FabSwingers.com forum: Best way to message

By *ayy10 OP Man
12 weeks ago

romford

Ladies what’s the best way to message someone on here seem to have no luck

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By *r John WickMan
12 weeks ago

The Continental

Press the send message button.

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By *ayy10 OP Man
12 weeks ago

romford

really? Never knew it worked

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12 weeks ago

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By *hunky GentMan
12 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *r John WickMan
12 weeks ago

The Continental

On the other hand.

If you want to know WHAT is the best message to send……there is no one size fits all answer.

Read the profile.

Make sure you feel you fit what the recipient is looking for.

Tailor your message to that person.

Don’t write one line.

Don’t write war and peace.

Give people a reason to want to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

The best way is having something to say that gives makes me want to engage with you.

A hello. Faf? Other similar messages just won’t do.

Read the person’s profile and see what they are seeking. Don’t send thousands of messages to every woman here. Be yourself.

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By *imply DeeWoman
12 weeks ago

Wherever

I don’t think there is a way tbh. No matter how good your message is, if you’re not what people are looking for, they won’t reply, which is a fair point as it’s within the website rules.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

I honestly don't know.

I could tell you what would work for *me* but I can almost guarantee it wouldn't work for anyone else.

I think if you stick to

Read profile.

Draft brief, polite message based on above.

Send.

Rinse

Repeat with another profile.

You might eventually get some luck.

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By *laytonAMan
12 weeks ago

Newport

Be polite, add details if they request specific information. Don't expect a reply and don't be a dick.if you really want to connect with people, socials and clubs. Being blunt though, you and I and every single guy are one a million and that's not a compliment. Good luck

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
12 weeks ago

south coast IOW

The main thing is read their profile and see what they are looking for. Dont just say ‘hi’ or ‘hi hows you’. Things like that are annoying when you get several a day. Try and engage with their profile and wants etc.

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