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By *midnight- OP Woman
12 weeks ago

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..... feel desirable??

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By *ong alMan
12 weeks ago

barnsley

Nah

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By *entBarryUKMan
12 weeks ago

Ashford

I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?

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By *asterMeliodasMan
12 weeks ago

Near Keith

"..... feel desirable??"

Since your profile says not to lie to you, I'll be honest: not really, at the moment.

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By *ustful_LionessWoman
12 weeks ago

Heaven-sent

Occasionally..

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By *hunky GentMan
12 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Fuck yeah.

I mean, look at me - what woman in their right mind wouldn't find me sexyyyy?

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By *jekimMan
12 weeks ago

Wigan

Not even slightly

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Currently, half assed in no makeup and a slobby wrap dress instead of my usual corsetry, working from home and sat in the dark eating my body weight in chocolate, still yes

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By *illy IdolMan
12 weeks ago

Midlands

To some, yes.

It's a great feeling when someone desires you as much as you desire them.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Stockport

Not particularly. Or, I've tried to be desirable but it doesn't seem to get me anywhere, so I'm pushed towards thinking that whatever attractiveness I might have about myself, the rest of the world don't see it.

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By *nkedguy777Man
12 weeks ago

Manchester

Nope not all tbh

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By *midnight- OP Woman
12 weeks ago

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"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?"

I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place

.. Hence the new photos

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By *eneralKenobiMan
12 weeks ago

North Angus

At the moment I feel more like a bowel movement

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By *mber SkiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

No not at all

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Never considered it. I know who / what I desire , that’s what matters to me.

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By *d mirerMan
12 weeks ago

lost

Feel , no

Never

Never actually consider it , sometimes , very rarely I’m told so . The very rarely is very

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By *restonguy1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

I feel unique, one of a kind and probably the most positive person ever

And I’m more than happy with that and who I am

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By *d mirerMan
12 weeks ago

lost

"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?

I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place

.. Hence the new photos "

The new photos are lush , you’ll find a positive place x

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By *imply DeeWoman
12 weeks ago

Wherever

Not at the moment, no.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral

Sexually desirable no, not at present.

Desirable company yes, most of the time.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Central

Yes. It's not a feeling, I'd include emotions for that. And assess desire with my mind

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By *restonguy1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?

I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place

.. Hence the new photos "

We are positive, it’s instilled within us and if you don’t feel it…just dig a little deeper and you’ll unleash it

Never feel anything but positive, amazing or absolutely god damn sensational

Because we all are in our own ways, and those are the ways that matter

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By *mber SkiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest

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By *ustamanMan
12 weeks ago

weymouth

Nope, in fact most of the time socially I feel invisible. Works the only time I seem to interact with folks face to face - sad really

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By *he love catsCouple
12 weeks ago

South Wales

As part of a couple yes. Individually not so much.

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By *ellinever70Woman
12 weeks ago

Ayrshire

It's not something I ever really think too much about

Most folks probably don't actively feel desirable when they're just going about their daily business

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By *restonguy1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest

Not yet you may not have, but never feel deflated by a momentary lack of mojo….it will return and I’m sure then, when that happens…

You will embrace that

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By *uri00620Woman
12 weeks ago

Croydon

Not right now. I'm gross and full of cold. And I haven't shaved my legs in about a week.

I'm saying no.

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By *eliWoman
12 weeks ago

"It's not something I ever really think too much about

Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
12 weeks ago

kent

"..... feel desirable??"

No, never. I’m always surprised when someone expresses an interest in me x

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By *mber SkiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest

Not yet you may not have, but never feel deflated by a momentary lack of mojo….it will return and I’m sure then, when that happens…

You will embrace that

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yeah thank you

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By *restonguy1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

"It's not something I ever really think too much about

Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes."

Desirable you have in abundance and why wouldn’t you?

You are absolutely sensational and that’s not just my thoughts….the masses do and if they don’t then they need to find a screwdriver

And tighten their loose screw

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
12 weeks ago

Leeds

I guess so, I still clock the odd bird checking me out, or the Mrs tells me “ she was staring at your arse “. So I must be doing something right.

