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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I just contacted a lady. Her pictures are delightful, very classy (nothing rude) her responses were amazingly quick and she sounded too good to be true. What do I do? Joke about her not being real... She never even got back to me. She has no profile verifications either.

It makes me wonder if she is real or if she's not, what's the point?!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"So I just contacted a lady. Her pictures are delightful, very classy (nothing rude) her responses were amazingly quick and she sounded too good to be true. What do I do? Joke about her not being real... She never even got back to me. She has no profile verifications either.

It makes me wonder if she is real or if she's not, what's the point?! "

Is she picture verified (the green flag)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too good to be true .. on here

It can happen you know - diamonds in the rough and all that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I just contacted a lady. Her pictures are delightful, very classy (nothing rude) her responses were amazingly quick and she sounded too good to be true. What do I do? Joke about her not being real... She never even got back to me. She has no profile verifications either.

It makes me wonder if she is real or if she's not, what's the point?!

Is she picture verified (the green flag)?"

Nope she is not...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too good to be true .. on here

It can happen you know - diamonds in the rough and all that x"

They can sometimes, usually they're ages away and the chances of a meet are slim to non... X

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Talk, get around to chatting on the phone.... make your own mind up.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Depends how long she's been on I think.... Not many "real" women not verified

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

give it a chance speak for a while see if u can get a phone call or cam off her dont giv up till u know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Talk, get around to chatting on the phone.... make your own mind up."

We were talking until I popped that question now messages are just deleted. I can understand it being an offensive question...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how long she's been on I think.... Not many "real" women not verified "

12 weeks...

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

im lost did u actually joke about her not being real and were u talking on the phone already?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So I just contacted a lady. Her pictures are delightful, very classy (nothing rude) her responses were amazingly quick and she sounded too good to be true. What do I do? Joke about her not being real... She never even got back to me. She has no profile verifications either.

It makes me wonder if she is real or if she's not, what's the point?! "

Why would you think she was too good to be true?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im lost did u actually joke about her not being real and were u talking on the phone already?"

I said "are you sure you're real? Haha" to which obviously caused offence. No we were not chatting on the phone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I just contacted a lady. Her pictures are delightful, very classy (nothing rude) her responses were amazingly quick and she sounded too good to be true. What do I do? Joke about her not being real... She never even got back to me. She has no profile verifications either.

It makes me wonder if she is real or if she's not, what's the point?!

Why would you think she was too good to be true? "

Because of the reasons I had quoted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a saying, if its too good to be real, then it probable not

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Talk, get around to chatting on the phone.... make your own mind up.

We were talking until I popped that question now messages are just deleted. I can understand it being an offensive question... "

I'm guessing the question you popped was about her being real or not?

If it was and now your messages are being deleted then it's time to move on. Whether she is real or not is all academic now... the conversation is over.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So I just contacted a lady. Her pictures are delightful, very classy (nothing rude) her responses were amazingly quick and she sounded too good to be true. What do I do? Joke about her not being real... She never even got back to me. She has no profile verifications either.

It makes me wonder if she is real or if she's not, what's the point?!

Why would you think she was too good to be true?

Because of the reasons I had quoted. "

But I still don't understand! Her picture are great, her responses are amazingly quick! That's all you've said, maybe I'm just being thick!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

shes ignoring you now so its all irrelevant is it not move on and find another mystery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"shes ignoring you now so its all irrelevant is it not move on and find another mystery"

Like scooby and the gang?

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"shes ignoring you now so its all irrelevant is it not move on and find another mystery

Like scooby and the gang? "
exactly and id give that thelma one

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

In a slightly similar vein. A local update had the banner "no picture no reply" but in bold. So i emailled and said i appreciated i was out of their age range and didnt expect a reply but attached some pics. What happens? Deleteand blocked. Delete i can live with but why the need to blockNo sense of humour?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"shes ignoring you now so its all irrelevant is it not move on and find another mystery

Like scooby and the gang? exactly and id give that thelma one "

Take off her glasses and the filthy cow is anyone's...

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"In a slightly similar vein. A local update had the banner "no picture no reply" but in bold. So i emailled and said i appreciated i was out of their age range and didnt expect a reply but attached some pics. What happens? Deleteand blocked. Delete i can live with but why the need to blockNo sense of humour?"

You mailed even though you were not in age range...

I would have blocked you for trying to be smart

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

There are no strangers, only friends i havent yet met ------------- unless they are not in my age range.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"In a slightly similar vein. A local update had the banner "no picture no reply" but in bold. So i emailled and said i appreciated i was out of their age range and didnt expect a reply but attached some pics. What happens? Deleteand blocked. Delete i can live with but why the need to blockNo sense of humour?"

May be they blocked you because you had already ignored their preferences once and they didn't want you to be tempted to do it again.

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

Could be. Perhaps. I'm a year older today so although i have had a stack of work to do and still do, i was having a flippant 5 minutes to celebrate. Kersplat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be. Perhaps. I'm a year older today so although i have had a stack of work to do and still do, i was having a flippant 5 minutes to celebrate. Kersplat"

Happy birthday

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By *obnessMan
over a year ago

york

Thankyou.

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