sad to hear this. I think it has happened to many on this site. Last week , a planned meet with a couple ...nice comms and photos etc...then an hour before the planned meet time they cancelled, just as I was about to leave the house." I think I'd of rathered that , than be sat waiting in a pub carpark. I very nearly went in and gave the booking.Thank god I didn't | |||
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"Sorry to hear about this OP. This is why I go to clubs if they don't turn up there's usually someone else to talk to!" I've not got the confidence for clubs unfortunately | |||
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"So I met someone of here on Wednesday for a coffee, went amazing. We arranged to meet tonight. He booked the table showed me the confirmation and sent me the postcode. I got there 10 mins early as I always like to be punctual. But after sitting in my car for 25 mins I came to realise that I'd been stood up. I called he didn't answer and I went to text and id been blocked. Is this a common thing on here? To actually leave someone stood in a carpark for 25 mins knowing your not coming " Probably his wife found out….. | |||
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"Sorry to hear about this OP. This is why I go to clubs if they don't turn up there's usually someone else to talk to! I've not got the confidence for clubs unfortunately " Dunno why you're hot. Plus you can get talking to a good crowd in the group chats before so you're not on your own when you get there. | |||
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"Sorry to hear about this OP. This is why I go to clubs if they don't turn up there's usually someone else to talk to! I've not got the confidence for clubs unfortunately Dunno why you're hot. Plus you can get talking to a good crowd in the group chats before so you're not on your own when you get there. " Unfortunately there's more to confidence than "being hot". | |||
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"So I met someone of here on Wednesday for a coffee, went amazing. We arranged to meet tonight. He booked the table showed me the confirmation and sent me the postcode. I got there 10 mins early as I always like to be punctual. But after sitting in my car for 25 mins I came to realise that I'd been stood up. I called he didn't answer and I went to text and id been blocked. Is this a common thing on here? To actually leave someone stood in a carpark for 25 mins knowing your not coming Probably his wife found out….. " That's exactly my thoughts x | |||
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"And the best bit is .. he's updated his profile to state that there are some genuine people on here but also some scumbags. I don't know where he gets off ??" You're probably just better off blocking him and putting this to bed | |||
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"And the best bit is .. he's updated his profile to state that there are some genuine people on here but also some scumbags. I don't know where he gets off ?? I have done now thank you You're probably just better off blocking him and putting this to bed" | |||
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