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The one that got away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

How did you get over the ‘one who got away’? The love (or at least lust) of your life?

Does that severed connection sustain suffering every time you think of them/ what might have been?

Any tips for the lovesick/delusional?

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By *igR93Man
15 weeks ago

Sarcasm City

I joined a gym and developed body dysmorphia instead

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By *ravelling TogMan
15 weeks ago

Sleaford

Lass that I met on here. My partner at the time wasn't very sexually active and I had her permission to swing as long as no drama came home.

Met a couple and formed a good friendship with them both but he went off the rails and they ended up splitting.

Around this time things were getting better with my partner and we gave it a proper go again.

Six months later the swinging lass had found a new bloke and is happily married (and no longer swinging).

Me and my partner split not long after and yeah I always wonder if I should have taken the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

No advice, but it sounds like a crap situation. Hugs.

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By *affron40Woman
15 weeks ago

manchester

I didn’t. So no advice here.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
15 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Hardy Kruger

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By *he year of 69Man
15 weeks ago

Bury

Still working on it but mostly that she wasn't who I thought she was. I'd built something up in my mind which didn't exist.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
15 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I shagged a german man for three days solid.

Couldn’t even remember my name let alone my ex’s name after that

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By *electableicecreamMan
15 weeks ago

The West

Fuck the pain away.

This is not medical advice

It's a good song. Turn it up loud.

Time is the only thing that heals heartbreak. Grieve. Give it it's due and when your done you'll know.

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By *abandlookingWoman
15 weeks ago

orkney

I didn't and probably won't.if you do manage it,can you let me know.

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By *omptationMan
15 weeks ago

liverpool

I drank. A lot.

Do not take my advice.

Will be 2 years sober in August.

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By *inUpProWoman
15 weeks ago

Liverpool

I got over it by getting under someone else. And on top of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
15 weeks ago

Thanks all for your input and insight, it’s oddly reassuring to hear others have also experienced such heartache. Hope we all heal and recover soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

They always seem to come back eventually

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By *ora the explorerWoman
15 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Nooooo. I never let them get away

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By *agatoXXXMan
15 weeks ago

Mordor


"Nooooo. I never let them get away "

Somebody check her cellar...

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By *ansoffateMan
15 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I recall the bloodlust in her eyes.

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By *evouringHabitsMan
15 weeks ago

kilburn


"How did you get over the ‘one who got away’? The love (or at least lust) of your life?

Does that severed connection sustain suffering every time you think of them/ what might have been?

Any tips for the lovesick/delusional? "

Mate you and me are in the same boat when you get some form of an answer let me know because it makes it so hard to like let alone love anyone else

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By *arla SwingerWoman
15 weeks ago

Somewhere

Took me longer than I'd have imagined with someone, but eventually it just went away. I think it was the loss of the friendship side I was grieving for the most though

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By *allandathleticMan
15 weeks ago

Asgard

Drink half a bottle of Bumbu rum. Get dressed sharp and hit the town.

For the next 12 hours nothing Will matter.

We'll deal with tomorrow, tomorrow ,brother

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
15 weeks ago

Central

I made the decision that it was over and I was getting them out of my life and mind, come what may. It was very tough but I soldiered on, feeling the sorrow, the losses etc And I gave myself the energy and drive to challenge myself, with new life goals and achievements. Tough graft and a lot of fun, plus the satisfaction of achievements. I turned to helping others

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By *urry BlokeMan
15 weeks ago

I don't care enough about anyone that I meet on here to have that sort of feeling for

There are people I would like to meet again who just disappear, but I certainly don't lie in bed at night thinking 'what could have been'

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By *a LunaWoman
15 weeks ago

South

I’ve never really had that. All my relationships have ended for very good reasons and although a bit of a bummer at the time, you do move on.

You live you learn, you love you learn. All part of life’s schooling.

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By *B69Woman
15 weeks ago

Wiltshire

There is one that I thought had got away but has recently returned and surprised me in a very lovely way

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
15 weeks ago

manchester

He didn’t

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
15 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I've never really had one that got away, well not one I've had any serious feelings for

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By *hrek101Man
15 weeks ago

Herts

More than one that got away. All of them have I guess as I'm painfully single. I just try to feel grateful for the time I had with them and to have be fortunate enough to have loved and been loved. Better that then never to have experienced it at all. Time is a healer.

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By *parkle1974Woman
14 weeks ago

Leeds

I never will because he taught me a valuable lesson x

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"I shagged a german man for three days solid.

Couldn’t even remember my name let alone my ex’s name after that "

I claim German ancestory (if you are ever in the same situation)

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By *sguy2Man
14 weeks ago

all over

They do don’t they and that only makes it worse!

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