FabSwingers.com forum: Is Thursday still rant day?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fuck it, doing one anyway.

Labels. In particular the people on here who seem to think that saying to someone "you are gay/straight/bisexual" etc, when that's clearly what they are, is somehow a bad thing. That you are causing irreparable harm to someone who, for example, asks "am I gay/bi because I shag trannies?" when you reply "Yes you are".

Describing a particular aspect of someone's personality or psychological makeup with a word is fine as long as you're not doing it negatively. Saying someone is a "fucking queer" for example is wrong. But saying someone is "gay" is not, IF that is clearly what they are.

Now some people here like to muddy the waters by saying "oh I only have gay sex when the moon is in Aries and I'm hopping on one foot in a vat of custard, so how dare you label me!" I would suggest that the negative label "tossers" is inappropriate for these people, as indeed it is. Instead I will use the word "misguided" in their desperate attempts to seem deep and mysterious.

Now, is a white male responding to the question "what ethnic group do you belong to?" some sort of monster for answering "caucasian"? Or is he simply stating a fact?

Hint:It's the second one.

It's the way of things to Label people and things. As long as you're not persecuting anyone what's the big fucking deal.

On this site of all places where everyone has such strict preferences that they never deviate from, to suddenly start moaning about people Labelling others is ridiculous. When those self same label hypocrites do it every damn day.

You don't think you do? Well have a look at who you will and won't meet. Bisexuals? Black men? Smokers? BDSM enthusiasts?

All labels.

If you truly didn't care and refused to define people by their traits then you'd simply state on your profile "prepared to meet absolutley every fucking person here, what you are doesn't matter to us, it's what you are inside that counts!"

But you won't will you, because you label people just like everyone else, to one degree or another. So stop getting all new age and tosser-like when someone asks for opinions on what they feel they may be.

Fecking hypocrites get right on my silicone nips. Bring it on, I'm in a feisty mood today bitches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What????? Lol.. What a rant!! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a rant........and breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's people who are worried about ther own sexuality??? Possible??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a rant.. i must try harder next week lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think that there's anything more on can say that you haven't said so eloquently Jodie. Top ranting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top rant jodie,.you go girl. Gonna be hard to top that fecker xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The best rant, BY FAR, I have ever read. Loved every word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Want to shake off the rant and come look at wooden mice Jodie? You can't be cross when there's wooden mice AND a tea shop!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Actually feel a lot better now I've had another coffee and a breather.

Am disappointed that the label deniers haven't jumped on with an Ah but.....

Was well up for that fight. Perhaps unknowingly I have constructed a bulletproof ranting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After an impromtu meeting yesterday i have had two of my regular FB's (both male) giving me a hard time because i didnt invite them or contact them or have sex with them this week and they have really pissed me off...it not my problem i just went with flow with a a guy that been chasing me for ages ...my only regret is that i had misjudged him in past but after meeting him ...he is just a good all round cracking guy

So feck the others i say

Rant Over

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Excellent rant!

and a good point x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After an impromtu meeting yesterday i have had two of my regular FB's (both male) giving me a hard time because i didnt invite them or contact them or have sex with them this week and they have really pissed me off...it not my problem i just went with flow with a a guy that been chasing me for ages ...my only regret is that i had misjudged him in past but after meeting him ...he is just a good all round cracking guy

So feck the others i say

Rant Over

Dude! Don't hijack my rant!

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