FabSwingers.com forum: What is your ability to meet like?

By *imply Dee OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Wherever

Would you say you’re pretty flexible on dates/time or your time is limited to some days only?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
20 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Quite limited, as I work Friday-Tuesday & I’m usually too knackered Saturday evening

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By *hat.coupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Dartford

Almost every evening is good for us, weekends are pretty free too. I can't understand how someone is so busy that they can't plan anything. Maybe I'm just boring though! Lol

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

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By *r SproutMan
20 weeks ago

the middle

Weekends for me work best because I get up stupidly early in the week for work

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By *JcuriousCouple
20 weeks ago

Derby

Not really as we need childcare.

Friday and Saturdays are our go too, once a month but ideally we like our own couple time too.

Miss S x

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By *cLovin2Man
20 weeks ago

Reading

I'm fairly flexible ATM, tho probably cos I'm in between jobs

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
20 weeks ago

RCT/South Wales

Every evening and every weekend

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
20 weeks ago

Always on the move

Flexible to a degree when I'm not "single dadding" it

Unfortunately I'm on the road alot and am one of those "in your area" wankers, which isn't always appealing to meets understandably

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By *viatrixWoman
20 weeks ago

Redhill

I can be flexible as in I can travel a reasonable distance if I am very interested (not happening lately) and if I am off work. But since I work shifts with no set pattern and I never know my days off until 6 weeks in advance or so, my job and family take total priority.

But if I am not working and totally interested, I definitely make meets happen.

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By *ealitybitesMan
20 weeks ago

Belfast

I haven't met anyone new in more than 4 years so that should show how inflexible my time is.

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
20 weeks ago

Leeds

I have my daughter full time so I need notice to get a sitter but I’m flexible on what day or time of day that is

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By *ansoffateMan
20 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I can be pretty flexible with some advance notice.

I'm usually free on Wednesdays - just saying.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
20 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

Typically really good, my wife and I balance who’s looking after home affairs, whilst one of is ‘out-out’.

But this next month is difficult, but typically we make it work for each other.

All We Need is notice, and transparency.

Chad c

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By *affron40Woman
20 weeks ago

manchester

Technically I’m available every evening and most weekends. Stepkids are all grown up and no secret husband

I just can’t be arsed with theses thing right now.

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By *ilyandronCouple
20 weeks ago

Bristol

Very limited as a couple but lily much more flexible… in every sense !

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By *ilverfox for youMan
20 weeks ago

Hull

Daytimes for me as I work nights .but not easy getting any daytime fun !!

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By *herry delightWoman
20 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I am between careers at the moment so apart from the fact that I don't like mornings I am fairly flexible when I can meet.

Honestly I need caffeine in the mornings x

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By *eliz NelsonMan
20 weeks ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Working shifts in past, meets always took a little time to arrange...retired now but the inclination to meet has gone, so mainly 'infrequent' forum visits now..

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By *ustamanMan
20 weeks ago

weymouth

Highly flexible mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I work FT.. Sometimes very long hours. I have pets, an allotment and gym commitments most week evenings.

Sometimes i fancy being spontaneous on a weekend, but I'm usually just exhausted or need to do the shopping

So in a nutshell I'm a nightmare to arrange a meet up with unless you are less than an hour from me and like meeting on Saturday afternoons or Sunday mornings

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By *hrill CollinsMan
20 weeks ago

The Outer Rim

I can be there in five

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By *scaMan
20 weeks ago

Herts / London / Beyond

Pretty fortunate to be very flexible - the joy of being my own boss. Daytimes and evenings are always possible, with some advance notice

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I’m a weekend type of guy

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I won't be free tonight, or this weekend, or next weekend, or the one after. We need to be looking a few months in advance.

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By *empest2KMan
20 weeks ago

Derby

"Would you say you’re pretty flexible on dates/time or your time is limited to some days only?"

I'm not limited to particular dates/time, but I'd say I'm flexible if given enough notice, OP

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By *rHotNottsMan
20 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m currently making bookings for Q4….