The mr

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral.

"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest

I hear you. Menopause has me looking old and haggard & fatter than ever. If I didn't have boobs , no one would desire me!

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By *mber SkiesWoman
12 weeks ago

Cardiff-ish

"I think a lot of it is to do with my age & being on the change I am on hormone replacement it is helping a bit but just no mojo in the slightest

I hear you. Menopause has me looking old and haggard & fatter than ever. If I didn't have boobs , no one would desire me!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

It is strange how our minds work and may undermine our self esteem - possibly not best to listen to the voices in your head, but rather get reassurance and confirmation off friends and family (assuming that family don't just take the piss).

I am not overly bothered as to whether others find me desirable or not and I don't really think about it (I am not a big one for introspection).

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral.

"It is strange how our minds work and may undermine our self esteem - possibly not best to listen to the voices in your head, but rather get reassurance and confirmation off friends and family (assuming that family don't just take the piss).

I am not overly bothered as to whether others find me desirable or not and I don't really think about it (I am not a big one for introspection)."

I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
12 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Yep, next question

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By *otsossieMan
12 weeks ago

Chesterfield

No but I am sure what day of the week it is, so there’s that.

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By *agatoXXXMan
12 weeks ago

Mordor

"..... feel desirable??"

Women are falling over each other.

In the rush to get away from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly

I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob'

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By *hilloutMan
12 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

At times, particularly if my mojo is on the rise.

How about you my dear?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

Sometimes yes, it's very mood dependent.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral.

I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly

I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob' "

I can work with that

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By *B69Woman
12 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Some days I do and others I don’t, today is a good day

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
12 weeks ago

hexham

"..... feel desirable??"

Not at the moment.. I am struggling to lose weight at the moment. I have been working away from home, working weird hours and eating in restaurants.

I need a more frugal existence for a few months

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By *hrek101Man
12 weeks ago

Herts

"Nope, in fact most of the time socially I feel invisible. Works the only time I seem to interact with folks face to face - sad really

I second this.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly

I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob'

I can work with that

Still off topic, but must admit (until I clicked on it) that I thought your profile picture was one of those biological anatomical drawings - was expecting heart, lungs, stomach, colon, etc to be annotated on it!

Simple we soul here

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By *viatrixWoman
12 weeks ago

Redhill

Comes and goes. Now, not particularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly

I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob'

I can work with that

Simple we*** soul here

***wee

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By *oo..Woman
12 weeks ago

Boo's World

Nope, far from it at present

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I do when a certain someone is here, saying and doing things to me that make me feel desired.

But not so much the rest of the time. I think it can depend on what else is going on in your life and how your general mood is affected

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By *ynamicnatureMan
12 weeks ago

Doncaster

"..... feel desirable??"

I wouldn't know how desirable I feel midnight? but I can definitely say this year has been a huge turning point for me and I'm feeling very comfortable in my own skin and more alive than I have in a good old while,

In my eyes your a very desirable woman and oh my, that voice. Sexy as hell mate!

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By *ojudgmentzoneMan
12 weeks ago

somewhere

Sometimes. Today not so much

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By *andT2023Couple
12 weeks ago

in the middle

Not right now lol ...but i do have my moments

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By *teve1867Man
12 weeks ago

wirral

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By *iddlesticksMan
12 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’ve never met desirable.

Would she mind me feeling her?

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By *luebell888Woman
12 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Not really.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral.

I don't often think about it, either. The thread caused me to think so I answered honestly

I like your sense of humour - I am ticking the box for 'Knob'

I can work with that

Simple we soul here

Like a kind of Vitruvian Volupta? I like that idea for my next photo

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Some days I do. Others I don’t. It ebbs and flows. Over all, I am desirable to some, and not to others. I am desirable company as a friend.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral.

"I’ve never met desirable.

Would she mind me feeling her?

You met ME, you cheeky sod!

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I enjoy the feeling of mutual desire.

I tend not to think about being desirable as I think it's a bit of a fool's errand.

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By *r TriomanMan
12 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Oh yes! The fact that I get little to no attention on here has nothing to do with it; I know people desire me, even if they don't say so.

