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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
21 weeks ago

somewhere


"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?"

Yup. It's clear on my profile that I'm not meeting yet the amount of messages saying "I've read your profile" clearly you haven't lol

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By *ink vixenCouple
21 weeks ago

Medway

We are not cuckold but guess how many offers we get from self proclaimed “bulls”

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By *r John WickMan
21 weeks ago

The Continental

Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Mine is very straightforward and I get the chancers and the ones that ask what the forums are, I used to be polite and answer, then I'd get the 'I got you to message back' proceeded by where do you live? Is your name linda?

So now it's block block block

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By *ubikslongswordMan
21 weeks ago

East Grinstead


"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes."

I get the same, the normal response when I say you know I'm straight right is either "you can close you're eyes you won't know the difference"

Or

"Well why don't you block single men then?"

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Yeah I just seem to get quite normal messages, I feel like I'm missing out.

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By *illy IdolMan
21 weeks ago

Midlands


"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes.

I get the same, the normal response when I say you know I'm straight right is either "you can close you're eyes you won't know the difference"

Or

"Well why don't you block single men then?" "

Both are good points

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh

The crazy world of fab - do you delete or block ?

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes.

I get the same, the normal response when I say you know I'm straight right is either "you can close you're eyes you won't know the difference"

Or

"Well why don't you block single men then?" "

Why don't you?

It's like women that put status up saying don't message I'm not replying, put the filters on.

It's not hard.

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Yeah I just seem to get quite normal messages, I feel like I'm missing out. "

Trust me you’re not !

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I get people saying i don't know what SSC or RACK are but can we meet

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"I get people saying i don't know what SSC or RACK are but can we meet "

Yeah if you don’t know don’t message but they still do sheesh you couldn’t make some of the fab stuff up.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
21 weeks ago

East Grinstead


"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes.

I get the same, the normal response when I say you know I'm straight right is either "you can close you're eyes you won't know the difference"

Or

"Well why don't you block single men then?"

Why don't you?

It's like women that put status up saying don't message I'm not replying, put the filters on.

It's not hard."

Because I like seeing the yellow notification that I have a message, and nobody else sends them lol

I've had a few pretty decent conversations with blokes on here tbh

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
21 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

Yeah, I get a lot of men asking if I would love to dominate them (no), have sex with their gf (no) or if they have read my profile what SSBBW stands for (google it, I’m not doing your work for you).

I am such a grumpy old woman these days haha

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By *illy IdolMan
21 weeks ago

Midlands


"Yeah, I get a lot of men asking if I would love to dominate them (no), have sex with their gf (no) or if they have read my profile what SSBBW stands for (google it, I’m not doing your work for you).

I am such a grumpy old woman these days haha "

What does it stand for out of interest?

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By *il-redWoman
21 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yep, all the time. They've either not read it or it's a uhh "I know you said this, but I think you'd like it" for message

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By *unnoisseurMan
21 weeks ago

Stratford

Mine says I’m straight but apparently getting sucked off by a man is something heterosexual guys do according to gay and bi men.

Do women offer guys blow jobs on here?

It would be a great first message!! lol

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
21 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Yeah the amount of guys who see straight but offer me “ to turn bi”, be worshipped and even offered money!!

The rest of my profile needs to be taken with a spoonful of salt

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By *edeWoman
21 weeks ago

the abyss


"Don’t even start on how many straight men wanna suck my cock or have it in their arseholes."

They just want a little taste of the rainbow

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By *aTina HeadTurnerWoman
21 weeks ago

Travelling

They say they read the profile but they didn’t.

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By *dinburghWoman OP   Woman
21 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Yep, all the time. They've either not read it or it's a uhh "I know you said this, but I think you'd like it" for message "

Exactly, the I’m the guy that’ll change your mind messages

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By *eordieJeansCouple
21 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Who’s got time to read? Just look at the pictures, get a stiffy and send a message.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
21 weeks ago

Staffordshire

They mostly come at night…

Mostly.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
21 weeks ago

Merseyside

We have had a lot of that lately and makes no sense tbh - we put effort into our details to save people time and wasted effort

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
21 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

It pisses me off the amount of messages from women that say:

"Fancy joining me and my super hot female mate in a hot tub"

"Would you like a massage?"

"Me and my fellow 3 female air hostess mates are stuck for the night near you and have a hotel. Would you like to join us?"

I'm not a fan of hot tubs, don't like massages and can't be bothered to travel a few miles.

Some people are pretty inconsiderate.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Get them every day.

And the one's where they lie about their age.

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By *ythenMan
21 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin


"It pisses me off the amount of messages from women that say:

"Fancy joining me and my super hot female mate in a hot tub"

"Would you like a massage?"

