FabSwingers.com forum: What was your biggest mistake as a teenager

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning everyone

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By *heWelshCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Wearing adidas pops in school

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Getting married at 19 probably although it was just one of many

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Smoking. I gave up when I was 40 but regret starting.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
over a year ago

Warwick and Coventry

Using smack, big mistake that one

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By *herrybakewellCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Getting stuck in a boring ass relationship at 17 for 4 years.

Hugeeeee mistake. Missed out on so much.

Mr.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Think everything I did as a teenager was a mistake

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Choosing to study engineering at university instead of English and History. I set my career in stone at the age of 18, and then discovered I didn't really find it interesting after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many....

Poor choice in men

Smoking

Pale pink eyeshadow

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By *omsubdevonCouple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Not exploring my bi side earlier.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Wasted time being responsible good girl bought into the myth of setting yourself for a better future..

Missed out on living, travelling and experiencing a social and childbearing life.

Now I'm an adult earning less than I did as a teen in a boring but safe country...

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I was quite slim in my teen years, when I met my ex we ate lots of takeaways and led me to gaining all the weight so definitely that.

Knuckling down in senior school, learning more.

Exploring life a little more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sighs*

"Camming" people was brand new and I was intrigued. I cheated on my then boyfriend and the guy sent him "print screen" shots of it all.

I regret it so much because I genuinely loved him and it was absolutely such a dick move on my part. He passed away before I had chance to apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Running through fields of wheat

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"So many....

Poor choice in men

Smoking

Pale pink eyeshadow

Made us look like we had conjunctivitis...all three things

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

"Running through fields of wheat"

You win today's forum!

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

Giving up my music. Started it many years later

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Sort of the point in being a teenager doing stupid stuff and making mistakes but way to many to list here ! but not enjoying stuff more ! and trusting the wrong people ....

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By *inUpProWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Getting married young and shagging my boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starting smoking and hiding my bi side for the fear of “what people are gonna think”. I feel I missed out in eating soooo many pussies and having so much fun!!!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Staying in an unhealthy relationship.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

Being an arsehole at school and failing miserably. Also leaving home at 18, that was dumb really.

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By *till gameMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Turning down the offer to move to Australia

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

All the mistakes were a learning curve & built my character and confidence. I only regret opportunities I didn’t try

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I should have gone out more to parties , clubs , disco’s as they were called back in the 80’s.Gone on holidays , lads holidays , traveled.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Mixing with the wrong crowd and not reporting things to authority, that as a child that would've stopped things happening possibly to my school friends by the teacher.... It was one of those unclear what was really happening unexplainable

at the time

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By *ffervescentMan
over a year ago

winfrith

thinking ahead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being to scared to travel. Or leave my hometown for uni

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By *D3!Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I wish I had of not spent most of my money on cars when I was younger and actually invested the money/bought a house when prices were still somewhat sensible...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not taking being a Dad seriously but at least i got the chance to change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discovering beer and women

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Pretty much everything,I was "that kid" who your parents didn't want you hanging out with.

However all the mistakes I made I probably wouldn't change ( except one) but the bad choices are what has moulded me into the miserable asshole I am today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving up on doing Medicine and choosing Computer Science instead

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

As others have said, smoking, awful habit that should have quit years ago. Not buying a house I liked down the street, I remember seeing it for £38 or 45k or so, saving a decent amount then spending it instead, it's now over £350k and looks great. Only doing just enough in exams.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Pretty much everything,I was "that kid" who your parents didn't want you hanging out with.

However all the mistakes I made I probably wouldn't change ( except one) but the bad choices are what has moulded me into the miserable asshole I am today

Not choosing computer studies but opted for metalwork instead famously saying that " naaa there's no future in computer's" it was the first year it was on the curriculum and I thought it was just a gimmick

No joining the Royal Marines and opted to become a carpenter.

A year or so later I had the chance to do an apprenticeship as an avionics technician for a major airline but chose to carry on with carpentry.

All the chances of what could have been

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Getting married

Thinking I was 'overweight'

Worrying about what others thought of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No joining the Royal Marines and opted to become a carpenter.

A year or so later I had the chance to do an apprenticeship as an avionics technician for a major airline but chose to carry on with carpentry.

All the chances of what could have been

Just think positively, at least you're not one of the aero engineers who worked on the Boeing 737Max

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

"Discovering beer and women"

The thread said mistakes...

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Having unfashionable headbanger look up age 21.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

What decided to study in Uni

….& a girl called Alex

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

I suppose I could say I met my 1st wife in my teens. THAT was a mistake...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discovering beer and women

The thread said mistakes...

They derailed what was a promising attempt at a career as a fighter pilot.

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By *chupforitMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Not exploring my bi side earlier.

Mr "
definitely agree with that.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

honeysuckle lane

Returning to Wales when I lived in Blackpool with my father but returned because of my mother & now we don’t even talk

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Finding clubs when I should have been studying at college.. what a waste. But bloody hell it was a blast.

