FabSwingers.com forum: Much luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

Dose anyone actually have any luck using this site?

It’s pretty dead I’d say use to be more activity and engagement nowadays seems people just use it for attention/validation and there’s barely anyone who’d actually be down to meet at least where I’m from anyway

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
34 weeks ago

Hell

I live down the road from you and I’ve met plenty of people

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By *mf123Man
34 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

In my experience theres no suck thing as luck(strokes whispy beard)

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
34 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I think relying on luck rather than charisma is probably a bad shout for this sort of thing

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
34 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

No one has had any person just randomly fall into their laps on Fab. Virtually perhaps but not physically.

To think it’s that easy would be unwise.

Give people a reason to want to connect with you outside of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground). "

Wtf

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By *cean guyMan
34 weeks ago

Warwick

I think for single guys, swinging sites were easier 15 - 20 years ago. Fab definitely works, but it takes a lot of effort. I find Tinder much easier when meeting single females.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
34 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).

Wtf

I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.

The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom.

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By *ags73Man
34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"I think relying on luck rather than charisma is probably a bad shout for this sort of thing

Yep. To an extent, you have to make an effort and think through what you’re doing.

There’s no wall to wall, floor to ceiling supply of available clunge for anyone and luck isn’t a factor.

It’s the repeated advice, go to organised socials, go to clubs without expectations and use your words.

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By *ansoffateMan
34 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I use sex for validation.

I have so many notches on my bedpost it collapsed and I had to get a new one.

I'm just here for the casual socialising. I'm terrible at maintaining friendships. I tend to only have fairly deep relationships with a few people.

I met someone a while ago from Chester, I think it was from here.

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By *ustful_LionessWoman
34 weeks ago

Heaven-sent

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By *ustful_LionessWoman
34 weeks ago

Heaven-sent

"I think relying on luck rather than charisma is probably a bad shout for this sort of thing

Couldn’t agree more

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By *ickie76XXXMan
34 weeks ago

dartford

"I think relying on luck rather than charisma is probably a bad shout for this sort of thing

This is most certainly true!

Exactly that isn’t it. It’s the polar opposite of luck and to be frank thats probably why you aren’t getting the immediate results you expected OP as it’s not like that at all. I’m not saying it’s easy but it’s a lot deeper than saying you’re relying on luck. The genuine people will understand others won’t.

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
34 weeks ago

Hull

Don't think it's really that hard on here tbh. I've been actively swinging again for three weeks tomorrow, I've sent 2 messages and attended one social, I've had 10 meets from 1 couple and 3 women, that's a similar ratio to when I decided I was swinging before. I'm a single guy and deliberately stayed away from people I already know. So it's not impossible.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
34 weeks ago

Sheffield

People actively meet, just because they aren’t meeting you doesn’t mean they don’t.

A lot of people go to clubs and don’t use fab to organise meeting others.

People complain about not getting any luck on fab yet rely on it too much. Get yourself to a social or a club.

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By *electableicecreamMan
34 weeks ago

The West

"Dose anyone actually have any luck using this site?

I actively meet. It probably differs a lot from person to person and what they want to get out of the site.

My goal was to engage with swinging as a lifestyle and a community so I worked towards that more so than individual meets. Now I have a good friendship group with a sex positive outlook and an extended network of contacts that host regular private events and parties.

My preference is for FWB style relationships and I have by and large found what I want.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
34 weeks ago

Wirral

"I use sex for validation.

I have so many notches on my bedpost it collapsed and I had to get a new one.

I'm just here for the casual socialising. I'm terrible at maintaining friendships. I tend to only have fairly deep relationships with a few people.

I met someone a while ago from Chester, I think it was from here. "

I have a vision of your bedpost with so many notches that during refractory periods you entertain your bedroom guests by playing it like a guiro.

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By *igR93Man
34 weeks ago

Sarcasm City

I’ve had a fair bit of “luck” or meets as one would say.

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By *ne4morefunMan
34 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

We are on a 150something drought

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By *iddlesticksMan
34 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

Not bad, I’ve had a 3lbs carp a couple of small tench and probably half a dozen skimmers.

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By *hunky GentMan
34 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've met quite a few people. Admittedly most were just socials, but I'd prefer a social first anyway.

Get yourself to a group social. There's one in Manchester every few months.

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By *hunky GentMan
34 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Not bad, I’ve had a 3lbs carp a couple of small tench and probably half a dozen skimmers.