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By *omptationMan
12 weeks ago

liverpool

"..... feel desirable??"

Haha no I don’t, not in the least. But you carry on, don’t you?

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By *iddlesticksMan
12 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"I’ve never met desirable.

Would she mind me feeling her?

You met ME, you cheeky sod!

Haha. Did you mind

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By *r TriomanMan
12 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Oh yes! The fact that I get little to no attention on here has nothing to do with it; I know people desire me, even if they don't say so."

Oh wait, sorry my dyslexia just got the better of me, I read "delusional".

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By *entlemanFoxMan
12 weeks ago

North East / London

"…

I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place

.. Hence the new photos "

Well, your are certainly extremely desirable to me.

You have even replied to some of my messages, that makes you an absolute heroine!

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By *aizyWoman
12 weeks ago

west midlands

"It's not something I ever really think too much about

Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes."

Once again Meli puts my thoughts into words better than I ever could!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I do

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By *oadsafun1960Man
12 weeks ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

Nah not really, I'm just me

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By *restonguy1981Man
12 weeks ago

preston

"It's not something I ever really think too much about

Very much this. I feel desired by some, desire some and that's as much thought as I give it, bar now. Desirable? Maybe sometimes.

Once again Meli puts my thoughts into words better than I ever could!"

Meli definitely has a straight to the point way of putting things that everyone can resonate with don’t you think?

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
12 weeks ago

Maidstone

I feel desirable when someone desires me. Otherwise not really. Right now? I'm feeling desirable.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
12 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"I enjoy the feeling of mutual desire.

I tend not to think about being desirable as I think it's a bit of a fool's errand. "

I agree. Mutual desire/want/lust is amazing.

I don’t really think about it beyond that

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By *cLovin2Man
12 weeks ago

Reading

"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?

I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place

.. Hence the new photos "

Sorry to hear that midnight, you are a desirable lady, I desire you even though you live miles away.

Next time you are feeling lonely call me

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I am probably deniable

Potentially friable

Perhaps certifiable

Occasionally despicable

Accused of being abominable

Hopefully reprehensible

But never desirable

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By *eordieJeansCouple
12 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I actually do feel desirable at the minute. I’m married and would prefer to stay that way so I won’t be doing anything with this feeling but it’s still nice.

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By *a LunaWoman
12 weeks ago

South

Nope.

Perimenopause has put paid to that. For now.

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
12 weeks ago

Norwich

Sometimes

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Do you feel desirable??"

Not just now, no.

But generally, yes.

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By *imply DeeWoman
12 weeks ago

Wherever

"Nope.

Perimenopause has put paid to that. For now.

Same. I feel awful and I hope things improve.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
12 weeks ago

Next Door

No I don't, I feel an old and frumpy mess.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
12 weeks ago

North Angus

"No I don't, I feel an old and frumpy mess.

Come feel me instead

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By *ittlebirdWoman
12 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Now I feel like me entirely. Yes

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By *eroLondonMan
12 weeks ago

Mayfair

...with my Alopecia, no.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

For possibly the first time in my life, yeah, I do at the moment.

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By *r SproutMan
12 weeks ago

the middle somewhere

No, people just laugh at me

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Herts

Yeah why not. Not too busy today. Might like myself see how that pans out.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

No. I have always had crap teeth and extensive psoriasis. I've always felt the exact opposite of desirable.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
12 weeks ago

London

No, it's why I overcompensate in my pics.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Like a kind of Vitruvian Volupta? I like that idea for my next photo

Goes in search of a dictionary

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By *agatoXXXMan
12 weeks ago

Mordor

Like a kind of Vitruvian Volupta? I like that idea for my next photo

That works for me!

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"I find my attractiveness self-belief is knocked down by physical things. Like, if I have really bad hayfever then I won’t expect anyone to find me attractive that week. Know what I mean? I’m only self-confident when I’m in rude health."

I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?

There's no good position.

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
12 weeks ago

North Wales

No, not at the moment

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By *cLovin2Man
12 weeks ago

Reading

I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?

There's no good position. "

There's doggy style whilst you have two toilet rolls stuffed in each nostril.

