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"What type of messeages do you get? Give an example" Imagine something along the lines of this, but swap the sexes. “Hi, I noticed from your profile that you enjoy playing scrabble. Well let me tell you about the last game of scrabble I played. It involved myself and a work colleague. He had a mighty fine penis, a bit like yours. I wanted to suck it. So I used a word on the scrabble board to indicate that. I think it was something like “noshing”. He looked at me. I looked at him. We kissed. We fucked. Is that something you’d be interested in?” See. Bit long winded. | |||
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"What type of messeages do you get? Give an example Imagine something along the lines of this, but swap the sexes. “Hi, I noticed from your profile that you enjoy playing scrabble. Well let me tell you about the last game of scrabble I played. It involved myself and a work colleague. He had a mighty fine penis, a bit like yours. I wanted to suck it. So I used a word on the scrabble board to indicate that. I think it was something like “noshing”. He looked at me. I looked at him. We kissed. We fucked. Is that something you’d be interested in?” See. Bit long winded." TAKE....ME...NOW | |||
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"What type of messeages do you get? Give an example Imagine something along the lines of this, but swap the sexes. “Hi, I noticed from your profile that you enjoy playing scrabble. Well let me tell you about the last game of scrabble I played. It involved myself and a work colleague. He had a mighty fine penis, a bit like yours. I wanted to suck it. So I used a word on the scrabble board to indicate that. I think it was something like “noshing”. He looked at me. I looked at him. We kissed. We fucked. Is that something you’d be interested in?” See. Bit long winded." It’s women like you that give scrabble a bad name  | |||
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"What type of messeages do you get? Give an example Imagine something along the lines of this, but swap the sexes. “Hi, I noticed from your profile that you enjoy playing scrabble. Well let me tell you about the last game of scrabble I played. It involved myself and a work colleague. He had a mighty fine penis, a bit like yours. I wanted to suck it. So I used a word on the scrabble board to indicate that. I think it was something like “noshing”. He looked at me. I looked at him. We kissed. We fucked. Is that something you’d be interested in?” See. Bit long winded. TAKE....ME...NOW" | |||
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"I can only aim this at guys because I've never had a woman do it.... Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? For me personally it certainly isn't a turn on!" I doubt it’s a turn on for anyone. It’s extremely difficult to be erotic with words, and even fine writers fail more often than not. Why do they do it? Because they are misguided. Somewhere down the line, they heard that women like this sort thing. For most, I suspect the intention is sincere, but the execution is crass. Pity them if you must, educate them if you’re feeling generous, block them if you can’t be arsed, but try not to think badly of them. Some men, a lot of men, have never been gifted the tools to navigate the mating game, especially online. Xx | |||
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"I mean.... it must have worked once though right? You spam that badboy to enough fish and one will bite?" This is correct for some. | |||
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"I can only aim this at guys because I've never had a woman do it.... Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? For me personally it certainly isn't a turn on! I doubt it’s a turn on for anyone. It’s extremely difficult to be erotic with words, and even fine writers fail more often than not. Why do they do it? Because they are misguided. Somewhere down the line, they heard that women like this sort thing. For most, I suspect the intention is sincere, but the execution is crass. Pity them if you must, educate them if you’re feeling generous, block them if you can’t be arsed, but try not to think badly of them. Some men, a lot of men, have never been gifted the tools to navigate the mating game, especially online. Xx" And also this. | |||
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"I can only aim this at guys because I've never had a woman do it.... Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? For me personally it certainly isn't a turn on!" Um...I don't. And never have. At least not with initial contact. If a connection is established with mutual desire, something might be hinted at, but not in fine detail. | |||
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" Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? " I don't. The idea is about as abhorrent to me as posting a dick pic on here - no idea how anyone can think it is a good idea and a 'babe magnet'. People are very strange | |||
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"I can only aim this at guys because I've never had a woman do it.... Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? For me personally it certainly isn't a turn on!" Have you asked the guys that do it? | |||
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"I can only aim this at guys because I've never had a woman do it.... Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? For me personally it certainly isn't a turn on! Have you asked the guys that do it?" Yes...replies are "thought you'd like it"  | |||
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"Yes...replies are "thought you'd like it" "“Well you thought wrong.” | |||
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"I do wonder if such method has actually worked for folks that do it? It's a bit like the "meet now?". " Meet now? Oh sorry, bloody autocorrect. Meat now? I'm down at the butchers, do you want the sausages or the steak? | |||
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"I can only aim this at guys because I've never had a woman do it.... Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? For me personally it certainly isn't a turn on!" I don’t. Usually it’s ‘hello’ sort of thing | |||
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"I can only aim this at guys because I've never had a woman do it.... Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? For me personally it certainly isn't a turn on!" As an opener? Probs not going to end well or get the desired result. With someone you've been chatting to a while, are building a connection with and who has expressed an interest in seeing you naked? Can be quite hot. Situationally dependant as always. I've also sent cheeky 'fancy a shag?' messages to people I already know before with good results. But the more you know someone the more you'll be aware of what works for them and what will come across the right way, with a healthy mix of horn and humour, and not just as some low budget wank fodder porn scenario. | |||
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"Yes I never understand this. It’s usually clearly a copy and paste. I’ll read the first line, roll my eyes and delete." Same | |||
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"I can only aim this at guys because I've never had a woman do it.... Why do you send messages writing in detail what you want to do to is females??? For me personally it certainly isn't a turn on!" me neither i find it creepy | |||
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"I hate these. This is an example of doing sex to someone, not mutually enjoyable sex. “This works for me, let me foist it upon you.” Also, they’re generally awful. " They are almost as abhorrent as dick pics. | |||
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"I dont start conversations with sexual remarks other then I think their pictures are lovely or send dick pictures because I dont and I think most men dont too but still most men get ignored by women which makes no sense" Why does it make no sense? | |||
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"Thanks for tarring all the guys with the same brush. Instead of doing that why not challenge the guys sending them sorts of messages to you. Ask them why! " Where did she refer to ALL guys? | |||
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"Thanks for tarring all the guys with the same brush. Instead of doing that why not challenge the guys sending them sorts of messages to you. Ask them why! " How have I tarred "all men"??? | |||
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"Thanks for tarring all the guys with the same brush. Instead of doing that why not challenge the guys sending them sorts of messages to you. Ask them why! " i dont see any reference to all guys ?? and youve got to be joking about answering these shitty messages there are loads of them why should anyone waste there time on childish guys ... id rather just talk to the few who get it right and i at least fancy ... got no time to waste on others | |||
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