FabSwingers.com forum: The rise in good girls.

By *ruceyy OP Man
34 weeks ago

London

Honestly, most people I have dirty talked to recently have all been about being called a good girl.

Which is good. Very good. Good of the girls to like being called good girls.

This includes women older then me. Now I know previously some people have been outraged at these kind of posts because yes, you're women, and you're awesome. But it's kink isn't it. And no one likes a kink shamer. Horny mode isn't the same as everyday good morning miss mode.

So boys, noticed a rise? Like it? And women - thoughts, I ask hesitantly...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
34 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

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By *onkeynutWoman
34 weeks ago

somewhere

It’s all about context. In the right moment then for me, it’s ok but it doesn’t really do much for me. It is however, better than being called a “dirty slut” or similar which makes me drier than the Sahara

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
34 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

Not my bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I'm not a fan of a lot of talking during sex, just shut up and get on with it.

But if he's gonna push me against the wall whilst sliding his hand between my legs and whispering such things, I wouldn't complain.

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By *amie HantsWoman
34 weeks ago

Atlantis

I’m not sure about dirty chatting, B. I’m too busy having sex.

I haven’t noticed a difference with people in person though if that helps with your research. I think for me being called a good girl would very much depend on who is saying it and whether they have that thing about them that makes it sexy. Sometimes the wrong person can say it and I shrivel up like a limpet in the sun.

I’m not a fan of saying it to women either. I don’t have that thing about me that would make it sexy it would be weird for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

For me personally, pretty cringe worthy.

I have no problem saying how I feel or what I want to do to said person but name calling isn’t my thing really.

But each to their own.

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By *ngel-ishWoman
34 weeks ago

Colchester

"For me personally, pretty cringe worthy.

I have no problem saying how I feel or what I want to do to said person but name calling isn’t my thing really.

But each to their own."

It's my kryptonite!

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I can't say I've ever been in a situation where I've called a woman a bad/good girl depending on their turn on. I feel like my anus would crawl up my throat just asking

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By *ackformore100Man
34 weeks ago

Tin town

Think I missed that episode but if it's legal and nobody gets hurt.. Stay calm and carry on.

I've seen a rise in lots of things here in the fora but not good girlism.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"For me personally, pretty cringe worthy.

I have no problem saying how I feel or what I want to do to said person but name calling isn’t my thing really.

But each to their own.

It's my kryptonite!"

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By *ngel-ishWoman
34 weeks ago

Colchester

Must be a bdsm thing

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
34 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

In the right context at the right moment from the right person, fuck yes.

But generally, fuck no

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
34 weeks ago

St Neots

"For me personally, pretty cringe worthy.

I have no problem saying how I feel or what I want to do to said person but name calling isn’t my thing really.

But each to their own.

It's my kryptonite!"

Its her kryptonite too

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By *agatoXXXMan
34 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Good girls are just as mythical as unicorns.

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By *a LunaWoman
34 weeks ago

South Wales

Why-ever would you want to be a good girl? Being a bad girl is much more fun.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
34 weeks ago

manchester

"Honestly, most people I have dirty talked to recently have all been about being called a good girl.

Which is good. Very good. Good of the girls to like being called good girls.

So boys, noticed a rise? Like it? And women - thoughts, I ask hesitantly...

No it’s just framing bias and only fan models milking a fetish.

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By *zeroMan
34 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'd feel a bit cringey calling someone a good girl during sex. Feel like I should be patting their head and feeding them a biscuit afterwards

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By *ruceyy OP Man
34 weeks ago

London

"It’s all about context. In the right moment then for me, it’s ok but it doesn’t really do much for me. It is however, better than being called a “dirty slut” or similar which makes me drier than the Sahara

Sorry side note - you're hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Why-ever would you want to be a good girl? Being a bad girl is much more fun.

The irony is...that's exactly when you'd say it...

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By *rHotNottsMan
34 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Why-ever would you want to be a good girl? Being a bad girl is much more fun.

Some women love the idea of pleasing their guy and being called good girl when they do

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
34 weeks ago

manchester

"Why-ever would you want to be a good girl? Being a bad girl is much more fun.

