FabSwingers.com forum: Does chiselled abs put women off

By *ucky charmer OP Man
30 weeks ago

Liverpool Manchester North West

A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her”

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By *eordieJeansCouple
30 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If your body puts someone off that’s their problem. I’m assuming you’ve worked hard for it so show it off.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
30 weeks ago

The Continental

Some love em

Some don’t

Display what you want, you will never please everyone.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
30 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

What will you do, hide the abs in your pics? They'll still be there when you meet in person *gallic shrug*

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If people are put off by something you have or are or do, is the answer to hide it or just find people more aligned with wanting you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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30 weeks ago

East Sussex

Nope

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
30 weeks ago

Tamworth

The point of a profile is to attract the people you like and who will find you attractive in return.

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By *rispyDuckMan
30 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Not everyone is gonna like your profile

Some ladies like muscular men with abs

Some ladies like men with dad bods

If they don’t like what they see, it’s fine they can move on.

If you don’t like what you see you can do the same

That’s the beauty of ‘freedom of choice’

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By *hagTonightMan
30 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I have a 6pack bod

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By *razyfool0909Man
30 weeks ago

shirley

I mean… I’ve got Flabdominals if they count?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
30 weeks ago

North West

The face bit is more important to me, personally.

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By *ffervescentMan
30 weeks ago

winfrith

"I mean… I’ve got Flabdominals if they count?"
nope they don't I have a one pack .

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
30 weeks ago

The last house on the left…

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

A lil experiment for you…

Get a lady that has turnt you down

Look at her profile

Look at the kinda men she already had Veris from

That’s probably the type they prefer

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By *eyond PurityCouple
30 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Showing there’s much more then good abs, with different pics and a good detailed profile will get you a lot more attention.

You need something to draw you in to a profile but you then need something to keep people interested.

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By *hilloutMan
30 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"The point of a profile is to attract the people you like and who will find you attractive in return. "

Absolutely agree with this

To be fair op, if I had your abs I'd enjoy showing them off!

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By *ark n kimCouple
30 weeks ago

Durham

It's horses for courses.mrs loves the dad bod,that's is brilliant for me.

But I will say that you have a great bod op,not over the top.be proud of it.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
30 weeks ago

Cambs

I think for some women it can be a confidence thing, they can't imagine that someone who spends considerable time on their physic would be interested in them when their body type isn't gym buff. Personally I find a lot of guys like softer curves and it's the difference to their own body that holds the attraction, I wish more women were confident in their sex appeal regardless of body type.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
30 weeks ago

Reading

As all the others have said be you. It's a gorgeous body.

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By *ucky charmer OP Man
30 weeks ago

Liverpool Manchester North West

Very much appreciate all the feedback, ye beautiful bunch of people x

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By *ansoffateMan
30 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Let your beauty shine like a diamond

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
30 weeks ago

peterborough

I admire the dedication gone into getting that look. But I prefer natural

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By *B69Woman
30 weeks ago

Wiltshire

The abs may get my attention but the personality will keep it

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By *aizyWoman
30 weeks ago

west midlands

Some will be, some won't, can't please everyone OP.

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By *usanStoHelitWoman
30 weeks ago

liverpool

You have an incredible body op, reminiscent of a Greek god

In times past, I might have been dubious of one so chiseled having the slightest bit of interest in my very wobbly bits, especially after teen years of the fit lads in school bullying the chubby girls by asking them out and laughing if they dared to say yes

But a couple of years on this scene have made me realise that there really is someone for everyone, and even gym fit men can be into softer bodied women.

Seeing as that is the majority of us, not every woman is going to necessarily believe you when you show interest, Even if it's sincere!

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By *obilebottomMan
30 weeks ago

All over

Horses for courses

chiselled jawline is nicec

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
30 weeks ago

Always on the move

Read a few profiles Joe mate. More went to see you topless then me haha.

Does it arse me? Nope. Like people have said, takes all sorts. Just move on to the next one

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
30 weeks ago

Wirral.

