FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a better lover or a better friend?

By *ay W. Beau OP Woman
34 weeks ago

Wolvo

Well?

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

A hater.

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By *cotsguyyMan
34 weeks ago

Belfast and Fife

To who?

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
34 weeks ago

Ayrshire

You could trust me with your life, but not your money or your wife!

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By *ensualplay69Man
34 weeks ago

slough

"Well?

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can't you be both? I'm a great lover but a shit boyfriend

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By *aseylee324Couple
34 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I do my best for those I truly care for, they're few and far between

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
34 weeks ago

kent

I struggle to draw much of a distinction. I obviously have friends who are not lovers, but I’ve never had a lover who I didn’t also consider a friend. Both positions require trust, empathy, compassion, respect, some degree of vulnerability and a willingness to devote at least some time and energy. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Both in more than equal measures

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By *xmfrvnMan
34 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Yes

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By *mf123Man
34 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

These days im neither safest way to be is never to get too close to people

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By *ivilised matureMan
34 weeks ago

Barnes sometimes Dulwich Village

Probably friend with benefits

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By *nsatiableBMan
34 weeks ago

Glasgow

Top notch at both, in my humble opinion

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By *hunky GentMan
34 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Definitely more a friend than a lover.

But I also like sex in a friendly way.

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
34 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Both in more than equal measures "

More than equal?!

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By *oadsafun1960Man
34 weeks ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I can be a friendly lover or a lovely friend

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
34 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Friend

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By *ags73Man
34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Good at both.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Good at both but probably a better friend

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By *immyGGMan
34 weeks ago

South Cheshire

I have one ex lover that is now one of my best friends, so I'm gonna go with a better friend. And to be fair I'm quite happy with that.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
34 weeks ago

Maidstone

I'm crap at both apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"I'm crap at both apparently"

Hugs I’m sure your not

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I am not a lover as I would have to love that person, so that's not an option.

About 10 years ago I cut out 99% of people out of my life, the best thing I ever did, so not a friend.

Happy on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I'm deliberately crap at both

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
34 weeks ago

North West

I'm a mediocre lover for some friends who are the right sort of friend. To the rest, I'm probably actually fairly useless these days. Too much other "life" taking over.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I'm only ever someone's friend and never given the chance to be a lover

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By *enelope2UWoman
34 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"I struggle to draw much of a distinction. I obviously have friends who are not lovers, but I’ve never had a lover who I didn’t also consider a friend. Both positions require trust, empathy, compassion, respect, some degree of vulnerability and a willingness to devote at least some time and energy. Xx"

I'd like to say this but unfortunately I've been played by a few who I deemed as a friend and as a lover but they were only friends long enough to fuck and fuck me over in the process.

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By *JandCMCouple
34 weeks ago

cardiff

The two.

Me n the wife were good friends for 3 years before we got together, knowing each other's girl n boy friends n now 35 years on we still class each other as best friends aswell as husband n wife.

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By *hrek101Man
34 weeks ago

Herts

I seem to be always stuck only being the lover or the friend, no one ever wants me for more than that. Modern dating I guess.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
34 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm shit at both.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
34 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No idea. They’re two totally different things. I like to think I’m not bad at both

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By *parkle1974Woman
34 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm a great friends with benefits x

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By *nvisible-touchWoman
34 weeks ago

kent

Neither

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