"Me and my fellow 3 female air hostess mates are stuck for the night near you and have a hotel. Would you like to join us?"

I'm not a fan of hot tubs, don't like massages and can't be bothered to travel a few miles.

Some people are pretty inconsiderate."

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By *8on33Man
21 weeks ago

winfrith


"I get people saying i don't know what SSC or RACK are but can we meet "
SSC solstice summer club ,RACK of lamb ?

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By *urry BlokeMan
21 weeks ago

Stalybridge


"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?"

Yes

I've had this week

Had a wink and message from a straight bloke looking for women 18-35

I asked if the wink and messages were a mistake

Apparently not

I responded and a quick exchange of messages followed one of which said 'I can never accom, ever'

Profile distintcly writes 'I can accom at mine'

I mean, it's not a problem in itself because I can accom, but the inconsistencies were enough for me to end the exchange

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By *ot to giggleWoman
21 weeks ago

Coventry

read profile is it a requirement! thought it was just a piece of writing that i amended regularly depending on my mood I dont get messages! i lie! i use filters, and then i play mad games in here and forget to put them back on!! i quite like yellow

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By *ittlebirdWoman
21 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Most of the messages I get are from people who can’t read

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By *ife NinjaMan
21 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Most of the messages I get are from people who can’t read "

The banana fingers don't help either

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By *ark73XXXMan
21 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

What does it mean - “receiving messages”?

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
21 weeks ago

Wolvo


"The crazy world of fab - do you delete or block ?"

Usually delete. Its a waste of their time messaging and its a waste of my time reading or replying. Its a silly cycle tbh. I suppose ppl get fed up of not getting replies so just say anything in the hopes you’ll respond to correct them.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

21 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?"

It's not just men.

I've had messages this week asking to meet and accomodate. I'm currently 1300 miles away from the UK.

I get messages from people that state 'straight guys only'.

I get messages along the lines of 'tonight?' or 'meet now?' from couples.

I get messages from people where I don't appear to match any of their stated age or gender preferences.

It's not just men that don't appear to read a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?

It's not just men.

I've had messages this week asking to meet and accomodate. I'm currently 1300 miles away from the UK.

I get messages from people that state 'straight guys only'.

I get messages along the lines of 'tonight?' or 'meet now?' from couples.

I get messages from people where I don't appear to match any of their stated age or gender preferences.

It's not just men that don't appear to read a profile. "

Free tonight?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
21 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Most of the messages I get are from people who can’t read

The banana fingers don't help either "

Tommy Dick Fingers?

I love Phoenix Nights

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By *ark n kimCouple
21 weeks ago

Durham


"We are not cuckold but guess how many offers we get from self proclaimed “bulls”

"

We get the same,it clearly states in our profile that we are not a cuckold couple or have any interest in so called bulls.

So we just delete.

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By *imisugarWoman
21 weeks ago

Rugby

I figure it's people just chancing their luck and what you've written on the profile doesn't apply to them.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
21 weeks ago

Tamworth

All. The. Time. Instant delete.

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By *cecold1980Man
21 weeks ago

ashington

I am sure the average reading age for the country is 11 years old so should we be surprised people don’t read or understand what on the profile ?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

21 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?

It's not just men.

I've had messages this week asking to meet and accomodate. I'm currently 1300 miles away from the UK.

I get messages from people that state 'straight guys only'.

I get messages along the lines of 'tonight?' or 'meet now?' from couples.

I get messages from people where I don't appear to match any of their stated age or gender preferences.

It's not just men that don't appear to read a profile.

Free tonight?"

Grab yourself a cheap flight. There's a sofa in the room. And endless free rum.......

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
21 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"They mostly come at night…

Mostly."

They need to cut the power, how do they cut the power?

They’re animals!!

Paraphrasing slightly

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
21 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Does anyone else get messages where the guy seems to have read the profile and sends a message that’s the opposite of what profile says I’m looking for I.e. I don’t like family role play so they send a message about that or is it just me ?

It's not just men.

I've had messages this week asking to meet and accomodate. I'm currently 1300 miles away from the UK.

I get messages from people that state 'straight guys only'.

I get messages along the lines of 'tonight?' or 'meet now?' from couples.

I get messages from people where I don't appear to match any of their stated age or gender preferences.

It's not just men that don't appear to read a profile.

Free tonight?"

You should take them up on their offer, it would be the most expensive night of their lives….as it would cost them their life

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By *ark73XXXMan
21 weeks ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

Not sure why it winds people up so much - just delete if you don’t like it.

