FabSwingers.com forum: If it was totally fine...

By *ruceyy OP Man
22 weeks ago

London

A world in which pregnancy and STIs weren't a risk from someone having bareback sex with you and finishing inside...

Would you want that all the time? Or are you more than happy with sex with condoms, doesn't affect much for you etc.

This is mainly for the women I guess because I'm gonna assume most men are like DUH.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Yeah of course, bareback is always better - I dislike condoms but they are needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

What's life without a little risk anyway

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By *r John WickMan
22 weeks ago

The Continental

Yes, because it feels fuckin awesome.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Probably.

It does feel better without. It's just not worth the risk in the actual world

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yep. Before HIV and when many women were on the pill this wasn't even a consideration. Condom was an obscure word most people had never heard

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
22 weeks ago

Merseyside

Bareback feels so much more intense so yes if there were no risks of disease or pregnancy

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

No I wouldn't. I'd want to keep it for people I really quite like because it's very intimate and I'm rather soft and possibly place too much value on certain things.

Rightly or wrongly.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
22 weeks ago

St Neots

Gonna be the first guy to say it.... DUH

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By *r John WickMan
22 weeks ago

The Continental

"Gonna be the first guy to say it.... DUH

Are ya…..sure about that.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
22 weeks ago

cardiff

Just with the close people I have feely feels for regardless

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By *allandathleticMan
22 weeks ago

Asgard

I'd still reserve it for someone I was massively into. Someone who I have a planned future with.

To me it's very personal and intimate. To much for a fwb or ONS situation.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
22 weeks ago

St Neots

"Gonna be the first guy to say it.... DUH

Are ya…..sure about that.

Ah fuck

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By *a LunaWoman
22 weeks ago

South Wales

In a perfect world the sense of a guy emptying his spam javelin deep inside my clunge bucket is just the best. The slow oozing of his baby batter out of my wet swollen lips. Yum.

Not a perfect world though. Sadly! But it just makes it even more magic when you get it.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"I'd still reserve it for someone I was massively into. Someone who I have a planned future with.

To me it's very personal and intimate. To much for a fwb or ONS situation."

Sticking it in and doing all the motions is fine and casual.

But actually spaffing up her chuff is somehow too intimate?

I don't quite get that line.

Not saying in any way you're wrong to have it. I just can't understand why it exists right there

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By *allandathleticMan
22 weeks ago

Asgard

"I'd still reserve it for someone I was massively into. Someone who I have a planned future with.

To me it's very personal and intimate. To much for a fwb or ONS situation.

Sticking it in and doing all the motions is fine and casual.

But actually spaffing up her chuff is somehow too intimate?

I don't quite get that line.

Not saying in any way you're wrong to have it. I just can't understand why it exists right there

I believe there are levels to intimacy. I probably view it too deeply, I guess.

Rather than, a simple act of finishing and not being bothered where or who I finish in.

*shrugs*

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
22 weeks ago

St Leonards

To spaff in chuff

Is surely luff

But luff, e'en brief

Is luff enough.

So spaff that chuff

For muff is luff

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By *oo..Woman
22 weeks ago

Boo's World

Definitely not

It would only ever be with one person that I'd grown close too in alsorts of ways before I'd even consider it.

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By *ittle. BeaverWoman
22 weeks ago

Launceston

It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.

But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
22 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"To spaff in chuff

Is surely luff

But luff, e'en brief

Is luff enough.

So spaff that chuff

For muff is luff

This is beautiful

Muff IS luff.

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By *allandathleticMan
22 weeks ago

Asgard

"It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.

But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different! "

Maybe I'm a woman

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By *arla SwingerWoman
22 weeks ago

Somewhere

If I'm having sex with someone then I'm interested in them enough to do it. A condom isn't going to make me want to have sex with someone I don't like

*Yes, in an ideal world I'd prefer without

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
22 weeks ago

St Leonards

"To spaff in chuff

Is surely luff

But luff, e'en brief

Is luff enough.

So spaff that chuff

For muff is luff

This is beautiful

Muff IS luff.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.