Doesn't put me off, OP. You look amazing. That said, it's all in the face for me.

I'm fat, and until I came on here, I'd never have dreamed of approaching someone who was so toned. But I guess some guys like squidgy bodies on a woman, thank god! X

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By *naswingdressWoman
30 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I don't think it's the abs. And if it is, they'll be put off in person too, so don't hide them.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
30 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

Looks like the general consensus is to show off what you have worked hard for and not be a dick

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By *ucky charmer OP Man
30 weeks ago

Liverpool Manchester North West

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By *ucky charmer OP Man
30 weeks ago

Liverpool Manchester North West

Thank you for your incite, I genuinely would never have considered this

"You have an incredible body op, reminiscent of a Greek god

But a couple of years on this scene have made me realise that there really is someone for everyone, and even gym fit men can be into softer bodied women.

Seeing as that is the majority of us, not every woman is going to necessarily believe you when you show interest, Even if it's sincere! "

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By *peak and SpellCouple
30 weeks ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

Er no....!

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
30 weeks ago

Cumbria

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

Doesn’t really make a difference for us, they’re nice I suppose but it’s not a game changer either positively or negatively.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
30 weeks ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

But as others have said, a good personality goes a long way.

So abs and a good personality = perfect

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By *odgerMooreMan
30 weeks ago

Nowhere

I hope women aren’t put off by the sexual prowess of a panther and the body of a greek god* or im fucked!!

* assuming Buddha is Greek??

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

I used to have chiselled abs on my profile but it appeared to put people off. I decided to eat and drink more, but it depends on how dedicated to Fab you are?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Central

It's better if a prospective partner can know accurately who they may be picking, so those being comfortable with your body can select the right people. I love chiseled men, as many others do. Still more will have flexibility.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

awful!!!

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
30 weeks ago

Sheffield

Not at all, but no good having a body like Thor, a face like Sloth and the personality of Farage. Its just one part of the package, the rest has to fit too x

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By *nnCeeWoman
30 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

If I told you that you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?!

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
30 weeks ago

fabland

It wouldn’t put me off if anything it tells me you look after yourself unlike the majority on here

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By *ourtney CocksWoman
30 weeks ago

fabland

In my area I mean

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By *udie NudieMan
30 weeks ago

Newcastle

"... I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

Then you fucked her senseless and she was walking like John Wayne for a week?

Is that the one?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
30 weeks ago

Leeds

Just do you OP, some will be attracted to you and others not, that's life.

Don't hide yourself to try and please others.

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By *hunky GentMan
30 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What will you do, hide the abs in your pics? They'll still be there when you meet in person *gallic shrug*"

I hide mine behind a load of fat.

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By *ornyvirginphxWoman
30 weeks ago

phoenix

I’m a sucker for abs and my fav pics are 1) teasing ab pics and 2) ab + cock pics. Your pics are great (but could do with more cock imo

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By *ornycougaWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I just assume he'd be the fit one in our dynamic. I'm happy with that.

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By *yrdsisWoman
30 weeks ago

Gleam Street

I used to be terrified of them...I'm no gym bunny.. but a chiselled gent changed my mind... He loved my squishy bits....I don't fib on my profile, so if someone cut turns up? I'll see how the chat goes

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By *elloWoman
30 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Doesn't put me off at all, I love the look and feel of a good muscular body, but I'd probably think they'd be out of my league.

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By *affron40Woman
30 weeks ago

manchester

It has nothing to do with expectations for me. But it’s just not what I prefer. I like to be able to grab flesh, muscle just doesn’t do it for me.

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By *orthern BeardMan
30 weeks ago

Lancashire

Abs are over rated

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
30 weeks ago

manchester

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

Are you asking for a friend

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By *hunky GentMan
30 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"It has nothing to do with expectations for me. But it’s just not what I prefer. I like to be able to grab flesh, muscle just doesn’t do it for me."

I hope you have big hands.