I hear you on the hay fever, thank god the season is over

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
12 weeks ago

North West

I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?

There's no good position. "

For the lady - stick a towel on the pillow, assume The Position and let your nose drip onto the towel.

For the gent - place the towel on the lady's rear shelf and let your nose drip onto the towel.

Never say I'm not solution-focused

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position. "

Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

No.

I think people like the idea of me, or the challenge of me. But not actually me.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
12 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position.

Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good."

keep your snot thank you!!

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?

There's no good position.

For the lady - stick a towel on the pillow, assume The Position and let your nose drip onto the towel.

For the gent - place the towel on the lady's rear shelf and let your nose drip onto the towel.

Never say I'm not solution-focused

That's a better solution than granny knickers and a maxi pad over your head with a snorkel.

I have a tendency to over-engineer.

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position.

Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good."

I feel your pain RTG

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By *arko2020Man
12 weeks ago

Sale

"..... feel desirable??"

Only when holding cake

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"..... feel desirable??

Only when holding cake

Oh cake! Can I have some?

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"..... feel desirable??"

Sometimes.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
12 weeks ago

London

Categorically no.

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By *avid for comfortMan
12 weeks ago

belfast

Sometimes

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
12 weeks ago

Reading

Right now no but hopefully tomorrow night with my glad rags on I will do. #hotdate.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
12 weeks ago

London

I've had an experience of really bad hayfever and yet a woman still wanted sex persistently. Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring?

There's no good position.

There's doggy style whilst you have two toilet rolls stuffed in each nostril.

I hear you on the hay fever, thank god the season is over "

The season never ends for some of us.

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
12 weeks ago

Durham

I may not be everyone's cup of tea, but I'm definitely someone's shot of tequila and that's all I need to feel desirable.

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By *cLovin2Man
12 weeks ago

Reading

"No.

I think people like the idea of me, or the challenge of me. But not actually me."

If they are disappointed you can always introduce them to your sweetie drawer on the way out?

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By *ell GwynnWoman
12 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Yes, because I feel comfortable in my own skin, healthy, generally content with who I am despite various external challenges that I'm having to tackle.

I probably give far more headspace to my own desires rather than if I'm desirable, if that makes sense.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
12 weeks ago

Sydney University Wank Bank

I absolutely do not.

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By *inkycumsluttWoman
12 weeks ago

St Neots

Definitely not

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By *affron40Woman
12 weeks ago

manchester

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By *egoMan
12 weeks ago

Preston

Sometimes, then i come here for my ego to be smashed. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I didnt untill we had a good open chat 6 months ago and we seem to of taken a step in the right direction, no longer passing ships or lodgers

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By *ubikslongswordMan
12 weeks ago

East Grinstead

Not usually but recently more so

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By *iaisonseekerMan
12 weeks ago

Liverpool

I could paint myself head-to-toe in chocolate body paint, gate-crash the local Chocoholics Anonymous support group and I reckon I'd still fail to drum up much interest.

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By *alcon77Man
12 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

Physically, yes.

Mentally, no.

-I probably am, mentally to be fair, but have self imposed a hermit lifestyle for quite some time.

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By *akHeartWoodMan
12 weeks ago

Crawley

Sometimes

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
12 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"Have you tried fucking someone whilst your nose is pouring? There's no good position.

Those are the times I actually did wish I could breathe through my ears. Going down on a woman whilst your nose is snotty ain’t good."

That should be illegal

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By *entBarryUKMan
12 weeks ago

Ashford

"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?

I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place

.. Hence the new photos "

The photos look amazing! I hope they help you to feel more positive and back to a happy place

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By *hunky GentMan
12 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm sooooooo sexy I even got a pic fabbed today.

Smokinnnnnn

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By *tYourPleasure_80Man
12 weeks ago

Newcastle

Nope

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By *r John WickMan
12 weeks ago

The Continental

Sometimes

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
12 weeks ago

France, Not in

"..... feel desirable??"

Yes at the moment once I am dressed and ready to go out I do feel very desirable.

