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"I think cupids was my least favourite of the northwest clubs I've been to. But I hope it's a better experience for you, Brucey "Ouch! I'm not far! Haha | |||
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"I think cupids was my least favourite of the northwest clubs I've been to. But I hope it's a better experience for you, Brucey
Ouch! I'm not far! Haha"It might have just been a poor night, and I believe it was changing hands when I tried it so I probably should give it another go sometime. Old skool bangers night tonight from the look of it, so at least the music should be a special kind of nostalgic | |||
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"I think cupids was my least favourite of the northwest clubs I've been to. But I hope it's a better experience for you, Brucey
Ouch! I'm not far! Haha
It might have just been a poor night, and I believe it was changing hands when I tried it so I probably should give it another go sometime.
Old skool bangers night tonight from the look of it, so at least the music should be a special kind of nostalgic "Yeah I'm going for the Craig David tunes  | |||
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"Yeah I'm going for the Craig David tunes "That's valid enough for me. I always end up dating older so end up at 80s nights. But 90s is where it's fucking at | |||
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Seriously unsexy for me. I've been to one in London before so not sure why I would think different but yeah, doing to these places alone is horrible | |||
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Seriously unsexy for me. I've been to one in London before so not sure why I would think different but yeah, doing to these places alone is horrible "To be fair, there's not much at cupids if you're alone. Partners at least has a fantastic wet area and you can just chill in the hot tub and keep an eye out for hotties. Find a club buddy Brucey. If you're living that way there's bound to be some friends you can make nearby | |||
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"Already bailed
Seriously unsexy for me. I've been to one in London before so not sure why I would think different but yeah, doing to these places alone is horrible
To be fair, there's not much at cupids if you're alone.
Partners at least has a fantastic wet area and you can just chill in the hot tub and keep an eye out for hotties.
Find a club buddy Brucey. If you're living that way there's bound to be some friends you can make nearby "I walked around, no hotties either! And very cliquey. I'm ridiculously confident, but even I thought fuck this | |||
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"I walked around, no hotties either! And very cliquey. I'm ridiculously confident, but even I thought fuck this "Like I say, I didn't think much of it when I went. Plenty of cliques and wanking dead and not much in the way of interest for me. Are you going to MLS? You might be able to make a club buddy there. And then go to a different club | |||
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"I walked around, no hotties either! And very cliquey. I'm ridiculously confident, but even I thought fuck this
Like I say, I didn't think much of it when I went. Plenty of cliques and wanking dead and not much in the way of interest for me.
Are you going to MLS? You might be able to make a club buddy there. And then go to a different club "No idea what MLS is! | |||
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Seriously unsexy for me. I've been to one in London before so not sure why I would think different but yeah, doing to these places alone is horrible "You shouldve looked up adam and eves. Great mix of ages in there. Yep can be quiet like some clubs but an event on tomorrow night if you get let down again | |||
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"Townhouse is a better option? " The hotel? | |||
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"Already bailed
Seriously unsexy for me. I've been to one in London before so not sure why I would think different but yeah, doing to these places alone is horrible
You shouldve looked up adam and eves. Great mix of ages in there. Yep can be quiet like some clubs but an event on tomorrow night if you get let down again"I honestly think they're just not for me to be honest. Was good to clarify again. Half naked sweaty dudes and the odd woman walking around, just doesn't scream sexy to me | |||
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"Townhouse is a better option? The hotel? "its a club on the wirral been at least 14 yrs since ive been so cant comment on it | |||
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"Townhouse is a better option? The hotel? "That's just an expensive option  | |||
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"A place full of horny half naked people,this is what my nightmares are made of. " ^ it’s the horny *fully* naked people she wants! | |||
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"I walked around, no hotties either! And very cliquey. I'm ridiculously confident, but even I thought fuck this
Like I say, I didn't think much of it when I went. Plenty of cliques and wanking dead and not much in the way of interest for me.
Are you going to MLS? You might be able to make a club buddy there. And then go to a different club
No idea what MLS is!"Manchester Lounge Social. There's a few of us meeting up in a couple of weeks. Talk to Woody. Also, heavily seconding the Townhouse is better comment. There's some disagreement that means they don't post their events on here. And it's a bit of a trek to Birkenhead. But I find the journey worth it from up here with an extra 2 hours in it | |||
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"Townhouse is a better option? The hotel? "No, the nail bar  | |||
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"Townhouse is a better option? The hotel?
No, the nail bar "You're the one suggesting a Liverpool club! Not a Manchester one! | |||
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"Townhouse is a better option? The hotel?