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By *avexxMan
30 weeks ago

cheshire

like others have said some women like them some dont

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever

No. I’d rather see abs than the beer belly.

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By *uenevereWoman
30 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

We're all different, so some like the beefcake look and others don't.

I'm not a fan, but I'm far more attracted to personality and a nice face with a smile.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
30 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

It's really down to the personality attached to the abbs.

Would I admire from a far...

hell yes!

Would I just jump in and play.. Nope!

Like everything connection is key.

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By *oxy jWoman
30 weeks ago

somerset

no ...

but attitude does and i find some gym guys have plenty

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By *hawn ScottMan
30 weeks ago

london Brixton

I trained for myself not to attract women, some woman liked it or some didn't.

Maybe they made a snap judgement and thought I was arrogent without even gettimg to know me. But I defineatly had more success then when I was a skinny .

However I used to get a kick when guys spoke to me on how thay wouldn't want to look like me (errrr ok) and that his girlfriend told him that women don't like guys with big muscles.

I replied with, "Yeah shes just telling you that so you don't feel insecure"

Boom! hopefully that will mess with your mind for few days

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By *rRiosMan
30 weeks ago

dublin

"I used to have chiselled abs on my profile but it appeared to put people off. I decided to eat and drink more, but it depends on how dedicated to *Flab you are?"

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Well... Very beautiful to look at... I might be slightly intimidated that my body wasn't a similar 'spec', byt that's my issue not theirs

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
30 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

"I trained for myself not to attract women, some woman liked it or some didn't.

Maybe they made a snap judgement and thought I was arrogent without even gettimg to know me. But I defineatly had more success then when I was a skinny .

However I used to get a kick when guys spoke to me on how thay wouldn't want to look like me (errrr ok) and that his girlfriend told him that women don't like guys with big muscles.

I replied with, "Yeah shes just telling you that so you don't feel insecure"

Boom! hopefully that will mess with your mind for few days"

So you honestly believe all women lie to the bf when discussing your personal physic?

(must be unheard off, to ever suspect they actually don't like your physic and prefer the guy they have chosen to be part of their lives)

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By *uffnmuffCouple
30 weeks ago

London

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "
I wouldn't hide them if someone is put off by them then thay are not for you. X

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By *ante40Man
30 weeks ago

Moving around

Some have told me they like it, others sadly not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I think you should change everything about yourself to appease people you don’t know

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
30 weeks ago

Northerner

Eyes and mouths are more of an allure for me, along with the personality - if you have all of that along with chiselled abs then that’s great. Just the same as a chap with a “dad bod”. Experienced both and each were attractive to me because of the first attributes.

As mentioned above, always an inner niggle for me that the more chiselled are not going to be interested in my lardy ass so rarely make the first move.

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By *allandathleticMan
30 weeks ago

Asgard

If you expect me to hold the pose displayed in my profile picture your going to be very disappointed. Especially when I shit myself

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By *weetiepie99Woman
30 weeks ago

cardiff

Nope, if I like/find someone attractive, body type isn't too much of a big deal

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By *urry BlokeMan
30 weeks ago

Stalybridge

It's not something I've ever had to worry about

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
30 weeks ago

North West

"If you expect me to hold the pose displayed in my profile picture your going to be very disappointed. Especially when I shit myself

Only in for the drip of liquid (water?!) down the front. I'd expect that to be exactly the same

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By *hawn ScottMan
30 weeks ago

london Brixton

"I trained for myself not to attract women, some woman liked it or some didn't.

Maybe they made a snap judgement and thought I was arrogent without even gettimg to know me. But I defineatly had more success then when I was a skinny .

However I used to get a kick when guys spoke to me on how thay wouldn't want to look like me (errrr ok) and that his girlfriend told him that women don't like guys with big muscles.

I replied with, "Yeah shes just telling you that so you don't feel insecure"

Boom! hopefully that will mess with your mind for few days

So you honestly believe all women lie to the bf when discussing your personal physic?

