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"As Prey says, women like different things, so let the woman you are having sex with be your teacher. Let her guide you and ask her what she likes." Hmmm from my experiences yes you may be correct in women do like different things but also every woman i have had the pleasure of courting has all given the same energy in the sexual penetration side of sex and i say that to say none when asked about either oral performance and how it can be improved its fine but behind closed doors its another story or the energy does not say the same if that makes any sense | |||
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I have had to tell people to slow down and be more gentle. The one who kept shaking his head from side to side nearly got a kick to the head as that felt awful for me.
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"You're not alone. I too could do with some guidance if anyone is willing to help" Me too. I've never done it. Ever. Definitely in need of instruction. And as all women are different.....  | |||
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"Honestly, the ones who are best at it, I don't have a clue what they're doing down there so I would be a terrible teacher.
I have had to tell people to slow down and be more gentle. The one who kept shaking his head from side to side nearly got a kick to the head as that felt awful for me.
J"Someone who has been watching way too much porn!!!! | |||
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"You're not alone. I too could do with some guidance if anyone is willing to help Me too. I've never done it. Ever. Definitely in need of instruction. And as all women are different..... "Reading the comments it looks like there is no set way that works for all. We may need multiple volunteers | |||
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"You just need to read the A-Z guide to licking cunt OP. Available now on Amazon… * other cunt book stores are available "Are you plugging your own book? | |||
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"As Prey says, women like different things, so let the woman you are having sex with be your teacher. Let her guide you and ask her what she likes. Hmmm from my experiences yes you may be correct in women do like different things but also every woman i have had the pleasure of courting has all given the same energy in the sexual penetration side of sex and i say that to say none when asked about either oral performance and how it can be improved its fine but behind closed doors its another story or the energy does not say the same if that makes any sense " It's not that she 'may' be correct, she is. I don't like receiving oral. Other women love it. Honestly we're different. Just like men are | |||
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"You just need to read the A-Z guide to licking cunt OP. Available now on Amazon… * other cunt book stores are available
Are you plugging your own book? "
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"Are these books in braille format too?" I thought that but I just couldn't put my fingers on it  | |||
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"Why do so many, especially younger, men think there's some sort of method that will please all women? We are individuals and as such enjoy different things. Not all women enjoy oral sex (I really dislike the description of "eating" it sounds so uncomfortable) and those that do will find different techniques pleasurable. " Ok but do you like your nipples nibbled | |||
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"Why do so many, especially younger, men think there's some sort of method that will please all women? We are individuals and as such enjoy different things. Not all women enjoy oral sex (I really dislike the description of "eating" it sounds so uncomfortable) and those that do will find different techniques pleasurable. " To be fair there is a method it's just not what a lot of people think our the answer they might want. Sensitivity, receptivity, communication etc | |||
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"Hmmm from my experiences yes you may be correct in women do like different things but also every woman i have had the pleasure of courting has all given the same energy in the sexual penetration side of sex and i say that to say none when asked about either oral performance and how it can be improved its fine but behind closed doors its another story or the energy does not say the same if that makes any sense " Really? That must be a massive probability score on your sample section. I don't think I've ever been with a woman who had the same response to the same stimuli as another I'd been with. There's common similarities of course, but penetrative especially has a wide range of preferences, and still they vary wildly by mood and context. | |||
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"Why do so many, especially younger, men think there's some sort of method that will please all women? We are individuals and as such enjoy different things. Not all women enjoy oral sex (I really dislike the description of "eating" it sounds so uncomfortable) and those that do will find different techniques pleasurable. " Yep. 100% | |||
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"Why do so many, especially younger, men think there's some sort of method that will please all women? We are individuals and as such enjoy different things. Not all women enjoy oral sex (I really dislike the description of "eating" it sounds so uncomfortable) and those that do will find different techniques pleasurable. " I think a lot of people are interested in finding The Answer to overcoming The Problem. Not just in sex but in everything. Life is more complicated than that, which is both a curse and a blessing. | |||
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"Op lick like a Walrus, your bound to hit smowthing at some point.... Mr " Ive just googled walrus tongue to see what Im missing out on. | |||
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"There's actually plenty of educational material about this online these days. Check out Mr pussylicking on PH. He even makes how to vids....not that one method works for all. As above. " I learned everything I know from an issue of Cosmo I found in the waiting room of my doctor in 1995. | |||
