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By *ingleguyforfunsw OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Cornwall

New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
12 weeks ago

North Angus

Account

Privacy settings

“Allow my photos to be fabbed” Off

Sorted

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By *elloWoman
12 weeks ago

alpha centauri

How are bi and gay men looking at your photos and video hindering your chance having NSA with women ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I think you'll find most places geared towards NSA sex will be dominated by the male species

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts

If fab is over run by anything it’s single straight men, who form the majority of users and crate a hugely distorted ratio v straight women and couples.

If you’re gonna say the place is overrun by someone at least be statistically correct

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By *obilebottomMan
12 weeks ago

All over

Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

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By *obilebottomMan
12 weeks ago

All over


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear. "

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Stop being gay and suck a cock

The mr

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen. "

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people. "

I thought it was just for gay people

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By *obilebottomMan
12 weeks ago

All over


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen. "

Pps, and is that video any good? I have not seen it.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
12 weeks ago

Near Keith


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "

I would second Hello's question: how do the actions of other, unrelated members in any way affect your prospects with those you're looking for? Even if every gay and bi man left the site there'd still be the same number of women.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people "

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there

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By *elloWoman
12 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

Pps, and is that video any good? I have not seen it. "

Meh

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there "

So who the bloody hell uses it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
12 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Probably because most women are in ninja mode so you can’t see if they look.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there

So who the bloody hell uses it"

Down lows.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there "

The people I know that use it have a definite strong preference for women, but appreciate how relatively easy it is to find a penis when the horn kicks in.

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By *obilebottomMan
12 weeks ago

All over


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

Pps, and is that video any good? I have not seen it.

Meh "

I will wait till the next report on the number of views as OP busy counting them just now

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there

The people I know that use it have a definite strong preference for women, but appreciate how relatively easy it is to find a penis when the horn kicks in."

Whatever floats people's boats o suppose

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there

The people I know that use it have a definite strong preference for women, but appreciate how relatively easy it is to find a penis when the horn kicks in."

Exactly why I don’t use it.

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By *imply DeeWoman
12 weeks ago

Wherever


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

Pps, and is that video any good? I have not seen it. "

I’d wild guess it’s just another one stroking his penis to completion.

Yawn.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
12 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "

Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.

Hope this little fact helps your day

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.

Hope this little fact helps your day "

No doubt that’s true LB but doesn’t help explain how the gay mafia (gafia? Gayfia?) is stopping him from getting laid.

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By *ookup75Man
12 weeks ago

maidstone

No its shit

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By *iberius61Man
12 weeks ago

Pontefract


"...Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen. "

I can also recommend 1zpress hand grinders, I mean as long as you're not a shop needing to do loads, it's a good manual exercise

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.

Hope this little fact helps your day

No doubt that’s true LB but doesn’t help explain how the gay mafia (gafia? Gayfia?) is stopping him from getting laid. "

Those damned gayers! Ruining it for everyone.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

Signpost these kind men to my profile, OP. They won't get any orifices filled by me but they will walk away with this season's sartorial recommendations.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there

So who the bloody hell uses it"

"Straight" guys looking for trans people to suck them. Go on there as a trans and you're like a Cape fur seal in chummed water...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
12 weeks ago

Cheshire


"Probably because most women are in ninja mode so you can’t see if they look. "

This women use ninja mode so they don’t get messages asking why they looked or are they interested.

So there could be 100’s of ladies that looked and just waiting for the right time to message you.

Or not

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there

So who the bloody hell uses it

"Straight" guys looking for trans people to suck them. Go on there as a trans and you're like a Cape fur seal in chummed water...

"

And so chummed water soon becomes cummed water

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
12 weeks ago

London


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people. "

Haha perfect description

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people

Last time I used it hardly any gay people on there

So who the bloody hell uses it

"Straight" guys looking for trans people to suck them. Go on there as a trans and you're like a Cape fur seal in chummed water...

And so chummed water soon becomes cummed water "

It's jizz volcano day... and you're Pompei!

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

I thought it was just for gay people "

Grinder is just for gay people in the same way that fabswingers is just for swingers

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
12 weeks ago

bristol/london


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people. "

Have the down lo straight guys overrun grinder?

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By *hawn ScottMan
12 weeks ago

london Brixton

Despite my profile saying I'm not gay or even remotely curious, I get contacted by guys almost daily.

Just the same as couples profiles will get contacted by single guys.

It's just casting the net, maybe somebody will change their mind.

I just ignore and delete, when you're on a site like this it goes with the territory

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Mauchline


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "

Unfortunately mate, this is just the way Fab is, and as others have previously said, women usually view in stalker mode, so you can’t tell they have looked at your ‘content’….

