FabSwingers.com forum: Have i become a challenge

By *ikerdave OP Man
26 weeks ago

redcar

Hi all i'm wondering if my profile is making me a challenge to some people. Ive been a member of Fab on/off for many years now and had a few meets over those years, I've suffered with my mental health all my life and for the last few (lots of years with my physical health) but some months ago everything just spiraled. I changed my profile to what it is now just trying to be honest and now since changing it my inbox has gone wild with men wanting to meet me i dont want to close my account as i do still enjoy being part of fab despite feeling that im not really of any use sexually xx

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By *zeroMan
26 weeks ago

Glasgow

You could always just set your profile to private if you don't want any messages

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Why not use your filters to get rid of your inbox and just use it to browse?

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

If you aren't looking to meet, set your message to no-one and your account to private....less challenging

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
26 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

You have the power of the buttons on your side Dave.....

Men don't need a challenge. They just message.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
26 weeks ago

The Continental

Block all messages.

Problem solved.

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By *urry BlokeMan
26 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Sorry to hear about your setbacks

As for men, just block them from messaging - if that is what you want

You can't police the amount of or content of the messages you receive

So the options are tolerate it or stop it entirely

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex

I can only echo what the others have said. If you don't want anyone to contact you set all your mail filters to prevent anyone from messaging you. People who've messaged you previously will still be able to so you'll need to block them if you don't want to hear from them again. I

If you would prefer to still receive mail I suggest you set your pictures to friends only

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By *ikerdave OP Man
26 weeks ago

redcar

Thanks for the replies i will look at my filters and reset where nessary i thought i had but clearly not I'll sort that now am feeling better now mentally just not so much physically still hopefully I'll be back in the game soon, cheers guys x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for the replies i will look at my filters and reset where nessary i thought i had but clearly not I'll sort that now am feeling better now mentally just not so much physically still hopefully I'll be back in the game soon, cheers guys x"

I hope things get better for you physically

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