FabSwingers.com forum: advice

By *aytime78 OP Man
4 days ago

daventry

any advice on going to a club as a single male and which is best around daventry way if there is anywhere dont fancy travelling miles to the ones listed on here but will anyway not expecting much response as a bloke maybe its just a case of wait till im asked and be patient or grab it by the throat and throw me sen in there

By *eordieJeansCouple
4 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If you go to a club certainly don’t grab it by the throat.

By *r John WickMan
4 days ago

The Continental

Go to a club that’s holding a newbies night. That’s all the advice you need

By *eordieJeansCouple
4 days ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"If you go to a club certainly don’t grab it by the throat."

Seriously though just go with no expectations, be polite, talk to BOTH people in couples and try to sit near the bar area so you have more chance of striking up conversation. I will assume you already know not to touch unless given permission and that no means no.

By *hilloutMan
4 days ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Clubs can be intimidating for single men, especially if attending on their own and not knowing any of the attendees.

There's a section on fab that lists numerous clubs by geographical location. You can look these up and see which one is closest.

If attending, my advice would be to try going on a party / event night as more people will likely be present. Go with a positive, laid back and respectful attitude. It doesn't guarantee anything, but is certainly the best approach. You may find the first experience awkward or uncomfortable, which is perfectly normal.

Best of luck.

By *aytime78 OP Man
4 days ago

daventry

obviously not gonna start grabbing throats and 100% wouldnt touch without consent hey dear need to plucking up the courage

By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 days ago

S. Herts

Just go. No amount of advice or questions will get you over the threadhold. If they aren’t for you, you may as well find out. If they are you’ll wish you went sooner.