Some women love the idea of pleasing their guy and being called good girl when they do"

That’s not how that fetish works unless it’s cosplay.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
34 weeks ago

Stratford

Praise kinks

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
34 weeks ago

wonderland.

Only very few people can call me a good girl x

If a random person did it they would get told to not call me that x

Same with slut x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
34 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I love a good girl. From the right person only.

Otherwise is makes me drier than a nuns crutch. Fact

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I prefer a bad girl

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
34 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Nope. I think I would just laugh "mmm good girl, that's right baby" just so 90s US porn, so my mate tells me.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
34 weeks ago

London

Obviously - check with them before saying it in the moment

Isn't that just common knowledge? Haha

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By *he KakapoMan
34 weeks ago

A nice rock

I'll say it ironically.. but other than thay it's a complete turn off, I don't want to be anyone's daddy

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
34 weeks ago

manchester

"Obviously - check with them before saying it in the moment

Isn't that just common knowledge? Haha"

Not since 50 shades of gray

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By *tylebender03Man
34 weeks ago

Manchester

I like it when she says ‘that’s a good boy’

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
34 weeks ago

Reading

I have heard anecdotal evidence about women wanting to call men daddy wtf people!!

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By *rHotNottsMan
34 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Why-ever would you want to be a good girl? Being a bad girl is much more fun.

Some women love the idea of pleasing their guy and being called good girl when they do

That’s not how that fetish works unless it’s cosplay."

No idea of the fetish or cosplay, just my own experience of women and what they like

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By *eliWoman
34 weeks ago

I'm not sure if there's a rise in it, just that it's more openly discussed. More used in raunchy literature, in memes, films etc.

I'm a clichéd millennial overachiever, of course I have a praise kink. And like being called a good girl.

I want it from someone who suits saying it, who I want to hear it from, said like it's really meant. Not in some fake growly sex voice, more a natural thing to say. Say I'm with someone and then I do something that has them thrusting in to me with a need to come. Reach the base of their cock. Clench them as I come around their cock. Or even if it's uttered when their fingers slip between my thighs and they discover how wet I am.

I also don't want it if it's just a standard line said to women during sex. That's dull. I like when there's a possessive thrown in front of it, makes it more personal... intentional.

Like "My good girl" rather than just "good girl".

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
34 weeks ago

Essex

There are people who will start a fist fight if you put milk in before the tea, and others who swear it’s the correct way. Others will say milk is wrong and it should be a slice of lemon.

Human nature is all about the quirks and differences we have.

I am not a girl. I am not good. I have been called a good girl a few times and hated it. Precisely once in my life, the right man said it at the right moment & it turned me feral. I have no idea why.

I’ll psychoanalyse it once my hormones settle down.

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By *ou only live onceMan
34 weeks ago

London

I'm a clichéd millennial overachiever

Clichéd millennial overachievers are my favourite. A bit of a posho too? Deal done!

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
34 weeks ago

your head

I personally love it but it has to be said at the right time by the right person. There's nothing wrong with having a praise kink, like everything it's each to their own. Unfortunately it's another one of those things that gets people rilled up because they don't like it

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By *rHotNottsMan
34 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I personally love it but it has to be said at the right time by the right person. There's nothing wrong with having a praise kink, like everything it's each to their own. Unfortunately it's another one of those things that gets people rilled up because they don't like it

Some people just get it. It must be near impossible to try and understand if you don’t get it.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
34 weeks ago

Coventry

"I like it when she says ‘that’s a good boy’ "

drops you a biscuit and pats you on the head

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By *eliWoman
34 weeks ago

I'm a clichéd millennial overachiever

Clichéd millennial overachievers are my favourite. A bit of a posho too? Deal done!

Oh, You.

Hi.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
34 weeks ago

cardiff

No, cringey, horrible, complete turn off

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By *ngel-ishWoman
34 weeks ago

Colchester

Some people just get it. It must be near impossible to try and understand if you don’t get it."

Thank you for being inciteful. You are spot on. It's a v specific moment that 1 person can say those words and make the other euphoric.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
34 weeks ago

East Sussex

I don't like it, I don't like it at all.