But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different! "

I think the issue for me is that I simply wouldn't fuck someone I wasn't happy to finish the job with (if there were no pregnancy or STI risks etc.)

I've got plenty of awesome tentacles if I want to fuck something I'm not actually wanting a real connection with.

However I will happily engage in oral with anyone I find attractive when I'm in a hedonism mood. So maybe I just draw the line earlier but in a no less odd place.

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

"It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.

But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different!

I think the issue for me is that I simply wouldn't fuck someone I wasn't happy to finish the job with (if there were no pregnancy or STI risks etc.)

I've got plenty of awesome tentacles if I want to fuck something I'm not actually wanting a real connection with.

However I will happily engage in oral with anyone I find attractive when I'm in a hedonism mood. So maybe I just draw the line earlier but in a no less odd place."

The difference for me is the depth of connection - all are real connections, I wouldn't be on my knees without a connection, my cunt would be painfully dry without one... you get the idea.

I can enjoy sex with those I have a good friendship with, it's fun, it's hot, it's not a *big* thing.

But when it comes to someone coming deep inside of me, even more so now, I want it with a person who I'd have feelings for. For me it's about the intimate nature of the act, the importance I ascribe to it. I think I'd also like someone even more after they've come inside of me.

Maybe that's social conditioning playing a part in how I view it. It's a bit mushy and daft I know.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
22 weeks ago

London

"Yep. Before HIV and when many women were on the pill this wasn't even a consideration. Condom was an obscure word most people had never heard"

The good ol days!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading

Yes if stds weren't a thing I would always bb

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By *ruceyy OP Man
22 weeks ago

London

"It's a bizarre thing to say, as sex itself is intimate.

But I'm with the people saying only with someone I have the feely feels for! Maybe it's more of a psychology thing for a woman, but it does feel different! "

Welcome back! It is more than good to see you again

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By *ansoffateMan
22 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

When I tell partners that I've had a vasectomy it usually delights them, many want bareback to be exclusive to them though, for most that's stis for others it's a fluid-bonding thing.

So it would depend on my partner, what boundaries we establish between us and what is shared. I've had partners who are turned on by me 'finishing inside' another woman and others that would be upset at the idea.

In the simplest terms yes, it feels better and I have never been with a partner who hasn't said the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

If for no other reason than I am an absolute clutz putting one on and it seems occasionally when I'm a bit run down and on my third attempt it's something of a cock kryptonite

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By *teve691000Man
22 weeks ago

West Midlands

"In a perfect world the sense of a guy emptying his spam javelin deep inside my clunge bucket is just the best. The slow oozing of his baby batter out of my wet swollen lips. Yum.

Not a perfect world though. Sadly! But it just makes it even more magic when you get it."

Just spat my tea out reading this

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By *ad NannaWoman
22 weeks ago

East London

I'm probably one of the few people who don't mind condoms.

No mess, and I quite like only having the potential fruit of the loins of someone special swimming around inside me.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Let's remember, that reserving bareback sex for someone you are deeply intimate with/have feelings for, doesn't guarantee that you won't contract an sti. 30 years ago, while I was pregnant, my partner had unprotected sex with someone else who gave him an sti, who gave it to me, and ultimately risked the health of our unborn child.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
22 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"What's life without a little risk anyway "

Safe? Boring. Who’s ever wanted to fuck someone and dreamed of them moaning and screaming “Oh my god, you’re so CAUTIOUS”?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
22 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Yeah absolutely. That would be an ideal world.

We wouldn’t even have such protections if this was the case so anyone who doesn’t want bareback will have to use a toffee crisp wrapper or something

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
22 weeks ago

St Leonards

"In a perfect world the sense of a guy emptying his spam javelin deep inside my clunge bucket is just the best. The slow oozing of his baby batter out of my wet swollen lips. Yum.

Not a perfect world though. Sadly! But it just makes it even more magic when you get it.

Just spat my tea out reading this

It was a thing of rare beauty, wasn't it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
22 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Makes mo odds to me. I prefer it over my face or in my mouth anyway

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