Any appreciation is always welcome, take the compliment, and join the campaign to get Fab admin to provide an ‘Actually straight’ classification for profiles

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By *eneralKenobiMan
12 weeks ago

North Angus


"Despite my profile saying I'm not gay or even remotely curious, I get contacted by guys almost daily.

Just the same as couples profiles will get contacted by single guys.

It's just casting the net, maybe somebody will change their mind.

I just ignore and delete, when you're on a site like this it goes with the territory "

You know of the filters to stop certain groups from messaging?

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"So who the bloody hell uses it"

In London, mostly substance addicts and scammers.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "

Change your settings so gay/bi guys can't message/wink you etc. Also switch off the "fab my pics/vids" button.

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By *hawn ScottMan
12 weeks ago

london Brixton


"Despite my profile saying I'm not gay or even remotely curious, I get contacted by guys almost daily.

Just the same as couples profiles will get contacted by single guys.

It's just casting the net, maybe somebody will change their mind.

I just ignore and delete, when you're on a site like this it goes with the territory

You know of the filters to stop certain groups from messaging? "

Actually no, but I do now

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By *eneralKenobiMan
12 weeks ago

North Angus


"Despite my profile saying I'm not gay or even remotely curious, I get contacted by guys almost daily.

Just the same as couples profiles will get contacted by single guys.

It's just casting the net, maybe somebody will change their mind.

I just ignore and delete, when you're on a site like this it goes with the territory

You know of the filters to stop certain groups from messaging?

Actually no, but I do now"

Ah! There’s my good deed for the day

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts


"Oh dear. Life can be hard at times. So many crosses to bear.

Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

It’s an app where down lo straight guys send ‘hey’ messages to gay people.

Have the down lo straight guys overrun grinder? "

I don’t know about now. When I was ok there I was one bad experience away from growing a moustache and moving to Basingstoke under a false identity.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
12 weeks ago

Stourbridge

I’m straight, I don’t care who looks or comments hence no filters. I’m not going to be convinced to do something if I don’t want to so what’s the problem.

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Arguably, if you are a heterosexual man, more gay men improves your chances statistically. They may well be keeping those bi-men busy for you, so there's less competition.

If I believed such simplistic parameters were determining factors, which I don't. Honestly, I think making it about competition, supply and demand etc is quite unappealing. It's de-individualising.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

So what would you do if you saw a woman FAB your pic/video? Would you be contacting her?

Surely they would message if they liked you enough to and not just appreciate a pic/video.

If your video involves you playing with your cock or it out then you are going to get bicurious and bi guys appreciating it.

Be grateful people enjoy your content and if they aren’t your thing then you just search for what is your thing - it’s not hard on here - people make it hard!

K

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Don't understand the concerns tbh..

There's plenty of straight men on here....they message me every day

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By *hawn ScottMan
12 weeks ago

london Brixton


"So what would you do if you saw a woman FAB your pic/video? Would you be contacting her?

No, liking a picture is just that, take it as a compliment but don't read anymore into it

Surely they would message if they liked you enough to and not just appreciate a pic/video.

If your video involves you playing with your cock or it out then you are going to get bicurious and bi guys appreciating it.

Be grateful people enjoy your content and if they aren’t your thing then you just search for what is your thing - it’s not hard on here - people make it hard!

K"

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

chichester


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?! "

No in a nutshell Tinder is best bet for that.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
12 weeks ago

London


"Don't understand the concerns tbh..

There's plenty of straight men on here....they message me every day "

The majority of messages I get are from straight men. Messaging me for sex isn't a very straight thing to do...

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By *oydykeWoman
12 weeks ago

Southampton (they/them)


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha"

Why is it depressing?

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By * WillisMan
12 weeks ago

london

No it’s turned into fb “like my pictures!”

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By *oydykeWoman
12 weeks ago

Southampton (they/them)

You’re on a sex site…with gay men…there’s gonna be gay men fabbing your pics. Someone fabbing your pics doesn’t mean they are gonna bum you instantly

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.

Hope this little fact helps your day "

Probably not really interested in facts

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By *lfa RomeoMan
12 weeks ago

southeast , Herts, Beds

Like most dating or swingers sites, the men out number the woman by quite some margin. So take it as a compliment OP.

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
12 weeks ago

bristol/london


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?"

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
12 weeks ago

bristol/london


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted."

This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol

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By *p4itfilthMan
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Moat of the likes on my photos are from gay men.... so yeah its grindr

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By *asterMeliodasMan
12 weeks ago

Near Keith


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.

This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol"

I don't get how that's reinforced, though. If men weren't liking your content, those likes wouldn't be getting replaced with likes by anyone else. So rather than some people liking your stuff, nobody would be. Would that really be better from your perspective?

