FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence is sexy

By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
13 weeks ago

Essex

I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I do like confidence is attractive too on some people.

What’s truly attractive is honesty and being real xx

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By *ife NinjaMan
13 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy? "

I don't like over confidence, but a can do attitude I find irresistible

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By *till gameMan
13 weeks ago

two doors down

A lack of confidence doesn’t put me off, but a negative person does

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I do like confidence is attractive too on some people.

What’s truly attractive is honesty and being real xx"

The Mr tells me my shyness and awkwardness is "cute" but he's bias

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By *hilloutMan
13 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Not necessarily. There are all sorts of situations where anyone can be anxious, unsure or lacking confidence.

I would say that people who are in general confident through their everyday daily life attract me more

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
13 weeks ago

Too much confidence can put me off just as much as a lack of confidence

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By *oeBeansMan
13 weeks ago

Derby

"A lack of confidence doesn’t put me off, but a negative person does "

I get what you mean. Self deprecation is very endearing but if it borders onto self-loathing, that's when it can be a turn off

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
13 weeks ago

wonderland.

I'm a confident person in some situations... yet Mr reduced me to a shy nervous wreck... it was how I knew I'd got instant attraction and fell head over heels..

Normally I think shyness is cute...apparently when I get shy it's cute

Cali

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
13 weeks ago

Essex

"I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I do like confidence is attractive too on some people.

What’s truly attractive is honesty and being real xx

The Mr tells me my shyness and awkwardness is "cute" but he's bias

He’s also (and do not ever tell him this. We will never hear the end of it) right xx

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By *midnight-Woman
13 weeks ago

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Its a fine line between arrogance and confidence

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By *iddle ManMan
13 weeks ago

Walsall

Confidence is sexy, from both male and female.

I can see why it is an attractive trait to have.

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By *till gameMan
13 weeks ago

two doors down

"A lack of confidence doesn’t put me off, but a negative person does

I get what you mean. Self deprecation is very endearing but if it borders onto self-loathing, that's when it can be a turn off"

Yep exactly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
13 weeks ago

East Sussex

If someone needs constant reassurance it's exhausting.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
13 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

"I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I do like confidence is attractive too on some people.

What’s truly attractive is honesty and being real xx"

Definitely this.

And misplaced confidence is even less attractive than timidity.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
13 weeks ago

North West

"I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I do like confidence is attractive too on some people.

What’s truly attractive is honesty and being real xx"

You've said it so well.

I appear confident but especially in a sexual situation with someone who isn't Mr KC, I'm probably actually quite nervous underneath.

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By *or-QueeningMan
13 weeks ago

Manchester

I do hope there are people who don't find confidence sexy or else I'll be unfucked.

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I do like confidence is attractive too on some people.

What’s truly attractive is honesty and being real xx

The Mr tells me my shyness and awkwardness is "cute" but he's bias

He’s also (and do not ever tell him this. We will never hear the end of it) right xx"
I'm not too sure but your right in that I shouldn't tell him

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By *ruceyyMan
13 weeks ago

London

I'm over confident, doesn't do much for me

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By *eliWoman
13 weeks ago

"I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy? "

It depends. I don't mind a lack of, a certain shyness. It's cute. I can be a bit shy at times. If it's constant and at a deeper level though? I don't find it sexy. I want to be friends with them but there's no sort of lustful feelings towards them.

I like when people are authentic, can own their doubts etc. Acknowledge them without them taking over nearly every interaction.

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By *edeWoman
13 weeks ago

the abyss

My lack of self confidence has been a core factor of a relationship breakdown so yeah I guess it can been seen that way unfortunately.

It can be difficult when I can come across as confident in social setting - will genuinely chat to anyone. When it comes to anything more though I'm a bit pathetic

But I'm also very honest and forewarn so it's not my fault I'm not believed in the beginning

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By *midnight-Woman
13 weeks ago

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"If someone needs constant reassurance it's exhausting. "

Yes i agree

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By *rispyDuckMan
13 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Confidence is sexy

Arrogance is a ‘turn off’

Lack of confidence can be a turn off esp if the person ‘self is very deprived, very low self esteem, too shy & I have to carry the whole conversation lol

Sometimes I might be nervous & unsure. But they don’t know that so I don’t show it lol

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By *he KakapoMan
13 weeks ago

A nice rock

Confidence need humility and moments of doubt to be sexy.

Similar with lack of confidence in

itself isn't necessarily a turn off unless it's an overbearing part of the person's personality

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By *orksRockerMan
13 weeks ago

Bradford

However, there's a difference between confidence and arrogance which alot here have not yet mastered despite their age....

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

It’s a thin line between confidence and arrogance

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Leeds

"My lack of self confidence has been a core factor of a relationship breakdown so yeah I guess it can been seen that way unfortunately.

