FabSwingers.com forum: Deciding whats best for you.

By *ay W. Beau OP Woman
14 weeks ago

Wolvo

An acquaintance said to me today, i shouldn't be rushing home, as my kid can take care of themself.

It got me thinking about people deciding whats best for you. Do you mind it or do bristle at the concept?

Granted theres a difference between someone voicing their thoughts and a person making decisions for you.

Is it nice to hand over the reigns and let others decide? At a restaurant for example, letting someone else choose your dinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I like expressing my autonomy freely and often.

It drives me mad when someone tries to decide what’s best for me when I’ve otherwise not asked for their opinion on the matter.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
14 weeks ago

Coventry

i had an acquaintance who would dish all my fab choices, and then suggest i had met the wrong people if they didnt like them - yea i dont really like people telling me - i suppose that's years of being single, I also like to hog the remote.

Did go out for a meal once and was told that i didnt want desert! er yea mate - i do

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
14 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Oh I fully bristle.

If I ask for someone's advice on a matter, I appreciate their input.

Someone making suggestions during a rant I'm having where I probably am too emotional to reason out the sensible choice, risky.

Someone just telling me I should be doing something for my own benefit, as if I'm too thick to think of it myself or know my own mind, they can fuck off

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
14 weeks ago

St Leonards

Few things fuck me off more than uninvited advice or attempts at power-play.

I've got a "friend" doing it at the moment - "because I'm thinking of you Nick".

No mate - you're being a dick who can't manage concepts of personal space and invitations.

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By *ilver_foxxx69Man
14 weeks ago

Falkirk

If it comes from a good place I don’t mind it

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By *illy IdolMan
14 weeks ago

Midlands

"Few things fuck me off more than uninvited advice or attempts at power-play.

I've got a "friend" doing it at the moment - "because I'm thinking of you Nick".

No mate - you're being a dick who can't manage concepts of personal space and invitations."

My advice is you need to loosen up a bit. It'll be good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago

I really hate people thinking they know what's best for me and telling me what to do.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
14 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Few things fuck me off more than uninvited advice or attempts at power-play.

I've got a "friend" doing it at the moment - "because I'm thinking of you Nick".

No mate - you're being a dick who can't manage concepts of personal space and invitations.

My advice is you need to loosen up a bit. It'll be good for you

And go fuck yourself x

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By *eordieJeansCouple
14 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I really hate people thinking they know what's best for me and telling me what to do. "

Get to bed!

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By *illy IdolMan
14 weeks ago

Midlands

"Few things fuck me off more than uninvited advice or attempts at power-play.

I've got a "friend" doing it at the moment - "because I'm thinking of you Nick".

No mate - you're being a dick who can't manage concepts of personal space and invitations.

My advice is you need to loosen up a bit. It'll be good for you

And go fuck yourself x"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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14 weeks ago

East Sussex

Hate it and I ignore it.

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By *affron40Woman
14 weeks ago

manchester

Jesus. I’d be fuming if someone tried to order my food for me!!! There are many reasons I’ve stayed single for 13 years.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
14 weeks ago

St Leonards

"Few things fuck me off more than uninvited advice or attempts at power-play.

I've got a "friend" doing it at the moment - "because I'm thinking of you Nick".

No mate - you're being a dick who can't manage concepts of personal space and invitations.

My advice is you need to loosen up a bit. It'll be good for you

And go fuck yourself x

(I'm probably on thin ice with that one

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
14 weeks ago

your head

No, can't stand it. Unless you're my mother or pay my wages, you don't get to tell me what to do. People like that would get cut off in a heartbeat.

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