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"Why do so many, especially younger, men think there's some sort of method that will please all women? We are individuals and as such enjoy different things. Not all women enjoy oral sex (I really dislike the description of "eating" it sounds so uncomfortable) and those that do will find different techniques pleasurable. I think a lot of people are interested in finding The Answer to overcoming The Problem. Not just in sex but in everything. Life is more complicated than that, which is both a curse and a blessing." You might be right. Life is complex but that is all part of the experience. I think it would be incredibly boring if we all liked the same things. | |||
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"There's actually plenty of educational material about this online these days. Check out Mr pussylicking on PH. He even makes how to vids....not that one method works for all. As above. I learned everything I know from an issue of Cosmo I found in the waiting room of my doctor in 1995." Cosmo had a wealth of info back in the day | |||
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"You just need to read the A-Z guide to licking cunt OP. Available now on Amazon… * other cunt book stores are available ""Cunnilingus for Dummies" "Beginners Snorkeling Techniques" "Down Periscope" "Jacque Cousteau Teaches (Muff) Diving" | |||
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"You just need to read the A-Z guide to licking cunt OP. Available now on Amazon… * other cunt book stores are available "Other body parts are also available  | |||
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"Ask her." It's all very well to say ask her... All he'll be able to say is "mmmn, mhh mmmmh mmhmh umnmmm mmmmmnn". And he won't hear her reply because her thighs will be clamped over his ears | |||
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"I always look for the reaction that a woman is giving you will know when you are doing the right thing in the right spot as others have said woman like different things ie some like there clit sucking others won't I've never had any complaints so I guess I'm doing something right "I wouldn't dream of complaining. I might try to drop hints if it's not working. If that doesn't work I'm going to fake it or just change positions. J | |||
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"As Prey says, women like different things, so let the woman you are having sex with be your teacher. Let her guide you and ask her what she likes. Hmmm from my experiences yes you may be correct in women do like different things but also every woman i have had the pleasure of courting has all given the same energy in the sexual penetration side of sex and i say that to say none when asked about either oral performance and how it can be improved its fine but behind closed doors its another story or the energy does not say the same if that makes any sense It's not that she 'may' be correct, she is. I don't like receiving oral. Other women love it. Honestly we're different. Just like men are" have i been taught wrong in school because i was taught if it does not apply to me then to leave it alone. You said you do not like it then this does not apply to you if its something you feel you do not like i dont believe giving a comment explaining that you dont like it is clearly irrelevant to the question at hand or was i just taught wrong in school? | |||
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"You just need to read the A-Z guide to licking cunt OP. Available now on Amazon… * other cunt book stores are available
Are you plugging your own book?
Mine clearly is the A-Z to sucking dick darling…
Also available at all good book stores "Oh, I must get a copy! Apart from the guidance notes, it would be a real conversation starter/killer on my lounge table. | |||
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"I always look for the reaction that a woman is giving you will know when you are doing the right thing in the right spot as others have said woman like different things ie some like there clit sucking others won't I've never had any complaints so I guess I'm doing something right
I wouldn't dream of complaining. I might try to drop hints if it's not working. If that doesn't work I'm going to fake it or just change positions.
J"That was my point take direction from her body but ok I'm just shit at it and have no clue what I'm doing  | |||
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"As Prey says, women like different things, so let the woman you are having sex with be your teacher. Let her guide you and ask her what she likes. Hmmm from my experiences yes you may be correct in women do like different things but also every woman i have had the pleasure of courting has all given the same energy in the sexual penetration side of sex and i say that to say none when asked about either oral performance and how it can be improved its fine but behind closed doors its another story or the energy does not say the same if that makes any sense It's not that she 'may' be correct, she is. I don't like receiving oral. Other women love it. Honestly we're different. Just like men are have i been taught wrong in school because i was taught if it does not apply to me then to leave it alone. You said you do not like it then this does not apply to you if its something you feel you do not like i dont believe giving a comment explaining that you dont like it is clearly irrelevant to the question at hand or was i just taught wrong in school?" Yes, you were taught incorrectly or misunderstood. Your initial post clearly suggests there's a one size fits all option for oral sex. Therefore all responses stating this is not the case are valid responses. | |||
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"You just need to read the A-Z guide to licking cunt OP. Available now on Amazon… * other cunt book stores are available
"Cunnilingus for Dummies"
"Beginners Snorkeling Techniques"
"Down Periscope"
"Jacque Cousteau Teaches (Muff) Diving""Priority reading for my kindle  | |||
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"As Prey says, women like different things, so let the woman you are having sex with be your teacher. Let her guide you and ask her what she likes. Hmmm from my experiences yes you may be correct in women do like different things but also every woman i have had the pleasure of courting has all given the same energy in the sexual penetration side of sex and i say that to say none when asked about either oral performance and how it can be improved its fine but behind closed doors its another story or the energy does not say the same if that makes any sense It's not that she 'may' be correct, she is. I don't like receiving oral. Other women love it. Honestly we're different. Just like men are have i been taught wrong in school because i was taught if it does not apply to me then to leave it alone. You said you do not like it then this does not apply to you if its something you feel you do not like i dont believe giving a comment explaining that you dont like it is clearly irrelevant to the question at hand or was i just taught wrong in school?" You misunderstood in school. This was rude to a lady who was trying to help. An apology would be appropriate I think | |||