(must be unheard off, to ever suspect they actually don't like your physic and prefer the guy they have chosen to be part of their lives)

No thats not what I think but I'm going back to when I when I was massive and going out to a bar or nightclub I guess I stuck out! I got insulted a lot and people seem to think thats OK. I got called a freak, gay etc.

Would you go up to a random person in a bar and say they were too fat or too skinny? No! But people used to think it was fair game for some random to say I was too muscular and girls don't like it. I was just responding to being insulted by hopefully messing with his head.

Another example is randoms felt it was OK to just walk up to you and ask if you used steroids! Thats a very personal question. to which I would reply

"well thats my business but would it make you feel better about yourself if I said yes"

Randoms would also say that muscular people cou;dn't fight and challenge me! I was usually able to defuse it and if it really got bad I would say OK lets go outside. Funny enough they would back down.

I was just minding my own business on a night out with friends.

If you are on a night out and some random walked up to you and said "fancy a shag" you then turn him down so he calls you a slag.

Did you ask for that? No was it acceptable behaviour? NO!

Would you say something back to him in retelation? I don't know you but I'm sure plenty of women in that situation would say something back to take him down a peg.

Men get harrassed as well as women, neither is acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Please inform me of women put of by abs many thanks

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By *y AmoreMan
30 weeks ago

london

Bro, just do you. It can be hard as you may have ladies you think are very hot not wanting to speak because they feel you don’t match but nothing a nice friend open chat can’t help.

Don’t hide what’s you just try and speak with ones you find attractive and hopefully there will you to and like your personality

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

No not at all... I kind of just assume I won't be their type because I'm more potato shapes

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By *he KakapoMan
30 weeks ago

A nice rock

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her”

No not at all... I kind of just assume I won't be their type because I'm more potato shapes

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Mmmmm potato

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her”

No not at all... I kind of just assume I won't be their type because I'm more potato shapes

...

Mmmmm potato "

Roasted, mashed, boiled, ?? ....

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By *insBadMan
30 weeks ago

& around

I hope not, I've just got mine

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By *agatoXXXMan
30 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Poor grammar puts me off.

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By *he KakapoMan
30 weeks ago

A nice rock

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her”

No not at all... I kind of just assume I won't be their type because I'm more potato shapes

...

Mmmmm potato

Roasted, mashed, boiled, ?? ....

Yes

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By *onnyJohnMan
30 weeks ago

Doncaster

What about a barrel?

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By *uxom redCouple
30 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

On a man no on a women I find a little off putting .

That's me being fat and old nothing to do with them .

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her”

No not at all... I kind of just assume I won't be their type because I'm more potato shapes

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Mmmmm potato

Roasted, mashed, boiled, ?? ....

Yes"

All of them ??

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By *inkShyWoman
30 weeks ago

near Windsor

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

Nope.. I do think 'ah shit but I'm fat' but then assume the person can see and doesn't care. I quite like to see the abs thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I love a woman with curves. But they seem to be put off by my “gym” body.

So I find it a struggle at times to find the right women

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"I love a woman with curves. But they seem to be put off by my “gym” body.

So I find it a struggle at times to find the right women "

It's probably because us curvy girls think there's no way a gym bodded guy would be interested in us... yay for low self esteem lol

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By *et and WillingCouple
30 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Doesnt do much for me but then i prefer a more rounded gentleman

Mrs W&W x

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By *illjoyCouple
30 weeks ago

Newport

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

There’s a shape for everybody!

For me personally your body would definitely not be a put off, I can’t help running my hands all over a muscly physique

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By *inkShyWoman
30 weeks ago

near Windsor

"I love a woman with curves. But they seem to be put off by my “gym” body.

So I find it a struggle at times to find the right women

It's probably because us curvy girls think there's no way a gym bodded guy would be interested in us... yay for low self esteem lol"

This made me laugh haha. SO TRUE !