No, the nail bar
You're the one suggesting a Liverpool club! Not a Manchester one! ""my first NW swinging club" | |||
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"Already bailed
Seriously unsexy for me. I've been to one in London before so not sure why I would think different but yeah, doing to these places alone is horrible "Fair play to you Brucey, for having a look in. I’ve been to several clubs as a solo guy, and appreciate fully, how shite and unwelcome you can feel 
I’ve only been to Cupids once, but wasn’t a fan, so never returned.
All clubs have their cliques (no matter what they say), but you only need one person to make your night, so you just never know. I will always argue though; you will meet more women in your local Wetherspoons than you will in a swingers club. Find yourself a female fwb, and go on a couples night | |||
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"Already bailed
Seriously unsexy for me. I've been to one in London before so not sure why I would think different but yeah, doing to these places alone is horrible
Fair play to you Brucey, for having a look in. I’ve been to several clubs as a solo guy, and appreciate fully, how shite and unwelcome you can feel
I’ve only been to Cupids once, but wasn’t a fan, so never returned.
All clubs have their cliques (no matter what they say), but you only need one person to make your night, so you just never know. I will always argue though; you will meet more women in your local Wetherspoons than you will in a swingers club. Find yourself a female fwb, and go on a couples night "Absolutely this. I have tried one in London before and it wasn't dress down straight away, so you could easily chat to people in the bar just knowing you shared kinks etc. I should have done more research rather than spontaneously turned up but by the time I was there and they told me I needed to undress there and then, I thought fuck it for a moment and let's see what the crowds like. Cliquey and no one really making any effort is the answer. I would have stayed for a drink, had I not been in my damn boxers. But that's that place for you! 10/10 would not recommend as a single haha | |||
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"Unfortunately, the male dress down policy is outdated and off putting for so many. Lost count the amount of people we speak to who don’t come here because of this. We’ve had several great nights here, but I do feel for M who is body conscious with a dad bod so isn’t all slim and toned, and I’m sure if they changed this policy then we and many more people would attend more frequently. This is what made us try Pandoras where there is no dress down policy to just socialise. If you agree to play then you go change etc. but much nicer for guys to not have to be in their boxers all the time. We hoped the new management would change this policy but alas, not yet. Hope you find somewhere that works for you. But like any night out anywhere, some a great, some are rubbish. Isn’t always the venue, but the vibe. Good luck x" Thing is I'm not even body conscious, it's just fucking weird. Swimming pools are different to sweaty men walking around everywhere with their moobs out in a bar | |||
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"Don't let it put you off clubs Brucey." Too late! | |||
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"Already bailed
Seriously unsexy for me. I've been to one in London before so not sure why I would think different but yeah, doing to these places alone is horrible
Fair play to you Brucey, for having a look in. I’ve been to several clubs as a solo guy, and appreciate fully, how shite and unwelcome you can feel
I’ve only been to Cupids once, but wasn’t a fan, so never returned.
All clubs have their cliques (no matter what they say), but you only need one person to make your night, so you just never know. I will always argue though; you will meet more women in your local Wetherspoons than you will in a swingers club. Find yourself a female fwb, and go on a couples night
Absolutely this. I have tried one in London before and it wasn't dress down straight away, so you could easily chat to people in the bar just knowing you shared kinks etc.
I should have done more research rather than spontaneously turned up but by the time I was there and they told me I needed to undress there and then, I thought fuck it for a moment and let's see what the crowds like.
Cliquey and no one really making any effort is the answer. I would have stayed for a drink, had I not been in my damn boxers. But that's that place for you! 10/10 would not recommend as a single haha"There’s only two clubs I’ve visited (out of the 8 I tried), that I felt truly welcome as a single guy. They are No.3 in Chorley, and Club Shhh in Newcastle. All the rest followed the usual “Single guy? Thanks for your money, it’s through there….” and then you were on your own…. No.3 does operate a dress down rule, but only from 10.30, so you can go earlier on, chat around the bar and social area, see what the vibe is, and choose whether you stay later than 10.30. Mary, Sian and Ged are still there, and would make you feel welcome I have no doubts
Shhh in Newcastle you only dress down to go downstairs to the play areas, so again, you can stay fully clothed in the upstairs bar/social area, until you felt comfortable to undress. I appreciate Newcastle isn’t on your doorstep, but no club is for me, so it’s far easier for me to think “Meh, can’t be arsed”
It’s great when a club visit ‘works’, but it really is hit or miss, especially as a single guy | |||
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