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By *reenEyedFella OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Derby

Any advice? Any big do’s or dont’s?!

Thanks!

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By *WB85Man
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Go with no expectations you won't leave disappointed.

I was naive as fuck and left disappointed lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Do your research. If it's a dress down on entry and you're not prepared for that it can really throw your mood.

Check the club events forum to see what's on. Pick a night that looks like it's right for you and ask to he on the guestlist to make sure there's no issues getting in. Make sure they know you're new for the tour and etiquette guide.

Go with the expectation of a less dressed night in the pub. If anything more happens, that's a bonus, not a guarantee

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By *eliz NelsonMan
12 weeks ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Do not!!! wipe it on the curtains

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Don't expect anything.

Do listen.

Always ask to join in any open room.

Tell the club your new they'll show you around.

That's about it.

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By *iss DevilWoman
12 weeks ago

Bedford

Be friendly but not pushy, respect boundaries, talk to even those you don't feel immediate attraction to. Smile, don't touch without being invited to, don't follow women or couples around like a lost puppy, and whatever you do, please refrain from furious wanking when talking to people.

Most of all, go just expecting a chilled night out with like-minded people.

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By *reenEyedFella OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Derby

I’m be going mainly to meet people rather to have any expectations of getting my dick wet ahaha! But it being my first time I don’t know what club ‘etiquettes’ are and wouldn’t want to fall foul of any rules

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By *ootyfruityCouple
12 weeks ago

andover

Don’t assume you can touch, being polite and confident helps, but don’t be disappointed if you don’t pull. Use it as a time to socialise with people, make some friends and if something does happen it’s a bonus

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By *reenEyedFella OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Derby

Rather than thanking you individually, thanks all! So basically just general do’s and dont’s as you would in public. Don’t do anything to land yourself on a sex register, got it ahaha

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By *rad670Man
12 weeks ago

South Lakes

Only ever went to one in Swindon, I pretty much just people watched and had a couple of pleasant conversations, when I say people watched I didn't follow people around all pervy like many of the single groups of males, I found that creepy and I bet the couples and single females did as well. It's pretty much the same as on here, be pleasant. Smile at people, engage in light banter and they will let you know if they like your company. It's a bit strange being on your own in such an environment but a great experience even if you don't get to play, you can meet some great people.

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