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By *aramel.desiresMan
20 weeks ago

Heathrow

I'm.very flexible. Even when I'm working I'm flexing.

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By *iss DevilWoman
20 weeks ago

Bedford

I only meet in clubs, by chance, at least for the first time, so my availability doesn't matter much here. But if I was to do a 1:1 meet, I am not very flexible due to working Mon to Fri during the day, having time commitments within my online gaming community and seeing my partner at the weekends. So no, my availability for 1:1 meets is absolutely crap! Only make exceptions for my FB/FWB, one of whom might be moving to Liverpool soon.

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By *elboy1957Man
20 weeks ago

Weston-super-Mare

"Very limited as a couple but lily much more flexible… in every sense !"
It's good to be flexible lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Central

Atrocious at the moment. Normally very good but I like to take things slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Depends on trains and distance tbh

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By *ornucopiaMan
20 weeks ago

Bexley

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Unfortunately I'm on the road alot and am one of those "in your area" wankers, which isn't always appealing to meets understandably"

That seems to work well enough in other variants of 'the game'!

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By *ripfillMan
20 weeks ago

havant

Sadly too limited but planed well …. It happens

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
20 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I live in a nowhere city, don't drive, and I don't want to meet new people one on one. So I'm scoring pretty low on both ability and desire

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By *eliWoman
20 weeks ago

It's not limited to specific days, no. I'm more flexible the more interested I am in someone.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
20 weeks ago

Reading

Pretty limited.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
20 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I'll soon have every other week to myself, which is marvellous, until you consider the distance between me and the people I want to meet

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By *oves2lick69Man
20 weeks ago

Cheshire

Evenings after 6pm and weekends mostly

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By *imply Dee OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Wherever

"Almost every evening is good for us, weekends are pretty free too. I can't understand how someone is so busy that they can't plan anything. Maybe I'm just boring though! Lol

Mrs"

I imagine majority of single working parents with no family or other available childcare easily fall into that category.

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By *LR68Man
20 weeks ago

Peterborough

Very flexible .. can even make last minute meets or socials

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By *hoirCouple
20 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Need a live sacrifice to the Old World Gods currently. Childcare is a bitch to find and definitely not evenings/nights for the foreseeable

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I make time for mischief when inclined.

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
20 weeks ago

Wales

I'd actually have more chance of being hit in the face with shovel full of shit then making time to meet anyone at the moment

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By *naswingdressWoman
20 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Extremely flexible. I work when I want to and have no family commitments.

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By *istr3ssWoman
20 weeks ago

Catterick

Very limited as I work permanent nights & get very little notice as to when my days off are

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By *8on33Man
20 weeks ago

winfrith

I'm available.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
20 weeks ago

Always on the move

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Unfortunately I'm on the road alot and am one of those "in your area" wankers, which isn't always appealing to meets understandably

That seems to work well enough in other variants of 'the game'!"

I am definitely the wrong variant for it to work well haha

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By *ear in the chairMan
20 weeks ago

yeah there

Flexible on working hours and in an open relationship so pretty damn flexible but I do plan life stuff in advance so a little notice or flexibility the other way helps to make stuff happen too.

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
20 weeks ago

Always on the move

I won't be free tonight, or this weekend, or next weekend, or the one after. We need to be looking a few months in advance. "

April 27th 2025? Any good?

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By *WB85Man
20 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We're both pretty flexible.....with swinging you have to be really.

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By *orthern BeardMan
20 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Limited by work and the fact things always seem to change last minute

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By * and R cple4Couple
20 weeks ago

swansea

We are weekend people.. We work during the week have family commitments pets etc.Friday to Sunday is usually when we arrange stuff.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Fortunately now semi retired so very flexible in terms of meets

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By *eyond PurityCouple
20 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We are fairly flexible - we only have child commitments every other weekend and none live at home.

We both work from home too so could technically meet in the day.

Guys are the hardest to arrange time with. Despite them complaining about not being able to get a meet

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

I prefer daytime's it's just easier with childcare, otherwise it takes a bit more planning.

As a couple it's trickier again with childcare but manageable but that's mostly evenings.

