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Do you notice/look at a man’s bulge in public ?

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By *obby-nn OP   Man
32 weeks ago

Northampton

Was having a conversation with a coworker today and she mentioned that the first thing she looks at when meeting guys is to see if theres a bulge in the trousers…

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
32 weeks ago

Leeds

No I can't say I have noticed, I noticed the builders arse crack more.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
32 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Nope, it never occurs to me to look. I didn't know people did this.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Usually look at their feet to see what pasties they’re wearing.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
32 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *riel13Woman
32 weeks ago

Northampton

No... I like faces

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By *WV9715Man
32 weeks ago

Nottingham

Sure it’s been proven to be a natural reaction if you find someone attractive.

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By *ad NannaWoman
32 weeks ago

East London

I've noticed them, but I don't stare.

On public transport they're often right in front of your face, so you can't miss them.

I prefer faces, but it's illegal to stare on trains now.

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By *atty CoramWoman
32 weeks ago

Wimbledon

No...because I'm not a neanderthal.

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By *oxy jWoman
32 weeks ago

somerset

id be lying if i said i didnt but do i look at all men nope if my eyes are to go down to the bulge he has to be a hot guy in the first place and i would not make it obvious unless hes flirting

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By *r99mr99Man
32 weeks ago

Ealing

I don't look, however if it becomes apparent that it's there...

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By *naswingdressWoman
32 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. That would be crass.

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By *iker JackMan
32 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

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By *ayd100Man
32 weeks ago

clitheroe

Why not

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By *heltered- girlWoman
32 weeks ago

Darlington

Only on the beach or around the pool on hols

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I never notice bulges but I’m straight so I’m always finding cameltoes. It’s like my life is a walk through an Arabian desert in the second century

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

I have caught woman staring at my bulge whilst out cycling

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By *naswingdressWoman
32 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Weird world

If a man stated to a female co worker that the first thing he checks out on a woman is her vagina to see if it’s noticeable I’m sure there’d be all sorts of HR issues being raised

But if this is true it’s okay for a woman to do it "

Some people talk about harassment only being harassment if the harasser is unattractive. While I don't agree with that, I can see why (some) men would be more ok with it than the same number of women.

Unfortunately there's this idea that women displaying sexuality in public isn't to be taken seriously, because we can't be a threat, while men can. It's sexist and patronising, and means women can get away with a lot that we shouldn't.

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By *ansoffateMan
32 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"Weird world

If a man stated to a female co worker that the first thing he checks out on a woman is her vagina to see if it’s noticeable I’m sure there’d be all sorts of HR issues being raised

But if this is true it’s okay for a woman to do it

Some people talk about harassment only being harassment if the harasser is unattractive. While I don't agree with that, I can see why (some) men would be more ok with it than the same number of women.

Unfortunately there's this idea that women displaying sexuality in public isn't to be taken seriously, because we can't be a threat, while men can. It's sexist and patronising, and means women can get away with a lot that we shouldn't."

I completely agree with you: all of it. As a man who isn't ok with it, because it can be a trigger, it's something very difficult for me to talk about - and my experience is that it isn't usually received well when I try - so thank you for making that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Do I notice every man’s bulge? No.

Have I looked at a random man’s bulge? Yes. Never stare at it though. Usually on the Tube or similar. It’s practically in your face and unavoidable.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
32 weeks ago

Central

ALL the time

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Of course they don't.... And that's why grey joggers are not a thing.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
32 weeks ago

North West

Honestly, it's sometimes hard not to notice when one is seated at wheelchair height and you're at close quarters, e.g. in a lift. I try to avert my eyes because let's face it, 99.9% of the time, it's not something I WANT to see or have near me. Ditto builder's bum situations or anyone's bum in my face.

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By *imandher2Couple
31 weeks ago

Liverpool

I notice women looking at mine. It's funny, they usually put their head down then look to the side

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By *lutsfunMan
31 weeks ago

bedford

I do yes

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