FabSwingers.com forum: Do you tell

By *andy Canes OP Woman
20 weeks ago

south

The people you meet off here your real name(s) or do you use your username ? & does it really matter if you don’t tell them your name(s) ?

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By *affron40Woman
20 weeks ago

manchester

I use my real name with people I meet and at socials. But each to their own

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By *ascaIMan
20 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

I don’t think it matters all that much. But I have shared my real name with a handful of people once I’ve felt comfortable enough.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
20 weeks ago

Essex

If we’re meeting then I’ll tell them my first name

Although… there’s a high proportion of fab friends who still call me Misty as it suits me better

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By *elloWoman
20 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I use my fab name - Dawn

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By *olarbear73Man
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yeah I use my real name with those I meet.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
20 weeks ago

Newmill

I've given my real name to two people so far: one I'm possibly having a social meet with tomorrow, and one I'm currently messaging. It's a pretty common name and I have my face pics on my profile, so I'm not exactly precious about keeping it a secret, but I also won't share it willy-nilly without reason.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
20 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

This is my real name!

I have and would tell people all my real details once I meet them. For me no exceptions in that authenticity.

However Got gaps..

no people to confide in my superhero identity .

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By *iberius61Man
20 weeks ago

Pontefract

I use both, I have used Tiberius on many Internet forums for several years, it's quite funny when I throw a party and have Internet and 'other' friends there. Some people call me Tiberius (normally shortened to Tibs), and you can see 'other' friends just wondering why that person is calling me Tibs, and why am I answering!

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By *entleman JayMan
20 weeks ago

Wakefield

People I meet know I’m a bit of an open book.

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By *eroLondonMan
20 weeks ago

Covent Garden

At group socials I'm colloquially known by my Fab profile name. If I interact with someone and they introduce themselves using their real name then I will reciprocate.

If I'm sharing a bed with a woman then she will •always• know my real name. I simply cannot engage in passionate skin-to-skin entwinement using my pseudonym. The whole experience otherwise feels unnatural and 'synthetic'.

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By *a LunaWoman
20 weeks ago

South Wales

Always used my real name if I was meeting them. Never occurred not to really.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
20 weeks ago

Somewhere

I use my own name - I had a meet years ago where I didn't realise I'd not given my real name. Very strange getting called by my at the time username during sex... And it was at the point where it'd have been worse to correct them

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
20 weeks ago

North West

If I trust you, you can have my real name. Otherwise, Mrs KC will suffice.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
20 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I've always used my real name it's on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

If I am messaging people I tell them my real name, which means if I meet people they already know my name.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
20 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Although… there’s a high proportion of fab friends who still call me Misty as it suits me better

^ This is true.

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By *4bimMan
20 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

op you look like a fred to me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yeah we tell them our real names. We don't give surnames though

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By *amie HantsWoman
20 weeks ago

Atlantis

My real name. I understand discretion online and not posting your details alongside your genitals but I don’t understand it offline. I cannot think of any good reason why someone wouldn’t share their real name with me if we were to meet up.

If there was a genuine reason I wouldn’t want to hear it. Sounds like drama

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

East Sussex

We've met a few people who haven't told us their real name then accidentally revealed it in conversation

. Of course we have no way of knowing the people who can keep up the alias

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By *agnar73Man
20 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

‘Stop calling me Len you little prick!’

Sorry.

But I don’t mind what people call me and I know sometimes people don’t take in a name or are so used to seeing the fan name

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
20 weeks ago

Wirral.

I tell folk the shortened version of my real name - which is the name everyone other than immediate family call me. My full name is a bit of a mouthful.

However, lots of folk will still call me Red. I don't mind, I like being Red

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By *inUpProWoman
20 weeks ago

Liverpool

I tend to tell people my real name

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By *orthern StarsCouple
20 weeks ago

Durham

We tell people our real names, though I do enjoy being called Ruby.

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
20 weeks ago

RCT/South Wales

I have always used my real first name. I love hearing the person I'm playing with say it during orgasm

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Stockport

Polly is my real female name, though I do have a different female surname. I'm happy for the close friends I meet through fab to know my full female name. I will usually share my male name as well with those who also visit my home. Once someone knows my address it would be easy enough for them to find out my male name anyway, so I might as well just tell them if they are curious.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

My femme persona is Davina. If I meet, it's as Davina. So I answer to Davina during meets.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
20 weeks ago

wonderland.

