FabSwingers.com forum: Hitting the 40s and up.. thoughts

By *iono2024 OP Man
21 weeks ago

chessington

Geez age creeps up.. still feel 18 in my head .. sadly my face isn’t haahah

What would you say is the best and worst thing about getting older ? Especially when it comes to sex ….

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By *ou only live onceMan
21 weeks ago

London

I am yet to find a plus sign to ageing. Not saying it's all doom and gloom, but not sure much improves. I'd much rather by 32 again, thanks.

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By *ou only live onceMan
21 weeks ago

London

*be

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By *uenevereWoman
21 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I've enjoyed life more as I've got older.

Children grown up, more spare time, less inhibitions, no more periods, even happier being me.

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By *iono2024 OP Man
21 weeks ago

chessington

"I am yet to find a plus sign to ageing. Not saying it's all doom and gloom, but not sure much improves. I'd much rather by 32 again, thanks."

Oh geez come on best years yet to come for sure

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By *iono2024 OP Man
21 weeks ago

chessington

"I've enjoyed life more as I've got older.

Children grown up, more spare time, less inhibitions, no more periods, even happier being me.

Don’t know re the periods lol but I agree on the rest x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
21 weeks ago

little house on the praire

My best years was 40-56 then it all went down hill

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By *iono2024 OP Man
21 weeks ago

chessington

Really ? I still have time then ?!!!

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By *929Man
21 weeks ago

newcastle

I’d say nowt is the best it’s all shit getting older but to be fair I handled turning 40 better than I did turning 30

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex

The best thing about aging is that its happening, when you consider the alternative. Never regret it.

The worst thing is lots of people assume you don't know how to send an email.

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By *andy CanesWoman
21 weeks ago

south

The best thing is your child rearing years are over (kinda) ha I still see mine everyday

Worse thing you’re not as bendy as you was when you were younger

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By *eyond PurityCouple
21 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Sex is better when older - you know what you enjoy and you are open to try different things too.

You also give less of a fuck so you can be more liberated and open minded.

I’ve been having the best sex of my life for the last few years and there’s still more to come…

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By *agnar73Man
21 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Everyone ages differently.

My 40’s weren’t great taking the decade over the piece.

Past two years, had fun, know what I’m doing, had some nice feedback and happy with that. Things I want to improve on, things I want to do.

Some days my head is 25, some 35. My knees might not agree

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By *mf123Man
21 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Time goes much faster as you age making it harder to savour good times

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
21 weeks ago

Wirral.

The good think about sex at my age? The confidence to say & do what I want. And not giving a shit about my flabby bits.

The bad? Those flabby bits getting flabbier and my face gone to pot. Thanks menopause

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By *aizyWoman
21 weeks ago

west midlands

Best thing, I have more body confidence than I did when I was younger.

Worst thing, creaky achy joints.

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By *oddamnCouple
21 weeks ago

leicestershire

Having just turned fifty you have no problems. 40-50 isn't so different to 30-40, maybe just a few more aches and pains. I noticed my cum doesn't fly as far or is as much as before, but that's just easier to clear up (but not as impressive in a group situation!)

At fifty I still have my alarm cock waking me up every morning, still think about sex at least titty times a day, and still seek new adventures

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
21 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

The best is knowing what you want and having a completely different mindset compared to when you were in your 20s/30s

The worst is aching joints!

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Knowing the end to trying to find sex is in sight. 45 and I'm living in my dressing gown and pigging out.

Can

Not

Wait

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By *rHotNottsMan
21 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think sex gets much better as you age, much more creative and open to new things.

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By *hilloutMan
21 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

More experience. Longer lasting. I've only seen benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

It’s my body that’s failing, my mind still thinks am 18

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
21 weeks ago

somewhere

I can almost say I'm mid 40s, I'd say sex is definitely better now, I've accepted what I like and don't like and I don't make apologies for that (quick fucks for example), my body shape has changed quite a bit recently and can find myself being a bit more "adaptable".

Outside of sex though, this year has been a huge year of change, I've decided swinging was doing stuff to my head that wasn't healthy so retired from meeting people with dicks, I'm so much happier without that now (only one for me now), swinging has been a huge part of me for 10 years and I honestly thought I would struggle (hence why I stay on the forums, just to keep my hoof in) but I can honestly say I am happier, plus my dress sense has changed completely, all my boob revealing tops are buried under the bed and if still there in 6 months will be chucked away and my hair...I'm finally embracing natural (I mean, it's still green as that's a bugger to remove lol) but I have no desire to dye it anymore x

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
21 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

The worst thing is the way my body feels after trying to play 5-a-side.

muscles ache, kidneys feel like they're on fire, covered in deep heat. Takes 2 full days to recover..

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
21 weeks ago

ashford

I've enjoyed life more the older I get! More laid back! 67 today! And loving life! X

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
21 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"I've enjoyed life more the older I get! More laid back! 67 today! And loving life! X"

Happy birthday

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Worst thing is the sore back.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Worst thing is the sore back.

No, scrap that...

The worst thing is outliving your soulmate.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
21 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We’re really enjoying our 40’s so far.

We are both very aware that our target audience has shifted and that is sometimes hard to accept until we remember we’re 40 odd

It’s true, still feels like we’re early twenties but the reflection says different.

So far we’re both having an absolute ball as we grow older together

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
21 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Worst thing is the sore back.

No, scrap that...

The worst thing is outliving your soulmate.

My worst nightmare

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By *uriousscouserWoman
21 weeks ago

Wirral

I've just turned 50. Had I known how I would age I'd have spent my 20s constantly squatting and slut-dropping, enjoying those knees while they still worked properly.

Best thing is that over time the value that I place on my own peace has increased hugely. If I don't want to do something, go somewhere or meet someone then I don't feel obligated to, just to keep someone else happy. My own happiness matters every bit as much as theirs does. It's something that took me a long time to really take to heart.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
21 weeks ago

ashford

"I've enjoyed life more the older I get! More laid back! 67 today! And loving life! X

Happy birthday

Thank u x

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By *hiversMan
21 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

"I am yet to find a plus sign to ageing. Not saying it's all doom and gloom, but not sure much improves. I'd much rather by 32 again, thanks."

Honestly, I'm the opposite. There have been no negatives to being older. I'm still fit and healthy, have learnt valuable lessons and have a more mature perspective on things. So far, so good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I don’t cum in under 20 seconds anymore, I got it up to 45

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
21 weeks ago

chichester

I am 40+. Some of the negatives are balanced by positives.

Though aging is something we can’t run from. We can choose to age slower though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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21 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I am yet to find a plus sign to ageing. Not saying it's all doom and gloom, but not sure much improves. I'd much rather by 32 again, thanks.

Honestly, I'm the opposite. There have been no negatives to being older. I'm still fit and healthy, have learnt valuable lessons and have a more mature perspective on things. So far, so good for me

I'm more than 20 years older than you and I agree with you.

It continues to be good. There are downsides to every age ...if you look for them

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By *8on33Man
21 weeks ago

winfrith

"Geez age creeps up.. still feel 18 in my head .. sadly my face isn’t haahah

What would you say is the best and worst thing about getting older ? Especially when it comes to sex …. "
getting it is a pain sex that is and then summoning up the effort to do it .

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
21 weeks ago

Wirral.

"Worst thing is the sore back.

No, scrap that...

The worst thing is outliving your soulmate.

Ah, Davina. Hugs

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By *till gameMan
21 weeks ago

two doors down

Plus side is knowing what you like and dislike

Neg is health

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