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I've never had any complaints

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Well actually, I prefer you did. If you're doing something that isn't working, or uncomfortable I'm grown up enough to deal with that and learn.

Example....I'm not keen on oral being performed on me. I like the feeling of being very wet, and I don't get that from it. I find it difficult to ejaculate without being lubricated.

Are you happy to mention things that aren't working?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you OP. It’s all about communication if you want a satisfying experience for both of you.

Having a chat beforehand to get to know each other’s likes and dislikes but also during.

If something isn’t working isn’t it better to move onto to something that does than waste each other’s time.

It’s how we improve.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

The next time, aka repeated meets with the same person. Never works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well actually, I prefer you did. If you're doing something that isn't working, or uncomfortable I'm grown up enough to deal with that and learn.

Example....I'm not keen on oral being performed on me. I like the feeling of being very wet, and I don't get that from it. I find it difficult to ejaculate without being lubricated.

Are you happy to mention things that aren't working? "

Just encourage ladies to spit and drool on your dick

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's much better to be told what a partner likes and dislikes than not. I'm very comfortable expressing my own wants too. The point is to enjoy sex, isn't it?

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Well actually, I prefer you did. If you're doing something that isn't working, or uncomfortable I'm grown up enough to deal with that and learn.

Example....I'm not keen on oral being performed on me. I like the feeling of being very wet, and I don't get that from it. I find it difficult to ejaculate without being lubricated.

Are you happy to mention things that aren't working?

Just encourage ladies to spit and drool on your dick "

Never seems wet enough

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's much better to be told what a partner likes and dislikes than not. I'm very comfortable expressing my own wants too. The point is to enjoy sex, isn't it?"

I thought that was the point but I'm not sure now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's much better to be told what a partner likes and dislikes than not. I'm very comfortable expressing my own wants too. The point is to enjoy sex, isn't it?

I thought that was the point but I'm not sure now"

Oh

You mean "lie back and think of England" is all I should expect? Bummer.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"It's much better to be told what a partner likes and dislikes than not. I'm very comfortable expressing my own wants too. The point is to enjoy sex, isn't it?

I thought that was the point but I'm not sure now

Oh

You mean "lie back and think of England" is all I should expect? Bummer."

The least satisfactory outcome ever

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Yes, but it doesn't always come across very well, some men don't like it...

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

I've never had any complaints.

To my face.

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By *ife Ninja OP   Man
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Yes, but it doesn't always come across very well, some men don't like it..."

Sex is fun. If everyone isn't having fun, what's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They always complain when I get undressed

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't appreciate an almost instruction manual feel to sex

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Well actually, I prefer you did. If you're doing something that isn't working, or uncomfortable I'm grown up enough to deal with that and learn.

Example....I'm not keen on oral being performed on me. I like the feeling of being very wet, and I don't get that from it. I find it difficult to ejaculate without being lubricated.

Are you happy to mention things that aren't working?

Just encourage ladies to spit and drool on your dick "

Tell her to Google hawk tuah

I’m a bit odd in that I complain consistently when I’m spending money on anything, But when it’s sex I’m just kind of chill, Unless I’m feeling teeth and it’s painful I’m likely to just clench my teeth and ask her if she’s finished yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"….

Example....I'm not keen on oral being performed on me. I like the feeling of being very wet, and I don't get that from it. I find it difficult to ejaculate without being lubricated.

…"

Nobody?…. Okay. I’ll do it.

Hawk Tuay… she needs to spit on that thang, know what I’m sayin’ ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes more than happy to mention stuff & offer some direction to what I like, you can't expect people to know what you like without some guidance and discussion - we are all different at the end of the day what works for one won't for another.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

i do love a conversation about what is best, i love sensual stuff - not everyone is the same -

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I always aim to evaluate and feedback what could be being done etc.

Read the have you faked it thread, for when people don't always do this.

There are just occasional mismatches, that don't mean anyone is in the wrong or poor as a lover. I'm not setting a monogamous relationship up with them though, so I can live with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can’t express what I like, dislike, et al I’d rather stay home and use a toy to orgasm on my own.

Less trouble that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had loads of complaints

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace


"I’ve had loads of complaints"

Not about that derriere, I'll wager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think framing it as a complaint is part of the issue. It means suggesting they're doing wrong which is why it's so hard to communicate what you want across. I've got better at doing telling them what I want if I trust they don't feel slighted and I hope they feel the same about me so that we both have a better experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had loads of complaints

Not about that derriere, I'll wager."

The one with that derrière is usually the one complaining.

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace


"I’ve had loads of complaints

Not about that derriere, I'll wager.

The one with that derrière is usually the one complaining."

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