"The people you meet off here your real name(s) or do you use your username ? & does it really matter if you don’t tell them your name(s) ? "
yes we both use our real names.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
20 weeks ago

preston

I must be the only one with my real name on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I’ve told one person my real name. The others know my name that I’ve used in real life since I was a teen. It’s what I introduce myself as in real life so not a made up name. It’s simply not my full name.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I give them my mates name

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By *orthernJayMan
20 weeks ago

LHR

Back when I was a Fab couple, we met this really pushy couple in Cupids, neither of us were interested so our code phrase came in useful.

We made excuses and the dude presented me with their Fab business card, had their username, email address, both first names on the card and cell phone number!!

We bumped into them again a few weeks later and I greeted the fella using the name from the card; he looked me dead in the eye and said “you’re confusing me with someone else mate” my name isn’t ……

I laughed in his face

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By *iviWoman
20 weeks ago

cork

People I work with know me by my birth name but most friends know me as Tiv.

My name's a little unusual and I like Tiv so I generally just stick with it.

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By *onnyJohnMan
20 weeks ago

Doncaster

"The people you meet off here your real name(s) or do you use your username ? & does it really matter if you don’t tell them your name(s) ? "

Ive told a few, but not all

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
20 weeks ago

Leeds

People I'm meeting I give my real 1st name too, if I can trust them with my body I'm sure I can trust them with my 1st name.

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By *onnyJohnMan
20 weeks ago

Doncaster

"People I'm meeting I give my real 1st name too, if I can trust them with my body I'm sure I can trust them with my 1st name."

Thats a good point.

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By *hilloutMan
20 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"People I'm meeting I give my real 1st name too, if I can trust them with my body I'm sure I can trust them with my 1st name."

Very much this

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By *asycouple1971Couple
20 weeks ago

midlands

We used to use fake names but we are not ashamed of what we do so we started using our real names when we meet people.

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

We don't mind giving out our real first names on here. Can't see a problem in it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

“”Ohh yes, just like that deepthroatgirl2000 …”

I prefer that they let me know their real name please

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I don't like that personal level, I prefer fab name or made up name.

You share your name, details of your personal life and it all gets a bit eurgh.

I made the mistake of telling one guy years ago and he always calls me by it and I don't know why but it really annoys me.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

"I don't like that personal level, I prefer fab name or made up name.

You share your name, details of your personal life and it all gets a bit eurgh.

I made the mistake of telling one guy years ago and he always calls me by it and I don't know why but it really annoys me."

Haha. .. this is why I use my mates names.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
20 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"People I'm meeting I give my real 1st name too, if I can trust them with my body I'm sure I can trust them with my 1st name."

Same for me

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By *arkus1812Man
20 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Always give my christian name when responding to messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Plus some hot guys have really none hot names, i don't need to know that.

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By *tYourPleasure_80Man
20 weeks ago

Newcastle

I like to leave people guessing, I prefer the anonymity

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By *imply DeeWoman
20 weeks ago

Wherever

Fab name. I have a foreign name which people can’t pronounce

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
20 weeks ago

Merseyside

With meets we use real names otherwise refer to each other as mr or Mrs xx

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By *eliWoman
20 weeks ago

Yes. Most people call me Meli though and that's fine. I don't mind it at all.

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By *estYorkshireGentMan
20 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah I use my real name. I don’t see the point in hiding that once they’ve seen my face

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

A few people i haven't met yet know my first name.

At socials most people call me midnight - a few ask what my real name is... And then continue to call me midight, which is fine by me as i prefer it

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By *rHotNottsMan
20 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Real

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By *ot to giggleWoman
20 weeks ago

Coventry

what Giggles isnt my real name!!!!! who knew!

yea i have told my real name, yet still most seems to call me Giggles or Giggs - I feel a real conversation or Im about to hear a revelation if they use my other name

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By *ootyfruityCouple
20 weeks ago

andover

Yeah we give out our names in person, just not on fab

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By *oadsafun1960Man
20 weeks ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I give my real name to people I have a connection with, otherwise it feels like I'm starting something with a lie?

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
20 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

First name yes, if we meet more than once i will tell them my last name too.

I prefer a FWB so you tell your friends your real name

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By *erfHerder74Man
20 weeks ago

Greenock

If I meet them in person at a social , a function or something yes.

If it’s chat sometimes.

If it’s a one of they don’t usually ask.

If it becomes regular sex and friends yes

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By *onkeynutWoman
20 weeks ago

somewhere

I tell them my real name, if I didn’t and they called me monkey or Lucy in the middle of things… well that would be off putting to say the least

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By *ubikslongswordMan
20 weeks ago

East Grinstead

I'm still getting used to my new fab name, but most people I met off fab called me doughnut, only a few call me by my actual name (Adam)

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By *d mirerMan
20 weeks ago

lost

I use my real name when I get to know someone . Mine is fairly uncommon name and I couldn’t talk to someone and use a fake or profile name .