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By *riar BelisseWoman
30 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Hell's bells Noooooo

Quite the opposite

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
30 weeks ago

North West

"I love a woman with curves. But they seem to be put off by my “gym” body.

So I find it a struggle at times to find the right women "

Some of us chubsters have been offput by the attitudes of others. I'm starting, at the age of 38, to deal better with my own self esteem though.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

You poor thing with your chiselled and washboard abs

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I love a woman with curves. But they seem to be put off by my “gym” body.

So I find it a struggle at times to find the right women

It's probably because us curvy girls think there's no way a gym bodded guy would be interested in us... yay for low self esteem lol"

But surely I wouldn’t be messaging saying I like a curvy girl if that’s the case? Or is it just a polite way of saying piss off?? Haha.

To be fair, it’s not just about the body though. You’d be surprised that I probably have more body hang ups than most, even though I keep in shape

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"You poor thing with your chiselled and washboard abs

Says you

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"I love a woman with curves. But they seem to be put off by my “gym” body.

So I find it a struggle at times to find the right women

It's probably because us curvy girls think there's no way a gym bodded guy would be interested in us... yay for low self esteem lol

But surely I wouldn’t be messaging saying I like a curvy girl if that’s the case? Or is it just a polite way of saying piss off?? Haha.

To be fair, it’s not just about the body though. You’d be surprised that I probably have more body hang ups than most, even though I keep in shape"

That's true... but there's always a little part of me that thinks " are they bullshitting me? " .... I suppose I have so little self esteem I don't really believe anyone finds me attractive lol....

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30 weeks ago

"I love a woman with curves. But they seem to be put off by my “gym” body.

So I find it a struggle at times to find the right women

It's probably because us curvy girls think there's no way a gym bodded guy would be interested in us... yay for low self esteem lol

But surely I wouldn’t be messaging saying I like a curvy girl if that’s the case? Or is it just a polite way of saying piss off?? Haha.

To be fair, it’s not just about the body though. You’d be surprised that I probably have more body hang ups than most, even though I keep in shape

That's true... but there's always a little part of me that thinks " are they bullshitting me? " .... I suppose I have so little self esteem I don't really believe anyone finds me attractive lol...."

I get that, cos men can bullshit on here I’m sure haha.

But I’d think…. Fuck it! And take advantage of that’s your thing. Use it to your advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"You poor thing with your chiselled and washboard abs

Says you

He wasn’t looking for that reply…….. honestly lol

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
30 weeks ago

Southampton

"You poor thing with your chiselled and washboard abs

Says you

He wasn’t looking for that reply…….. honestly lol"

I know lol ....

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By *nnCeeWoman
30 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"I love a woman with curves. But they seem to be put off by my “gym” body.

So I find it a struggle at times to find the right women

It's probably because us curvy girls think there's no way a gym bodded guy would be interested in us... yay for low self esteem lol

But surely I wouldn’t be messaging saying I like a curvy girl if that’s the case? Or is it just a polite way of saying piss off?? Haha.

To be fair, it’s not just about the body though. You’d be surprised that I probably have more body hang ups than most, even though I keep in shape

That's true... but there's always a little part of me that thinks " are they bullshitting me? " .... I suppose I have so little self esteem I don't really believe anyone finds me attractive lol...."

Are you in my head too?!

My self esteemed had been so low in the past, I don't understand how I attracted flies, let alone men.

Thank goodness I'm getting a bit better.

You do you, OP. As others have said, some like toned people, others don't. As long as you're a decent person, that's what counts in the end! x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
30 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, not at all.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
30 weeks ago

Tamworth

If someone is willing to chat a bit, I know there's a bigger chance they're not just after getting their dick wet. In which case, abs or no, I'll assume a mutual attraction and continue to see where it goes.

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By *ark n kimCouple
30 weeks ago

Durham

"I used to have chiselled abs on my profile but it appeared to put people off. I decided to eat and drink more, but it depends on how dedicated to Fab you are?"

Bollix never thought of that..

