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"..... feel desirable??" Since your profile says not to lie to you, I'll be honest: not really, at the moment. | |||
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP? I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos " The new photos are lush , you’ll find a positive place x | |||
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP? I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos " We are positive, it’s instilled within us and if you don’t feel it…just dig a little deeper and you’ll unleash it Never feel anything but positive, amazing or absolutely god damn sensational Because we all are in our own ways, and those are the ways that matter | |||
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"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest " Not yet you may not have, but never feel deflated by a momentary lack of mojo….it will return and I’m sure then, when that happens… You will embrace that | |||
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"It's not something I ever really think too much about " Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes. | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" No, never. I’m always surprised when someone expresses an interest in me x | |||
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"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest Not yet you may not have, but never feel deflated by a momentary lack of mojo….it will return and I’m sure then, when that happens… You will embrace that " yeah thank you | |||
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"It's not something I ever really think too much about Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes." Desirable you have in abundance and why wouldn’t you? You are absolutely sensational and that’s not just my thoughts….the masses do and if they don’t then they need to find a screwdriver And tighten their loose screw | |||
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"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest " I hear you. Menopause has me looking old and haggard & fatter than ever. If I didn't have boobs , no one would desire me! | |||
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"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest I hear you. Menopause has me looking old and haggard & fatter than ever. If I didn't have boobs , no one would desire me! " | |||
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"It is strange how our minds work and may undermine our self esteem - possibly not best to listen to the voices in your head, but rather get reassurance and confirmation off friends and family (assuming that family don't just take the piss). I am not overly bothered as to whether others find me desirable or not and I don't really think about it (I am not a big one for introspection)." I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" Women are falling over each other. In the rush to get away from me. | |||
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" I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly " I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob' | |||
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" I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob' " I can work with that | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" Not at the moment.. I am struggling to lose weight at the moment. I have been working away from home, working weird hours and eating in restaurants. I need a more frugal existence for a few months | |||
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"Nope, in fact most of the time socially I feel invisible. Works the only time I seem to interact with folks face to face - sad really " I second this. | |||
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" I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob' I can work with that " Still off topic, but must admit (until I clicked on it) that I thought your profile picture was one of those biological anatomical drawings - was expecting heart, lungs, stomach, colon, etc to be annotated on it! Simple we soul here | |||
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" I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob' I can work with that Still off topic, but must admit (until I clicked on it) that I thought your profile picture was one of those biological anatomical drawings - was expecting heart, lungs, stomach, colon, etc to be annotated on it! Simple we*** soul here " ***wee | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" I wouldn't know how desirable I feel midnight? but I can definitely say this year has been a huge turning point for me and I'm feeling very comfortable in my own skin and more alive than I have in a good old while, In my eyes your a very desirable woman and oh my, that voice. Sexy as hell mate! | |||
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" I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob' I can work with that Still off topic, but must admit (until I clicked on it) that I thought your profile picture was one of those biological anatomical drawings - was expecting heart, lungs, stomach, colon, etc to be annotated on it! Simple we soul here " Like a kind of Vitruvian Volupta? I like that idea for my next photo | |||
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"I’ve never met desirable. Would she mind me feeling her? " You met ME, you cheeky sod! | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" Haha no I don’t, not in the least. But you carry on, don’t you? | |||
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"I’ve never met desirable. Would she mind me feeling her? You met ME, you cheeky sod! " Haha. Did you mind | |||
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"Oh yes! The fact that I get little to no attention on here has nothing to do with it; I know people desire me, even if they don't say so." Oh wait, sorry my dyslexia just got the better of me, I read "delusional". | |||
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"… I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos " Well, your are certainly extremely desirable to me. You have even replied to some of my messages, that makes you an absolute heroine! | |||
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"It's not something I ever really think too much about Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes." Once again Meli puts my thoughts into words better than I ever could! | |||
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"It's not something I ever really think too much about Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes. Once again Meli puts my thoughts into words better than I ever could!" Meli definitely has a straight to the point way of putting things that everyone can resonate with don’t you think? | |||
