FabSwingers.com forum: Life as a Single man

By *Funtime69 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Ealing

So I've been on this site before my account had plenty of verifications and I had since taken a break and lost access to the account I assume now as someone has my old user name funtime69 that it's been deleted

This time around seems impossible to get a simple reply which is a little disheartening I wonder if it's my profile of just that men have to work far harder to get the minimum courtesy these days

Is this site dying out as I have had more success on Feeld and even general dating apps

Also the shear amount of messages I get from gay guys despite my preference trying there luck just further enforce my opinion that there no place for single men here

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By *onkeynutWoman
34 weeks ago

somewhere

1.The ratio of men to women make it more difficult for men. You have to stand out from the crowd.

2. You can filter who can message you and block other men.

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By *onkeynutWoman
34 weeks ago

somewhere

"1.The ratio of men to women make it more difficult for men. You have to stand out from the crowd.

2. You can filter who can message you and block other men."

Also, there is absolutely a place here for single men, its many women’s preference.

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By *naswingdressWoman
34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

You'll be aware from your previous time on the site that delete without reply means no thank you, and that it isn't personal.

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By *hil most chillMan
34 weeks ago

South East & Europe

It's definitely the women. None of them want to have sex anymore!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
34 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

This all begs the question why bother on here OP? If other sites are more successful why not just focus on those?

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By *he KakapoMan
34 weeks ago

A nice rock

Nah its still easy OP

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Just don't make the site your life. I just log in here and there when I remember to catch up on messages,etc.

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By *ffervescentMan
34 weeks ago

winfrith

Maybe theirs an upsurge in menopausal women ,maybe your messages aren't hitting the spot or maybe it's your age who knows .

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Lots of single guys do well on here.

Desperation and the oh I'm bored stuff is a bit of a turn off though.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Just got to keep trying. I just make sure i don't message anyone I've messaged before and I always read their profile and try to relate or say something that's relevant. But at the end of the day, if I'm not someone's cup of tea then nothing you can do!

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By *rHotNottsMan
34 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

You should be able to get into your old account still, forgot password feature, unless of course the dog ate your password ?

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By *hilloutMan
34 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

To be successful you require:

- Good photos

- Interesting bio

- Participate on the forums and have a positive attitude

- Get yourself to organised socials and perhaps club events

These measures do not guarantee anything, but rather increase your odds of success.

May the odds be ever in your favour

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"To be successful you require:

- Good photos

- Interesting bio

- Participate on the forums and have a positive attitude

- Get yourself to organised socials and perhaps club events

These measures do not guarantee anything, but rather increase your odds of success.

May the odds be ever in your favour

You forgot "be hot"

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By *hilloutMan
34 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"To be successful you require:

- Good photos

- Interesting bio

- Participate on the forums and have a positive attitude

- Get yourself to organised socials and perhaps club events

These measures do not guarantee anything, but rather increase your odds of success.

May the odds be ever in your favour

You forgot "be hot""

A subjective term, hence unused. One person's stud muffin is another's golum

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By *rishmanabroadMan
34 weeks ago

Dublin/Belfast

"To be successful you require:

- Good photos

- Interesting bio

- Participate on the forums and have a positive attitude

- Get yourself to organised socials and perhaps club events

These measures do not guarantee anything, but rather increase your odds of success.

May the odds be ever in your favour

You forgot "be hot""

And confident. Key is having an abundance mindset. It will all come to you if you expect it to and don’t care if it doesn’t because you know it’s all gonna be fine in the long run.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
34 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"1.The ratio of men to women make it more difficult for men. You have to stand out from the crowd.

2. You can filter who can message you and block other men."

This.

And as someone who only looks for single men, the more the merrier!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
34 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Lots of single guys do well on here.

Desperation and the oh I'm bored stuff is a bit of a turn off though. "

Also this... We're not here to entertain bored men, I will often block people with "woe is me" statuses.

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