Most people on here don’t reply even if you do read their profile - it’s how it is.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
21 weeks ago

London (She/Her)


"Yeah, I get a lot of men asking if I would love to dominate them (no), have sex with their gf (no) or if they have read my profile what SSBBW stands for (google it, I’m not doing your work for you).

I am such a grumpy old woman these days haha

What does it stand for out of interest?"

She Swallows Biscuits, Bonbons & Wafers

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Central

It's their little morsel of power

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Not sure why it winds people up so much - just delete if you don’t like it.

Most people on here don’t reply even if you do read their profile - it’s how it is. "

It's a volume thing I think, we've only had one bent out of shape message to date and after about 5 words I deleted it without bothering with the rest. If you got hundreds a day I'm sure it would be tedious.

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By *teve691000Man
21 weeks ago

West Midlands

I’m sure that my profile doesn’t say I’m into men. The amount of messages I get offering me a quick blow or meet now in my glory hole etc

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By *punk n gushCouple
21 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Yes we get loads that say they have read profile and clearly haven't most either have full on bushy beards or moustaches or they want to fistung or do anal I think they think just cause we're a fat couple that will take anything we can which definitely is not the case

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
21 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I love it when I get messages saying “I’ve had a good read of your bio and I think we are a good match”

Mate it’s 7 words and implies I enjoy an egg sandwich.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
21 weeks ago

Reading

I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yep I get this regularly.

I've read your profile, but still asked to meet now or sent cock pics or offered a massage...

A man the other day said he'd read it and was OK that I wasn't meeting, but called me babe and sent cock pics!.

In most cases when they say they've read it, they haven't.

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"I’m sure that my profile doesn’t say I’m into men. The amount of messages I get offering me a quick blow or meet now in my glory hole etc"
. You can block men from messaging you, using your filters.

I did the same with couples as they messaged me, despite me saying I'm not interested in them on this profile.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
21 weeks ago

Tamworth


"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me. "

Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!

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By *illy IdolMan
21 weeks ago

Midlands


"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.

Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up! "

You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.

Come on, just be honest

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
21 weeks ago

Tamworth


"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.

Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!

You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.

Come on, just be honest "

Yes but the people there have turned up to allow me to be a kinky pervert, so...

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By *illy IdolMan
21 weeks ago

Midlands


"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.

Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!

You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.

Come on, just be honest

Yes but the people there have turned up to allow me to be a kinky pervert, so..."

So...join me?...

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
21 weeks ago

Tamworth


"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.

Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!

You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.

Come on, just be honest

Yes but the people there have turned up to allow me to be a kinky pervert, so...

So...join me?..."

Only if there's a hot tub!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
21 weeks ago

Cheshire

I used to have a whole paragraph (1st Paragraph) saying why I didn’t want to meet straight guys. Even added that I’m not ‘your experiment with your sexuality’ that I’d had a bad experience with a guy once as a reason and Bi Guys are far superior.

Didn’t stop the messages though, so just deleted it and left what’s there at the moment.

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By *alverncpleCouple
21 weeks ago

malvern

All the time it’s so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"They mostly come at night…

Mostly."

^ This. I hide my profile at night so I don't have to wake up to an inbox of 'weird' messages

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
21 weeks ago

Medway


"It pisses me off the amount of messages from women that say:

"Fancy joining me and my super hot female mate in a hot tub"

"Would you like a massage?"

"Me and my fellow 3 female air hostess mates are stuck for the night near you and have a hotel. Would you like to join us?"

I'm not a fan of hot tubs, don't like massages and can't be bothered to travel a few miles.

Some people are pretty inconsiderate."

LOL!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
21 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

People think "I've read your profile" means they get a gold star. And that they get the gold star from the claim. They might not have read it.

Alternatively, "if you don't ask you don't get" is common around here. "I know you say Scotland only. I live in Brighton but I just had to take a chance because (bullshit flattery)"

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By *illy IdolMan
21 weeks ago

Midlands


"I think a lot of men don't care if we like it or not because talking about it turns them on. It's an instablock from me.

Exactly this! A lot of people on the site just want to talk and fantasise. They want interactive porn and aren't looking to convert that into meets, so all they're interested in is the pics on a profile. This is why I like going to clubs - everyone has made the effort to turn up!

You like going to clubs because you're a kinky pervert.

Come on, just be honest

Yes but the people there have turned up to allow me to be a kinky pervert, so...

So...join me?...

Only if there's a hot tub!"

I can't swim so I may need to use you as a life jacket

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By *punk n gushCouple
21 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal


"I love it when I get messages saying “I’ve had a good read of your bio and I think we are a good match”

Mate it’s 7 words and implies I enjoy an egg sandwich. "

Love an egg sandwich the Mr x

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