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By *llie Rose OP   Woman
over a year ago

By the seaside

A lot of people look at my profile and assume that the reason I'm interested in black guys is that I want a well endowed man. Many a time I get messages stating 'I see you are looking for BBC' or similar. If you look at my profile there is absolutely no mention of cock size and in fact it is irrelevant. It just happens that I am naturally attracted to tall, stocky, black guys.

This isn't a moaning thread, just interested in what assumptions are made about others based on preferences and profile information.

Ellie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people look at my profile and assume that the reason I'm interested in black guys is that I want a well endowed man. Many a time I get messages stating 'I see you are looking for BBC' or similar. If you look at my profile there is absolutely no mention of cock size and in fact it is irrelevant. It just happens that I am naturally attracted to tall, stocky, black guys.

This isn't a moaning thread, just interested in what assumptions are made about others based on preferences and profile information.

Ellie "

I think id assume that reading your profile

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am bi and love taking a cock up my jacksie, or inserting mine in another guys.

NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of messages from couples, even tho my profile is clear that I only meet men, they just look at my sexuality and because im bi they assume im looking for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people look at my profile and assume that the reason I'm interested in black guys is that I want a well endowed man. Many a time I get messages stating 'I see you are looking for BBC' or similar. If you look at my profile there is absolutely no mention of cock size and in fact it is irrelevant. It just happens that I am naturally attracted to tall, stocky, black guys.

This isn't a moaning thread, just interested in what assumptions are made about others based on preferences and profile information.

Ellie "

I don't see the letters bbc so I would not assume that you like black men that's all there is too it everyone likes a type of person so don't worrie what people say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people look at my profile and assume that the reason I'm interested in black guys is that I want a well endowed man."

Sounds like more of a double assumption

Black guys are naturally well endowed

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She likes black guys

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She likes well endowed guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did not make that connection. There are other reasons for an attraction to black men - even nonsexual ones. It's fairly narrow-minded and sexually oriented to assume your fascination is about cock size.

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By *llie Rose OP   Woman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"A lot of people look at my profile and assume that the reason I'm interested in black guys is that I want a well endowed man. Many a time I get messages stating 'I see you are looking for BBC' or similar. If you look at my profile there is absolutely no mention of cock size and in fact it is irrelevant. It just happens that I am naturally attracted to tall, stocky, black guys.

This isn't a moaning thread, just interested in what assumptions are made about others based on preferences and profile information.

Ellie

I don't see the letters bbc so I would not assume that you like black men that's all there is too it everyone likes a type of person so don't worrie what people say "

Like I said I'm not complaining just interested in other peoples experiences. Don't think you would last on here to long if you worry about what other people think lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People, usually straight guys, contact me assuming I am bi! Madness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of women on here after BBC, so when you see a profile like yours, no matter how well written it is, I can see why they may assume you like BBC. Not saying it is right to just presume, but given the context, I understand why they might think that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seem to have a few assume that because I'm sexually submissive I'm looking for a Dom to own me...all I want is kinky fuckery not to be controlled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never assume, it makes an ASS out of U and ME.

Sorry could not help myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people look at my profile and assume that the reason I'm interested in black guys is that I want a well endowed man. Many a time I get messages stating 'I see you are looking for BBC' or similar. If you look at my profile there is absolutely no mention of cock size and in fact it is irrelevant. It just happens that I am naturally attracted to tall, stocky, black guys.

This isn't a moaning thread, just interested in what assumptions are made about others based on preferences and profile information.

Ellie "

Ellie's profile just states black guys like she says. no mention of size, and ive had some black guys look at me even though profile says no other cultures, strange as this may sound but one or two of them havent been bbc

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Some people assume I'm a docket called Brian. I think its the beard that does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people assume I'm a boring old fart.

I'm beginning to think they might be on to something....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well cos I like younger guys its assumed I'm dom - I'm really not :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people assume I'm a boring old fart.

I'm beginning to think they might be on to something...."

Phew! What IS that smell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys look at me and assume A:I have no standards and/or B:That because I'm online I'm sat trussed up like a sunday roast, booted and with slap on ready to service them.

Neither of these is remotely near the truth honest.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get a lot of messages assuming that, because I am online, I am up for a meet immediately. Even at 11pm!

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