FabSwingers.com forum: Do you notice/look at a man’s bulge in public ?

By *obby-nn OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Was having a conversation with a coworker today and she mentioned that the first thing she looks at when meeting guys is to see if theres a bulge in the trousers…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I can't say I have noticed, I noticed the builders arse crack more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, it never occurs to me to look. I didn't know people did this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually look at their feet to see what pasties they’re wearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

No... I like faces

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By *WV9715Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sure it’s been proven to be a natural reaction if you find someone attractive.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've noticed them, but I don't stare.

On public transport they're often right in front of your face, so you can't miss them.

I prefer faces, but it's illegal to stare on trains now.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

No...because I'm not a neanderthal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be lying if i said i didnt but do i look at all men nope if my eyes are to go down to the bulge he has to be a hot guy in the first place and i would not make it obvious unless hes flirting

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By *r99mr99Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I don't look, however if it becomes apparent that it's there...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. That would be crass.

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over a year ago

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By *ayd100Man
over a year ago

clitheroe

Why not

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By *heltered- girlWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Only on the beach or around the pool on hols

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never notice bulges but I’m straight so I’m always finding cameltoes. It’s like my life is a walk through an Arabian desert in the second century

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have caught woman staring at my bulge whilst out cycling

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Weird world

If a man stated to a female co worker that the first thing he checks out on a woman is her vagina to see if it’s noticeable I’m sure there’d be all sorts of HR issues being raised

But if this is true it’s okay for a woman to do it "

Some people talk about harassment only being harassment if the harasser is unattractive. While I don't agree with that, I can see why (some) men would be more ok with it than the same number of women.

Unfortunately there's this idea that women displaying sexuality in public isn't to be taken seriously, because we can't be a threat, while men can. It's sexist and patronising, and means women can get away with a lot that we shouldn't.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Weird world

If a man stated to a female co worker that the first thing he checks out on a woman is her vagina to see if it’s noticeable I’m sure there’d be all sorts of HR issues being raised

But if this is true it’s okay for a woman to do it

I completely agree with you: all of it. As a man who isn't ok with it, because it can be a trigger, it's something very difficult for me to talk about - and my experience is that it isn't usually received well when I try - so thank you for making that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I notice every man’s bulge? No.

Have I looked at a random man’s bulge? Yes. Never stare at it though. Usually on the Tube or similar. It’s practically in your face and unavoidable.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

ALL the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course they don't.... And that's why grey joggers are not a thing.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Honestly, it's sometimes hard not to notice when one is seated at wheelchair height and you're at close quarters, e.g. in a lift. I try to avert my eyes because let's face it, 99.9% of the time, it's not something I WANT to see or have near me. Ditto builder's bum situations or anyone's bum in my face.

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By *imandher2Couple
52 weeks ago

Liverpool

I notice women looking at mine. It's funny, they usually put their head down then look to the side

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By *lutsfunMan
52 weeks ago

bedford

I do yes

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By *K lad 89Man
9 weeks ago

kilkenny

yone else ever catch their mother in law or anyone else stare/glance at your crotch?

I’ve noticed my mother in law do it before but never paid much attention to it but recently I was chatting to her and my FIL and when I wasn’t making eye contact with her I could feel her stare at my crotch.

I was wearing a certain type of pants and I knew myself it was easy to see my bulge but I knew she couldn’t get enough of it and when I would make eye contact with her she would throw her eyes back up to make eye contact.

Just curious to see did anyone experience this?

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By *atch0101Man
9 weeks ago

Here

Pfff they would from me lol

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By *verageHoesCouple
9 weeks ago

Leeds

I try to resist the urge to look, but I'm always drawn in by the moose knuckle.

Mrs

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
9 weeks ago

Reading

Yes and people on TV, especially if wearing the kind of trousers popular in Georgian times and if they are on Colin Firth.

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By *atch0101Man
9 weeks ago

Here

"I try to resist the urge to look, but I'm always drawn in by the moose knuckle.

Mrs"

Moose knuckle?? Hahaha spat my vape out then

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
9 weeks ago

Right up your street

I do love taking a good bulge pic 😜

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By *ackformore100Man
9 weeks ago

Tin town

What socks are best to stuff down there for better bulginess?

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By *lix CoxMan
9 weeks ago

CF39

I do especially if it's in joggers commando, swinging side to side.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

No, I prefer faces.

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By *heekyirishMan
9 weeks ago

bangor

Grey trackies no boxers in gym, always worry about the lack of bulge lol

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By *oodiesCouple
9 weeks ago

reading

No I cant say I do, nice eyes definitely. A good bottom does catch my attention too tbf.

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

No, I suposse if they were eye level to me I would but that would have to be very tall man 🤔

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
9 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"No, I suposse if they were eye level to me I would but that would have to be very tall man 🤔"

You could always bend over. If you wanted to.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
9 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Literally had this chat yesterday! No, it’s all about the eyes. That’s where you can see it all.

Mrs TMN x

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By *eordieJeansCouple
9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

My eyes are up here 🙄

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
9 weeks ago

The Velvet Den of Desire

No. I do not stare at guys bulges. Haha.

But,….. if it’s a hot girl (trans) I do

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I’ve seen loads of women looking at my bulge each time I walk past them. Not sure what it means lol.

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
9 weeks ago

Alphabet Mafia HQ, Dudleyish.

I do, the Mrs doesn't.

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By *aizyWoman
9 weeks ago

west midlands

"No, I suposse if they were eye level to me I would but that would have to be very tall man 🤔

You could always bend over. If you wanted to.

I'd put my back out doing that all the time.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
9 weeks ago

North West

If my glance catches that area and there’s something obvious/bulge worthy to take a second look at, yes.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
9 weeks ago

Brum

I always look to see if the peni outline is visible.

I feel like it’s my public duty as owner of an extremely beautiful penis to give other men a little boost around town.

I usually accompany a good hard glance with a wink and “Great penis dude.”

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