With the holidays coming up I will have less time to meet than usual.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

It varies but usually flexible, though rarely meet at the drop of a hat or after one or two messages.

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By *omptationMan
20 weeks ago

liverpool

I pretty much work office hours and the odd Saturday here and there. Outside of that I’m free and don’t mind a bit of travelling

I have been to clubs but with my work hours I can’t stay late so a bit pointless even going in that case

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Covent Garden

If you're exceptional and exquisite then I can have an ebony carriage waiting at the granite steps to your front door almost immediately.

If you're above average, give me a day. If you're mediocre then I may need to shift my diary somewhat but can afford you an afternoon of my time during the week.

If you're below par then we're looking at the next month or so for a slot to appear in my calendar.

I can be flexibly inflexible and inflexibly flexible, dependent on the calibre of the lady.

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By *vaRose43Woman
20 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I’m a carer on an evening so those take much more planning

Daytimes however I’m fairly free and can be very flexible

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By *uri00620Woman
20 weeks ago

Croydon

Never. So I don't.

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By *ira2024Woman
20 weeks ago

It all depends on the childcare. I can do daytime meets every now and then. Otherwise it involves a bit more planning.

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By *layfullsamMan
20 weeks ago

Solihull

Pretty flexible where there’s a will there’s a way

8pm Sunday night might require some discrete fun

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By *andT2023Couple
20 weeks ago

in the middle

Limited due to work commitments and life. Time is precious ... i like to make it count but it is limited

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
20 weeks ago

chichester

pretty ok with a few days notice to get cover for work

problem is actually finding a woman that meets a trans woman lol.

meeting men is piss easy though as require no effort

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
20 weeks ago

Next Door

Daytime meets are rare for me, due to work. Occasionally a longer lunch hour.

Prefer weekends and evenings.

Happy to travel.

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By *HUSH-Man
20 weeks ago

London

Weekends.

I could do a weekday evening if they’re quite local but I get up very early for work and I’d hate to end a night early if we’ve got a vibe going.

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By *arialoueWoman
20 weeks ago

bradford

Limited due to shift patterns

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
20 weeks ago

longeaton,

Very limited with work but would like to meet more often.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
20 weeks ago

Tamworth

I'm pretty flexible - no kids, live alone so the only restriction - bar finding someone who's interested - is how tired or busy I am.

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By *ife NinjaMan
20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Not weekends. Mainly weekday evenings

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill

I'm self-employed and set my own hours so can work my availability around pretty much anyone unless I have a prior plan with my wife, but we're both pretty flexible about modifying our plans if opportunities arise elsewhere.

Though someone told me earlier that noting that I set my own hours is potentially a marker for cheating? So I may take that out of my bio to avoid that implication.

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By *heelerMan
20 weeks ago

Northants

Everyday available Monday to Friday

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By *iker JackMan
20 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Non existent at the moment

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By *cLovin2Man
20 weeks ago

Reading

"I work FT.. Sometimes very long hours. I have pets, an allotment and gym commitments most week evenings.

Sometimes i fancy being spontaneous on a weekend, but I'm usually just exhausted or need to do the shopping

So in a nutshell I'm a nightmare to arrange a meet up with unless you are less than an hour from me and like meeting on Saturday afternoons or Sunday mornings

Midnight, some nightmares are worth having

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By *entBarryUKMan
20 weeks ago

Ashford

I can only do some days every two weeks. Not that anyone cares tbh

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By *emonbuttercreamWoman
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

Honestly, a nightmare at the moment. I would struggle due to childcare, people asking questions, money and work.

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20 weeks ago

"I work FT.. Sometimes very long hours. I have pets, an allotment and gym commitments most week evenings.

Sometimes i fancy being spontaneous on a weekend, but I'm usually just exhausted or need to do the shopping

So in a nutshell I'm a nightmare to arrange a meet up with unless you are less than an hour from me and like meeting on Saturday afternoons or Sunday mornings

Midnight, some nightmares are worth having

some people have been waiting 5 years

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
20 weeks ago

Bromley

Any evening during the week and Saturday, all day Sunday, regular day off Thursday.

