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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

there really is some special bond with fwbs don t you think?

I have had to let go of mine recently but man don t i miss him...it s a strange setup really isn t it? you re friends, with no boundaries, a great sex life, yet no commitment...is having a fwb instead of a partner the new black these days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it can be a very close relationship as you'd need to trust each other completely.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never just had one fwb, or gentleman caller, couldnt see the point in swinging if i only had one. I do have one that ive known over 7 years, hes lovely and we have a great friendship but i couldnt fall in love with him and im sure he couldnt with me. There is a cut off point that i wouldnt overstep

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I prefer my debauchery with a level of intimacy that you just don't find with casual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever had the one fb really, its true that you do gain a certain fondness for them, albeit a non-romantic one. I still think of her now and then.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My most regular FWB can be a right pain in the arse sometimes. We have decided not to be in a relationship as we are not suited, but he doesn't half sulk if I can't meet him when he wants me to.

Having said that, he is the best shag I've ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a very touchy situation for it is strictly just a friendship with some added physicality no romance no love fun and sex. Simple as that. Now more oft than not one side of the fwb will develope deeper emotions and thats where peoblems can form orrrrrr a valid relationship starts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah that s prob usually why those setups don t last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if they do blossom into a wonderful and long lasting relationship isnt that a good thing too?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Anyone wanna be my FwB?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of both worlds, a girl friend to shop with, drink coffee, undress and enjoy! Ooh yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if they do blossom into a wonderful and long lasting relationship isnt that a good thing too?"

that d prob be the best relationship you d ever have!

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By *eal_Dick_TurpinMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"there really is some special bond with fwbs don t you think?

I have had to let go of mine recently but man don t i miss him...it s a strange setup really isn t it? you re friends, with no boundaries, a great sex life, yet no commitment...is having a fwb instead of a partner the new black these days?"

you just live in the wrong part of the country cherie....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they do blossom into a wonderful and long lasting relationship isnt that a good thing too?

that d prob be the best relationship you d ever have! "

Indeed it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my friends all play different why not go out for dinner or for a drink as well as play. Just not every week x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there really is some special bond with fwbs don t you think?

I have had to let go of mine recently but man don t i miss him...it s a strange setup really isn t it? you re friends, with no boundaries, a great sex life, yet no commitment...is having a fwb instead of a partner the new black these days?

you just live in the wrong part of the country cherie....lol"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if they do blossom into a wonderful and long lasting relationship isnt that a good thing too?

that d prob be the best relationship you d ever have!

Indeed it was "

'was'? ;(

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have FB i deem as friends, we get on, chill and repeatedly meet. Can't see no problem with that.

However, If emotions/feelings stepped in, then i guess the arrangement would have to be re-evaluated.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had a fuckbuddy a few years ago until she started to fall in love with me. We mutually stopped seeing each other but I miss her still. My current fuckbuddy I see as much as I can. We agreed boundaries and we have both stuck to them. Life is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if they do blossom into a wonderful and long lasting relationship isnt that a good thing too?

that d prob be the best relationship you d ever have!

Indeed it was

'was'? ;("

Long story...she had to move away for her job I had to stay here for my job. So we had to part ways.

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By *leasurexxWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Aawwww fwb are just the best

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