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
12 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

2 days in a row we’ve had a thread with a bloke moaning that men fab his pics. Jesus.

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By *nnCeeWoman
12 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Awww man.... and he's taken his video down now, so I can't watch it anyway!!

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By *viatrixWoman
12 weeks ago

Redhill

The ghey lure us away with cake. Lovely cake.

Ramp up your baking skills OP and the ghey won’t be a threat.

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By *asterMeliodasMan
12 weeks ago

Near Keith


"The ghey lure us away with cake. Lovely cake.

Ramp up your baking skills OP and the ghey won’t be a threat. "

I want cake now.

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By *oydykeWoman
12 weeks ago

Southampton (they/them)


"Moat of the likes on my photos are from gay men.... so yeah its grindr"

Unless you’re having gay sex with the gay men that are liking your photos, it’s not grindr

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
12 weeks ago

bristol/london


"2 days in a row we’ve had a thread with a bloke moaning that men fab his pics. Jesus. "

And fir two days you've read them. Tell the truth big man, you live it! Hahaha

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By *oydykeWoman
12 weeks ago

Southampton (they/them)


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.

This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol"

I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
12 weeks ago

bristol/london


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.

This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol

I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like "

At what point did I say it was a woman's job to do this?

I appreciate you offering your insight, but I don't think we will see eye to eye, so I'll leave this here

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence


"Awww man.... and he's taken his video down now, so I can't watch it anyway!!

"

I believe it was just a wanking video with the camera held close to the penis. Of course not likely to attract gay men at all

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By *r.Vice GuyMan
12 weeks ago

bristol/london


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.

This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol

I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like "

If you can't grasp that im attracted to women and I've built my profile to engage amd attract women, but it hasnt and I'm only attracting men. Then I'm not sure how to clarify how this is demoralising

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By * D 777Man
12 weeks ago

bathgate

lucky you i wish i got fabbed as many times i would not care who did it

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

chichester


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted."

Then perhaps change it up and see if it improves

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

chichester

I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
12 weeks ago

King's Crustacean


"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women "

Did you try and use the toilet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I love fab. And the bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted."

Go dick, you won't regret it.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

chichester


"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women

Did you try and use the toilet ?"

They didn’t like I look like a woman sexually and have boobs even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own

Can’t fucking win lol

To male to be allows to use ladies. To female to able to play with males places lol

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

chichester


"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women

Did you try and use the toilet ?"

I actually got thrown out of a club for using men’s toilets even though I told them I infact own a penis

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
12 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey


"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women

Did you try and use the toilet ?

They didn’t like I look like a woman sexually and have boobs even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own

Can’t fucking win lol

To male to be allows to use ladies. To female to able to play with males places lol "

For fucks sake. I’ve got coffee all over me from snorting laughing reading that

“ even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
12 weeks ago

chichester


"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women

Did you try and use the toilet ?

They didn’t like I look like a woman sexually and have boobs even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own

Can’t fucking win lol

To male to be allows to use ladies. To female to able to play with males places lol

For fucks sake. I’ve got coffee all over me from snorting laughing reading that

“ even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own

"

Hey man just your girl here spitting real facts

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

You get views

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By *aughtyfun_121Man
12 weeks ago

Bradford

To be fair, it is a good size.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
12 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey


"I got banned from Grindr anyway. They didn’t like trans women

Did you try and use the toilet ?

They didn’t like I look like a woman sexually and have boobs even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own

Can’t fucking win lol

To male to be allows to use ladies. To female to able to play with males places lol

For fucks sake. I’ve got coffee all over me from snorting laughing reading that

“ even though I have a dick that most men would eat their own mum to own

Hey man just your girl here spitting real facts "

Just glad I’m using my phone to browse instead of my laptop

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By *heelerMan
12 weeks ago

Northants

I had same problem so altered the filters to not looking for single men no it's fine

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By *ot to giggleWoman
12 weeks ago

Coventry

oh so you post a public video and moan that its fabbed?

will your next post be one where you moan that no one fabbed your video??

i use filters, find it stops a lot of unwanted stuff!! or just dont post videos

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By *asterMeliodasMan
12 weeks ago

Near Keith


"I had same problem so altered the filters to not looking for single men no it's fine"

That doesn't stop them from viewing your profile or fabbing your pics/vids though, does it?

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By *elloWoman
12 weeks ago

alpha centauri

If only men are liking your photos, then maybe you're making content that only interests men. Do some research into what women like and want to see and then maybe women will start to like what you post.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

Some Grindr group will perhaps now be formedz to share the details of when the delicate flower posts another video, so they can love bomb it

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By *ingleguyforfunsw OP   Man
12 weeks ago

Cornwall


"If only men are liking your photos, then maybe you're making content that only interests men. Do some research into what women like and want to see and then maybe women will start to like what you post."