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Not trying my lick more with the bored married women i worked with when we basically just flirted with each other all shift.

Also, continued my stupidity in the next job when i didn't ask out the hot little 17 year old who had a thing for me...as its not professional to get involved with colleagues. Dickhead move as she was off to uni a few months later and was seriously cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discovering beer and women"

Yeah that was the catalyst for a few bad choices !

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By *l1 guyMan
over a year ago

Slough

"Wearing adidas pops in school"

I can relate to that

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By *ripfillMan
over a year ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

"Sighs*

"Camming" people was brand new and I was intrigued. I cheated on my then boyfriend and the guy sent him "print screen" shots of it all.

I regret it so much because I genuinely loved him and it was absolutely such a dick move on my part. He passed away before I had chance to apologise

Ouch that is so sad

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By *yrone69xMan
over a year ago

carnforth

Been away in prison for far to long

but I’m a good lad now haha

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By *ripfillMan
over a year ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Actually trying to make it at a v senior level In Rugby union

I lost loads of opportunities - summer months trained winter season played till I was 33

To think now all my mates were having a great time , I had to watch my weight not drink too

Much

I was also a total dick ( then !!!)

I did not understand what a relationship looked like

Balanced now but carrying some aches and pains

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

honeysuckle lane

"Been away in prison for far to long

but I’m a good lad now haha"
that’s good keep it up it’s brilliant you turned your life around

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincs

Going to uni although I probably would have gone off the rails if I had!

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Not going to see the birthday party at the Brixton ace in 1982

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By *mooth8Man
over a year ago

s hertfordshire

"Sighs*

"Camming" people was brand new and I was intrigued. I cheated on my then boyfriend and the guy sent him "print screen" shots of it all.

I regret it so much because I genuinely loved him and it was absolutely such a dick move on my part. He passed away before I had chance to apologise

bloody hell thats sad

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By *idssissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Not being able to stand up for myself

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By *mooth8Man
over a year ago

s hertfordshire

"Discovering beer and women

The thread said mistakes...

They derailed what was a promising attempt at a career as a fighter pilot. "

well it voukd hsve been far worse, you could have turned into Tom Cruise

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

London

Listening to family on matters of religion, felt sexually repressed for years, but now I'm free!

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By *punk n gushCouple
over a year ago

deal

Getting pregnant and marrying my first husband big mistake

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Sheesh. I should probably say being pregnant at 16, but I don't regret it. I had one child as a healthy, fully able bodied Mum. Yes, it was fucking hard work, but the second one, I had at 31, and here I am as a consequence. Sitting in my wheelchair. Yeah, I'd do the same again, knowing what I know now.

So, I don't really have any major regrets from my teen years, to be honest. The things I wished were different were entirely out of my control, like wishing not to have to deal with my mother. So, nope. No regrets.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I had a super mega kickass crush on a girl for like weeks.

Completely out of the blue, my mate dared me to knock on for her. She invited me in, parents were out. I was on the rug in front of the fire with her.

Full on bottled it

I've never forgiven myself.

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"Thinking I was 'overweight'

Worrying about what others thought of me

This ^

Listening to the people who I went to school with, and were allegedly my "friends".

I had the worst opinion of myself for so many years and wasted a lot of talent and opportunities.

I also ate myself happy. Or tried to, anyway. (It never worked!)

But everything which has been before has made me the person I am today, so... *shrug*

I don't mind myself too much now. (Most days).

Wish I'd kicked those "friends" to the kerb though...

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By *llblueMan
over a year ago

Irvine

Not listening to good advice.

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Not getting shagged

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

White stilettos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably everything was a mistake and a blur, I’m sure lots of it was fun though

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

choosing moving in with someone and doing the adulting, instead of carrying on under the bandstand

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Wasted time being responsible good girl bought into the myth of setting yourself for a better future..

Missed out on living, travelling and experiencing a social and childbearing life.

Now I'm an adult earning less than I did as a teen in a boring but safe country..."

But you have a nice collection of pink vibrators

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

"Wearing adidas pops in school"

What are/were adidas pops?

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By *zeroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Deciding to have long hair

Not looking after my health

Not joining the merchant navy. My dad always talked it up and upon reflection its something I would have loved to do.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"Running through fields of wheat"

You are Teresa May and I claim my £5

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By *rowley616Man
over a year ago

Scarborough

Everything. Trying to make up for so many of those mistakes now as they lead to bigger mistakes later in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg the list is endless... Probably the biggest mistake was saying no to a 3-sum!

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By *enfold75Man
over a year ago

hemel hempstead

Getting involved with person everyone told me to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking , luckily I snapped outa it and managed to still compete in my chosen sport at high level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voting for Will Young instead of Gareth Gates

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By *rowley616Man
over a year ago

Scarborough

"Omg the list is endless... Probably the biggest mistake was saying no to a 3-sum!"

If that is your biggest mistake I think you are doing just fine.

Also me very easy to rectify.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I (Mrs) was approached many times by other girls and women, but I thought all I needed was cock, how silly of me.

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