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"I enjoy the feeling of mutual desire. I tend not to think about being desirable as I think it's a bit of a fool's errand. " I agree. Mutual desire/want/lust is amazing. I don’t really think about it beyond that | |||
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP? I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos " Sorry to hear that midnight, you are a desirable lady, I desire you even though you live miles away. Next time you are feeling lonely call me | |||
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"Do you feel desirable??" Not just now, no. But generally, yes. | |||
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"Nope. Perimenopause has put paid to that. For now. " Same. I feel awful and I hope things improve. | |||
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"No I don't, I feel an old and frumpy mess. " Come feel me instead | |||
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" Like a kind of Vitruvian Volupta? I like that idea for my next photo " Goes in search of a dictionary | |||
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" Like a kind of Vitruvian Volupta? I like that idea for my next photo " That works for me! | |||
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health." I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. | |||
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health. I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. " There's doggy style whilst you have two toilet rolls stuffed in each nostril. I hear you on the hay fever, thank god the season is over | |||
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health. I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. " For the lady - stick a towel on the pillow, assume The Position and let your nose drip onto the towel. For the gent - place the towel on the lady's rear shelf and let your nose drip onto the towel. Never say I'm not solution-focused | |||
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"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. " Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good. | |||
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"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good." keep your snot thank you!! | |||
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health. I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. For the lady - stick a towel on the pillow, assume The Position and let your nose drip onto the towel. For the gent - place the towel on the lady's rear shelf and let your nose drip onto the towel. Never say I'm not solution-focused " That's a better solution than granny knickers and a maxi pad over your head with a snorkel. I have a tendency to over-engineer. | |||
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"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good." I feel your pain RTG | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" Only when holding cake | |||
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"..... feel desirable?? Only when holding cake " Oh cake! Can I have some? | |||
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"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health. I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. There's doggy style whilst you have two toilet rolls stuffed in each nostril. I hear you on the hay fever, thank god the season is over " The season never ends for some of us. | |||
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"No. I think people like the idea of me, or the challenge of me. But not actually me." If they are disappointed you can always introduce them to your sweetie drawer on the way out? | |||
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"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good." That should be illegal | |||
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP? I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos " The photos look amazing! I hope they help you to feel more positive and back to a happy place | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" Yes at the moment once I am dressed and ready to go out I do feel very desirable. | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" Never have. Felt other things though, ugly, undesirable, stupid, pointless. | |||
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"..... feel desirable?? Never have. Felt other things though, ugly, undesirable, stupid, pointless." This | |||
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"..... feel desirable?? Never have. Felt other things though, ugly, undesirable, stupid, pointless." The person with the vice like grip on your cock would suggest at some point you were desired? | |||
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"For Heavens sake..........we are all desirable?" But that wasn’t the question. | |||
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"People find my missus desireable and I have to agree. I'm very lucky " To be fair zed a blind man on a galloping horse riding past your front door would be silly to say your missus is not desirable! | |||
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"For Heavens sake..........we are all desirable? But that wasn’t the question." I get to post 101 and forget what the question was. Forgive an old man with the foibles age foist upon him. | |||
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"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much " Good point. If I were judging this by how much mosquitos love my blood... | |||
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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP? I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place .. Hence the new photos " It's worked! You are not undesirable in the slightest | |||
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"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much " Roaarrrrr | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" In general I don't really think about it. But when I'm with the Mr I could wear a potato sack and feel like the sexiest thing ever. | |||
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"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much " Are there many hungry lions in the NW? You probably should avoid the Manchester social as there may be some big cats looking to devour you! | |||
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"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much Are there many hungry lions in the NW? You probably should avoid the Manchester social as there may be some big cats looking to devour you!" I would definitely be that Leo the lion… ?? I’m attending that social … yum yum… Roar!! | |||
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"..... feel desirable??" Nah but if the right person got me at the right time, I wouldn’t let them down. | |||
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