What would you suggest?

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By *elloWoman
12 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"If only men are liking your photos, then maybe you're making content that only interests men. Do some research into what women like and want to see and then maybe women will start to like what you post.

What would you suggest? "

I just googled 'what photos of men do women like ' and there's lots of good tips

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By *hawn ScottMan
12 weeks ago

london Brixton

Stop complaining! I was once the victim of revenge porn when an ex sent nude photos of me to my workmates and put them on a gay hookup site with my phone number.

I had weeks of txts and phonecalls didn’t know how many likes as I got as I didn't know what site they were on!

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By *ringosampaioMan
12 weeks ago

London

Def not turned into Grindr, as Fab has never been, for a time, owned by a giant Chinese conglomerate with a CEO that openly said he disagrees with gay marriage, doesn’t have a history of serious have data breaches, and it doesn’t absolutely pound you with mobile gaming ads every time you open it.

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By * and R cple4Couple
12 weeks ago

swansea

You have to accept it's a part of fab. You can easily stop men from messaging and just stop your photos from being fabbed.

We fab people's pictures mainly because we like the picture even if we don't want to sleep with them we can admire a nice picture.

We have straight people message us and fab our pics all the time when it's clear that's not what we are looking for. How bloody dare they ..

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By *etropolitainMan
12 weeks ago

Redworth Co Durham


"If fab is over run by anything it’s single straight men, who form the majority of users and crate a hugely distorted ratio v straight women and couples.

If you’re gonna say the place is overrun by someone at least be statistically correct "

Totally agree

And the only messages I get are from bi or gay men lol

Yes I’ve got veris and it says men

But they were with the gf or wife lol

And they wanted to see the boyfriend or hubby watch me fuck them

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By *anilla switchWoman
12 weeks ago

Hampshire


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

Exactly this ^^^

Lots of women only view in ninja mode OP.

Hope this little fact helps your day "

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By *oydykeWoman
12 weeks ago

Southampton (they/them)


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.

This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol

I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like

If you can't grasp that im attracted to women and I've built my profile to engage amd attract women, but it hasnt and I'm only attracting men. Then I'm not sure how to clarify how this is demoralising "

No, I really am struggling to understand; unless you’re fucking those gay men, what’s a problem if they fab your pics? It’s literally just a like.

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By *oydykeWoman
12 weeks ago

Southampton (they/them)


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted.

This is then reinforced by men liking my content. Like, so I'm only attractive to gay men... downtime help that I'm bald with a goatie. Stereotypical gay man look lol

I’m not understanding this. It’s not women’s responsibility to make sure you don’t feel ugly and unwanted. Would you rather nobody likes your pics? Why are you turning something positive into something negative? I’m a lesbian and men fab my pics more than women do and I don’t care. A likes a like

If you can't grasp that im attracted to women and I've built my profile to engage amd attract women, but it hasnt and I'm only attracting men. Then I'm not sure how to clarify how this is demoralising "

Also, your name is literally Oscars Wild…do you not understand the connotations that’s giving off?

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By *oiluvfunMan
12 weeks ago

Mauchline


"New video up, last 100 to view my profile all male! Fab is overrun with gay and bi men. Flattering they love my vid however not exactly why I joined Fab!

Any other sites less populated by this group and better chance for straight men to find nsa sex?!

I agree mate. Majority of the likes I get are from men. Same with winks. It's fucking depressing to be honest haha

Why is it depressing?

Because I like women and they're not liking what I post, which in turn leads me to feeling ugky/unwanted."

Women don’t (or rarely) Fab pics and vids because they think it will act as a ‘come-on’ to the recipient, thereby leading to unwanted mail in already overflowing inboxes……the poor things

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

If I got 100 views I'd be very happy! I wouldn't care who!

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"...Ps, what is grinder? I have a coffee one on the kitchen.

I can also recommend 1zpress hand grinders, I mean as long as you're not a shop needing to do loads, it's a good manual exercise "

You should grind using burrs and not blades like in the cheap electric or bean to cup machines.

Grinding with burrs releases oils. A great coffee is all in the grind, get that right and any old beans and press will do.

That’s the only grinding off of here I’m doing

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By *issmorganWoman
12 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Use your filters and block men op, there's lots of straight men, women and couples on fab too.

I used to get winks and messages from couples looking for that elusive ffm, but I blocked them, as that's not what I'm looking for.

Without knowing what was on the video, I can't say if it was because it was more appealing to men.Certain pics ie action or cock shots may attract more women than men though.

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