It can be difficult when I can come across as confident in social setting - will genuinely chat to anyone. When it comes to anything more though I'm a bit pathetic

But I'm also very honest and forewarn so it's not my fault I'm not believed in the beginning

I'm sorry your confidence has caused some relationship issues that in itself must be hard. Yes I'm a forewarner too

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By *eordieJeansCouple
13 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

A complete lack of confidence would put me off but if it’s someone who just doesn’t think they’re as great as I do then I don’t think it would be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I think I'm more drawn to confident guys, it's an attractive trait. Though the slight awkward/shy type can be a bit endearing, as long as they are confident when we're alone.

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By *aitonelMan
13 weeks ago

Liverpool

Quiet confidence, that is all

Until next time!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Quiet confidence, that is all

Until next time! "

Hi kai!!!

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
13 weeks ago

Southampton

"Quiet confidence, that is all

Until next time! "

Purrrrrrr..

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

So too much confidence is arrogance & a turn off.

Too little confidence is self deprivation and a turn off.

I think I got it.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"So too much confidence is arrogance & a turn off.

Too little confidence is self deprivation and a turn off.

I think I got it.

I quite like a bit of arrogance.

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"So too much confidence is arrogance & a turn off.

Too little confidence is self deprivation and a turn off.

I think I got it.

I quite like a bit of arrogance."

Oh come on I was all sorted, now I'm lost again......

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"So too much confidence is arrogance & a turn off.

Too little confidence is self deprivation and a turn off.

I think I got it.

I quite like a bit of arrogance.

Oh come on I was all sorted, now I'm lost again......"

Sorry.

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"So too much confidence is arrogance & a turn off.

Too little confidence is self deprivation and a turn off.

I think I got it.

I quite like a bit of arrogance.

Oh come on I was all sorted, now I'm lost again......

Sorry. "

I also finally had the lightbulb moment if what your PB'd means and no he's not surprisingly

he just CBA

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By *ife NinjaMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Your new shower photo looks pretty confident to me

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"So too much confidence is arrogance & a turn off.

Too little confidence is self deprivation and a turn off.

I think I got it.

I quite like a bit of arrogance.

Oh come on I was all sorted, now I'm lost again......

Sorry.

I also finally had the lightbulb moment if what your PB'd means and no he's not surprisingly

he just CBA "

Haha, I'm glad he isn't! Don't tell him that though.

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By *orthern BeardMan
12 weeks ago

Preston

There’s a fine line between confident and cocky. I like to think I’m pretty confident these days. Comfortable in my own skin and confident with my skill set.

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"So too much confidence is arrogance & a turn off.

Too little confidence is self deprivation and a turn off.

I think I got it.

I quite like a bit of arrogance.

Oh come on I was all sorted, now I'm lost again......

Sorry.

I also finally had the lightbulb moment if what your PB'd means and no he's not surprisingly

he just CBA

Haha, I'm glad he isn't! Don't tell him that though. "

It's our secret

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"Your new shower photo looks pretty confident to me

This is where people mistake photos for confidence but thank you, but actually on that note, would you look at that and think she's confident then when I was shy in real life would that be a disappointment??

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By *ife NinjaMan
12 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Your new shower photo looks pretty confident to me

No disappointment at all. I'd chat to you with no expectations. I like to chat and get to know people

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By *rHotNottsMan
12 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I agree, but it has to be genuine. Ive seen narcissistic people try this move.

Understated is very sexy

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By *andPextraCouple
12 weeks ago

North West

Confidence is the one thing that drives my mood and interaction on here.

If I’m having a good hair day, the dress fits well, or I'm just generally feeling good about myself it makes my sex drive wake up.

No confidence and i’m as likely to play as Elvis is likely to be spotted in my local supermarket

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By *avexxMan
12 weeks ago

cheshire

im confident cocky and walk with a swagger,, kidding

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
12 weeks ago

Essex

"I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I agree, but it has to be genuine. Ive seen narcissistic people try this move.

Understated is very sexy "

Absolutely. And the same for confidence. Forced confidence just comes across as cockiness…

I think I just like genuine. Whatever that may be.

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"Your new shower photo looks pretty confident to me

No disappointment at all. I'd chat to you with no expectations. I like to chat and get to know people

That's good to know them, I do think people can get a different perception of you based on photos alone & I do worry that in reality when we aren't walking around in our lingere etc that it can be somewhat of a disappointment when the "confidence" in photos isn't carried in person....if that makes sense.

So much so I've popped a little note about my shy/awkwardness on my profile.

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By *rPunxMan
12 weeks ago

Hull

Confidence and shy timidity can both be sexy but when they both reach the extremes of the scale a massive turn off. Arrogance and the opposite just don't do anything for me

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Confidence is a preference

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"Confidence is a preference "

What do you mean?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
12 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"Confidence is a preference

What do you mean? "

PARKLIFE

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By *herry delightWoman
12 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It says on my profile I want a confident but not arrogant man.