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By *JcuriousCouple
20 weeks ago

Derby

We always use our real names when we meet people, don't mind what other people do that's their choice, to us it makes no difference

Miss S x

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By *eordieJeansCouple
20 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We tell them our first names. We’re not bright enough to keep up with fake names.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
20 weeks ago

St Neots

We use our real names. For the record, it's Shaun and Slut

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By *8on33Man
20 weeks ago

winfrith

"The people you meet off here your real name(s) or do you use your username ? & does it really matter if you don’t tell them your name(s) ? "
I have done and them me

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By *ark n kimCouple
20 weeks ago

Durham

We use our real names if we meet people.

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By *hrek101Man
20 weeks ago

Herts

Ken Adams

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By *ipsforlipsMan
20 weeks ago

Midlands

I use my name - life's complicated enough already

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By *oo..Woman
20 weeks ago

Boo's World

The majority of people still call me Boo even if we've met loads at socials.

Probably 15 people know my real name from fab

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
20 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

People know my real name yes I tell them, but I get called so many other names

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By *ookie46Woman
20 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I use my real name but I still get Cookie, especially at organised socials

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
20 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

"Ken Adams

Nice to meet you, I'm Regina Phalange

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
20 weeks ago

St Neots

"I use my real name but I still get Cookie, especially at organised socials "

If I ever meet you at one of these socials, I'm definitely calling you cooooooookieee, the way you say it

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By *WB85Man
20 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Yeah but only my first name.

I don't need social media stalkers.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
20 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

My real name is Rodney bust most people call me Dave.

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By *NewBNWOMan
20 weeks ago

back

got like 6 names I could be anyone

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By *hrek101Man
20 weeks ago

Herts

"Ken Adams

Nice to meet you, I'm Regina Phalange

My work here is done

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By *ookie46Woman
20 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I use my real name but I still get Cookie, especially at organised socials

If I ever meet you at one of these socials, I'm definitely calling you cooooooookieee, the way you say it

Haha everyone does

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By *eah BabyCouple
20 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

If we are meeting we tell them our real name, people that have become good friends with along the way know our surname, which is probably about a dozen or so

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By *rispyDuckMan
20 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Tell them my real name as I’m about to tell you lucky lot

“Long, James Long”

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By *andy Canes OP Woman
20 weeks ago

south

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
20 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

My real first name is on my profile

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
20 weeks ago

Stourbridge

I am Spartacus.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Real names ish. She has always gone by a nickname since she was a teenager so she uses that.

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By *nkedguy777Man
20 weeks ago

Manchester

I tell them my real name

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By *ea monkeyMan
20 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Lots of people know my real name, I still get called Tea. Even partners call me it!

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By *issmorganWoman
20 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

A few people know my real first name.

If we've chatted at length etc I couldn't make false ones up, I'd forget it lol.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
20 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Lots of people know my real name, I still get called Tea. Even partners call me it!

I suffer the same fate.

I get introduced as Obi at socials by people who've known my real name for years.

I guess people like to be able to link someone to a Fab profile.

I did chuckle at a UTB social once where I'd been talking to a forum regular for about half an hour, we'd introduced ourselves using real names and when we finally asked who we were on Fab it was one of those 'oh fuuuuuuuck, really?' moments.

*for good reasons. We hadn't blocked eachother.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
20 weeks ago

Sheffield

Real name x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Real Name ?

My name is Granny

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
20 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I did chuckle at a UTB social once where I'd been talking to a forum regular for about half an hour, we'd introduced ourselves using real names and when we finally asked who we were on Fab it was one of those 'oh fuuuuuuuck, really?' moments.

Yeah, I get that at socials too. Not gonna lie though, I kind of enjoy it. The ‘fuuuuuck’ moment amuses me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Im not secretive enough to keep secrets

One one meeting, I turned around to find 'the meet' reading my gym membership card n complimenting me on my name and him for knowing it!

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By *ad NannaWoman
20 weeks ago

East London

Most people at group socials call me Nana. A couple of them call me Val. Not many know my actual name.

I have sent the link to my home STI tests to one person who I trust, which has my first and last name on it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
20 weeks ago

East London

People can tell me their real name. I'll forget it immediately.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
20 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

"We use our real names. For the record, it's Shaun and Slut "

It must of been an interesting wedding ceremony

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
20 weeks ago

your head

I give out my real first name once I meet someone face to face. Some people choose to use it, some call me Tink. I'm happy with either.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Horsham

Depends on the situation.