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By *4bimMan
20 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Try to arrange around them. If I give them my availability after they've asked for it and hear nothing I move on.

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By *inUpProWoman
20 weeks ago

Liverpool

I'm pretty flexible bow that my daughter is all grown up. I just find it hard to find reliable guys

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By *ake the hotwife hunterMan
20 weeks ago

Isleworth

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By *ucy AnneTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Woodstock

Usually only late at night at weekends (I have an ordinary social life and normal domestic things to do a lot of the time, and unfortunately I still have to work) but very occasionally in the day during the week too, but very rarely at short notice (except late at night at weekends, that is).

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By *empted23Couple
20 weeks ago

countryside

Only a Friday

Also , that’s not .. oh it’s Friday “ we are free “

Nope

Only have the option of a sitter on a Friday

And the sitter has to be booked

IN Advance

So not particularly flexible or infact not particularly free to meet at all

But we are keen

It would just need reliable people as a few times we booked the sitter in advance and then the people we would of met flake on us

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By *ake the hotwife hunterMan
20 weeks ago

Isleworth

"Would you say you’re pretty flexible on dates/time or your time is limited to some days only?"

I'm fairly flexible I find others are not

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
20 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"I’m currently making bookings for Q4…."

Do you have a receptionist and a answering system that tells the women where they are in the queue..

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By *weetiepie99Woman
20 weeks ago

cardiff

Pretty flexible, though I need notice. And I prefer evenings.

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By *luefire2Couple
20 weeks ago

just somewhere around here

I work shifts so sometimes it is awkward, my shifts can be 4.45 starts or 1.30am finishes plus most weekends and bank holidays.......pays well but eats up my social life!

This is why we hate tine wasters!

Mrs R

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By *punk n gushCouple
20 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Never as much time to meet as we would like

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By *emorefridaCouple
20 weeks ago

La la land

Blinking terrible, between 3 kids and then going out together as a couple or seeing friends. Doesn't leave much time for Fab.

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By *igronnie89Man
20 weeks ago

near you

Self employed so pretty flexible

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By *hill1965Man
20 weeks ago

Camberley

With work and teenage kids unable to organise themselves, it’s hard to plan!!

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

For the right lady I'd make myself available whenever she tells me to I'm quiet obedient like that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
20 weeks ago

North West

Really very restricted! Meeting together? Near enough impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Like hen’s teeth but trying to make opportunities!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
20 weeks ago

Sheffield

Very little time due to childcare for me, sole parenting x

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
20 weeks ago

Ryde

We are only available weekday daytimes, as we keep odd hours.

This makes things tricky, even though we are the ones providing both the venue and the willing woman.

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By *agatoXXXMan
20 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

I have 30 minute windows through the day once my meds kick in.

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By *elloWoman
20 weeks ago

alpha centauri

My availability is awful, it's basically 1 evening a month which would be at a club

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By *hilloutMan
20 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Weekends only. Due to my geographical location, every meet implies flying

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I travel loads but have a lot of flexibility as well. The more interested I am in someone, the more I’m willing to be flexible.

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
20 weeks ago

bristol/london

Given my work involves copious amounts of travel and I'm retraining to become a psychologist, I'd say my time is very limited, but I will always make time for that special someone

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
20 weeks ago

Wirral.

I'm pretty flexible, but would prefer evening or weekend meets.

The problem, as has been mentioned above, is finding reliable guys

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill

"I'm pretty flexible, but would prefer evening or weekend meets.

The problem, as has been mentioned above, is finding reliable guys "

I mean, when you have the audacity to be that far away... :P

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By *eading beddingMan
20 weeks ago

Berks

Pretty flexible (too old for bending over backwards!) with enough notice, where there's a will...

No routine that's set in stone and can't be flexed

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By *DawgXXXMan
20 weeks ago

Cardiff

I’m flexible to pretty much anytime when I’m off. I work shifts, 4 on (12 hrs with 2 day shifts and 2 night shifts) and 4 off. Just finished now and about to cycle home if anyone free in Cardiff

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