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By *oeBeansMan
12 weeks ago

Derby

At the minute, I'm not really bothered if I feel desirable as I don't have anything (or anyone) to feel desirable for at the minute. That might change in a positive way depending on the attention I get from people, or negatively if I don't feel like I'm getting that attention I need.

This is a bit long winded so I guess the short answer is that I'm simply not sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

For Heavens sake..........we are all desirable?

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By *octor WhenMan
12 weeks ago

GLASGOW

"..... feel desirable??"

Never have. Felt other things though, ugly, undesirable, stupid, pointless.

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By *idssissyTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Birmingham

"..... feel desirable??

Never have. Felt other things though, ugly, undesirable, stupid, pointless."

This

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By *orny PTMan
12 weeks ago

Peterborough

My hands do.

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
12 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

People find my missus desireable and I have to agree. I'm very lucky

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By *innie The MinxWoman
12 weeks ago

Under the Duvet

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"..... feel desirable??

Never have. Felt other things though, ugly, undesirable, stupid, pointless."

The person with the vice like grip on your cock would suggest at some point you were desired?

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By *affron40Woman
12 weeks ago

manchester

"For Heavens sake..........we are all desirable?"

But that wasn’t the question.

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
12 weeks ago

Hull

In myself yes.

I genuinely wish people would have confidence in themselves and their desirability to others. Not everyone will like everyone else but there is no value to not seeing desirability in themselves and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy as an outward reflection of their inner feelings.

Everyone is desirable mostly you're the only ones who cannot see it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"People find my missus desireable and I have to agree. I'm very lucky

To be fair zed a blind man on a galloping horse riding past your front door would be silly to say your missus is not desirable!

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"For Heavens sake..........we are all desirable?

But that wasn’t the question."

I get to post 101 and forget what the question was. Forgive an old man with the foibles age foist upon him.

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

Nah, not especially.

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By *edeWoman
12 weeks ago

the abyss

To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much

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By *ou only live onceMan
12 weeks ago

London

"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much

Good point. If I were judging this by how much mosquitos love my blood...

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By *cflirtyMan
12 weeks ago

closer than you might think

"I do actually. I'm in a good place and feel pretty positive about myself. How about you OP?

I am trying..... I've had a rough 6 months which culminated in me feeling worthless and completely undesirable... So I'm working on getting back to a positive place

.. Hence the new photos "

It's worked!

You are not undesirable in the slightest

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By *reya73Woman
12 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

Nope. I really don't. Aww. I'd like to though. It's a lovely feeling. I'll work on it.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
12 weeks ago

Essex

"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much

Roaarrrrr

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By *oubleswing2019Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester

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By *oubleswing2019Man
12 weeks ago

Colchester

Nope, not at all. It would go against my own personal thinking to believe I did or should. I am just happy being me. If others think so, then great for them. If they don't, then that's their choice as well. Neither modify my own behaviour nor should they.

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
12 weeks ago

Carlisle

"..... feel desirable??"

In general I don't really think about it. But when I'm with the Mr I could wear a potato sack and feel like the sexiest thing ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much

Are there many hungry lions in the NW? You probably should avoid the Manchester social as there may be some big cats looking to devour you!

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
12 weeks ago

Sydney University Wank Bank

"To whom? A hungry lion ... Probably. Humans... Not so much

Are there many hungry lions in the NW? You probably should avoid the Manchester social as there may be some big cats looking to devour you!"

I would definitely be that Leo the lion… ?? I’m attending that social … yum yum…

Roar!!

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
12 weeks ago

Norwichish

As a couple yes, but that’s because of M. Me on my own I don’t think I’d feel desirable at least not to most of the guys that show attention at a club.

And even women to be honest are normally commenting on her not me.

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By *agnar73Man
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

"..... feel desirable??"

Nah but if the right person got me at the right time, I wouldn’t let them down.

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By *agatoXXXMan
12 weeks ago

Mordor

Things that tell me I am not desirable:

No fabs

No winks

Empty inbox

The frequency with which I get blanked in the forum.

I could tell myself you all have no taste, or I could just face facts.

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By *hilloutMan
12 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

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By *erfHerder74Man
12 weeks ago

Greenock

Sometimes

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