It's a big turn off if I get asked a 1001 questions about things or the other way a man that thinks he knows what he is talking about but has not idea.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
12 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"Confidence is a preference "

for the habitual voyeur

Of what is known as…

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
12 weeks ago

East Sussex

I like confidence. I don't think confidence leads to arrogance, to my mind they're not the same thing at all I also don't understand why anyone who's confident has to be quietly so. In certain situations you need people to step up and say they're confident they can achieve something

Confidence can certainly be misplaced though.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
12 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"I think shyness and a certain element of awkwardness is actually really appealing.

I agree, but it has to be genuine. Ive seen narcissistic people try this move.

Understated is very sexy

Absolutely. And the same for confidence. Forced confidence just comes across as cockiness…

I think I just like genuine. Whatever that may be."

Confidence is an essential element of charisma- over confidence or misplaced confidence is that deluded sense of certainty which belies it

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By *ingerSpiceBombCouple
12 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

"I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy? "

I don’t think it does actually, but that’s from a male perspective

I’m a very confident person myself and it definitely helps with the attraction of women,

Mérida sees it often, other women admiring

So quite possibly for women it is a sexual attraction

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
12 weeks ago

M20

Quiet confidence and the courage to not hide one’s vulnerability is real and attractive to me.

It’s all about sincerity. I have no time for fakes.

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By *emorefridaCouple
12 weeks ago

La la land

Depends on how badly they lacked confidence. I'm not the most confident of people, so having to big up someone else would leave me no energy to hype myself up and that would pull me down.

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By *entleswinger69Man
12 weeks ago

Plymouth

I think you have to be confident in most things you do, always willing to learn and obviously having the confidence to succeed.

I honestly don’t think being confident makes you big headed in any way.

I think it pushes you along on your journey.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
12 weeks ago

Manchester

I am definitely an introvert. Small talk is really tough for me. Once I know someone, it's all fine, I get out of my shell and I can get really chatty. I'm not super confident but I try not to go on about it as I prefer talking about more positive stuff.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
12 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy?

I don’t think it does actually, but that’s from a male perspective

I’m a very confident person myself and it definitely helps with the attraction of women,

Mérida sees it often, other women admiring

So quite possibly for women it is a sexual attraction

Mr "

I find confident women extremely sexy - timid, meek and shy I find rather boring.

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By *B69Woman
12 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I may look and sound confident but sometimes I’m a nervous wreck on the inside, I can also come across as shy in some situations, it’s all down to the day and scenario. A confident man that has that aura about him I’m drawn to.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral.

Over confidence is unattractive to me, as it smacks of arrogance.

But a confident, outgoing guy is what I need. I'm not so much confident as extrovert, so someone shy and awkward is not for me.

I guess you can be quietly confident? I need to ponder this. I may be missing on some lovely chaps..... x

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral.

"I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy?

I don’t think it does actually, but that’s from a male perspective

I’m a very confident person myself and it definitely helps with the attraction of women,

Mérida sees it often, other women admiring

So quite possibly for women it is a sexual attraction

I find confident women extremely sexy - timid, meek and shy I find rather boring. "

Hello

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By *obilebottomMan
12 weeks ago

All over

Though less so now, I was a bit shy in company I did not now when younger. It seemed to be attractive to a lot if people. My own preference is for more confident (not arrogant).

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By *exyScientistsCouple
12 weeks ago

Castlebar

Confidence is sexy but its the being relaxed for me that's sexy. Confident in your ability to be yourself and not be too nervous about what other people think. I don't think nervous people wouldn't be unattractive to me if you can still feel that connection

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By *he Silver FuxMan
12 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

"I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy?

I don’t think it does actually, but that’s from a male perspective

I’m a very confident person myself and it definitely helps with the attraction of women,

Mérida sees it often, other women admiring

So quite possibly for women it is a sexual attraction

I find confident women extremely sexy - timid, meek and shy I find rather boring.

Hello

Are these the bum dimples you are looking for?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
12 weeks ago

Wirral.

"I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy?

I don’t think it does actually, but that’s from a male perspective

I’m a very confident person myself and it definitely helps with the attraction of women,

Mérida sees it often, other women admiring

So quite possibly for women it is a sexual attraction

I find confident women extremely sexy - timid, meek and shy I find rather boring.

Hello

Are these the bum dimples you are looking for?