If you do like it crack on.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Being called a good girl is the fastest way to finding yourself thrusting into a dry hole. There’s something associated with little girl aesthetics in my mind around being called a good girl and that just puts me right off.

There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl.

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By *orthern BeardMan
34 weeks ago

Warwickshire

"Being called a good girl is the fastest way to finding yourself thrusting into a dry hole. There’s something associated with little girl aesthetics in my mind around being called a good girl and that just puts me right off.

There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl. "

It’s the same vibe with the whole ‘Daddy’ thing. Proper weird and is a sure fire way to make my dick soft

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl.

It’s the same vibe with the whole ‘Daddy’ thing. Proper weird and is a sure fire way to make my dick soft "

I don't associate being called a good girl with the whole daddy thing.

Said in the right moment just as a one off though, that can work.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl.

It’s the same vibe with the whole ‘Daddy’ thing. Proper weird and is a sure fire way to make my dick soft "

I get loads of men assuming I’m into the Spanish version of this simply because I’m a Latina thanks to the influence of urban Latin as a subculture and genre.

This happened to me mid sex once. I never jumped off a dick so fast in my life.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
34 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

It’s such a shame that a lot of threads start with an explanation to their kinks for fear of kink shaming on a swingers site. You do you boo!

I’m partial to being called a good girl now and again, it’s nice. But I prefer to be naughty and mischievous and get a good spanking.

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
34 weeks ago

essex

Good girl/bad girl I love both.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
34 weeks ago

St Neots

"It’s such a shame that a lot of threads start with an explanation to their kinks for fear of kink shaming on a swingers site. You do you boo!

I’m partial to being called a good girl now and again, it’s nice. But I prefer to be naughty and mischievous and get a good spanking.

Some may call you a "brat"

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By *ad NannaWoman
34 weeks ago

East London

I'm a good girl.

I'm not a squirter.

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By *ngel-ishWoman
34 weeks ago

Colchester

I keep writing and not posting bit on my way to pub so

Tie me up plug and spank me then call me good girl I'm in heaven. I'm obviously 50 with a tummy and boob's.

Do it in normal life. I'll punch them.

Can't believe we won

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
34 weeks ago

Carlisle

In a sexual context by the Mr, I love to hear that or when I'm in that headspace. I love it when he says it. I like pleasing him.

Anyone else? Patronising pricks in my opinion...

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By *elloWoman
34 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Good girl

no no no, that's what you say to a dog, I find it a turn off and I might growl and bite, I'm not a good girl

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By *nnCeeWoman
34 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

"I'd feel a bit cringey calling someone a good girl during sex. Feel like I should be patting their head and feeding them a biscuit afterwards "

What type of biscuit? Asking for a friend...

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
34 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

Blame erotic spicy fiction books...

Apperently it's all down to the questionable satire of them.

Or so I have been told

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Being called a good girl is a turn off.

Being called a good slut is a turn on.

Bring back dirty talk. As when done right it really does work.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
34 weeks ago

Dartford

I personally love it when my husband says it to me during sex, but it needs to be used correctly. If I'm doing something particularly filthy and he's says it, yes please!. Or if he is being particularly rough with me and I'm taking it like a champ, call me a good girl and it sends me right over the edge!.(I love the rough stuff and face slapping). I think my vagina would shrivel up and fall off though if another man said it to me to be fair. (I don't tend to play with other men so not likely to happen mind you)

Mrs x

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By *iss.BellaWoman
34 weeks ago

Wales

Depends on the context. In between kisses with wandering hands/mouths then yes. It all adds to the build up.

Talking during sex throws my focus a little. I prefer to read their body language and the look in their eyes

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By *ags73Man
34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

There are far more things I like being called, by the right person at the right time, that don’t include girl. "

I’d have to know if she had a thing for praise and even then I’d be a bit reluctant

Feel, eye contact and the motion of it is preferable to the verbal stuff

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By *ansoffateMan
34 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It's not a go to for me, but I've had a few partners who enjoy it in the moment. They are anything but diminutive outside of a sexual context though.

Most people have quirks when it comes to submissiveness I certainly do.

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