Yes I did it for fab too

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By *ark n kimCouple
30 weeks ago

Durham

Yes I know I spelt bollox wrong it was auto correct.i am not fat and thick

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By *ou only live onceMan
30 weeks ago

London

They don't, OP, which is why I ensure mine always have a light, chocolate-fuelled, padding!

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By *aizyWoman
30 weeks ago

west midlands

"They don't, OP, which is why I ensure mine always have a light, chocolate-fuelled, padding!

All I'm picturing now is abs covered in chocolate!

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By *ou only live onceMan
30 weeks ago

London

"They don't, OP, which is why I ensure mine always have a light, chocolate-fuelled, padding!

All I'm picturing now is abs covered in chocolate!

Mine or yours...and importantly, what chocolate shall we use??

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By *aizyWoman
30 weeks ago

west midlands

"They don't, OP, which is why I ensure mine always have a light, chocolate-fuelled, padding!

All I'm picturing now is abs covered in chocolate!

Mine or yours...and importantly, what chocolate shall we use??

Nutella, YOLO, always Nutella!

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By *ay..jMan
30 weeks ago

romford

Not everyone is gonna like you regardless personally I was really skinny and an addict (I'm not now been off it 16 years) I worked on myself and my body and I'm proud of it it takes alot of effort, time and dedication in my mind they are great attributes for any guy. If they don't like it I won't take it personally I know how hard I worked to get in shape n I'm in my 30s and best shape I've ever been in I'm happy with mine if someone don't like it that's cool I'm just not for them n I accept that. Train a few times a week now just to maintain it and I'm good so I say be proud of your efforts it's not easy to do

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
30 weeks ago

There and Here

Quite the opposite OP

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By *ucky charmer OP Man
30 weeks ago

Liverpool Manchester North West

Errr are you people hooking up on my forum post??

Love that hahhaha …incredible community we have here guys and girls x

"They don't, OP, which is why I ensure mine always have a light, chocolate-fuelled, padding!

All I'm picturing now is abs covered in chocolate!

Mine or yours...and importantly, what chocolate shall we use??

Nutella, YOLO, always Nutella!

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By *udie NudieMan
29 weeks ago

Newcastle

"The point of a profile is to attract the people you like and who will find you attractive in return. "

This is obviously a 'look at me' post - so it's working well.

Well done Op.

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By *ou only live onceMan
29 weeks ago

London

"The point of a profile is to attract the people you like and who will find you attractive in return.

This is obviously a 'look at me' post - so it's working well.

Well done Op."

And why not! If I had abs like his, I'd do the same!

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
29 weeks ago

Manchester

Nooooo not at all!!

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By *avexxMan
29 weeks ago

cheshire

if you have a good body why not show it off

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By *herrypickedWoman
29 weeks ago

Glasgow

I love the way it looks and I know they are strong enough to throw me about a bit, however and this is totally on me not the guys, I wonder if they really like my body type given its very opposite to theirs and yeah it intimidates me a little. A decent co conversation usually sorts that out though

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By *essTTWoman
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her” "

Would put me off but would make me wonder what such a person sees in me and are they trying to get to meet me as a joke x

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By *essTTWoman
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

"A question for the purposes of fine tuning my profile, does a man’s profile displaying chiselled muscles put most ladies off?

I do recall one lady saying “in her mind, this comes will a level of expectation placed on her”

Would put me off but would make me wonder what such a person sees in me and are they trying to get to meet me as a joke x"

*wouldn't

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By *essTTWoman
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

Can replies stay on the forums please x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
29 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Can replies stay on the forums please x"

Ha ha not just me then

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
29 weeks ago

Manchester

No would not put me off x

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By *illy IdolMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands

"I used to have chiselled abs on my profile but it appeared to put people off. I decided to eat and drink more, but it depends on how dedicated to *Flab you are?

FTFY

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By *udie NudieMan
29 weeks ago

Newcastle

Just giving this 'look at me' post a bump.

You're welcome

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