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"Aside from the confident types in life, I would guess that quite a lot of people aren't great with directly communicating what they want when having sex. It's not easy giving in the moment feedback. I will openly admit that aside from maybe a small bit of direction, if he's not doing it for me I would just suggest we move on to something else." I used to be one of those shy types. Who wouldn't verbalise what felt good and what didn't. Then I realised life's too short for shit sex and began verbalising it. Needless to say. I'm single and alone now | |||
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"As Prey says, women like different things, so let the woman you are having sex with be your teacher. Let her guide you and ask her what she likes. Hmmm from my experiences yes you may be correct in women do like different things but also every woman i have had the pleasure of courting has all given the same energy in the sexual penetration side of sex and i say that to say none when asked about either oral performance and how it can be improved its fine but behind closed doors its another story or the energy does not say the same if that makes any sense It's not that she 'may' be correct, she is. I don't like receiving oral. Other women love it. Honestly we're different. Just like men are have i been taught wrong in school because i was taught if it does not apply to me then to leave it alone. You said you do not like it then this does not apply to you if its something you feel you do not like i dont believe giving a comment explaining that you dont like it is clearly irrelevant to the question at hand or was i just taught wrong in school?" I have no idea whether you were taught incorrectly at school or not. I was merely using my dislike of oral to illustrate that all women are different. | |||
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"Don’t use a knife and fork when eating pussy " But sporks are ok as there 2 in 1  | |||
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"You just need to read the A-Z guide to licking cunt OP. Available now on Amazon… * other cunt book stores are available
Are you plugging your own book?
Mine clearly is the A-Z to sucking dick darling…
Also available at all good book stores "I love it when you call me darling, I get all hot under the collar
Is there a chapter on dipping said dick in salad cream, by any chance? | |||
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"Are these books in braille format too?" Is that so you can learn 'on the job' | |||
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"You just need to read the A-Z guide to licking cunt OP. Available now on Amazon… * other cunt book stores are available
Are you plugging your own book?
Mine clearly is the A-Z to sucking dick darling…
Also available at all good book stores
I love it when you call me darling, I get all hot under the collar
Is there a chapter on dipping said dick in salad cream, by any chance?"Of course | |||
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"(Genuine Inquiry) It’s understandable that alot of men do not know what they are doing when eating down there but i would like to say i am one of those men admittedly and i would appreciate lessons or to be taught how to eat pussy on a basic level Is it possible to ask for a woman who is willing to teach the basics of eating pussy properly to teach me? (Genuine inquiry)" Communication and understanding feedback is key. There is no one solution fits all answer here! | |||
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"You need the F&B orange licking video " It was just a thing of beauty that video | |||
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"Ask her. If she isn't willing to tell you, then try different things. Go slowly. Try a thing. Listen to her breathing, the way she physically reacts. If she likes it, do it again. (Not too much, do switch it up a bit) Repeat until you're doing a bunch of things that get a positive reaction. With the next woman, start the process again, because we're not the same." This 
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"I was told that you need to trace out the letters of the alphabet with your tongue. Maybe that’s why my girlfriend dumped me for a Chinese guy!" Haha please God stop the spread of this alphabet myth its awful, there's no need to over think it just get stuck in and enjoy it. | |||
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"As Prey says, women like different things, so let the woman you are having sex with be your teacher. Let her guide you and ask her what she likes. Hmmm from my experiences yes you may be correct in women do like different things but also every woman i have had the pleasure of courting has all given the same energy in the sexual penetration side of sex and i say that to say none when asked about either oral performance and how it can be improved its fine but behind closed doors its another story or the energy does not say the same if that makes any sense It's not that she 'may' be correct, she is. I don't like receiving oral. Other women love it. Honestly we're different. Just like men are have i been taught wrong in school because i was taught if it does not apply to me then to leave it alone. You said you do not like it then this does not apply to you if its something you feel you do not like i dont believe giving a comment explaining that you dont like it is clearly irrelevant to the question at hand or was i just taught wrong in school?" You're misapplying the lesson. You want something that is generally applicable to all women. Therefore all women are qualified to answer based on their experience. The lesson here, applied correctly, would be a person without a clitoris (etc) or a person who has never had oral sex, telling you what you need to do. As it happens, I'm not a fan of receiving oral sex either, although there are some things I like more than others. I'm not going to tell you what those are, because that would be meaningless. I've already told you what to do - listen, observe, and experiment to find out what works with each individual. | |||
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