If I am meeting at thier place, then my real name.

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By *ansoffateMan
20 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I have a hidden in plain sight strategy. Hans is actually my real name but I give a different name later.

Always thinking me, one step ahead and all that.

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By *hunky GentMan
20 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I tend to give people my real name after a little chat on here

Then they can either use that or my username (or versions of it).

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By *2000ManMan
20 weeks ago

Worthing

Only one person knows my real name who I have never met. The few meetings I've had, they know my real name.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Birmingham

When was involved in the kink scene very few knew my real name and even if they did most used my nick

Not really been a factor on here though one or two know it

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By *he KakapoMan
20 weeks ago

A nice rock

My real name is on my profile.

Remembering more than one us way beyond my memory skills

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By *vaRose43Woman
20 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

Yes I tell anyone I’m meeting my real name

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By *uriousscouserWoman
20 weeks ago

Wirral

I use my real name. My name is a very common one, both first name and surname (three of us at my current employer, two in my last, three when I was at school).

It's not information that anyone would easily be able to abuse!

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By *he Silver FuxMan
20 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

So this couple I’d played with a few times, always led to believe their names were actually Ross and Eva, cool couple, sexy.. had a a lady friend join us to make it a foursome and overheard him (Ross) introduce themselves to her as Brian and Sandra… wtf for not telling me their real names and telling my lady friend upon their first ever encounter

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By *host63Man
20 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Real name

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By *ellroseWoman
20 weeks ago

Brum

I tell them my real name but at socials they still call me Mel

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I use my real name. My name is a very common one, both first name and surname (three of us at my current employer, two in my last, three when I was at school).

It's not information that anyone would easily be able to abuse!"

Jane Smith! I knew it was you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
20 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I've given my real name to two people so far: one I'm possibly having a social meet with tomorrow, and one I'm currently messaging. It's a pretty common name and I have my face pics on my profile, so I'm not exactly precious about keeping it a secret, but I also won't share it willy-nilly without reason."

Your a fast mover Keith. I'm not over you yet.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
20 weeks ago

Reading

First name yes. Surnames rarely comes up.

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By *anilla switchWoman
20 weeks ago

Hampshire

At social events friends call me VS, it sounds odd getting called my real name.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
20 weeks ago

London

Can't remember it coming up in a meet tbh. I don't use a femme name though

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By *omptationMan
20 weeks ago

liverpool

Generally I will use my fab name. If weve been talking and got on well other than swinging chat I will give my real name at a meet.

Some people I have never even asked nor been asked and so remain anonymous aside from my username

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By *ealitybitesMan
20 weeks ago

Belfast

In all the years I've been here I could count on one hand the number of people who know my first name and only 2 or 3 who know my full name.

On the flip side I don't know many peoples names even after chatting to them for years.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
20 weeks ago

North West

"I use my real name. My name is a very common one, both first name and surname (three of us at my current employer, two in my last, three when I was at school).

It's not information that anyone would easily be able to abuse!"

Whereas both my names are super uncommon and when put together, might even be entirely unique

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By *he Silver FuxMan
20 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

Not many people know this but…

If you’ve given someone a mobile number for a phone on which you have an online banking app

They can make a request for payment or bill share to your number and by a little unknown quirk it will provide them with your full name as it’s part of the security cross check protocols.

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By *ust another WonkoMan
20 weeks ago

here and there

If I ever get a meet I will let you know

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By *riel13Woman
20 weeks ago

Northampton

I tell them my real name but some that I remain friends with still call me Ariel

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By *JcuriousCouple
20 weeks ago

Derby

"I tell them my real name but some that I remain friends with still call me Ariel

I think it's what you get used too, I still refer to some people by their username when speaking about them to Mr J even though we know their name

Miss S x

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By *ilyandronCouple
20 weeks ago

Bristol

Only real name once we meet.

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By *x SmithMan
20 weeks ago

East Lancs

I needed stitches after a glass broke while I was washing up. Waiting in the minor injury clinic, my name was called, three people stood up. Y'all can guess my name from that, and much good it'll do ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Real name when meeting, otherwise usersname

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By *scaMan
20 weeks ago

Herts / London / Beyond

I'm a big believer in honesty being the best policy. I also trust my instincts

I'm not here for endless one off's - so knowing each others real names is pretty important to me.

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By *JandCMCouple
20 weeks ago

cardiff

Once we have made contact via phone or text then we go to real names.

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