FabSwingers.com forum: Age difference

By *ycota2 OP Man
12 weeks ago

bolton

So I’m 47 and been seeing a 20 year old she wants to go public is this wrong ?? Please genuine answers to help

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By *hesterplumberMan
12 weeks ago

wirral

People won’t approve either way mate so you both do what you both think is right for you and do t worry what others think.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts

Why would it be wrong?

If you’re happy together that’s all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

When she does tell the world, make sure you’re not wearing socks or undercrackers older than she is.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
12 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Bollocks to what anyone else thinks

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By *veryday_Couple_NextdoorCouple
12 weeks ago

Bristol

"So I’m 47 and been seeing a 20 year old she wants to go public is this wrong ?? Please genuine answers to help "
does she have daddy or even grandpa issues? Irrelevant if she does, this was just our dark humour creeping in, apologies in advance if any offence was caused!

Each to their own. You do what you like as long as you’re both happy

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By *icecouple561Couple
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12 weeks ago

East Sussex

"So I’m 47 and been seeing a 20 year old she wants to go public is this wrong ?? Please genuine answers to help "

Is it wrong to go public or wrong that there's 27 years between you?

I'd say whichever it is discuss your concerns with her but if I was seeing someone and they were reluctant to go public I'd be hurt.

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By *ycota2 OP Man
12 weeks ago

bolton

She wants to go public I’m just worried at the reaction

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By *icecouple561Couple
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12 weeks ago

East Sussex

"She wants to go public I’m just worried at the reaction "

People will gossip, they always do.

I've known several very successful age gap relationships, people soon find something else to gossip about.

What in particular are you concerned about?

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Why worry what others think op you're not doing anything wrong.. It won't make he feel good if you want to keep her a secret though.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
12 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I think the fact that you’re asking for opinions on this tells me you think it’s wrong. For me, as long as you’re both consenting adults and there’s no power dynamic going on the fuck what everyone else thinks.

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By *midnight-Woman
12 weeks ago

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How/when did you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

How long have you been together? What’s making you worried over going public? Is she hoping something about your relationship will change in some way by going public? What are her intentions behind it and why have you not gone public before now?

I’d ask myself and her all those questions to determine if it’s the right thing for you. No one else will know but the two of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Don’t let societal values/ pressures dictate your actions and feelings for her.

She clearly doesn’t have concerns about your relationship, but it would be healthy to discuss your reservations with her, it might alleviate your worries.

I can appreciate the age gap is a stigma in society, but you’re both consenting adults. Rich Hollywood aging actors seem to be able to date and impregnate women younger than their children/grandchildren with impunity.

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By *riel13Woman
12 weeks ago

Northampton

Why are you with someone you are embarrassed to be seen with?

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By *uga40Man
12 weeks ago

Hemel Hempstead

Go for it nothing to do with anyone else

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By *omptationMan
12 weeks ago

liverpool

If you’re happy to be with her and she with you then who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks?

It’s your relationship, not theirs

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By *arkSovereignMan
12 weeks ago

Lancashire

I can see why some might frown upon it, but who cares about the opinions of others? Youre both consenting adults!

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By *orksguy1965Man
12 weeks ago

Howden

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