Those are EXACTLY the dimples I'm looking for

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
12 weeks ago

In a town full of colours

For me Yes, I like men who can match my confidence. I guess being a single mum who makes all the decisions, it's refreshing to meet a man who can make me challenge myself. Unconfident men bring out my mothering side, which puts them instantly into the friendzone for me forever.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
12 weeks ago

kent

Confidence easily tips into arrogance and often it’s only skin deep. The loudest person in the room is rarely the most interesting. I look for people who are at peace with themselves. They might be shy and reserved, but if they have nothing to prove and no need to pretend - that’s a quiet kind of confidence that I’m drawn to x

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By *herrypickedWoman
12 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yes but it's probably a bit more subtle than that for me anyways. Confidence is not big and bold and brash it's just simply being comfortable in yourself and what you want.

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
12 weeks ago

Nowhere

A smart dressed confident woman in great heels is still the greatest thing in the world .

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I like to cuddle them like an injured pigeon,

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

Leeds

"I like to cuddle them like an injured pigeon,

I'm not sure that's a good thing

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By *andynecklaceWoman
12 weeks ago

West Brom

Confidence is always attractive. Someone who is shy and awkward can be off putting...I don't like being around people who are always putting themselves down, it's draining.

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By *aseylee324Couple
12 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"If someone needs constant reassurance it's exhausting. "

This, a thousand times over.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
12 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Arrogance is equally a turn off, fine line between the two.

I'd rather be accused of being quiet than arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

I was going to say I find quiet confidence sexy but actually I think it's that I find qualities that can be summarised as 'quiet confidence' appealing. Things like decisiveness, directness, demonstrating intention, being proactive.

I can appear confident when I show the above qualities, but not be so underneath.

Equally, a lack of confidence isn't unsexy but indecisiveness, passiveness, a lack focus or clear communication can be. Just like arrogance, ego and overconfidence aren't appealing, either.

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By *avexxMan
12 weeks ago

cheshire

its good to confident but not in a big headed way

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By *ellinever70Woman
12 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Arrogance is equally a turn off, fine line between the two.

I'd rather be accused of being quiet than arrogant."

I think people can be both quiet and confident

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

"I like to cuddle them like an injured pigeon,

I'm not sure that's a good thing

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By *aseylee324Couple
12 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"Arrogance is equally a turn off, fine line between the two.

I'd rather be accused of being quiet than arrogant.

I think people can be both quiet and confident "

Absolutely, confidence isn't synonymous with swagger

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By *ools and the brainCouple
12 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Arrogance is equally a turn off, fine line between the two.

I'd rather be accused of being quiet than arrogant.

I think people can be both quiet and confident

Absolutely, confidence isn't synonymous with swagger"

Yes but unfortunately many in particular women seem to think confident is being the loudest most aggressive person in the room.

But I agree quiet confidence is definitely the way forward.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
12 weeks ago

St Neots

"Arrogance is equally a turn off, fine line between the two.

I'd rather be accused of being quiet than arrogant.

I think people can be both quiet and confident "

This is me, I'm quietly confident

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By *eyond PurityCouple
12 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Confidence can be rebuilt and it’s also an achievement in assisting in that.

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By *unCycleGymRepeatMan
12 weeks ago

Greater London

Training leads to belief.

Belief leads to confidence.

Confidence leads to victories.

I train to win.

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
12 weeks ago

London

"Training leads to belief.

Belief leads to confidence.

Confidence leads to victories.

I train to win.

Did the dark side change their motto?

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
12 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"A lack of confidence doesn’t put me off, but a negative person does "
this

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By *laytonAMan
12 weeks ago

Newport

I like people who make me feel comfortable, sometimes I'll gravitate to confident people and sometimes to those who are more reserved. I think my own confidence has a big part I'm perception of others and who I am attracted to or admire.

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By *asual_WandererWoman
12 weeks ago

A spot you want me

"I've been pondering & I'm curious -

So people love confidence, everyone says confidence is sexy.....But does a lack of confidence put you off? Does it make the person less sexy?

I don't like over confidence, but a can do attitude I find irresistible

A "can do" attitude ha haaa, love the picture this puts in my head

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By *ondonlad_88Man
12 weeks ago

Confidence is a seriously sexy trait

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By *ansoffateMan
12 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I appreciate authenticity and decisiveness more than confidence. Sometimes confidence can be a facade.

One of the most appealling approaches I can recall was from a woman who was very subtle, so much so by the time I realised I was turned on by her she'd closed the gap to point I could feel the heat from her in my veins. She just smiled head tilted forward slightly, looked up at me and said softly: what are you going to do?

I couldn't tell you if that was shyness or confidence, but I was enthralled by her in that moment.

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By *andymank8Man
12 weeks ago

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You are very cute, but I guess you’re also very body positive. I am always attracted to a woman who is body positive and feels sexy inside.

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By *rsKOTCT OP Woman
12 weeks ago

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"You are very cute, but I guess you’re also very body positive. I am always attracted to a woman who is body positive and feels sexy inside."

Why would you think I'm body positive?

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