Show off.

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By *cLovin2Man
34 weeks ago

Reading

"No one has had any person just randomly fall into their laps on Fab. Virtually perhaps but not physically.

To think it’s that easy would be unwise.

Give people a reason to want to connect with you outside of Fab. "

Tell them you have a 12 inch cock and it comes with a complimentary wagon wheel

Ok I lied about the wagon wheel.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
34 weeks ago

Llanelli

I make things happen, it's nothing to do with luck.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
34 weeks ago

Leeds

Luck isn't what gets meets, effort is.

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By *hunky GentMan
34 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Luck isn't what gets meets, effort is.

FAF?

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Mayfair

I think it's just me on this thread who isn't taking the OP quite so literally. I would wager that he isn't inferring his (or anyone else's success) is based solely on luck.

It's just a figure of speech.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
34 weeks ago

cardiff

"I think it's just me on this thread who isn't taking the OP quite so literally. I would wager that he isn't inferring his (or anyone else's success) is based solely on luck.

It's just a figure of speech.

I would agree with this

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By *ne4morefunMan
34 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

"We are on a 150something day drought"

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By *aulupforitMan
34 weeks ago

Corbridge

Met plenty but mainly on my old profile.You put in what you get out of the site.

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By *weet6Woman
34 weeks ago

East Riding

"Dose anyone actually have any luck using this site?

there’s barely anyone who’d actually be down to meet at least where I’m from anyway "

Yes

Move??

Sxx

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By *iscean_dreamMan
34 weeks ago

Llanelli

"We are on a 150something drought"

How?

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
34 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"No one has had any person just randomly fall into their laps on Fab. Virtually perhaps but not physically.

To think it’s that easy would be unwise.

Give people a reason to want to connect with you outside of Fab. "

Truth- you make your own luck, if your looking for easy try tinder! Lol

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By *oxy jWoman
34 weeks ago

somerset

theres no ''luck'' or ''magic'' your either wanted or not ie sexual attraction is key but by no mean the only thing ... its a rejection selection scene and sadly because of the sheer number of men compared to few couples and women thats alot of rejected men just from simple maths ...

put simply the is NOT someone for everyone on this scene and even though there are men a plenty its still hard for women and couples to find that attraction as they wont be interested in 99.99% of men simp;e cause of attraction/ and other stuff too

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).

Wtf

I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.

The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom. "

Yea, no, I've never heard that specific reference and have googled too

Suppose I'll give the benefit of the doubt and not think that you're taking the piss out of the OP

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By *naswingdressWoman
34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

The male experience is different to the female experience so I can't comment on "luck", but I do know that people have been complaining that the site was better/ easier for all the time I've been here - years and years now.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
34 weeks ago

Reading

Taking a break from fab shenanigans but previously met some lovely people.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
34 weeks ago

Reading

"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).

Wtf

I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.

The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom. "

I've heard of fortune favours the brave.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Dose anyone actually have any luck using this site? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).

Wtf

I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.

The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom.

I've heard of fortune favours the brave."

Or the foolish

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By *ilverfox for youMan
34 weeks ago

Hull

Same here .struggling .I put it down to my age !!

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By *allerthanaverage79Man
34 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).

Wtf

I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.

The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom.

I've heard of fortune favours the brave.

Or the foolish

Or maybe "fortune favours the bold"! Jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Nothing just falls into our lap without putting the effort in to getting it.

It’s about communication, everyone needs that to see if they can see a click with someone.

Good luck though OP

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By *iss.BellaWoman
34 weeks ago

Wales

North Wales and Chester are pretty dead.

If you want a better experience you'll have to travel further afield

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I'm now taking bookings for 2025. I can't keep up.

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By *ornucopiaMan
34 weeks ago

Bexley

"I think it's just me on this thread who isn't taking the OP quite so literally. I would wager that he isn't inferring his (or anyone else's success) is based solely on luck.

It's just a figure of speech.

I would agree with this

There I was, thinking it was rhyming slang!

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Fortune flavours the best soldiers. (Floating cross-legged two feet off the ground).

Wtf

I take it that you've never heard that phrase? It basically means that the better you are the luckier you get.

The floating cross legged off the ground is a reference to wisdom.

I've heard of fortune favours the brave.

Or the foolish

Or maybe "fortune favours the bold"! Jeez"

We will get there in the end but all work

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